Funda malunga nokutolikwa kwephupha malunga neenkumbi ngokuka-Ibn Sirin

Iinkumbi ephupheni

1. Ukubona iinkumbi ephupheni kusenokubonisa intuthumbo nesohlwayo esivela kuThixo. Ngokukodwa ukuba umbono uquka intaphane yeenkumbi nokuhlasela kwazo abantu. Ubuchule beenkumbi bokutshabalalisa izityalo nezityalo busenokubonakalisa isohlwayo sikaThixo, njengoko kuchazwe kwiKur’an eNgcwele: “Ngoko Sathumela phezu kwabo umkhukula neenkumbi.”
2. Iinkumbi ephupheni zisenokubonisa umsindo, intlebendwane, intlebendwane, nogonyamelo. Intetho ebaxiweyo nengxolo enokubangelwa ziinkumbi isenokuba ngumqondiso womsindo nesiphithiphithi.
3.  Ukuba iinkumbi ephupheni ziwa esibhakabhakeni okanye zibhabha emoyeni, oku kungabonisa ukuba umphuphi okanye ilizwe lakhe libonakaliswe engozini. Kusenokubakho amajoni okanye imikhosi yotshaba esongela ukhuseleko noxolo elizweni.
4. Ngokutsho komphengululi ongasekhoyo uIbn Sirin, iinkumbi ngokubanzi zifuzisela udushe nezenzo zogonyamelo. Ukuba umntu ubona iinkumbi ephupheni, oku kunokubonakalisa isiphithiphithi ahlala kuso kunye nocelomngeni ajongene nalo ekulungelelaniseni ubomi bakhe kunye nendlela yakhe.
5.  Ukubona iinkumbi ephupheni kunokubonisa ubuhlwempu, ukungabikho kwemali, kunye neengxaki ezithile. Ukukwazi kweenkumbi ukutshabalalisa izityalo kusenokubonisa iimeko ezimbi zemali kunye neengxaki kunye nobunzima.
6. Ngokuchasene nombono ongathandekiyo, ukubona iinkumbi ephupheni kunokuba bubungqina beentsikelelo kunye nolonwabo. Ukubona nokutya iinkumbi ephupheni kusenokubonisa ukulunga, indlela yokuphila nempumelelo. Ngokutsho kukaIbn Sirin, ukuba umntu ubeka iinkumbi ezininzi ephupheni okanye kwisitya, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana iintsikelelo kunye nokwanda kobutyebi.
7. Ukubona iinkumbi kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo kusenokubonisa ulonwabo nembuyekezo enkulu evela kuThixo. Impembelelo yokubona iinkumbi ekhayeni lakhe iya kukhokelela ekukhulelweni okusondelayo nasekuzalisekeni kwethemba lakhe lokwandisa intsapho nolonwabo lwexesha elizayo.

Iinkumbi ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo

1. Ukubona iinkumbi kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo luphawu oluhle kwaye lubonisa ulonwabo nempumelelo yakhe. Ukubonakala kweenkumbi endlwini kunokuba ngumqondiso wembuyekezo enkulu evela kuThixo, kwaye umfazi unokukhulelwa kungekudala.
2.  Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo litya iinkumbi okanye lizipheka ephupheni, oko kubonisa ukuba ufumene inzala elungileyo yaye uyayifumana kuThixo uSomandla. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kunokubonisa ilahleko yemali.
3. Iinkumbi ezincinci ephupheni zibhekwa njengezibi kwaye zibi ngaphezu kweenkumbi ezinkulu. Iinkumbi ezincinane zisenokuba luphawu lweengxaki okanye imiqobo umfazi otshatileyo anokujamelana nayo ebomini bakhe.
4.  Ukubona iinkumbi ephupheni kuthathwa njengobungqina bokuthetha ngokugqithiseleyo, ukuhleba, ukuhleba kunye nesiphithiphithi. Oku kusenokuba sisikhumbuzo kumfazi otshatileyo ukuba alumke ekuqhubaneni nabantu yaye angatsaleleki kwintlebendwane engenamsebenzi.

