dab ephupheni, Ukubona ibhere okanye inyoka ephupheni yenye yemibono edidayo ethwala amakhulu eentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo, ezibandakanya ukudunyiswa nokugxeka, ngokweengcamango ezininzi ezisisiseko, kubandakanywa nombala wenyoka, njengoluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, omnyama, oluhlaza, njl. Kwaye ngaba oku kumisela intsingiselo, kwaye kwimigca yelo nqaku siya kuchukumisa ezona zibonakaliso ezibalulekileyo ezikhankanywe ngabaguquleli abakhulu bamaphupha.
Dab ephupheni
- U-Ibn Shaheen uthi ukubona uDab ephupheni kubhekisela kutshaba olungakholwayo.
- Ukubona iinyoka ephupheni ekhaya kubonisa ukungena kwamasela kunye nokulimala okuza kwenzeka kumntu ophuphayo.
- Inyoka eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ephupheni isifaniso somntu ofihla ubutshaba aze azenze ngokuchasene.
- Ngokuphathelele i-dab ebomvu ephupheni, ifanekisela umntu ozenzisayo kunye nomntu oxokayo.
- Ukubukela i-dab ekhaya kulumkisa umphuphi ngokuqhambuka kweengxabano ezinamandla zentsapho ezinokukhokelela kwingxabano kunye nokuqhawula amaqhina obudlelwane.
- Amazinyo e-dab ephupheni afanekisela umntu onobuqili kunye nobuqili.
- USheikh Al-Nabulsi utolika ephupheni ukubona umphuphi ebulala ibhere emhlophe enesikhumba esishinyeneyo njengophawu lokufikelela kwizisombululo ezifanelekileyo kwiingxaki zakhe emsebenzini.
Dab ephupheni ngu-Ibn Sirin
- U-Ibn Sirin utolika umbono wokubulala ibhere eluhlaza ephupheni njengento ebonisa ukulahla ubuqili bentsapho.
- UIbn Sirin uthi ukulwa nedab ephupheni kunokulumkisa umphuphi ngotshaba oluya kumoyisa luze lumoyise, ngoko umele athabathe amanyathelo okuzikhusela.
- Ukungqubuzana ne-dab kwiphupha lendoda kubonisa ukuchasana nokuhendwa komfazi odlalayo.
- U-Ibn Sirin ukhankanya nokuba ukubona i-dab kwiphupha lomfundi kunokumlumkisa ngokusilela kunye nokungaphumeleli kwezemfundo.
Dab ephupheni abafazi abangatshatanga
- Ukubona i-dab ephupheni lentombazana kunokufuzisela umntu okhokelela ebubini, kwaye kufuneka alwe ukuze ahlukane nokurhanelwa kwaye azabalazele ukufumana ulwaneliseko kunye nokulunga kukaThixo.
- Ukulunywa kwenyoka ephupheni lomphuphi kubhekisela kumhlobo onomona obambe inzondo kunye nengqumbo kuye.
- Ukulunywa kwe-dab ephupheni lomphuphi kumxwayisa ngomntu okhohlakeleyo kunye nodumo olubi olusondelayo kunye nokuthandana naye kunye nokumkhohlisa kuye.
- Ngelixa ukuba imboni yebhinqa ibona inyoka ijikeleze intamo yakhe, inokunyanzeliswa ukuba itshate nomntu angamthandiyo.
- Ngokuphathelele ukutolikwa kwephupha lokubetha i-dab emhlophe kwi-fiancée, kunokubonisa ukuphela kobudlelwane bakhe kunye nomgama wakhe kuye ngenxa yeempawu zabo ezahlukeneyo kunye nokucinga, kodwa uThixo uya kumbuyekeza ngomntu ofanelekileyo.
Dab ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo
- Ukubona i-dab kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo kubonisa ukuba umntu uyamphulaphula, kwaye kungenxa yoko kufuneka afune uncedo ekugcineni iimfuno zakhe ziyimfihlo.
- Ubukho benyoka endlwini ephupheni lomfazi bufanekisela umona kunye nabazondayo phakathi kwabasondeleyo kunye nabafuna ukuhlwayela ukuxabana phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe.
- Nangona kuthiwa ukubona inyoka encinci kwiphupha lenenekazi luphawu lokukhulelwa kwakhe okuzayo kunye nokuba nenkwenkwe.
