Intsingiselo yokuxhwilwa ephupheni
Intsingiselo yokuthunjwa ephupheni igxile kwisimboli seziganeko ezenzeka ephupheni kunye nefuthe labo kumphuphi.
Ukuthunjwa kunokufuzisela umntu ophuphayo ebona imali engavumelekanga, njengoko kubonisa ukuba imali ibiwe kumphuphi.
Umthumbi ephupheni naye uthathwa njengobungqina besela elifuna ukubamba impahla yomphuphi.
Ezi toliko ziqwalaselwa ngokuka-Imam Ibn Sirin.
Ukubona ukuthunjwa ephupheni kunokubonakalisa ukukhohlisa, ukukhohlisa, kunye nokujoliswa komphuphi ngabanye.
Inokucebisa ukuvezwa kokwenzakala kunye nomonakalo.
Ukongezelela, indoda ebamba umfazi ephupheni ingabonakalisa uthando lwakhe kuye kunye nobukho bakhe ebomini bakhe, ukubona ukuthunjwa ephupheni kunokufanekisela ukuza kobubi, ukukhohlisa kunye namahlazo.
Isenokubonisa ukuba lowo uphuphayo uya kufumana ukulunga nolonwabo.
Eli phupha likwajongwa njengesikhokelo kwindlela umntwana abukeka ngayo ngaphakathi kwesibeleko sikanina.
Kwimeko yendoda etshatileyo ephupha ngokuqweqwediswa, oku kubonisa intabalala yemali eya kuyifumana nabantwana abalungileyo eya kuba nabo.
Ukuba umzamo wokuqweqwedisa uyenzeka kwaye umphuphi uyakwazi ukusinda ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba izinto ezithembisayo ziya kwenzeka ebomini bakhe.
Kumfazi ongatshatanga ophuphayo ukuba uthunjwa ngumntu ongaziwayo, oku kubonisa ukulunga kunye nolonwabo kwintsapho yakhe kunye nobomi bomtshato, kunye nokunyamalala kweenkxalabo kunye neengxaki zakhe.
Ukuqweqwedisa ephupheni kwabasetyhini abangatshatanga
Ukuthunjwa ephupheni kumfazi ongatshatanga kunokuba ngumbono ophazamisayo nophazamisayo, njengoko lo mbono unokuba neempembelelo zengqondo ezibonisa uxinzelelo lobomi kunye noloyiko lomntu.
Eli phupha lingabonakalisa ukuxhalaba kunye noloyiko lokhuseleko kunye nokhuseleko, ngakumbi kubasetyhini abangatshatanga abanokwesaba iziganeko zokuxhwila ezenzeka kuluntu.
Ngokweenkcazo zezinye iingcali, ukubona ibhinqa elingatshatanga lithunjwa ephupheni lingafuzisela ukufika komtshato okanye isivumelwano somtshato somfazi ongatshatanga.
Oku kugqalwa njengomqondiso wokuba unokutshata nomntu ongavisisaniyo nobuntu bakhe, yaye oku kumchanaba kwiingxaki neengxaki ezininzi.
Iphupha lokuthunjwa ephupheni kwintombazana engatshatanga lingabonisa iinkxalabo kunye neengxabano ezijongene nazo, ezibonakala zinzima kakhulu ukuzicombulula ephupheni zingabonakalisa umnqweno wokubopha kunye nokutshata nomntu othandekayo umntu.
Eli phupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno womntu wokuseka ubudlelwane bomtshato nomntu amthandayo kwaye uyahambelana.
Ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga liphupha lixhwilwa ekhaya, oku kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yokuba lihlala likude namalungu entsapho yalo yaye lingawaphulaphuli icebiso lawo.
Eli phupha lingabonisa umnqweno wakhe wokufuduka kubomi bentsapho kwaye uzimele.
Iphupha lokubamba ibhinqa elingatshatanga ephupheni lingabonisa ukutyhila imfihlelo efihliweyo.
Ukuba intombazana ibona ukuba umhlobo wakhe uyamthatha ephupheni, oku kunokuthetha ukuba imfihlo yakhe iya kutyhilwa ngokukhawuleza kwaye oko akufihlayo kuya kutyhilwa.
Eli phupha lisenokubonisa ukuba umntu obandakanyekayo ekuthinjweni ngumntu onenkohliso nonganyanisekanga.
Ukuthunjwa ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
Ukutolikwa kokubona ukuthunjwa ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo kuthathwa njengophawu olubonisa iintsingiselo ezininzi ezinokwenzeka.
Ngokomzekelo, ukubona ibhinqa elitshatileyo liqweqwediswa kusenokufuzisela ukuba kude nentsapho yalo yaye aliyikhathalele.