Umbala weenkumbi ephupheni

1. Iinkumbi eziluhlaza ziluphawu lwentshabalalo kunye nokulahlekelwa yimpilo yomntu. Eli phupha lisenokuba lilumkisa ngokufika kweengxaki okanye ubunzima obunokuchaphazela ubomi bakho bomsebenzi okanye ubomi bakho.
2. U-Imam Ibn Sirin wachaza ukuba ukubona iinkumbi kwiphupha lendoda etshatileyo kunokuba luphawu lweengxaki kunye neqabane lakhe, kwaye ezi ngxaki zinokukhokelela kuqhawulo-mtshato. Oku kusenokuba luphawu lwengxwabangxwaba emtshatweni okanye ukunganxibelelani kakuhle phakathi kwamaqabane, ngoko ke iingxaki ezinokubakho kufuneka kulungiswe.
3. Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga neenkumbi ephupheni kunokunxulumana nokubakho kwesiphithiphithi kunye nokusasazeka phakathi kwabantu abathile, njengoko eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokungavisisani okanye ungquzulwano lwentlalo olukhoyo ngokwenyani. Kunokuba luncedo ukusebenzela ekuphuculeni ubudlelwane boluntu kunye neemeko ezizolileyo.
4. Abaguquleli bephupha bakholelwa ukuba iinkumbi ephupheni zinokuthetha ubukho bemali okanye ukwanda kobutyebi. Kwakhona iinkumbi zinokunxulunyaniswa nabantwana nenzala elungileyo, nto leyo ebonisa iintsikelelo, indlela yokuphila nolonwabo lwentsapho.
5. Ukubona iinkumbi ephupheni kunokubonisa ubukho bomfazi okhohlisayo okanye ohlambalazayo onokubangela ingxabano phakathi kwabantu. Ukuba ubona eli phupha, linokuba sisilumkiso malunga nokujongana nabantu abangathembekanga kwaye zilumkele izilingo.

Ukoyika iinkumbi ephupheni

1. Ukubona uloyiko lweenkumbi ephupheni kubonisa ukuba iindaba ezivuyisayo ziya kufika kungekudala. Ezi ndaba zinokuzisa uphuhliso oluhle kwimiba obuyilindele ngomdla nangomdla isiphumo sayo.
2.  Ukuba awutshatanga kwaye ubona iinkumbi ephupheni, oku kunokuba luphawu lobukho bamantombazana amabi omele uhlale kude nawo. Kufuneka ulumke kwaye wahlule abantu abalingana nawe ngokuziphatha nangemilinganiselo yokuziphatha.
3.  Ukuba uyindoda etshatileyo kwaye uphupha ukwesaba iinkumbi, oku kunokuthetha ukuba ukhathazeke kakhulu ngabantwana bakho. Lo mbono usenokubonisa umnqweno wokubakhusela nokuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lwabo.
4.  Ukuba uyintombazana engatshatanga kwaye uphupha ukoyika iinkumbi, lo mbono unokubonisa utshintsho olwahlukileyo oluza ebomini bakho. Kusenokufuneka ukuba uluqaphele olu tshintsho kwaye uziqhelanise nalo ngokuqhubekayo.
5. Ukoyika iinkumbi ephupheni kunxulunyaniswa nokhuseleko kwisohlwayo kunye nobuhlwempu. Kusenokubonisa ukuba ukhuselwe kubunzima nakubunzima, ngakumbi ukuba uphila ubomi bobulungisa nobuthe tye.

Ukubona inkumbi enye ephupheni

• 1. Ukuba ubona inkumbi enye ephupheni lakho, kusenokuba luphawu lokuba uziva ucinezelwe yimeko yangoku okanye ingxaki yexesha elizayo. Usenokuba uphethwe ziingxabano zangaphakathi ezinokuchaphazela ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
  2.  Kumfazi otshatileyo, ukubona inkumbi enye ephupheni kubonisa iingxaki ezisongela ulonwabo kunye nokhuseleko lomtshato. Kusenokubakho iintshaba nabantu abanomona abazama ukubangela iingxabano neengxaki kubomi bakhe bomtshato.
  3.  Ukuba ungatshatanga kwaye uphupha inkumbi enye ephupheni lakho, le nkuthe inokubonisa ubukho bentombi embi ebomini bakho. Lo mhlobo usenokuba usoloko ezama ukwenza ububi aze akufake engxakini. Kufuneka alumke kwaye aphathe olu lwalamano ngononophelo.
  4. Ukubona inkumbi enye ephupheni kunokufuzisela ukunyamezela kunye nokunyamezela xa ujongene nemingeni kunye neengxaki. Lo mbono unokuba lukhuthazo kuwe ukuba usebenzise ubuchule bakho kwaye uthembele kuwe phantsi kobunzima.
  5.  Iinkumbi ephupheni zinokufuzisela umonakalo kunye nokutshatyalaliswa. Kusenokubakho izinto zangaphandle ezisongela ubomi bakho kwaye zikwenzakalise. Lo mbono unokubonisa imfuneko yokuhlala uzilungiselele kwaye uthathe amanyathelo ayimfuneko ukukhusela kwiingxaki ezinokubakho.
  7. Inkumbi enye ephupheni inokufuzisela uphawu lokomoya okanye lonqulo. Lo mbono unokuthetha ubukho bamandla angaphezu kwawemvelo akukhuselayo kwaye akukhathalele ebomini bakho.
  8. Kwintombazana engatshatanga, ukubona inkumbi enye ephupheni ingaba ngumqondiso wokulunga kunye neentsikelelo eziza ebomini bakho. Lo mbono uyakubongoza ukuba usondele ngakumbi kuThixo uze ulandele imilinganiselo yokuziphatha neempawu ezintle.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga neenkumbi emzimbeni