Dab ephupheni kumfazi okhulelweyo
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona i-dab ephupheni lakhe kwaye usezinyangeni ezintathu zokuqala zokukhulelwa, oku kunokuba sisilumkiso sokungapheleli kunye nokulahlekelwa kwe-fetus, njengoko uThixo ethanda.
- Ngelixa kuthiwa ukuba umbonisi wabona inyoka ephupheni lakhe, kwaye wayekwinyanga yesine yokukhulelwa kwakhe, ngoko lo ngumqondiso weqabane lomntwana, kwaye kufuneka azikhusele nge-ruqyah esemthethweni.
- Ukubetha inyoka emhlophe kwiphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo uxela ukuba uya kuzala umntwana oyindoda onempilo kunye nonempilo kunye nokubonelela okwaneleyo kweli hlabathi.
Dab ephupheni lomfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Izazi zilumkisa umfazi oqhawule umtshato obona ibhere ephupheni lakhe ukuba kukho indoda enegama elibi elibawelayo kwaye iya kubangela umonakalo omkhulu kuye.
- Ukubetha ibhere entloko ephupheni lomfazi oqhawule umtshato ngaphandle kokumbulala kunokumlumkisa ngokunyuka kweengxaki ebomini bakhe, imeko yakhe yengqondo ephosakeleyo, ukuziva elahlekile kunye nesidingo sakhe soncedo.
- Ngokuphathelele ukufa kwenyoka ephupheni eliqhawule umtshato, luphawu lokuphela kokukhathazeka kwakhe, ukukhupha iingxaki, kunye nokuqala kobomi obutsha, obuzinzile kunye nokuzola.
Dab ephupheni ngendoda
- Iijurists zitolika umbono wokubetha ibhere kwiphupha le-bachelor njengophawu lokususa ukungatshati, umtshato osondeleyo, ukufihla kunye nokukhuselwa kwiziyolo zehlabathi.
- U-Ibn Sirin uthi nabani na obona i-dab yabasetyhini ifa ebhedini yakhe ephupheni, luphawu lokufa komfazi wakhe.
- Nabani na obona inyoka ephupheni iphuma entanyeni yakhe, ayinqumle izihlandlo ezithathu, angamala, aqhawule umtshato nomfazi wakhe.
Nxiba idab ephupheni
U-Ibn Sirin ubeke iinguqulelo ezininzi zokucofa i-dab ephupheni, eyahlukileyo kwindoda ukuya kumfazi, njengoko sibona ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
- I-pinch ye-dab kwisandla sasekhohlo ephupheni ibonisa ukungabikho kokuzithemba komphuphi kunye nokwesaba ukwenza izigqibo ezingalunganga anokuthi azisole kamva.
- Kodwa ukuba umphuphi uthe ephupheni inyoka imluma kunyawo lwakhe lwasekhohlo, loo nto ibonakalisa izono zakhe ezininzi kweli hlabathi kwaye kufuneka azicamagushele.
- Obona inyoka emnyama imluma ephupheni ulutshaba olumlaleleyo lumenzela iyelenqe.
- Ku-Ibn Sirin, ukucudisa i-dab ephupheni kusisilumkiso kulowo uphuphayo ukuba abambelele kwiimfundiso zonqulo, ajike amehlo, akhwebuke ebubini.
- Ukubona umphuphi edibanisa i-dab kwisiqingatha sasekhohlo somzimba wakhe ephupheni luphawu lokuhamba neengxaki endlwini yakhe.
Ukubulala i-dab ephupheni
- U-Imam al-Sadiq watolika ubungqina bomboni ukuba ubulala ibhere emhlophe ebuthongweni bakhe njengophawu lokunyuselwa kwakhe emsebenzini kunye nokufikelela kwisikhundla esiphezulu.
- U-Ibn Shaheen wathi ukubona umntu ogulayo ekhupha isilwanyana esimthubi ebuthongweni bakhe luphawu olucacileyo lokuchacha okungekude, ukugxothwa kweetyhefu nezigulo emzimbeni, nokuchacha kwempilo emva kobuthathaka.
- USheikh Al-Nabulsi uthi, nabani na obona ukuba ubulala inyoka emnyama, uya kuphumelela utshaba lwakhe, amoyise, kwaye abuyisele amalungelo akhe.
