Funda malunga nokuchazwa kwephupha malunga neengubo eziphuzi kwiphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin

Ingubo ephuzi kwiphupha elikhulelweyo

1. Umfazi okhulelweyo ebona ingubo ephuzi ephupheni lakhe kuthetha ukuba amaphupha akhe aya kuzaliseka kwaye iminqweno ebeyinqwenela ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwakhe iya kuzaliseka.
   Eli phupha limnika ithemba nethemba ngekamva lakhe.
2. Ilokhwe ende etyheli yowesifazane okhulelweyo ifuzisela ukulahla naziphi na iingxaki zempilo anokuthi ahlupheke kuzo ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
   Ukuba ubona ilokhwe ende emthubi ephupheni lakhe, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuziva ekhuselekile kwaye usana lwakhe luya kukhuseleka ngokunjalo.
3.  Umbala ophuzi kwiphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo unokuthetha nokuba uya kufumana iindaba ezilungileyo ngokukhawuleza.
   Ezi ndaba zisenokumangalisa kwaye zizise uvuyo nolonwabo kuye nakwintsapho yakhe.
4. Ingubo ephuzi kwiphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo ibonisa ukhuseleko, ukubuyiswa kokugula, kunye nokuhamba ngokuthula kwexesha lokukhulelwa.
   Eli phupha lixela ukuba uya kuphila ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye akhulelwe ngaphandle kweengxaki zempilo.
5.  Umfazi okhulelweyo ebona isambatho esiphuzi ephupheni lakhe bubungqina bokuzalwa okulula kunye nenkathazo.
   Eli phupha lifuzisela ukuba uya kuziva ekhululekile kwaye kulula ngexesha lokuzala kwaye ukuzalwa kuya kukhuseleka kwaye kulungile kuye kunye nomntwana.
6.  Ukuba ingubo ephuzi ikhululekile kwaye ibanzi ephupheni, oku kubonisa induduzo yengqondo kunye nokuzinza.
   Eli phupha lithetha ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo uya kuhlala kwindawo yobutyebi, induduzo kunye noxolo lwangaphakathi.
7.  Ukuba ingubo ephuzi iqinile ephupheni, oku kubonisa ubunzima apho umfazi okhulelweyo unokujongana naye ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
   Eli phupha linokuba sisilumkiso somngeni onokuthi ulindele kwaye libonise imfuneko yokulungiselela kunye nokulungiselela ukujongana.
8.  Umbala ophuzi unxulunyaniswa novuyo kunye nolonwabo ephupheni, ngoko ke ukubona ingubo ephuzi ephupheni kubonisa iintsuku ezivuyayo nezivuyisayo ezizayo ebomini bomfazi okhulelweyo.

Ukubona ingubo ephuzi ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga

1. Iphupha lokubona ingubo ephuzi libonisa umfazi ongatshatanga ukuphumeza iinjongo zakhe ebomini.
   Bubungqina bokuzimisela nokuzimisela kwakhe ukugqwesa kuzo zonke iinkalo, nokuba kusemsebenzini, ekufundeni, okanye kubudlelwane bobuqu.
   Ngoko ke, ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga lizibona ligqoke ingubo ephuzi ephupheni, oku kuyamkhuthaza ukuba aqhubeke nokusebenza kanzima aze afezekise amaphupha akhe.
2. Intombazana engatshatanga ibona ingubo ephuzi ephupheni ibonisa utshintsho oluhle oluya kwenzeka ebomini bakhe kungekudala.
   Luphawu lokuba uya kubangcono kunangaphambili, buqu nangomsebenzi.
   Ke ngoko, eli phupha libonisa amathuba anomdla aza kuza kuye, kwaye liyambongoza ukuba alungele ukuwamkela ngethemba.
3.  Umfazi ongatshatanga egqoke ingubo ephuzi ephupheni lakhe ufuzisela ukuba abanye abantu baya kuzama ukuphazamisa izicwangciso kunye neenjongo zakhe ngenxa yomona kunye nomona.
   Igqitha iinzame zabo kwaye kwandisa ukuzimisela nokuzimisela kwabo ukuphumelela.
   Ngoko ke, eli phupha likhuthaza ibhinqa elingatshatanga ukuba liqhubeke nendlela yalo ngaphandle kokuchatshazelwa ziinzame zabanye zokumphazamisa.
4.  Xa ubona ingubo ende ephuzi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba umfazi ongatshatanga uye wafumana ulawulo phezu komtsalane wakhe kunye nokukhangayo, kwaye uye wakwazi ukunqoba umona kunye nomona awayephantsi kwawo ngabanye.
   Imnika ukuzithemba kwaye iphakamisa ukuziphatha kwakhe.
5.  Ibhinqa elingatshatanga libona ingubo ephuzi ephupheni libonisa umnqweno wakhe wokutshata, oya kuzaliseka kungekudala.
   Iphupha lakhe liwuqaqambisa kakuhle lo mbandela kwaye limenza azive enethemba malunga nokufika kweqabane lakhe elifanelekileyo lobomi.
6. Isinxibo esimthubi sibonisa ukuzithanda kunye nokwaneliseka.
   Ukubona ingubo ephuzi yowesifazane ongatshatanga ephupheni kwandisa ukuzithemba kwakhe kwaye kumkhumbuza ngokubaluleka kokugcina impilo yakhe yengqondo nengokwenyama.
   Yimbonakaliso yenkululeko namandla ebhinqa eliselula elingatshatanga.
7. Ingubo ephuzi kwiphupha lomfazi omnye ingabonakalisa isiqalo esitsha ebomini bakhe, nokuba kusemsebenzini okanye kubudlelwane bomntu.
   Eli phupha liyamkhuthaza ukuba ahambe ngaphaya kwexesha elidlulileyo kwaye aye kwikamva elizele ngamathuba anomdla.

