Izitshixo ukutolika iphupha
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo ziindaba ezilungileyo ephupheni.
Ukubona izitshixo ephupheni kubonisa indlela yokuphila kunye nobomi obutsha obuza kuqala umphuphi.
Ukuba umntu ubona iqela elikhulu lezitshixo esandleni sakhe, oku kubonisa izinto ezintle.
Isitshixo ephupheni sivakalisa ulawulo, amandla, ukuphakama, kunye namalungelo anikwe lowo uphuphayo.
Isitshixo sikwamele iwonga, isikhundla esibekekileyo, ukugada abanye, kunye neziqalo ezintsha.
Yaye umphengululi obekekileyo uIbn Sirin wabona ukuba isitshixo ephupheni sibonisa ukuba umntu owaphuphayo unokuthenjwa, uyakwazi ukuzikhusela, yaye unamandla okuthwala uxanduva.
Isitshixo ephupheni sikwafuzisela ukutya, uncedo, nokuvula umnyango wolwazi.
Ukuba umntu ubona iqela elikhulu lezitshixo esandleni sakhe, lo mbono usenokubonisa ukuqonda nokuqonda imibandela emininzi neyahlukahlukeneyo.
Xa amaphupha angatshatanga bIsitshixo ephupheni Yayakhiwe ngentsimbi, ngoko ke oku kubonisa ukuba umntu uya kumcenga aze abe ngoyena mntu ulungileyo kuye! Unokumnika ulonwabo kwaye abe yindoda elungileyo kunye naye.
U-Ibn Sirin uthi ukubona isitshixo ephupheni kuneentsingiselo ezininzi, kwaye ngokubanzi, isitshixo ephupheni sifanekisela ukuzingca, udumo, igunya, inhlanhla, kunye nokuphila okuninzi.
Ukutolikwa kokubona isitshixo ephupheni ngokubanzi kubonisa ubuninzi bokuphila, ukukhululeka okukufutshane, ukulunga okuninzi, intsikelelo kwizenzo, impumelelo ehlala ihleli, kunye nenhlanhla eyonwabelayo umphuphi.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo ze-Ibn Sirin
Ukutolikwa kwephupha lezitshixo ngu-Ibn Sirin kuthathwa njengenye yeenkcazo ezikhuthazayo nezithembisayo, njengoko zibonisa ukutya okuninzi, ukukhululeka okusondeleyo kunye nentsikelelo kwishishini.
Ukubona isitshixo ephupheni kunokuba ngumqondiso wenkqubela phambili yomphuphi kwisayensi nolwazi, kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukunqoba imiqobo kunye nokusombulula iingxaki.
Lo mbono ukwabubungqina bamathuba amatsha aya kufumaneka kumntu kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukuqhubela phambili kunye nokuphumelela impumelelo.
Ukuba izitshixo ezandleni zomntu zibonwa ngobuninzi, ngoko oku kunokuba ngumqondiso wokuphila obuninzi kunye nempumelelo enkulu.
Oku kusenokubonisa ukuqala kobomi obutsha obunesitayile esahlukileyo kwaye bugcwele utshintsho oluhle.
Njenggokuba injalo Ukubona izitshixo ephupheni Isalathisi sokukwazi komntu ukunika uncedo ngokwenene kunye nokwandisa isandla sokunceda kwabanye.
Ukubona isitshixo ephupheni luphawu lwamandla kunye negunya, njengoko lifanekisela ukungakhuseleki, ilungelo, iminqophiso, inkolo kunye nehlabathi.
Lo mbono unokuphinda ubonise ukuqala kwexesha elitsha lokunqoba kunye nokuphumelela ukunqoba ebomini.
Izitshixo zikwafuzisela ukuvula iingcango ezivaliweyo kunye nokoyisa ubunzima.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha lezitshixo ngu-Ibn Sirin luphawu lwamandla kunye nenhlanhla, njengoko kubonisa ukuba umntu ophuphayo unokwethenjelwa kwaye unokuzikhusela kwaye athwale uxanduva.
Oku kutolikwa kusenokuba luphawu lokuvula imiba enzima, ukususa amaxhala kunye neengxaki, kwaye umntu afumane oko akunqwenelayo kwaye afezekise iinjongo zakhe.
