Ndiphuphe ndizala intombazana ephupheni ku-Ibn Sirin

Ndiphuphe ndibeleka intombazana

1.  Ukuphupha ngokuzala intombazana kunokuthetha ukuba iphupha libandakanya ukubona ubufazi kunye namandla amabhinqa.
   Intombazana ephupheni imele ukukhula, ubuhle, kunye nomtsalane.
2.  Ukuba uphupha ukuba uzala intombazana, oku kunokuba bubungqina bomnqweno wakho wokuba ngumama kwaye ufumane uvuyo loyise.
3. Iphupha lokuzala intombazana linokuthi libe yimbonakaliso yenyani ojongene nayo.
   Ukuba ufuna ukuba nentombazana, lo mnqweno unokuzaliseka kumaphupha akho.
4.  Ukuzala intombazana kuthathwa njengento enqwenelekayo kwaye inqwenelekayo luluntu.
   Ngoko, ukuphupha ngokuzala intombazana kunokulindela ukuhlangabezana nezo zilindelwe zentlalo.
5.  Uvuyo nolonwabo ziimvakalelo ezimbini abazali abanokuba nazo xa intombazana izalwa.
   Ukuphupha ubeleka intombazana kunokubonakalisa iimvakalelo ezinzulu zolonwabo novuyo oluzivayo.

Ndiphuphe ndibeleka intombazana ndikhulelwe

Ukuphupha ubeleka umntwana oyintombazana ngoxa ukhulelwe kunokubonisa umnqweno onzulu wokuba nomntwana oyintombazana.
Lo mnqweno unokunxulumana nomnqweno wakho wokuba ngumama kwaye uqale usapho.
Ukuba uziva ukhathazekile malunga nokungaphumeleli eli phupha ngokwenyani, eli phupha linokudlala indima ekomelezeni lo mnqweno kunye nokubonelela ngentuthuzelo yengqondo.

Iphupha lisenokubonisa ubuchule bokuyila kunye nobugcisa okanye izakhono ongathanda ukuziphuhlisa.
Ukuzalwa kwentombazana ekhulelweyo kuthetha ukuba ingcamango entsha okanye iprojekthi inokuvela ebomini bakho.
Kufuneka ukhulise obu buchule kunye nobuchule obutsha ukuze ukhule kwaye uphuhlise.

Kusenokubakho ukutolika okufuziselayo kweli phupha, njengoko umntwana emaphupheni ufuzisela ubumsulwa kunye nokukwazi ukuxhomekeka kuye.
Unokuziva ufuna ixesha elithile lokuziqhelanisa nokuxhomekeka kwisiqu sakho kunye nokwenza izigqibo ezizimeleyo.

Ndiphuphe ndibeleke intombazana, kanti andikhulelwanga

1.  Ndiphuphe ukuba ndibeleka intombazana, nokuba andikhulelwanga, kwaye oku kwakhokelela ekwandeni kovelwano kunye noxabiso kubo bonke oomama abandingqongileyo.
   Wayewuqonda umgudu ofunekayo kunye nobudlelwane obunzulu obunokudalwa phakathi komama nomntwana wakhe.
2.  Abantu abaninzi banokuziva benexhala kwaye benoxinzelelo ngekamva nezinto ezinokwenzeka.
   Noko ke, iphupha lam lokuba ndibeleka intombazana naxa ndingekakhulelwa landenza ndaziva ndixolile ngaphakathi, njengoko ndandizithembile ukuba izinto ziya kuhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba luloyiko olugqithiseleyo.
3. Njengoko iphupha lichaza umbono omtsha, xa ndiphupha ukuba ndiza kuzala intombazana, ndafunda malunga nobudlelwane beemvakalelo kunye namandla anokuthi avele phakathi komzali nomntwana.
   Ndakuqonda ukubaluleka kwengqalelo nomsa abazali abafanele bawunike umntwana.
4.  Eli phupha lingafuzisela uhlobo oluthile lweminqweno yangaphakathi okanye iminqweno umntu anokuba nayo.