Ukugqoka ingubo ephuzi ephupheni kwabatshatileyo

1. Ukubona umfazi otshatileyo egqoke ingubo ephuzi ephupheni bubungqina bokulunga okuza kuye ebomini bakhe.
   Eli phupha lingabonisa ulonwabo olukhulu kunye nokuphila okuninzi okuya kunandipha umfazi otshatileyo kwixesha elizayo.
2. Ingubo ephuzi ephupheni ithathwa njengesimboli sobomi bomtshato ohloniphekileyo oya kunandipha umfazi otshatileyo.
   Iphupha malunga nokugqoka ingubo ephuzi lingabonisa amandla okubonelela induduzo kunye nolonwabo kumyeni kunye nabantwana, kwaye ngoko uya kuneliseka kwaye uyamkele.
3. Ukubona umfazi otshatileyo egqoke ingubo ephuzi ephupheni ingaba ngumqondiso othembisayo wokuphila kunye nempumelelo.
   Ibhinqa elitshatileyo lisenokuba nalo eli phupha xa lisenza izinto ezintle ebomini balo, njengokufumana umsebenzi omtsha okanye ukunyuka kwemali.
4. Ingubo ephuzi kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo ingabonisa ezininzi iinkxalabo kunye neengxaki ebomini bakhe.
   Umfazi otshatileyo usenokutyhubela kubunzima bemali okanye ubunzima kwiimeko zobomi, nto leyo ebangela ukuba afune uncedo kwabanye aze athembele kwabanye ukuba boyise obu bunzima.
5. Umbala ophuzi ephupheni malunga nokugqoka ingubo unokufanekisela uxolo kunye novuyo.
   Eli phupha lingabonisa ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphila ubomi obuzinzile kunye nokulinganisela, kwaye unandipha ulonwabo noxolo lwangaphakathi.

Ilokhwe ende etyheli ephupheni

1. Ukubona ingubo ende ephuzi ephupheni liphupha elibonisa umtshato kumntu onobuhle kunye nomhle.
   Abanye bakholelwa ukuba ingubo ende ephuzi ibonisa ulonwabo oluzayo kunye neentsikelelo ebomini bomtshato.

2. Izambatho eziphuzi kwiphupha lomfazi omnye zingabonisa umona okanye ukuzithanda, kunye nomoya ovuyayo nothandekayo.
   Oku kutolikwa kunokunxulumana neemvakalelo zomona ngabanye okanye ukuzithemba nokuba nethemba.

5. Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga izibona igqoke ingubo ende ephuzi ephupheni, oku kunokuba bubungqina bokukhathala kunye nomona.
   Kucetyiswa ukuba umntu azikhathalele kwaye azibophelele ekuphumleni nasekuphumleni ukoyisa iimvakalelo zoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
6. Xa ubona ilokhwe ende etyheli, oku kungafuzisela impumelelo kunye nethamsanqa ebomini bomfazi ongatshatanga.
   Oku kutolikwa kunokunxulumana nempumelelo kubomi bobuchwephesha okanye bokufunda kunye nokufezekisa iinjongo kunye namabhongo.
7. Ukubona ingubo ende ephuzi ephupheni kwintombazana eyintombi ibonisa ukulunga kunye nokukhuselwa ebomini bakhe.
   Ilokhwe ende etyheli inokufuzisela iintsuku ezimnandi ezichithwe kunye neqabane lakhe kwixesha elizayo.