Le ngcaciso ikwabonisa ukufumana ulwazi kunye nesikhokelo ebomini.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo zabasetyhini abangatshatanga
Iphupha malunga nezitshixo zabasetyhini abangatshatanga luphawu lotshintsho kunye namathuba amatsha ebomini bakhe.
Ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga libona isitshixo ephupheni lakhe, utshintsho oluhle lunokwenzeka ebomini bakhe.
Ibhinqa elingatshatanga linokufumana impumelelo kumsebenzi walo nakwinkqubela phambili kwizifundo zalo, okanye lisenokubona isithuba kulwalamano lwalo lobuqu lize likulungele ukwamkela uthando oluvela kumntu olungileyo.
Ukuba isitshixo esabonwa ngumfazi ongatshatanga senziwe ngentsimbi, oko kunokufuzisela inkqubela yomntu ekuzibandakanyeni kwakhe.
Lo mntu unokuba liqabane elifanelekileyo kuye kwaye unokumnika ulonwabo, ubutyebi kunye nokuzinza ebomini.
Kwaye ukuba umfazi ongatshatanga ubona izitshixo ezininzi ephupheni lakhe, oku kuthetha amanye amathuba amahle anokuthi eze kuye.
Oku kunokubonisa ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga liya kufumana amathuba okutshata, okanye liya kudibana nabantu abaliqela abanokuba ngamaqabane akhe obomi.
Iphupha lomfazi ongatshatanga lezitshixo libonisa utshintsho ebomini bakhe kunye nokuvulwa kweengcango ezintsha kumathuba kunye namava.
Ingabonakalisa impumelelo kunye nenkqubela phambili emsebenzini okanye kubudlelwane bomntu.
Ngamanye amaxesha, kunokubonisa ukungena kwinqanaba elitsha ebomini, elifana nomtshato okanye umtshato.
Izitshixo zentsimbi ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga
Ukubona izitshixo zentsimbi ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga ngumbono onomxholo okhuthazayo kunye nokukhuthazayo.
Xa ibhinqa elingatshatanga liphupha isitshixo sentsimbi, oku kunokuba luphawu lwenkqubela phambili yomntu ofuna ukumcebisa kwaye athathe inyathelo elibalulekileyo kubudlelwane babo.
Eli phupha libhekwa njengophawu lwethuba lomtshato elisondelayo kunye nokufezekiswa kobomi bomtshato obuzinzile kunye nolonwabo.
Nangona kunjalo, iphupha malunga nesitshixo sentsimbi lingabonisa kwakhona ukuba kukho umdla omkhulu kumlingani wakhe okanye umthandi.
Iqabane linokuthi libandezeleke kuxinzelelo kunye nemeko yengqondo embi ngeli xesha, kwaye unqwenela ubukho bomntu othandekayo ecaleni kwakhe ukuze azive inkxaso kunye nentuthuzelo.
Ngoko ke, ibhinqa elingatshatanga limele lilumke yaye libe nomdla kwiqabane lalo lobomi, limxhase kwiingxaki zalo, yaye aliqonde yaye alixhase kwiimeko ezinzima.
Ukubona isitshixo esitsha sentsimbi ephupheni ngumbono okhuthazayo noncomekayo, njengoko uxela kwangaphambili ukuza kokulunga kunye namathuba amatsha.
Ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga liyalibona eli phupha, linokuba sisimemo sokufumana amathuba amatsha kunye nokuzuza kuwo ebomini bakhe.
Ukubona izitshixo zentsimbi ephupheni kumfazi ongatshatanga luphawu lwenkqubela phambili yeemvakalelo kunye neyomntu, kwaye ibonisa ukufika kwexesha elonwabileyo elizele luvuyo kunye nolonwabo ebomini bakhe.
Ibhinqa elingatshatanga limele lisebenzise eli xesha ukuze lilungiselele umtshato lize licinge ngekamva lalo elingokweemvakalelo, liqinisekile ukuba kuza ukulunga nokuba lisendleleni eya kubomi obutsha nobukhethekileyo.
Izitshixo ezintathu ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga
Xa ibhinqa elingatshatanga libona izitshixo ezintathu ephupheni lakhe, oku kuthathwa njengophawu oluhle olubonisa ukufika kokulungileyo kuye kunye nokuphila okukhulu okumlindileyo ebomini bakhe.