1. Ukuphupha iinkumbi emzimbeni kunokufuzisela ukuqokelelana koxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo ebomini bomntu. Eli phupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe ukuba kufuneka ulawule uxinzelelo lwengqondo kunye neemvakalelo ngendlela engcono yokugcina impilo yakho yengqondo kunye nomzimba.
2. Ukubona iinkumbi emzimbeni kunokuba yimbonakaliso yokuziva uthintelwe okanye uthintelwe ebomini bakho. Ungaziva ngathi kukho izinto ezikuthintelayo ekufezekiseni amabhongo akho okanye uphuhliso lomntu. Eli phupha linokuba yinkuthazo kuwe ukuba uphonononge iindlela ezintsha nezintsha zokuphumeza iinjongo zakho.
3. Ukuphupha iinkumbi emzimbeni kunokuba sisilumkiso sokuba kukho imingeni yemali okanye imiqobo endleleni yakho. Eli phupha lingabonisa uloyiko lwakho lobuhlwempu, ukubhanga, okanye obunye ubunzima bezemali. Ngoko unokufuna ukucwangcisa kakuhle kwaye ulawule izixhobo zakho ngobulumko ukuze woyise ezi ngxaki kwaye uzuze uzinzo lwemali.
4. Ukuphupha iinkumbi emzimbeni kusenokuba luphawu lokunganeliseki ngumsebenzi onawo ngoku okanye ulwalamano lobuqu. Unokuziva ngathi kukho into engalunganga eyenzekayo ebomini bakho kwaye kufuneka wenze utshintsho ukuze ufumane intuthuzelo kunye nolonwabo.
5. Nangona ukuphupha iinkumbi emzimbeni kunokuthwala iintsingiselo ezimbi kunye nezilumkiso, ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba nemiphumo emihle. Abanye abatoliki bakholelwa ukuba ukubona iinkumbi emzimbeni kunokuthetha ubukho bendlela yokuphila kunye nenzuzo ebomini bakho. Unokufezekisa iinjongo zakho kwaye uphumelele impumelelo enkulu kwimimandla osebenza kuyo.

Ukwesaba iinkumbi ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo

1. Ukwesaba iinkumbi kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo kubonisa ukuba utshintsho oluthile luya kwenzeka ebomini bakhe. Usenokuba ungena kwixesha elitsha ebomini bakhe kwaye uziva esoyika kakhulu ngeli thuba. Eli phupha lisenokubonisa ukuba uziva ecinezelekile kwaye exhalabile ngolu tshintsho lwexesha elizayo.
2. Ukubona iinkumbi kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo kunokufanekisela abantwana bakhe okanye ukukhulelwa okutsha. Ukuba akazange ahlukunyezwe ziinkumbi ephupheni, oku kungabonakalisa ukukhulelwa okutsha okwenzekayo kwixesha elizayo. Ukuba usandul’ ukutshata, eli phupha lisenokuba luphawu lwempumelelo yakho yexesha elizayo. Nangona kunjalo, iinkumbi akufanele zibangele nayiphi na ingozi kuwe ephupheni.
3. Ukwesaba iinkumbi kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo kunokubonisa ukhuseleko kwisohlwayo okanye isomiso kunye nobuhlwempu obufikela abantu. Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokuba uziva ukhuselekile kwaye ukhululekile ebomini bakho, ngakumbi ukuba iinqobo kunye nezenzo zakho zilungile kwaye zilungile.
4.  Ukubona uloyiko lwakho lweenkumbi ephupheni kunokukulumkisa ngeengxaki ezizayo kunye neenkxalabo ezisongela ulonwabo lwakho kunye nokhuseleko lwekhaya lakho. Iinkumbi ephupheni zinokufuzisela iintshaba ezininzi kunye nabantu abanomona abakungqongileyo. Kusenokufuna ukuba ulumke kwaye uzilungiselele ukujongana nale mingeni.
5. Ngokutsho kwenkcazo yomfundi u-Ibn Sirin, ukwesaba kwakho iinkumbi ephupheni kunokuba bubungqina bokuba uphila ubomi obungakhathali kwaye uziphatha ngokungenangqiqo kwimicimbi yobomi bakho. Eli phupha lingabonisa isidingo sokugxila kwaye ucinge nzulu malunga nezigqibo zakho zemihla ngemihla kunye nezenzo.

