Funda malunga nokuchazwa kwephupha malunga nesela endlwini ngokutsho kwe-Ibn Sirin

Iphupha lesela endlini

Ukubona isela endlwini kusenokubonisa imfuneko yokukhusela indawo nempahla yakho kuwo nawuphi na umonakalo osenokubangelwa kuwo.
Eli phupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe ngokubaluleka kokukhusela ikhaya lakho kunye nokuthatha amanyathelo okhuseleko ayimfuneko ukuze uligcine likhuselekile.

Ukubona isela endlwini kunokufuzisela ukuba ukwinqanaba lenguqu kunye notshintsho ebomini bakho.
Kusenokuthetha ukuba sele uqalisile ukulahla izinto ezimbi neziyingozi ebomini bakho kwaye usebenza ekwakheni ubuntu obutsha kunye nemekobume esempilweni.

Ukubona isela endlwini kugxininisa isilumkiso esiyimfuneko kunye nokuqonda ebomini bakho.
Iphupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe ngokubaluleka kokuphaphama kunye nokuphaphela kwizigqibo kunye neentshukumo ozenzayo, kunye nokuthobela imigangatho ephezulu yokulumkisa kunye nokulumkisa xa ujongene nemingeni kunye nobungozi.

Ukubona isela ekhaya kukwabonisa imfuneko yokuceba nokulungiselela ikamva.
Iphupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kuwe ngokubaluleka kokuphuhlisa isicwangciso esifezekisa uzinzo lwezezimali kunye nosapho, kunye nokukhusela wena kunye namalungu entsapho yakho kuzo naziphi na iziganeko ezingalindelekanga.

Ukubona isela ekhaya kulucelomngeni kuwe kunye nesimemo sokusebenzisa amandla angaphakathi xa ujongene neengxaki kunye nobunzima.
Eli phupha likubiza ukuba uqine kwaye uqine xa ujongene nobunzima kwaye unganikezeli lula kwimingeni ojongene nayo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha lesela kwaye akukho nto ibiweyo

1. Abanye abantu basenokuziva bexhalabile okanye bakhathazeke xa bephupha umntu abamgqala njengesela, kodwa xa bevuka, bafumanise ukuba akukho nto ibiweyo ngulo mntu uvela ephupheni lakhe.
   Olu hlobo lwephupha lunokuphakamisa imibuzo emininzi kunye nemibuzo malunga nentsingiselo kunye nempembelelo yalo.
   Kweli nqaku, siza kuhlolisisa ezininzi iinkcazo zephupha malunga nesela elingazange libe nto.
2. Ukuphupha ngesela elingazange libe nantoni na libonisa ukuba kukho uloyiko lwangaphakathi okanye ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo.
   Isela lisenokuba ngumfuziselo wobuntu obungathandekiyo okanye imikhwa yobusela nokuqhatha enokubakho kubomi bemihla ngemihla.
   Ukungebi nto ephupheni kusenokuthetha ukuba nangona olu loyiko lukho, aluyonyani okanye abuchaphazeli ubomi bokwenyani.
3. Ukuphupha ngesela elingazange libe nantoni na kunokubonisa ukuziva ungakhuselekanga okanye ulumke kubomi bemihla ngemihla.
   Oku kunokuthetha ukuba umntu uhlala kwindawo engakhuselekanga okanye uziva esengozini kwindawo yakhe.
   Ukuba akukho nto ibiwe ephupheni, kunokubonisa ukuba umntu unamandla okugcina ubomi bakhe kunye nepropati.
4. Umbono unokuba sisilumkiso malunga nokungawaxhaphazi ngokupheleleyo amathuba akhoyo.
   Isela linokuba ngumqondiso wethuba elibonakala linamandla kwaye likhoyo kumntu okwangoku, kodwa ngenxa yobuvila okanye ukusilela ukuthatha inyathelo elifanelekileyo, eli thuba linokulahleka ngaphandle kokufumana nayiphi na inzuzo kulo.
5. Ukuphupha umntu elisela yaye engebi nantoni na kunokuba sisikhumbuzo emntwini ngokubaluleka kwengqibelelo nokuziphatha okuhle kubomi bakhe.
   Lo mbono usenokubonisa ukuba umntu ujamelene nocelomngeni oluthile lokuziphatha kunye nezilingo ebomini bakhe, kodwa kwanangenxa yezi ngcinezelo zangaphandle, umele ahlale enyanisekile kwimilinganiselo yakhe yobuqu nokuziphatha.