Oku kusenokuthetha ukuba uya kufumana izinto ezintathu ezixabiseke kakhulu kuye.
Lo mbono usenokuba bubungqina bobomi obutsha obumlindileyo.Usenokugqwesa ezifundweni zakhe, afumane irenki ephezulu, kwaye angaphumelela kwicandelo lakhe lomsebenzi.
Ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga libona umntu emnika isitshixo ephupheni, oku kungabonakalisa ubuninzi bokulunga kunye nenhlanhla eya kuyifumana kwiintsuku ezizayo.
Ukuba umfazi ongatshatanga ubona izitshixo ezininzi ephupheni lakhe, oko kubonisa imithombo emininzi yokuphila eya kuvula phambi kwakhe kwixesha elizayo.
Lo mbono luphawu oluhle lokuba umfazi ongatshatanga uya kukwazi ukufezekisa amaphupha akhe amaninzi kanye.
Ukuba umntu oleleyo ubona izitshixo ezithathu ephupheni lakhe, oku kusenokuba luphawu lokuphumeza izinto ezininzi namabhongo anqwenela ukuwaphumeza.
Xa enika isitshixo ephupheni kumfazi ongatshatanga, oku kunokuthetha ukuba unika intliziyo yakhe, ithemba, kunye nothando olupheleleyo kumntu.
Noko ke, kunokumxabisa kakhulu ukuba akaqinisekanga ngeemvakalelo zalo mntu ngakuye.
Ukunika isitshixo kumfazi ongatshatanga ephupheni kubonisa ukulunga okukhulu kunye nobutyebi obuya kufumana ngokukhawuleza kumthombo osemthethweni njengeshishini eliphumelelayo okanye ilifa eliya kutshintsha ubomi bakhe.
Ngoko ke, kunokuthiwa ukubona izitshixo ezintathu ephupheni kumfazi ongatshatanga kuthetha ukufika kwexesha elihle kunye nempumelelo kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi bakhe.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo zomfazi otshatileyo
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo zomfazi otshatileyo kubonisa iimpawu ezintle zokuphucula imeko yakhe kunye nokukhululwa kweenkxalabo zakhe kunye nokukhathazeka.
Iphupha lokunika izitshixo kumfazi otshatileyo libhekwa njengesimboli sokutshintsha kunye nokuphuculwa kweemeko ebomini bakhe.
Ukubona isitshixo semoto ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo kuthathwa njengombono oncomekayo kwaye ubonisa ukufezekisa iinjongo kunye namabhongo ebomini.
Kukwathetha ukuba inenekazi liya kuba nenye into entsha, njengendlu okanye imoto.
Kumfazi ongatshatanga okanye intombazana engatshatanga, ukubona isitshixo ephupheni luphawu lomtshato okanye ukufudukela kwikhaya elitsha kunye nokungena kwinqanaba elitsha ebomini bakhe.
Ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin, ukubonakala kwesitshixo ephupheni kubonisa indlela yokuphila eyaneleyo yowesifazane, kwaye kunokuthetha ukulahla iintshaba kunye neemeko ezimbi.
Kwakhona, umguquleli ohloniphekileyo u-Ibn Sirin ucinga ukuba isitshixo ephupheni sibhekisela ekuququzeleleni ubunzima kunye nokunciphisa iingxaki kunye neengxaki.
Ukuba umphuphi ufumana isitshixo ephupheni, luphawu lwenyani yokufezekisa iminqweno yakhe kunye nokufezekisa impumelelo kunye nempumelelo ebomini bakhe.
Ukubona isitshixo somfazi otshatileyo kuthetha ukuba izinto ziya kusonjululwa kwaye ziququzelelwe, iingxabano ziya kusingathwa ngempumelelo, kwaye uya kunandipha uxolo lwengqondo kwaye afumane ubomi obuhle, ngelixa ekhulula amaxhala awahlukeneyo anokujamelana nawo ebomini bakhe.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo ezininzi zomfazi otshatileyo
Ukubona izitshixo ezininzi kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo kubonisa ukuzinza kwentsapho kunye nobudlelwane obuqinileyo bentsapho ayithandayo.
Lo mbono usenokufuzisela ukoyisa imiqobo kunye nokukwazi ukoyisa iingxaki.
Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ephethe izitshixo ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba ubomi bakhe buya kutshintsha bube ngcono kwaye uya kufumana intuthuzelo nolonwabo.
Lo mbono usenokuba luphawu lokuzuza impumelelo enkulu kunye nokwanda kwendlela yokuphila.
Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona isitshixo ephupheni, oku kunokuthetha ukungena kwento entsha ebomini bakhe, njengendlu entsha okanye imoto.
Ukuba esi sitshixo sinikwe ngumyeni wakhe, kuthetha ukuba uya kunqoba ubunzima ngokulula kwaye afumane uxolo nokuzinza.
Kukwalungile ukubona isitshixo segolide, njengoko sibonisa indlela yokuziphilisa kunye nobutyebi.
Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona izitshixo ezintathu ephupheni, oku kungabonakalisa iimpawu zakhe ezintle kunye nokucoceka kwebhedi yakhe.
Unokufumana amathamsanqa ngakumbi kwaye uhlonelwe ngakumbi emehlweni abanye.
Ukuchazwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo ezininzi zomfazi otshatileyo kubonisa ukuzinza kwentsapho kunye nobudlelwane obuhle nomyeni.
Lo mbono uthetha ukuba unandipha ubomi bomtshato obuzinzileyo, ebulela uThixo uSomandla.
Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ephethe isitshixo ephupheni, ngoko oku kufanekisela imali kunye nentlonipho.
Ukuba uzibona ebambe isitshixo ngokuqinileyo, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuziva ekhululekile kwaye eqinisekisiwe ngokwasengqondweni.
Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo lizibona linikela isitshixo komnye umntu, lifanele liqonde ukuba lilindelwe kukulunga nethamsanqa yaye liya kuphila ubomi obuzaliswe lulonwabo nolwaneliseko.
Ukubona izitshixo ezininzi kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo kuqikelela ukuzinza kunye nempumelelo kubomi bentsapho, kwaye kunokuba luphawu lwempumelelo kunye nobutyebi.
Lo mbono unika ithemba kwaye wenza umfazi otshatileyo aqiniseke ukuba ubomi bakhe buya kuba mnandi kwaye buphumelele.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo kumfazi okhulelweyo
Iphupha malunga nezitshixo zowesifazane okhulelweyo ngenye yamaphupha aphethe iintsingiselo ezikhethekileyo kunye nesimboli esinamandla.
Kumfazi okhulelweyo, ukubona izitshixo ephupheni kubonisa ukukhululeka kunye nokukhululeka ebomini bakhe obulandelayo.
Ukongeza, lo mbono ukwathetha ithuba lokuba umfazi okhulelweyo anqobe ubunzima kwaye afezekise impumelelo kwiiprojekthi kunye neenjongo zakhe.
Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona isitshixo ephupheni lakhe, kwaye unika umntu, oku kungabonisa impumelelo yakhe ekuzaleni umntwana ophilileyo.
Eli phupha linokuba bubungqina bokwenza kube lula ukuzalwa komntwana wakhe oyindoda, ngenceba kaThixo uSomandla.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ulahlekelwe isitshixo ephupheni lakhe, oku kungabonisa ukuba kukho imiqobo kunye nemingeni ekufuneka abhekane nayo ebomini bakhe.
Kubalulekile ukuba alumke kwaye azimisele ukoyisa obu bunzima kwaye afezekise iinjongo zakhe.
Ngaphezu koko, ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ufumana i-keychain ephupheni lakhe, oku kungabonakalisa ukufezekisa ukulinganisela kwengqondo kunye nokuzinza ebomini bakhe.
Usenokukwazi ukuzalisekisa iimbopheleleko zakhe aze alungelelanise ubomi bakhe bentsapho nemisebenzi yakhe yemihla ngemihla ngempumelelo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo zomfazi oqhawule umtshato
Ukubona izitshixo kwiphupha eliqhawule umtshato liphethe iintsingiselo ezahlukeneyo kunye nokutolika, kwaye luphawu lokutshintsha kunye nokuguqulwa ebomini bakhe.
Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona izitshixo ephupheni, oku kungabonakalisa ukuqala kwesahluko esitsha ebomini bakhe, kunye nokulahla ubunzima kunye neengxaki awayeziphethe.