- Nabani na obona ukuba ubulala ibhere eliluhlaza elibhijelwe entanyeni yakhe ebuthongweni, kufuneka azikhusele kumlingo nge-ruqyah esemthethweni kwaye abambelele ekufundeni iKur’an eNoble.
Dab bite ephupheni
- Ukulunywa kwe-dab ephupheni kufanekisela ukuthambekela komphuphi wokuzibandakanya kwiminqweno yakhe kunye nokungena kubudlelwane obunqatshelwe.
- Nabani na obona inyoka eluhlaza ephupheni lakhe izama ukumluma nokumbulala uya kukhuselwa kude nesono esinjengokukrexeza.
- Kuthiwa ibhinqa elisandul’ ukutshata lilunywa yidab ebuthongweni lisenokubonisa ukuba ulibazisile ukukhulelwa nokuzala.
Ukuxhela ibhere ephupheni
- Ukuxhela isilwanyana esimnyama ephupheni kufanekisela ukulahla abazenzisi kunye nabahlebi phakathi kwabantu, nokuzikhusela ekuweleni esilingweni.
- Nabani na obona ephupheni ukuba unqumle intloko yebhere, uya kususa iingxaki ahamba nazo, kodwa kufuneka abonise ukuzimisela kwaye abe nomonde kwizilingo.
- Ukuxhela ibhere ephupheni lomntu luphawu lokususa ububi beentshaba zakhe.
- Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokubulawa kwenyoka kumfazi otshatileyo kubonisa ukuphila ubomi obuzolileyo nobuzinzileyo.
- Kodwa ukuba indoda etshatileyo ithe yabona ukuba ixhela idonki ephupheni, ilinqumla laziziqwenga ezithathu ngesitshetshe, inokumlahla umfazi wayo, ibe kude nabantwana bayo.
- Ukuba imboni ithe yangqina ukuba ubulala inyoka enkulu ephupheni, wafumana negazi esandleni sakhe, woloyisa utshaba olunamandla.
Udab omnyama ephupheni
- Iingcali zenzululwazi zithi ukubona ibhere elimnyama ephupheni yeyona nto inzima kakhulu kwimibono ebonisa ubutshaba kunye nokulimala.
- Ukubona inyoka emnyama ephupheni idla ngokuchazwa njengento efuzisela ubunini bukaSathana.
- Inyoka emnyama ebetha amatye ephupheni ibonisa ukuba imboni izama ukuzikhwebula ezonweni nokuzikhusela ekuweleni esonweni nasekuthobeleni iminqweno yayo.
- Umfazi otshatileyo obona iinyoka ezininzi ezimnyama ephupheni lakhe ukubonakalisa ukwesaba kunye nokuxhalaba avakalelwayo ngekamva.
Idab emhlophe ephupheni
- U-Al-Osaimi uthi ukubona ukubulawa kwebhere elimhlophe kwiphupha lomfazi omnye kubonisa ukwenqaba komntu ophakamisa kuye kwaye abaleke kubuxoki bakhe kunye nohanahaniso.
- Nabani na obona ephupheni ukuba ubulala ibhere emhlophe entanyeni yakhe uya kulahla isihlobo esikhohlisayo nesikhohlisayo.
- Ukubulala inyoka emhlophe ephupheni lomfazi okhulelweyo luphawu lokuzala okufutshane kunye nokuzalwa komntwana wesilisa.
- Inyoka emhlophe ephupheni lomntu ibonisa ubutshaba kwintsapho, njengomfazi okanye abantwana bakhe.
I-dab eluhlaza ephupheni
Abaphengululi bahluke ekuchazeni ukubona i-dab eluhlaza ephupheni phakathi kokukhankanya okuncomekayo kunye nokugxekayo, njengoko sibona ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
- Ihashe eliluhlaza ephupheni lomfazi ongatshatanga luphawu lokulunga, ubuninzi obuhlaza okwesibhakabhaka obuza kuye, kunye neendaba ezilungileyo zomtshato kumntu olilungisa, ukholo oluqinileyo, kunye nobutyebi.
- Inyoka eluhlaza ephupheni ibonisa umtsalane kulonwabo lweli hlabathi kunye nolonwabo lwalo, kunye nokungakhathaleli kwi-Hereafter.