Umbono Isela ephupheni

1.  Ukubona isela ephupheni kunokufuzisela ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa yinto ebalulekileyo kumntu, nokuba yimali okanye ipropati.
   Kusenokufuneka umntu alumke kwaye ajonge imicimbi yokhuseleko nokhuseleko.
2.  Ukubona isela ephupheni kunokuba sisilumkiso esingenangqondo kumntu wengozi yobusela okanye ubuqhetseba.
   Kusenokubakho imfuneko yokulumka okungakumbi kubomi bemihla ngemihla nokugcina izinto ezixabisekileyo.
3.  Ukubona isela ephupheni kunokufuzisela ukuvakalelwa kobuthathaka okanye ukuxhaphazwa ebomini bomntu.
   Umntu kusenokufuneka akhulise ukuzithemba aze akwazi ukuzimela kwiimeko ezinzima.
4.  Ukubona isela ephupheni ngamanye amaxesha kubonisa ukuba umntu uva ubunzima okanye ixhala ebomini bakhe.
   Iphupha linokukhumbuza umntu ngokubaluleka kokhuseleko kunye nokukhuselwa komntu kunye nemfuneko yokuqhubela phambili ekuzimele.
5.  Iphupha ngokubona isela lisenokubonisa iimvakalelo zomntu zokunganqabiseki okanye ukungazithembi kwimekobume engqongileyo.
   Umntu kufuneka ahlaziye ubudlelwane boluntu kwaye avume abantu abajonga ukuba bathembekile kwaye banokuthenjwa.

Baleka kwisela ephupheni

1.  Ukuphupha ubaleka isela kunokufuzisela iimvakalelo zokuxhalaba okanye uxinzelelo lwemihla ngemihla ebomini bakho.
   Ungaziva ngathi uzama ukubaleka uxanduva lwakho lwangoku okanye iingxaki.
2.  Iphupha lokubaleka kwisela linokuba luphawu lomnqweno wakho wokukhululeka kwimiqobo okanye imiqobo ethile ebomini bakho.
   Unokuziva ngathi ingxaki okanye ubudlelwane buthintela inkululeko yakho kwaye kukubangela ukuba uzive uvalelwe.
3.  Ukuphupha ubaleka isela kusenokuba bubungqina bemvakalelo yentshutshiso okanye ukungabikho kokusesikweni ebomini bakho.
   Kusenokubakho umntu okanye iimeko ezikwenza uzive ngathi wohluthwa amalungelo akho okanye woniwa, kwaye ufuna ukubaleka kuloo meko.
4.  Iphupha malunga nokuphunyuka kwisela lingabonisa umnqweno wokuziphuhlisa kunye nokukhula komntu.
   Unokuziva ngathi uzama ukubaleka kwindlela ethile yokuphila okanye indlela yokuziphatha engalunganga, kwaye ufune ukuziphucula kwaye ufikelele kumanqaku angcono ebomini bakho.
5.  Ukuphupha ubaleka isela kunokunxulunyaniswa noloyiko okanye amathandabuzo ebomini bakho.
   Qaphela ukuba uziva ungakhuselekanga okanye ujongene nazo naziphi na izoyikiso kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
   Iphupha linokuba sisilumkiso sokuba uqaphele ngakumbi kwaye uqaphele xa ujongene neengxaki.

Umbono Isela ephupheni Kwabatshatileyo

Ukubona isela ephupheni kunokufanekisela inkxalabo yomfazi otshatileyo malunga nokhuseleko lwentsapho yakhe kunye nepropati.
Lo mbono unokuba sisikhumbuzo kuye ngesidingo sokunikela ingqalelo enkulu kukhuseleko lwasekhaya kunye nokugcina imali kakuhle.