Ukubonakala kwesitshixo ephupheni kungabonakalisa kwakhona ukoyisa imiqobo kunye nemingeni ojongene nayo kwaye uqhubele phambili ngokuzithemba kunye nethemba.
Ukubona izitshixo ephupheni kunokubonisa ukuba kukho amathuba amahle alindele umfazi oqhawule umtshato kwixesha elizayo, kwaye banokubamba izitshixo zempumelelo kunye nempumelelo ezayo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo zendoda
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo zendoda kubonisa amathuba amatsha kunye nokukwazi komntu ukuxazulula iingxaki kunye nokunqoba imiqobo.
Ukuba umntu ubona isitshixo ephupheni lakhe, oku kungabonakalisa ubomi obutsha obumlindileyo kunye nokuqala kobomi obutsha abuqalayo ngoku.
Ukuba indoda ibona iqela elikhulu lezitshixo esandleni sakhe, oku kunokuvakalisa ukufika kokulungileyo kunye nokutya okuninzi, kwaye kunokubonisa ukuphela koxinzelelo kunye nokukhathazeka.
Ubukho besitshixo ephupheni lomntu bunokubonisa ulawulo, amandla, ukuphakama kunye namalungelo awathandayo.
Isenokufuzisela iwonga elibekekileyo kunye nesikhundla esibekekileyo asinandiphayo umntu.
Ukubona izitshixo ephupheni kumntu kunokubonisa ukuqala kweeprojekthi zoshishino apho uya kufezekisa iimpumelelo ezininzi kunye neenzuzo.
Kwimeko apho umntu elahlekelwa sisitshixo ephupheni lakhe, oku kungabonakalisa ukutya okuninzi, ukukhululeka okusondeleyo, ubuninzi bokulunga kunye nentsikelelo kwishishini lakhe, inhlanhla kunye nenhlanhla.
Xa ibhinqa elingatshatanga liphupha isitshixo ephupheni lakhe kwaye lenziwe ngentsimbi, oku kunokufanekisela ukuba umntu uphakamisa kuye kwaye ammisele kubomi bomtshato obonwabileyo, kunye nendoda eya kuba nentsikelelo yeqabane.
Kwindoda, ukubona isitshixo ephupheni kunokuba bubungqina bokunyuswa emsebenzini kunye nokufezekiswa kwezikhundla eziphezulu kunye noxanduva.
Ingabubungqina bempumelelo yakhe kunye nenkqubela phambili kwinkalo yakhe yobungcali, kunye nokufezekiswa kwawo onke amabhongo akhe kunye neenjongo zobungcali.
Izitshixo zemoto ephupheni
Xa umntu ebona isitshixo semoto ephupheni lakhe, oku kubonisa ukukwazi kwakhe ukufezekisa iinjongo kunye nenkqubela phambili ebomini bakhe obusebenzayo kunye nobuqu.
Ukuze afumane isitshixo semoto ephupheni kubonakalisa umnqweno wakhe wokufumana impumelelo ethe kratya kunye nokuqinisekisa amaphupha akhe.
Eli phupha linokuba ngumqondiso wokulambela komntu isayensi nokufunda, kunye nomnqweno wakhe wokuhlola izinto ezintsha kunye namava amatsha ebomini.
Uvakalisa umnqweno wakhe wokufumana awona mathuba angcono kunye namava aya kumnceda ukuba aphuhlise kwaye akhule kwindawo yakhe yomsebenzi kunye nobomi bakhe bobuqu.
Ekutolikweni kokubona isitshixo semoto ephupheni, abaphengululi bephupha lokutolika bajonga ubungqina bokuba umntu kufuneka alawule imicimbi kunye nokulinganisela ebomini bakhe.
Ukufumana isitshixo semoto kunokuba luphawu lokutya okwaneleyo, ukulunga kunye neentsikelelo.
Oku kubonisa ukuba umntu uya kufumana umsebenzi obalaseleyo oya kumzisela ubutyebi.
Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokufumana amathuba amatsha ebomini kunye nokuzuza impumelelo kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo.
Kwintombazana engatshatanga, ukubona izitshixo zemoto ephupheni lakhe kubonisa ubunyulu nobunyulu.