- Inyoka eluhlaza ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo ichaza isihlobo esinobuzenzisi esizama ukumisa kunye nomyeni wakhe kwaye simbulale ephupheni ukuze abhekane nabangeneleli kunye nokugcina iimfihlelo zobudlelwane bomtshato.
Idab emthubi ephupheni
- Ukubona i-dab ephuzi ephupheni ingabonisa inzondo, inzondo kunye nomona.
- Ukuba indoda etshatileyo ibona ukuba ubulala ibhere eliphuzi ephupheni, ngoko uya kulahla iingcamango ezimbi kunye nokukrokra okulawula ingqondo yakhe kumfazi wakhe kunye nokukrokra kwakhe ngenxa yomona wakhe ogqithiseleyo.
- Kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo, sifumanisa ukuba ukubona i-dab ephuzi kubonisa ukuxhalaba kwengqondo kunye noxinzelelo oluvakalelwa ngayo.
- Iinyoka eziphuzi ephupheni zisisilumkiso kumphuphi ukuba uya kulahlekelwa yimali enkulu, aphazamise ishishini kwaye ahlupheke.
- U-Al-Nabulsi uthi nabani na obona ephupheni lakhe ukuba ubetha ibhere elityheli lide liyibulale, uya kuqalisa isigaba esitsha ebomini bakhe, kude namaxhala kunye neengxaki ezimkhathazayo, kwaye asuse ubunzima. ubomi kwaye utshintshe imeko ibe ngcono.
- Inyoka ephuzi ephupheni malunga nomfazi oqhawule umtshato ibonisa ukuba kukho umntu ombuyiselayo kwaye uthetha kakubi ngaye phambi kwabantu.
I-dab ebomvu ephupheni
- I-dab ebomvu ephupheni ibhekisela kutshaba oluphindisayo olufihla inzondo kunye nekhwele elibukhali, ngakumbi kubasetyhini.
- Ukuxhela idonki ebomvu ephupheni kufanekisela ukulahla abazenzisi kunye nabahlebi phakathi kwabantu, nokuzikhusela ekuweleni esilingweni.
- U-Al-Nabulsi ukholelwa ukuba ukubona inyoka ebomvu kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo ekhayeni lakhe sisilumkiso kuye ngokungcatsha komyeni wakhe.
- Ukubona inyoka ebomvu ephupheni lomntu kubonisa ukuba ubonakaliswe ngumsindo ogqithiseleyo kunye nokungakhathali, okuzisa iziphumo ezimbi.
- Kuthiwa ukuba ukubona i-dab ebomvu kwiphupha lomfazi omnye kubonisa ukuba ulawula iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye uyazifihla, okanye ngengqiqo echanekileyo, unokubasebenzisa kakuhle ukuze angabikho kwiingxaki zengqondo okanye zengqondo.
Ukutya i-dab ephupheni
- U-Ibn Sirin uthi ukutya i-dab ephupheni kubhekisela kwimali esemthethweni ukuba ivela kutshaba.Kungenjalo, imali enqatshelwe kunye nemithombo engekho mthethweni.
- Ukutya inyoka ephupheni kufanekisela uloyiso olukhulu oluya kufezwa ngumphuphi, nokuba lubutshaba okanye kude nesono esikhulu.
- Nabani na obona ephupheni ukuba udla inyama yenyoka ekrwada uya kuluphumelela utshaba lwakhe aze abuyise imali yakhe.
- Ngokuphathelele ukutya inyama yenyoka ephekiweyo ephupheni, isenokuba luphawu lokutya imali-nzala kwaye ungayikhuphi imali ye-zakat.
- Ukuyosa i-dab kunye nokuyidla ephupheni kubhekisela kukungabikho kokusesikweni komphuphi kwabanye ngenxa yomnqweno wakhe wokuziphindezela.
Ukuhlaselwa kwenyoka ephupheni
- Ukubona inyoka imhlasela ephupheni ngaphandle kokumchasa kubonisa ubuthathaka bobuntu bakhe kunye nokungakwazi ukuthwala uxanduva kunye nomthwalo ongaphezu kwamandla akhe.
- Ukuhlaselwa kwenyoka ephupheni kubonisa ukuhamba nabahlobo ababi nokuhamba nabo ekungamthobelini uThixo.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona inyoka emhlophe imhlasela ephupheni aze ayibulale, ngoko ungumfazi olilungisa ofuna ukuthobela uThixo kwaye akanqikazi ukunceda abasweleyo nabahluphekileyo.
- Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuhlaselwa kwenyoka kulumkisa umphuphi ukuba angangxami ukwenza izigqibo, ezinokuthi zibe nemiphumo emibi.
- Ngokuphathelele inyoka ehlasela umfazi oqhawule umtshato ephupheni, kunokubonisa ukuba uhlala exhalabile kunye noxinzelelo ngenxa yeengxabano eziqhubekayo phakathi kwakhe kunye nentsapho yomyeni wakhe wangaphambili.
- Kwakhona izazinzulu zithi ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga eliza kutshata libona inyoka imhlasela ephupheni, oku kusenokuphumela ekuchanabekeni kwiingxaki ezininzi ezingokweemvakalelo nakuxinezeleko olungokwengqondo kolo lwalamano.
- Inyoka ehlasela umntu ephupheni ingaba ngumqondiso wokuba uqokelela amatyala kwaye akakwazi ukuwahlawula.
- Kwimeko apho umfazi otshatileyo ebona inyoka imhlasela ephupheni kwaye ikwazi ukumluma, unokuba nengxaki enkulu yempilo emenza alale ebhedini.
Ukutolikwa kokubona inyoka ephupheni
- Ukuchazwa kokubona inyoka ibaleka ephupheni kubonisa uloyiko lweentshaba zomboni kunye nokurhoxa kwabo ekungeneni kwingxabano kunye naye.
- Ukuba umfazi ongatshatanga ubona inyoka ebaleka ephupheni lakhe, ngoko uya kusindiswa ekungeneni kubudlelwane bothando obungaphumeleli.
- Ukuphunyuka kwenyoka ephupheni luphawu lokubalekela iingxaki kunye nokungavumelani okunokuphazamisa ubomi bomphuphi.
- Kwaye u-Ibn Katheer uthi nabani na obona inyoka etyheli ibaleka ephupheni ngelixa egula, ke ezi ziindaba ezimnandi zokuchacha okukufutshane.
Ukubona inyoka enkulu ephupheni
- Ukubona inyoka enkulu endlwini kwaye uyibulale ephupheni ibonisa ukuphela kweengxabano zentsapho kunye nezihlobo kunye nokubuya kobudlelwane bobudlelwane.
- Nabani na obona ephupheni ukuba ubulala inyoka enkulu ephuzi uya kusindiswa kwintlupheko kunye nokuvezwa kwelahleko enkulu yemali.
- Inyoka enkulu ephupheni inokufuzisela ukulawulwa kweentlungu kumphuphi ngenxa yeengxaki kunye neemeko ezinzima ahamba nazo ebomini bakhe.
- Kodwa xa kwenzeka ukuba umphuphi wabona inyoka enkulu eluhlaza ebuthongweni bakhe, ngoko kulo mzekelo ziindaba ezilungileyo zokuphila okubanzi kunye nemali eninzi.
- U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuba ukulunywa kwenyoka enkulu ephupheni yenye yeempawu ezilumkisa umphuphi ukuba ayeke ukufumana imali engavumelekanga kwaye aphephe ukukrokrelana nomsebenzi wakhe.
- Kodwa ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga libona inyoka enkulu imluma ephupheni, usenokuchanabeka kwinkohliso enkulu evela kubahlobo bakhe abasondeleyo aze azive edanile kakhulu, njengoko uIbn Shaheen emlumkisa ngokunxulumana nomntu ongafanelekanga.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nenyoka emva kokusa
- Abanye abaphengululi bachaza ukubona inyoka emva kokusa ephupheni njengesilumkiso kumphuphi ukuba azikhwebule ekungathobelini nezono aze aguquke ngokunyanisekileyo kuThixo ngaphambi kokuba ashiywe lixesha.
- U-Ibn Sirin uthe ekuchazeni iphupha leenyoka emva kokuntwela kokusa ukuba libhekisela kwiintshaba ezivela kwizihlobo.
- U-Al-Nabulsi ukhankanye ukuba nabani na obona inyoka ebuthongweni bakhe emva kokubizelwa emthandazweni wokusa, olo luphawu lommelwane onomona.
- Kwaye xa inyoka ibulewe ephupheni emva kokuntwela kokusa, oko kuyamsindisa ekubandezelekeni okanye ekukhuseleni ingozi kunye nokulimala ngenxa yomphuphi.