Ingubo ephuzi ephupheni yomfazi oqhawule umtshato

1. Ukubona ingubo ephuzi yomfazi oqhawule umtshato ephupheni ingabonisa impumelelo kunye novuyo ebomini bakhe.
   Ukuba unxibe ilokhwe ende etyheli, oku kungabonisa ulonwabo, ukuchuma, kunye nempumelelo eya kuyifumana kwixesha elizayo.
2.  Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga ibona ingubo ephuzi ephupheni, oku kungabonakalisa utshintsho oluhle oluya kwenzeka ebomini bakhe kungekudala oluya kwenza kube ngcono kunangaphambili.
3.  Ibhinqa elingatshatanga elinxibe ingubo ephuzi ephupheni lakhe lingabonakalisa umona kunye nomona kwabanye, njengoko banokuzama ukuphazamisa izicwangciso zakhe kwaye bazame ukuthintela iinjongo zakhe.
4.  Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nesambatho esiphuzi kumfazi ongatshatanga kunokuba bubungqina bokufikelela kwiinjongo zakhe ebomini kunye nokuzimisela kwakhe ukuphumelela nokugqwesa.
5.  Kumfazi ongatshatanga, ukubona ilokhwe etyheli ephupheni kunokubonisa ukulawula kwakhe umlingo kunye nomona awayevezwe kuwo abo bamngqongileyo ngenxa yomnqweno wabo ombi wokumsusa.
6.  Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ingubo yokulala ephuzi ephupheni, ingaba bubungqina bokuvumelana ngokweemvakalelo, uthando, kunye nemvakalelo yothando ebomini bakhe.
7. Ukubona ingubo etyheli etyheli kwiphupha lomfazi oqhawule umtshato kunokuba luphawu lweengxaki kunye nobunzima kubomi bakhe bomntu, kodwa kungekudala iimeko ziya kutshintsha kwaye izinto ziya kusonjululwa kungekudala.

Ukubonakala kombala ophuzi oqaqambileyo kunye nombala ophuzi kwiphupha lomfazi oqhawule umtshato unokubonisa ukulunga, ithemba, uvuyo, kunye nokuphila ngokwaneleyo oya kuba nako ebomini bakhe.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umbala ophuzi uphelile, oku kunokuba ngumqondiso weengxaki, ukukhathala, ukugula, iingxabano kunye neenkxalabo onokujamelana nazo.

Ingubo ephuzi ephupheni yowesifazane okhulelweyo

1. Ukubona ingubo ephuzi ephuzi kwiphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo kubonisa ukuba uya kufezekisa amaphupha akhe kunye neminqweno.
2.  Ukubona ilokhwe ende emthubi kumfazi okhulelweyo kubonisa ukulahla naziphi na iingxaki zempilo anokuthi wadibana nazo ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwaye uxela ukhuseleko lwakhe kunye nokhuseleko lomntwana wakhe.
3. Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo uzibona ethenga ingubo ephuzi ephupheni, oku kubonisa umnqweno wakhe wokuqalisa amalungiselelo omntwana olindelekileyo kunye nentshiseko yakhe kunye nokulindela ukufika kwayo.
4. Ingubo ephuzi kwiphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo ifanekisela ukhuseleko, ukubuyiswa kokugula, kunye nokuhamba kwexesha lokukhulelwa ngoxolo nokuzinza, kunye nokuzalwa okulula, okungenangxaki.
5.  Umfazi okhulelweyo ophupha ngengubo ephuzi unokufanekisela uvuyo, ubuninzi, kunye neziqalo ezintsha ebomini.

Kumfazi okhulelweyo, ukuphupha kwengubo ephuzi ephupheni kubonisa ukuzalwa okulula kunye nokuphela kweengxaki zempilo ezazichaphazela imeko yakhe yengqondo kunye nokwesaba kwakhe umntwana.
Isenokuba bubungqina bokuzalwa okulula, okungenangxaki kunye nemeko entle yowesifazane okhulelweyo kunye nosana lwakhe.

Ukutolikwa kombala ophuzi ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo

Kumfazi otshatileyo, ukuphupha ukubona umbala ophuzi kuthathwa njengophawu oluhle kunye noluncumisayo.
Umbala ophuzi ephupheni ufuzisela ubomi obuzinzile kunye nokumangalisa okuvuyisayo.
Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ethenga izinto eziphuzi kwaye uyonwabile, oku kuxela kwangaphambili ukuba uya kuzuza ukulunga.

Ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin kunye nokuchazwa kwakhe kwamaphupha, ukubona umbala ophuzi ephupheni kuthathwa njengombono oncomekayo obonisa ukuba umniniyo uya kufumana ukulunga nolonwabo.
Ke ngoko, umbono womfazi otshatileyo wombala otyheli ubonisa ukuba uya kunandipha ukulunga kunye nokuphila ngokwaneleyo ebomini bakhe.

Ukubona umbala ophuzi ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uya kufumana ubomi obuninzi kunye nolonwabo.
Yinto eyakhayo echaza ubomi obuzinzile obuzele luvuyo kunye nethemba kumfazi otshatileyo.