Uthwala iinqobo zenkolo kwaye wenza imithandazo ngexesha.
Lo mbono unokuba luphawu lweendlela ezilula kunye neendlela aya kuzithatha ukuphumeza iinjongo zakhe ngokulula.
Ukubona isitshixo semoto ephupheni kubonisa ukunqoba iintshaba kunye noshintsho olungcono ebomini.
Luphawu lokwandiswa kwenkxaso nentsikelelo, nendlela yokukhululwa kwiingxaki namaxhala anokujamelana nawo umntu.
Ukubona isitshixo semoto ephupheni kuthathwa njengophawu oluhle kumanqanaba omntu kunye neengcali, okwenza umntu azive enethemba kwaye enethemba ngekamva.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo ezininzi
Ukubona izitshixo ezininzi ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba umntu ophuphayo uya kukwazi ukufumana imali eninzi ngomsebenzi wakhe onzima nokhutheleyo.
Eli phupha linokuba yiindaba ezilungileyo kumphuphi ukuba uya kuzuza impumelelo yezemali kwaye afezekise iminqweno yakhe yezinto eziphathekayo.
Ukongeza, iphupha lezitshixo ezininzi linokubhekisa kulowo uphuphayo afumane ilifa elikhulu okanye azuze kwithuba elibalulekileyo lemali elinokuza kuye ebomini bakhe.
Eli phupha lingabonisa umntu ophuphayo ukufumana imithombo eyongezelelweyo yengeniso okanye ithamsanqa ekujonganeni nemicimbi yezemali.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo kukwaluphawu lokuziphilisa kunye nobomi obutsha abuqalayo umphuphi.
Ukubona isitshixo ephupheni kunokubonisa amathuba amatsha aya kufumaneka kumntu ophuphayo kunye nokukwazi ukuxazulula iingxaki kunye nokunqoba imiqobo.
Ukuphupha malunga nesitshixo kungabonisa nokungena kubomi obutsha kunye nomphuphi ofudukela kwinqanaba elitsha lokukhula kwakhe kunye nokuqinisekiswa kweminqweno yakhe.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iphupha malunga nezitshixo ezininzi zingabonisa ulwazi, uncedo, uncedo, ukungena kubomi obutsha, okanye ubukho beentlola.
Le ngcaciso inokusekelwe kwiinkcukacha zephupha kunye nemeko yomphuphi kunye nesikhundla ebomini.
Umphuphi unokufumana umyalezo othile ngokubona izitshixo ezininzi ephupheni lakhe, kwaye unokufuneka anikele ingqalelo kuzo naziphi na iinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo okanye iintsingiselo ezinokuthi zihambelane neli phupha.
Ukuba umphuphi ubona iqela elikhulu lezitshixo esandleni sakhe, kunokuvakalisa ukuba uya kuphumelela kakhulu kwaye afezekise ithemba lakhe ngekamva.
Kodwa ukuba umphuphi ubona izitshixo ezininzi ephupheni lakhe, lo mbono unokuba ngumqondiso wokuzinza apho ahlala khona kwaye uhlala kwintsapho egcwele intshiseko kunye nokuzola.
Izitshixo ezininzi kwiphupha lentombazana engatshatanga zibonisa ukuba iimeko zakhe ziya kuphucula kwaye utshintsho oluninzi oluhle luya kwenzeka kwixesha elizayo lobomi bakhe, uThixo ethanda.
KwiNtombikazi, ukuchazwa kwephupha lezitshixo zentsimbi kunokuba luphawu lokuba uya kufumana iintsikelelo ezininzi kunye nesondlo, kwaye uThixo unokumnika iintsikelelo ezahlukeneyo, ngoko ke kufuneka alungiselele utshintsho oluhle kunye namathuba azayo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo ezininzi kunokuba luphawu lokuqonda kwengqondo, ukuziphuhlisa kunye nokukhula.
Eli phupha linxulunyaniswa nokukwazi ukwandisa i-horizons, ukuvula iingcango ezivaliweyo, kunye nokusebenzisa amathuba akhoyo.
Ukuphupha malunga nezitshixo ezininzi kunokuba sisikhumbuzo kumphuphi ukuba unako ukufezekisa iinjongo kunye namaphupha akhe, kwaye kufuneka asebenzise olu lwazi kunye nobuchule obukhulu anabo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo zendlu
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezitshixo zendlu ngenye yamaphupha aphethe isimboli esinamandla kwihlabathi lokutolika.