Lo mbono usenokuba ngumqondiso wokuba ibhinqa lisenokuphelelwa ngumdla kwimicimbi yentsapho lize lizinikele ngakumbi kwimicimbi yalo yobuqu.
Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo liqweqwediswa ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba lintywiliselwe kwinto edinisayo okanye engathandekiyo.
Lo mbono usenokuba ngumqondiso wokuba ibhinqa lisenokuzixakekisa ngezinto ezingakhiyo okanye ezingakhiyo lize libutyeshele ubomi balo bomtshato nobentsapho.
Noko ke, ukuba ubani ubona umntu oqweqwediweyo okanye unyana okanye intombi yakhe ithinjwa ephupheni, oku kunokuba bubungqina bokukhulula iingxaki nokuphumeza amaphupha akude, ngokuthanda kukaThixo.
Lo mbono usenokuba ngumqondiso wokuba umfazi uya kujamelana nemingeni neengxaki ezithile kubomi bentsapho yakhe, kodwa uya kuzoyisa aze azuze impumelelo nentuthuzelo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuxhwila intombi yam
Ukutolikwa kwephupha "ukuthumba intombi yam" ingaba yinto exhalabisayo kunye nombuzo omnye.
Xa ubona umhlobo wakho ethinjwa ephupheni, oku kungabonisa iingxaki kunye noxinzelelo kubudlelwane phakathi kwakho.
Oku kuchazwa kunokuba bubungqina bokuba kukho ubunzima ekunxibelelaneni okanye ukungqubuzana okungasonjululwanga phakathi kwakho Kusenokubakho ezinye iinguqulelo zeli phupha.
Kwakhona kwaziwa ukuba umphuphi unokubona imibono kumaphupha akhe abonisa iziganeko ezizayo okanye anike izibonakaliso zeziganeko ezizayo.
Ngoko, ukubona intombi yakho iqweqwediswa kusenokuba luphawu lotshintsho olukhulu ebomini bakho, mhlawumbi emalini, emsebenzini, okanye nasentsatsheni.
Khumbula ukuba ezi zitoliko zisekelwe kwiinkolelo zomntu kunye nokutolikwa kwezenkolo kwaye azikho isiseko esiqinisekisiweyo sesayensi Xa ubona iphupha elinjalo, kufuneka uhlalutye iimeko ezijikeleze ubomi bakho kunye nobudlelwane phakathi kwakho nentombi yakho.
Eli phupha lingabonakalisa uloyiko lwakho lomntu okanye lingabonakalisa umnqweno wokukhusela nokumkhathalela.
Usenokufuna ukuhlola ulwalamano lwenu kwaye uthethe ngokuphandle ukuze uqiniseke ukuba izinto ziyinyani kwaye ucombulule nakuphi na ukungavisisani okusenokubakho.
Incoko evulelekileyo nephandle inokuba negalelo ekuphuculeni nasekomelezeni ubudlelwane.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuxhwila udade wethu
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuxhwila udade wethu kunokuba neentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo kunye neentsingiselo.
Lo mbono usenokubonisa ukuba udade ufuna uncedo nenkxaso kubomi bokwenene.
Lo mbono unokuba luphawu lokuthethathethana kwakhe okusondele kunye nokuzibandakanya, njengoko udade unokubonwa njengophawu lokufudukela kubomi obutsha kunye nokuqala usapho.
Ukuchazwa kwephupha malunga nokuthumba udade omncinci ephupheni kunokuba ngumyalezo obonisa imfuno yakhe yokuzimela okulinganiselwe okanye mhlawumbi isilumkiso sokuba kukho umntu ophazamisayo okanye osebenza ngokuchasene naye ebomini bakhe.
Lo mbono usenokubonisa ingozi esongela ukhuseleko okanye ulonwabo lwakhe.
Ukuba umntu ofuna ukutolika iphupha malunga nodadewabo othunjwa ngumntu ofanayo ovela ephupheni, oku kunokuba bubungqina bokuba uziva exhalabile okanye esaba ukhuseleko lukadade wakhe.
Ukuqweqwediswa kule meko kunokufuzisela ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba kwenzeke izinto ezingafunwayo kubomi bodade.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntu akamazi umntu othumbe udadewabo ephupheni, oku kunokuba bubungqina bexesha elisondelayo lokuzibandakanya kunye nomtshato kwixesha elizayo elisondeleyo.
Eli phupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakhe wokuqala intsapho kunye nokufudukela kwinqanaba elitsha lobomi bakhe.
Xa umbono wokuthumba udade omncinci ubonakala ephupheni, unokufanekisela ubukho bomntu ozama ukutyhila iimfihlo zakhe okanye ukumxhaphaza ngokungekho mthethweni.