Ndiphuphe ndibeleka intombazana etshatileyo

1. Iphupha malunga "nokuzala intombi" kumfazi otshatileyo lingabonisa ulonwabo kunye novuyo phakathi kobomi bakhe bomtshato.
   Eli phupha lisenokuba yimbonakaliso yothando nomnqweno wokuba ngumama nokuba nentsapho eyonwabileyo.
2. Iphupha lisenokuba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno onzulu wokuba nabantwana kwaye ufumane uvuyo lobumama.
   Ukuba utshatile kwaye ucinga ngokukhulelwa kunye nokubeletha, eli phupha linokuba luphawu lomnqweno wakho wokufezekisa eli phupha.
3. Iphupha "lokuzala intombi" lingabonakalisa umnqweno wokufumana uzinzo kunye nokulingana kubomi bomtshato.
   Isenokubonisa umnqweno wakho wokuba nosapho olulungeleleneyo kunye nokuhambelana neqabane lakho lobomi.
4. Iphupha lisenokuba yimbonakaliso yoxinzelelo lwentlalo kunye nolindelo lwentlalo malunga nokuzala kwabantwana ngexesha elithile lomtshato.
   Ukuba uphantsi koxinzelelo kwabo bakungqongileyo ukuba ube nabantwana, oku kunokubonakala kumaphupha akho.
5. Ukuba impilo yakho ilungile kwaye uhlala kwisimo esonwabileyo kwaye kukho ukulinganisela kubomi bakho bomtshato, ke iphupha linokuthi liqinisekise impilo, ulonwabo kunye nokulunga.

Ndiphuphe ndibeleka intombi ndiyincancisa Kwabatshatileyo

1. Iphupha lokuzala umntwana oyintombazana kunye nokumncancisa lingabonakalisa umnqweno onzulu wokuba ngumama kwaye uzive unoxanduva kunye nokunyamekela umntwana wakho.
   Eli phupha lisenokubonakalisa umnqweno wokuqala usapho nokuba nosapho.
2.  Ukuba ufumana ixesha lokutshintsha ebomini bakho okanye ujongene nezigqibo ezibalulekileyo, iphupha malunga nokuzala umntwana oyintombazana kunye nokumncelisa kunokubonisa ukulungelela kwakho ukuthatha uxanduva kunye nokwenza izigqibo zobulumko kwixesha elizayo.
3.  Ukuba uphila indima yokwenene njengomfazi olungileyo kunye nomama onenkathalo, ke iphupha lokuzala umntwana oyintombazana kunye nokumncelisa kunokubonisa ukudibanisa kwentsapho kunye nesidingo sokhuseleko kunye nothando ebomini bakho.
4.  Eli phupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wokuqinisa amaqhina eemvakalelo kunye nomntu othile ebomini bakho, nokuba ngumyeni wakho okanye iqabane lakho lobomi.
   Iphupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe ngokubaluleka kokwakha ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye obuqinileyo.
5.  Ukuphupha ngokuzala umntwana oyintombazana uze umncancise kukwasisikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokuzinyamekela nokuzinyamekela.
   Iphupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wokubuyisela ibhalansi kwaye uzinakekele kunye neemfuno zakho zobuqu.

Ndiphuphe ndibeleka intombi ndiyincancisa

1.  Ukuzibona uzala intombazana kwaye uyincancise ephupheni ingaba ngumqondiso wokukwazi kwakho ukunyamekela abanye kunye nokubonelela ngononophelo kunye nesisa.
   Eli phupha linokuthetha ukuba uneempawu zovelwano nobubele kwaye unomdla wokunyamekela nokunceda abanye.
2.  Ukuphupha ngokuzala intombazana kunye nokumncancisa kunokubonisa umnqweno wakho onzulu wokuzinza kwentsapho kunye noxanduva lokunyamekela abanye abantu.
   Eli phupha lingabonisa umnqweno wakho wokuqala usapho, ukufezekisa ulonwabo losapho, kunye namava okuba ngumama.
3. Ukuzibona uzala intombazana kwaye uyincancise ephupheni ithatha ithuba lokutshintsha nokuphuhlisa.
   Lo mbono unokubonisa umnqweno onzulu wokuphuhliswa komntu, ukufumana izakhono ezitsha, kunye nomdla wokuzikhulisa.
4. Ukuphupha ngokuzala intombazana kunye nokumncancisa kunokufanekisela impumelelo entsha kunye nempumelelo oyicwangcisayo ebomini bakho.
   Iphupha lingabonisa ixesha elizele yimingeni emitsha, amathuba, kunye nokuzikhulisa.
   Eli phupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo samandla akho kunye nokukwazi ukumelana nemingeni kwaye uphumelele kuyo.