Xa umntu ebona isitshixo sendlu yakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukubaluleka kokugcina ubumfihlo bendlu kwaye ungavumeli ukuba iimfihlo zendlu zibonakaliswe ngaphandle.
Oku kusenokuba sisikhumbuzo kuloo mntu ukuba agcine imicimbi yentsapho yakhe iyimfihlo aze ayikhusele emehlweni omntu.
Ukuba umntu ubona iqela elikhulu lezitshixo esandleni sakhe, oku kubonisa ixesha elihle elizayo ebomini bakhe.
Eli xesha linokuba lizele ngamathuba amatsha kunye neempumelelo ezibalulekileyo.
Ukongezelela, lo mbono unokwenza ubani azive ezinzile yaye enqabisekile kubomi bakhe.
Kwaye xa kwenzeka ukuba umphuphi wayengatshatanga, kwaye wabona isitshixo ephupheni lakhe, ngoko isitshixo kulo mzekelo sibonisa ukufezekiswa komtshato kunye nokungena kubomi bomtshato.
Kulo mongo, isitshixo sifanekisela umfazi olungileyo kunye ne-acumen ekulawuleni iingxaki, ukufezekisa uzinzo kunye nokusombulula iiyantlukwano.
Ukubona isitshixo kukwabonisa umnqweno onzulu wokufumana iqabane elifanelekileyo nokuseka ubomi bomtshato obonwabisayo.
Ukongeza, umntu unokuzibona evula umnyango wendlu ngesitshixo ephupheni.
Kule meko, olu luphawu lokoyisa kwakhe iintshaba kunye nobunzima obuthintela inkqubela yakhe ebomini.
Oku kungabonakalisa amandla akhe okoyisa ubunzima kunye nokuphumelela impumelelo kunye noloyiso xa ejongene nemingeni.
Kwimeko apho umfazi ongatshatanga uzibona ephethe isitshixo sendlu ephupheni, oku kunokuthathwa njengophawu lomtshato osemnyango ebomini bakhe.
Lo mbono unokufanekisela ukufika komntu osondeleyo kuye oba liqabane ebomini.
Ibonisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuqala usapho kunye nokwakha ikamva elitsha nomntu ofanelekileyo.
Ukubona isitshixo ephupheni kugqalwa njengembonakaliso yekratshi, iwonga, igunya, ithamsanqa nokuba nentabalala yokuphila.
Ukuba umlingiswa ubona isitshixo embundwini wendlu ephupheni, oku kunokuthathwa njengophawu lokufudukela kwakhe kwikhaya elitsha.
Ukuba ubona isitshixo esitratweni, oku kunokuba bubungqina bokuthenga imoto entsha.
Umntu undinike izitshixo ephupheni
Ekuboneni umntu onika amabhinqa angatshatanga izitshixo ephupheni, lo mbono uthwala iintsingiselo ezintle kunye noqikelelo olunokuthi lubonise ukufezekiswa kwezinto ezininzi ezintle kwixesha elizayo.
Undoqo apha ufuzisela uloyiso nempumelelo, kwaye unokubonakalisa ukuhlonela komfazi ongatshatanga kunye nokubambelela ngokupheleleyo kwiimfundiso zikaThixo ebomini bakhe.
Umfazi ongatshatanga owenza ngokoyika uThixo ebomini bakhe uya kuba nethamsanqa kwaye uya kuba namathuba amaninzi kwiintsuku ezizayo ukuze afezekise okulungileyo kunye neentsikelelo.
Kukho enye inkcazo yeli phupha, njengoko libonisa ukuba umntu onika umfazi ongatshatanga isitshixo uya kuba ngumncedisi wakhe kwixesha elizayo lobomi bakhe.
Oku kunokuba yindlela yoncedo okanye inkxaso ekuphumezeni iinjongo kunye neminqweno yakhe.
Ukuba umntu ubona isitshixo ephupheni lakhe, oku kuxela kwangaphambili isisombululo sazo zonke iingxaki ebomini bakhe, kunye nokuphucula okuphawulekayo kwimeko yakhe.