Enye inkcazo yokubona isela ephupheni inokukrokra ngokungathembeki komyeni wakhe.
Lo mbono unokubonakalisa ukungathembani okanye ukuthandabuza kwingqibelelo yolwalamano lomtshato.
Kule meko, kunokuba luncedo ukuthetha neqabane lakho kwaye nixoxe ngexhala elikhulayo ukufikelela kwizisombululo eziqhelekileyo kunye nokuqonda.

Ukubona isela ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo kubonisa uxinzelelo lwentlalo kunye nokulindela okubekwe kuye.
Wambi amabhinqa asenokuziva ecinezelekile phantsi kweengcinezelo zasekhaya nezomsebenzi womsebenzi, yaye ukubona isela ephupheni kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yezi ngcinezelo neemvakalelo ezityhafisayo.

Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo lixakeke ngokuphumelela kwesela ephupheni, oku kunokubonisa ukunqanda ukufikelela kwiinjongo zomntu okanye ukuvakalelwa ngenxa yokuvela kweemeko eziphazamisayo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha lesela endlini kuba single

1.  Iphupha malunga nesela endlwini lingabonisa ukuba umfazi ongatshatanga unenkxalabo malunga nokhuseleko lwakhe kunye nokhuseleko ekhaya.
   Umntu usenokuziva elilolo yaye engakwazi ukuzikhusela.
   Oku kunokuba sisikhumbuzo kumfazi ongatshatanga ngokubaluleka kokuthatha amanyathelo okhuseleko olongezelelweyo kunye nokuqinisa ukhuseleko ekhaya.
2.  Ngomfazi ongatshatanga, iphupha malunga nesela endlwini lingabonakalisa ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa ukulawula imicimbi yakhe yobuqu.
   Eli phupha lisenokubonakalisa ixhala lokuphulukana nokuzimela okanye inkululeko yokuzenzela izigqibo.
   Iphupha lisenokukhuthaza umfazi ongatshatanga ukuba aphuhlise ubuntu obunamandla kwaye buphumelele ngakumbi ebomini bakhe.
3. Ukuphupha ngesela endlwini kusenokubonisa imvakalelo yentshutshiso okanye ubunzima kubomi bomfazi ongatshatanga.
   Ibhinqa elingatshatanga linokuba nemithwalo ebalulekileyo emenza azive ecinezelekile okanye engakwazi ukushukuma okanye ukukhula.
   Eli phupha lingabonakalisa isidingo sokukhulula imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla kwaye uphumle ukuze ukhulule uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo olukhoyo ebomini.
4.  Iphupha malunga nesela endlwini yowesifazane ongatshatanga linokuba bubungqina besidingo sokufumana indlela yokuphumla okanye ukuphazamisa imiba yobomi bemihla ngemihla.
   Eli phupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kumfazi ongatshatanga ngokubaluleka kokuzinyamekela kunye nokuqondisa ingqalelo kwimisebenzi ejoliswe ekufezekiseni induduzo kunye nokulinganisela kwengqondo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nesela elingena endlwini kumfazi otshatileyo

1. Iphupha malunga nesela elingena endlwini lingabonakala libonisa ukuxhalaba rhoqo kunye noloyiko lokuba izenzo zobundlobongela okanye ubusela ziya kwenzeka ebomini bakho bemihla ngemihla, ngakumbi ukuba uhlala kwindawo engakhuselekanga.
   Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lwemfuneko yokuqinisa amanyathelo okhuseleko kunye nokwazisa ngokhuseleko lomntu.
2.  Iphupha malunga nesela lingabonakalisa imvakalelo yowesifazane yokungakhuselekanga kubudlelwane bomtshato, kunye nokwesaba ukukhohlisa okanye ukungcatsha.
   Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokuba kukho iingxaki zokuthembela kunye nonxibelelwano phakathi kwakho kunye neqabane lakho lobomi, kwaye kunokuba kufanelekile ukuphonononga kwaye uxoxe ngezi ngxaki ukuze ufumane izisombululo kuzo.
3. Ukuphupha ngesela kusenokubonakalisa iimvakalelo zokungabi nakuzinceda nokulahlekelwa kukulawula ubomi bakho bobuqu nobungcali.
   Eli phupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo sesidingo sokuphinda ulawule ubomi bakho kwaye wenze izigqibo eziyimfuneko ukuze ufezekise impumelelo kunye nokwaneliseka kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo.
4. Iphupha elimalunga nesela elingena endlwini lingabonakalisa uxinzelelo lwengqondo kunye noxinzelelo olufumanayo.
   Eli phupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokunciphisa uxinzelelo ngokwenza umthambo okanye ukuzibandakanya kwizinto zokuzonwabisa ezinceda ukuphumla.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomntu ozama ukungena endlwini kumfazi otshatileyo