Isimboli seenkumbi ephupheni i-Al-Osaimi

Ukubona iinkumbi ephupheni kuyisimboli esiqhelekileyo nesinomdla ekutolikweni kwephupha kunye nokuchazwa kombono. Ngokutsho kwengcaciso kaSheikh Al-Usaimi, iinkumbi zingumqondiso wokutshatyalaliswa nokutshatyalaliswa, kwaye zibonakalisa isilumkiso esivela kuThixo sokuthobela imiyalelo yakhe. Kodwa ukubona iinkumbi ephupheni kunokutolikwa ngokufanelekileyo, njengoko kunokufuzisela inhlanhla, impumelelo kunye nobuninzi.

1. Ukubona iinkumbi ephupheni kunokutolikwa njengomqondiso wexesha elizayo elinzima elinokuzisa umonakalo kunye nokutshatyalaliswa ebomini bomntu.
2. Iinkumbi nazo zigqalwa njengesilumkiso esivela kuThixo sokuthobela imiyalelo Yakhe. Ukuphupha ngeenkumbi kusenokuba sisikhumbuzo emntwini ngokubaluleka kokuthobela imiyalelo kaThixo nokuphepha ukwenza izinto ezimbi.
3. Iphupha elingeenkumbi lisenokufuzisela ithamsanqa, impumelelo kunye nobutyebi. Le ngcaciso ibonisa isalathisi sexesha elihle elinokuzisa impumelelo kunye nobutyebi.
4. Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga ibona iinkumbi ephupheni layo, oku kungabonakalisa ukuba uya kuba nethamsanqa.
5. Iinkumbi eziphuzi ephupheni zibonisa ukuba umntu unesifo esibi sempilo esichaphazela kakubi impilo yakhe yengqondo kunye nomzimba.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha leenkumbi kwindoda etshatileyo

1. Ukubona iinkumbi kwiphupha lendoda etshatileyo kubonisa ukuba kukho iingxaki ezininzi kunye nokungavumelani okunokuthi kwenzeke phakathi kwakhe nomlingane wakhe. Ezi ngxaki zisenokunxulunyaniswa nonxibelelwano olungokweemvakalelo okanye umahluko kwizimo zengqondo, imilinganiselo yokuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha. Ukutolikwa kweenkumbi ephupheni kucebisa ukuba eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokujongana nezi ngxaki kukunxibelelana ngokuzola, umonde kunye nokuqondana.
2.  Iphupha leenkumbi kwiphupha lendoda etshatileyo lingabonakalisa ubukho bokunyaniseka, ukuzinikela kunye nenkxaso yomfazi wakhe. Lo mbono usenokuba sisikhumbuzo kwindoda yokubaluleka kwayo ukuba ixhase iqabane layo, izinikele kubomi bayo, ize ilixhase kwiinkalo ezahlukahlukeneyo zobomi.
3.  Kwezinye iinguqulelo, ukubona iinkumbi kwiphupha lendoda etshatileyo kubonisa ulonwabo nokuzinza ebomini bakhe bomtshato. Lo mbono usenokuba yimbonakaliso yamaxesha olonwabo nawolonwabo phakathi kwamaqabane omtshato, yaye unika uzinzo lwentsapho nolokomoya.
4.  Ezinye iinguqulelo zibonisa ukuba ephupheni ukutya iinkumbi eziphekiweyo kufanekisela ubomi obuninzi kunye nempilo entle kumntu ophuphayo. Lo mbono unokuba luphawu lokuza kwamaxesha amnandi azele kukulunga namathuba amatsha ebomini.
5. Ukubona iinkumbi kwiphupha lendoda etshatileyo kunokubonisa ithamsanqa kunye nemivuzo enokuza kuye. Lo mbono unokuba sisikhumbuzo kwindoda ukuba ifanelwe yimbuyekezo ngokuzinikela kwayo kunye nemigudu kubomi bayo nakubudlelwane bomtshato.