Ngokukodwa ukuba isitshixo senziwe ngegolide okanye isilivere, ngoko oku kubonisa impumelelo kunye nobutyebi.
Kodwa ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga linikela isitshixo kumntu elimaziyo neliziva livuya ngoku, oku kubonisa ukuba liya kuphila iintsuku ezizaliswe ziintsikelelo nolonwabo kwixesha elizayo elingekude.
Kwelinye icala, ukubona ukunika izitshixo ephupheni kusenokuthetha imfundo, uncedo, okanye amathuba amatsha afumanekayo umntu.
Kwaye ukuba umntu ubona ukuba unika isitshixo kwindlu yakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukubuyiswa kwenhlanhla yakhe kunye nokwanda kokuphila kwakhe kwiintsuku ezizayo.
Kunokuthiwa ukubona umntu ekunika izitshixo ephupheni kuthwala iintsingiselo ezininzi ezintle, ezinje ngempumelelo, impumelelo, uncedo, kunye namathuba amatsha.
Isitshixo sinokufuzisela ukuzaliseka kwamaphupha kunye neminqweno yomntu, kwaye sinokuxela kwangaphambili isikhundla esiphakamileyo kunye nesikhundla esibalulekileyo oya kusifumana kungekudala.
Umntu kufuneka aqhubeke enamathela kwimigaqo yakhe kwaye alandele imilinganiselo emihle ukuze akwazi ukuzuza ngokupheleleyo kulo mbono kwaye afezekise ukulunga nolonwabo ebomini bakhe.
Fumana izitshixo ephupheni
Umbono wokufumana izitshixo ephupheni ugqalwa njengomnye wemibono eneendaba ezilungileyo nezivuyisayo.
Kulo mongo, izitshixo zifuzisela uncedo, isondlo, kunye nokufikelela usukelo olunqwenelekayo.
Ukuba umphuphi uzibona efumana isitshixo ephupheni lakhe, oko kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana uncedo kunye nesikhokelo ebomini bakhe, kwaye uya kukwazi ukufumana ulwazi oluyimfuneko kunye nolwazi lokuzalisekisa iminqweno yakhe.
Eli phupha likwafanekisela impumelelo yexesha elizayo kunye noloyiso oluya kulindela umntu ophuphayo.
Kulo mongo, ukuba umphuphi ubona isethi enkulu yezitshixo esandleni sakhe, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuba nenkxaso enkulu kunye noncedo kuhambo lwakhe oluya kwimpumelelo kunye nempumelelo.
Yaye ukuba umphuphi ufumanisa ukuba ubambe inani elikhulu lezitshixo esandleni sakhe, oku kubonisa ukuba unokujamelana nemingeni emininzi, kodwa uya kukwazi ukuwoyisa aze aphumelele.
Ukufumana isitshixo ephupheni kunokufuzisela isidingo sokukhangela iimpendulo kwiingxaki ojongene nazo ebomini, kwaye xa isitshixo sifunyenwe, luphawu lokusondela kwizisombululo kunye nenhlanhla ekufumaneni izisombululo ezifanelekileyo.
Ngaphezu koko, ukuba umphuphi uzibona efumana isitshixo emsebenzini, oko kubonisa inhlanhla kunye nempumelelo yobungcali.
Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokufikelela kwiinjongo ezininzi kunye nempumelelo eya kubangelwa kumava akhe afunyenweyo kunye nezakhono.
Ukongeza, ukubona isitshixo kulo mongo kubonisa amandla, amandla, kunye nokukwazi ukutshintsha iimeko zibe ngcono.
Kwimeko apho isitshixo silahlekile kwaye sifunyenwe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba umntu ochaphazelekayo uye wakwazi ukunqoba ubunzima kunye nemingeni ajongene nayo ebomini.
Ukufumana isitshixo ephupheni kunokugqalwa njengophawu lokufumana ukulunga, intabalala yokuphila, kunye nempumelelo yexesha elizayo.
Ukuzibona ufumana izitshixo ephupheni kubonisa uvuyo, intuthuzelo, ukufezekisa iinjongo, kunye nokuqinisekiswa ngokwasengqondweni.
Ngumbono omhle oneendaba ezimnandi kumphuphi wekamva eliqaqambileyo noxolo lwengqondo.