Lo mbono usenokuba sisilumkiso kudade ukuba alumke aze anikele ingqalelo kwabo baqhubana nabo kubomi bakhe bokwenene.
Ukuba ubona udade wakho omdala ethunjwa phambi kwendlu ephupheni, eli phupha lingafuzisela ubukho bomona kubantu abakungqongileyo.
Kusenokubakho abantu abazama ukonakalisa isidima sakhe okanye impumelelo yakhe.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuthunjwa kwaye ubaleke
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuthunjwa kunye nokuphunyuka ephupheni lomntu kunokuba neentsingiselo ezininzi kunye neentsingiselo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukubona ukuthunjwa ephupheni kuhambelana nokuxhalaba kunye nokwesaba ukujongana nezinto ezithile ebomini bokwenene.
Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lobukho beengcinezelo kunye noxinzelelo olunokuthi lube ngaphaya kolawulo lomntu.
Ukuzibona usinda kwaye uphuncuka kumqweqwedisi ephupheni ngokuqhelekileyo luphawu oluhle nolukhuthazayo.
Lo mbono ungabonisa ukuzaliseka kweminqweno kunye nokhuseleko, kunye nempumelelo yenkululeko nokuzimela.
Isenokuba yimbonakaliso yokuba umntu uye wahlukana namaxhala neengxaki ajamelana nazo, yaye ngaloo ndlela ivakalisa ubomi obutsha obuzaliswe luvuyo nolonwabo.
Ukuchazwa kokubona umqweqwedisi ephupheni kunokuba luphawu lobukho beentshaba ezilele kumphuphi.
Eli phupha lingabonisa ubukho bentlungu kunye nokukhathazeka ebomini bomntu.
Isenokubonisa ukuxhatshazwa kunye nokuqhathwa ngabanye.
Ukuba umntu uyaphumelela ekubalekeni nasekusindeni umqweqwedisi ephupheni, oku kubonisa umfuziselo wokoyisa kwakhe iingxaki kunye nemingeni ajongene nayo ebomini bakhe.
Eli phupha libonisa amandla omntu okujongana neengxaki kunye nokuzinqoba, kwaye kunokuba bubungqina bokuphela kwexesha elinzima ebomini bakhe kunye nokuqala kwesahluko esitsha solonwabo nempumelelo.
Iphupha lokuqweqwediswa kunye nokuphepha ephupheni linokuba lifutshane kwaye libonise ukungaphumeleli kunye nokuxhalaba.
Kule meko, iphupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kumntu ukuba anganikezeli kwingcinezelo kwaye angalahli ithemba ekufezeni iinjongo zakhe.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuxhwila intombi yam
Ukuchazwa kwephupha malunga nentombi yam ukuthunjwa kuxhomekeke kumxholo kunye neemeko zobomi bomntu ophuphe eli phupha.
Iphupha malunga nentombi ethinjwa linokuba bubungqina bokungqubuzana kunye noxinzelelo kubomi bomama ngenxa yomntu osondeleyo okanye ubunzima bomntu kunye neemvakalelo.
Ukuba umama uqhawule umtshato, ukubona intombi yakhe ithunjwa ephupheni ingabonisa ukuba kukho ukungqubuzana phakathi kwakhe nomntu osondeleyo owabangela ukuphazamiseka kunye nokuxhalabisa.
Umama unokufuna ukucinga ngobudlelwane bakhe bomntu kwaye ahlalutye ukuziphatha kwabantu abasondeleyo kuye ukujongana nale ngxabano.
Iphupha malunga nokuthunjwa intombi lingabonisa ubukho beengxaki zemali kunye namatyala kubomi bomphuphi.
Eli phupha linokuba sisilumkiso kumphuphi ukuba ufuna ukucwangciswa kwemali kunye nokulawula amatyala kakuhle ukuphepha iingxaki zemali kwixesha elizayo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuthunjwa kumntu ongaziwayo
Kumfazi ongatshatanga, ukubona umntu ongaziwayo ezama ukumbamba ephupheni kuthathwa njengombono ophazamisayo onokubangela ukuxhalaba kunye noxinzelelo.
Lo mbono ubonisa ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga lixakekile kwaye libandezelekile ngenxa yobunzima, iingxaki kunye nemingeni ajongene nayo ebomini bakhe.
Lo mbono unokuba luphawu lokuba intombazana inokwenzakala okanye yenzakaliswe kubomi bayo bokwenyani.
Ukuba ukuxhwilwa kwenzeka ecaleni kwendlu embonweni, oku kubonakalisa imeko yomfazi ongatshatanga kunye nombono wakhe womntu ongaziwayo ozama ukumxhwila kunye nokuzama kwakhe ukubaleka kuye.