Kumfazi otshatileyo, iphupha malunga nomntu ozama ukungena endlwini lingabonisa umnqweno wakho wokungena kubomi bomtshato obonwabileyo nozinzile.
Iphupha lisenokubonisa ukuba ufuna ukuba nobudlelwane nomntu omthandayo okanye ukuba ukulungele ukutshata kwaye uqale usapho lwakho.

Kumfazi otshatileyo, iphupha malunga nomntu ozama ukungena endlwini linokuba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno wakho wokutshintsha kunye ne-adventure.
Mhlawumbi uziva ngathi kukho into engekhoyo ebomini bakho kwaye kufuneka uzame ukuyifumana kwaye ube namava kuyo.

Iphupha lingabonakalisa kwakhona imfuno engxamisekileyo yokhuseleko kunye nokuzinza ebomini bakho.
Mhlawumbi ucinezelekile okanye uziva ungaqinisekanga kwimeko ethile, kwaye eli phupha likukhumbuza ngokubaluleka kokuba nesiseko esiqinileyo ebomini bakho.

Iphupha lomfazi otshatileyo lomntu ozama ukungena endlwini linokuhambelana nokuxhalaba kunye nokwesaba umona kunye nokungcatsha.
Unokuziva usongelwa yimeko yakho yangoku yeemvakalelo okanye uxhalabile malunga nokuthembela kweqabane lakho kuwe.
Kufuneka kugxininiswe ukuba eli phupha alibonakalisi ubunyani bakho bokwenyani.

Mhlawumbi kumfazi otshatileyo, ukubona umntu ezama ukungena endlwini kufanekisela enye into ebomini bakho.
Inokubonisa ithuba elitsha elivela kuwe kwaye uzama ukuphonononga, kodwa ucango oluvaliweyo lufanekisela imiqobo ekuthintela ukuba ulifumane eli thuba.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomntu ozama ukungena endlwini kubafazi abangatshatanga

1. Iphupha lokubona umntu ezama ukungena kwindlu yomfazi ongatshatanga lingabonakalisa umnqweno womntu wokusondela kumntu othile ebomini bakhe.
   Oku kungabonisa ukuba umntu ufuna ukwakha ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kunye nomfazi ongatshatanga okhankanywe ephupheni, nokuba ubonisa umhlobo omdala okanye umthandi onokuthi uphumelele.
2. Eli phupha lingabonakalisa isithukuthezi kunye nomnqweno wokuba neqabane lobomi.
   Umntu ozama ukungena endlwini unokuba ngumqondiso weqabane elinokuthi umntu azive efunwa.
3. Eli phupha ngamanye amaxesha lingabonisa uloyiko lokuzibophelela okanye ukuzibophelela.
   Umntu obanjwe emva komnyango unokuba ngumqondiso wokuzibophelela okufuna ukungena ebomini bomntu, kwaye eli phupha lingabonakala xa umntu engekakulungeli ukubandakanya ubudlelwane obunzulu beemvakalelo.
4. Ukuba eli phupha livela kumntu obuyela ekhaya ngempumelelo, kunokuba yinkuthazo kumntu ukuba usendleleni efanelekileyo ekufezekiseni iinjongo zakhe zobuqu okanye zobungcali.
   Ukujonga emva ekhaya kusenokumela ukufudukela kwinqanaba elitsha ebomini okanye ukuphumeza into ebalulekileyo.
5. Ukongezelela, kufuneka sithathele ingqalelo imeko yeemvakalelo zomntu xa sitolika iphupha.
   Umntu ovaleleke emva kocango usenokuba ubonakalisa iimvakalelo ezingakhiyo eziqokelelweyo kunye nokuxinezeleka ngokweemvakalelo ibhinqa elingatshatanga elinokujamelana nalo.