Ukuba umntu ubona umbala ophuzi ephupheni, lo mbono uyinto enhle, ngakumbi ukuba umbala ukhanya kwaye ulula.
Kwakhona, ukubona indoda enye enxibe iimpahla ezintle ezityheli kuthetha ithamsanqa kunye nempumelelo.

Umbala ophuzi ephupheni unokufanekisela ukukhula kunye nobukhali bengqondo.
Kuthiwa luphawu oluhle kuyo yonke imiba.
Nangona kunjalo, i-yellow ibhekwa njengento engathandekiyo kwiimpahla ezimfutshane.

Umbala ophuzi kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo uthathwa njengento ebonisa ukulunga kunye nokuphila okwaneleyo.
Kodwa kufuneka uhlale uqwalasela umxholo wobuqu wobomi bakho kunye neemeko zakho xa utolika amaphupha.

Ilokhwe emthubi eFluffy

1. Ukubona ilokhwe emthubi, ephupheni ephupheni luphawu lwempumelelo kunye nempumelelo kubomi bakho bobugcisa okanye kwicandelo lakho lokufunda.
   Eli phupha lisenokuba likukhumbuza ngokubaluleka kwemigudu oyenzayo kwaye likukhuthaza ukuba uqhubeke nokuzabalazela iinjongo zakho zekhondo lomsebenzi.
2. Ilokhwe emthubi ephupheni ifanekisela intuthuzelo yengqondo kunye nolonwabo oluvayo kubomi bakho bangoku.
   Eli phupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo sokuba kubalulekile ukonwabela kwaye uxabise amaxesha amahle ebomini bakho.
3.  Ukuba uphupha ukugqoka ingubo ephuzi, ehlotshiswe okanye edibeneyo, oku kunokuthetha ukuba iindaba ezimnandi kakhulu kwaye ezibalulekileyo zinokwenzeka kungekudala.
   Ezi ndaba zingabandakanya ukubuya komntu olahlekileyo okanye ukukhululwa komntu oboshiweyo, okwenza eli phupha libe ngumqondiso wezinto ezintle ezinokuqala ebomini bakho kungekudala.
4.  Ingubo ephuzi ephuzi ephupheni ingaba ngumqondiso womnqweno wokutshintsha kunye nokuhlaziywa.
   Eli phupha linokuthetha ukuba uziva ngathi uphuma kwisiqhelo kwaye uzama izinto ezintsha ebomini bakho.
   Isenokuba lixesha elihle lokuqwalasela utshintsho olulungileyo kwindlela yakho yobomi.
5.  Ukubona umntu ephupheni enxibe ilokhwe emthubi, emthubi emthubi kunokubonisa izinto ezonwabileyo ozifumanayo ngoku.
   Isenokuba liphupha elikwenza uzive wonwabile kwaye wonwabile kwaye likhulise isimo sakho sengqondo esihle.

Iphupha malunga nesambatho esiphuzi kumfazi okhulelweyo

Ukubona ingubo ephuzi kwiphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo ineentsingiselo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo kunye neentsingiselo ezininzi.
Eli phupha libhekwa njengento ebonisa inkxalabo kwimpilo yowesifazane okhulelweyo kunye nokuphepha kwakhe kwimikhwa emibi.
Ingubo ephuzi ithathwa njengophawu lwempilo, impilo, kunye nokuzala okulula ngaphandle kweengxaki ezinzima kunye neentlungu.

1. Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo uzibona egqoke ingubo ephuzi ephupheni kwaye uziva evuya kwaye evuya, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kwamkela impilo enhle kwaye uya kuzala ngokulula ngaphandle kweengxaki ezininzi.
2.  Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ufumana imvakalelo yokuxhalaba kunye nokuxinezeleka ngelixa ezibona ephupheni enxibe ilokhwe ephuzi emthubi, oku kunokuthetha ukuba unexhala malunga nomcimbi wentlalontle okanye umcimbi wentsapho osengqondweni yakhe.
3.  Iphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo wengubo ephuzi linokuqondwa kwakhona njengophawu lwesigaba esitsha ebomini bakhe.
   Umntu wasetyhini usenokuqalisa uhambo olutsha kwaye azive echulumancile kwaye esoyika kwangaxeshanye.Eli phupha livakalisa utshintsho lwakhe kwisahluko esitsha ebomini bakhe.
4.  Ukubona ingubo ephuzi ephupheni ingaba isilumkiso sobunzima okanye iimeko zempilo apho umfazi okhulelweyo unokujamelana nazo kwiintsuku ezizayo.
   Ukuba ibhinqa lizibona ligqoke ingubo ephuzi ephupheni, oku kuthathwa njengento ebonisa ukuba uya kujongana nemingeni enokuchaphazela impilo yakhe kunye nentuthuzelo yengqondo.