Oku kuchazwa bubungqina bobunzima obukhulu obujongene nentombazana ebomini bakhe ngelo xesha.
U-Ibn Sirin utsalela ingqalelo kwinto yokuba ukubona umntu eqweqwediswa kwinqwelo-mafutha yakhe kubonisa ukufika kweengxaki ezinzima ekunzima ukuba umphuphi azicombulule.
Le ngcaciso inokuthi ibe yisikhumbuzo kumphuphi ukuba kukho ubunzima ebomini bakhe ekufuneka ajongane nayo ngokulumkisa nokuzimisela.
Ukuba umntu ongaziwayo ubonwa ngokuthunjwa sisihlobo somphuphi, eli phupha lisisilumkiso kulo mntu ufuna ukumxhaphaza.
Le ngcaciso ibonisa ubukho beentshaba okanye abakhuphisana nomphuphi onokumoyisa ebomini bokwenene.
Kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukubona ukuthunjwa komntu ongaziwayo ephupheni kunokuthwala iindaba ezilungileyo okanye kusenokuba ngumqondiso weengxaki ezinkulu apho umntu ophuphayo ehamba khona.
Esi silumkiso sisenokuchaza imfuneko yokuba umntu anikele ingqalelo aze athabathe amanyathelo okuzikhusela ukuze aphephe iingxaki noxinezeleko ebomini bakhe.
U-Al-Nabulsi unokulumkisa ukuba ukuqweqwedisa umntu ngumntu ongaziwayo ephupheni kusenokuba luphawu lokuba lowo uphuphayo uxhatshazwa ngabantu abafuna ukuphumeza izinto abazithandayo.
Umntu kufuneka alumke kwaye abeke imida yokuzikhusela ekuxhatshazweni nasekuxhatshazweni.
Ukubona ukuthunjwa komntu ongaziwayo ephupheni kunika iimpawu ezininzi kunye neentsingiselo ezinokuthi zibe bubungqina bokuba umphuphi ujongene nobunzima kunye nemingeni ebomini bakhe.
Umntu umele awuthabathe nzulu lo mbono aze azi indlela yokujongana neengxaki ajongene nazo aze azikhusele kuzo naziphi na iimeko eziyingozi asenokuchanabeka kuzo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nonyana wam othinjwa ngumfazi oqhawule umtshato
Ukuchazwa kwephupha lomfazi oqhawule umtshato wokuthunjwa unyana wakhe unokuba neenkcazo ezininzi, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo eli phupha libonisa iimvakalelo zokuxhalaba kunye noloyiko lokuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ufumana ikamva emva kokuhlukana.
Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona ephupheni lakhe ukuba unyana wakhe uthunjwa ngumntu ongaziwayo, oku kunokuthetha ukuba uziva ediniwe kwaye engenamandla ekujonganeni neemfuno zobuzali ngokwakhe, okukhokelela ekuveleni koloyiko kunye nokuxhalaba malunga nonyana wakhe. kwixesha elizayo.
Iphupha lomfazi oqhawule umtshato lokuqweqwedisa unyana wakhe lisenokubonisa inkxalabo yakhe egqithiseleyo ngokhuseleko nolonwabo lonyana wakhe, nokoyika kwakhe naziphi na iingozi anokujamelana nazo.
Eli phupha linokuba yimbonakaliso yothando olunzulu kunye nekhwele elipheleleyo analo kunyana wakhe, njengoko efuna ukumkhusela ngokupheleleyo kwaye athintele nayiphi na ingozi ukuba ifike kuye.
Iphupha lokuthunjwa ephupheni linokuba yimbonakaliso yeemvakalelo zentiyo kunye nokuziphindezela ukuba umntu ongaziwayo othumba umntwana unokuziva.
Ezi mvakalelo zingathandekiyo zinokubonakalisa uhlobo oluthile lobutshaba okanye umsindo ngakumfazi oqhawule umtshato okanye unyana wakhe, kwaye oku kubonakala ephupheni ngokuxhwilwa.
Ukuba ibhinqa eliqhawule umtshato liphupha liqweqwedisa unyana walo, oku kubonisa ixhala analo, uthando lwakhe olugqithiseleyo ngaye, nomnqweno wakhe onzulu wokumkhusela.
Kungenzeka ukuba iphupha liphinde libe sisikhumbuzo kumfazi oqhawule umtshato ngokubaluleka kokuqinisa amaqhina okuthembela kunye nokunxibelelana nonyana wakhe, kunye nokwenza imizamo engakumbi yokumbonisa ukuba uyathandwa kwaye ukhuselwe.