Ndiphuphe ndibeleka intombazana ndingatshatanga

1. Iphupha "lokuzala umntwana oyintombazana" lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho onzulu wokuba ngumama kwaye ujabulele amava okuba ngumama.
   Iphupha lingabonakalisa imfuno yokomoya yokunyamekela, ububele kunye nokukhathazeka komntu omncinci nomsulwa.
2. Ukuzalwa kwabantwana emaphupheni kudla ngokuba ngumqondiso wokudala, amandla kunye nokuhlaziywa.
   Iphupha malunga "nokuzala umntwana oyintombazana" linokuthetha ukuba unombono omtsha okanye iprojekthi ezayo ebomini bakho ezisa amathuba amatsha okukhula kunye nophuhliso.
3. Iphupha "lokuzala umntwana oyintombazana" lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wokukhula komntu kunye nokufezekisa iinjongo zomntu.
   Iphupha lingabonisa ukuba ngaphakathi kwakho kukho inxalenye engaziwayo yobuntu bakho ekufuneka ifunyenwe, ihlolwe kwaye iphuhliswe.
4. Iphupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo sokuba uqaphele ekwenzeni izibophelelo ezingabonakaliyo okanye ukuthatha uxanduva onokuthi ungakulungeli ngalo mzuzu.
   Iphupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe ngesidingo sokucinga kunye nokucwangcisa kakuhle ngaphambi kokuba wenze izigqibo ezibandakanya iziphumo zexesha elide.
5. Iphupha ngumyalezo oya kuwe ukuba udinga ibhalansi kunye nokuzinza ebomini bakho, nokuba kukwinqanaba leemvakalelo, ingqondo okanye yobungcali.
   Iphupha linokuthetha ukuba kufuneka ubuyisele ibhalansi ebomini bakho kwaye ukhangele ulonwabo kunye nokuzinza kwangaphakathi.

Ndiphuphe ndibeleka yabe intombi yam yasweleka ikhulelwe

1.  Eli phupha lingabonisa ukwesaba okunzulu kunye nokukhathazeka abazali ababa nakho ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
   Ezi nkxalabo zinokunxulumana nempilo yosana olungekazalwa okanye ukukwazi ukuzala umntwana osempilweni.
   Iphupha lingabonakalisa ukubonakaliswa kolu loyiko kwaye likhuthaze umama ukuba athethe ngazo kwaye axoxe ngazo kunye neqabane lakhe okanye kunye nomboneleli wezempilo.
2.  Eli phupha lingafanekisela amanqaku abalulekileyo okutshintsha ebomini bomfazi okhulelweyo.
   Kungenzeka ukuba iphupha liyimbonakaliso yoxolelaniso kunye nenyaniso yento enqatshelwe okanye ecinezelekileyo kubomi bomntu bomntu.
   Kuluncedo ukucinga ngephupha njengophawu lotshintsho olutsha kunye notshintsho ebomini bakho.
3.  Eli phupha linokuba ngumfanekiso woloyiko lomfazi okhulelweyo lokulahlekelwa ngumthandi, ukulahlekelwa, okanye ukudabuka.
   Iphupha lisenokubonakalisa inkxalabo malunga noxanduva olutsha oluya kujamelana nalo umama emva kokuzalwa komntwana.
   Oku kunokuba liphupha elikukhuthaza ukuba ucinge malunga nokulungiselela ngokwasengqondweni nangokweemvakalelo kwinqanaba elilandelayo kwaye woyise uloyiko.
4. Ukuphupha ngokufa komntwana wakho oyintombazana kunokubonisa amandla omnqweno wakho wokukhusela nokunyamekela umntwana wakho omncinane.
   Ngokuqhelekileyo, iphupha malunga nokukhulelwa kunye nokubeletha kuyindlela yokufumana iimvakalelo zomama kunye nokukhusela.
   Kuya kuba kuhle ukuba usebenzise eli phupha ukukhulisa ukuzikhathalela kwaye uzilungiselele indima yokuba ngumama wexesha elizayo.

Ndiphuphe ndibeleka intombi ndiyincancisa ndikhulelwe

1.  Ukuphupha uthwele umntwana kunye nokuncancisa kunokubonisa ukukhula kweminqweno yangaphakathi kunye namabhongo ngaphakathi kwakho.
   Usenokuba nomnqweno onzulu wokunyamekela abanye nokubanika inkxaso nothando.
2. Xa uphupha ukuba uncancisa umntwana ngelixa ukhulelwe, oku kunokuba yimbonakaliso yesidingo sokufumana inkxaso yeemvakalelo kunye nokunyamekela kwabanye.
   Usenokuziva unqwenela ngamandla ukunyanyekelwa nokunyanyekelwa kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
3. Eli phupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wokuba ngumama kunye nokuzala.
   Ukuba ucinga ngokukhulelwa okanye sele uceba ukuba ngumama, eli phupha linokuba yimbonakaliso yokulungiswa kwengqondo kunye nokulungela loo mava.
4. Ukulinganisela phakathi komsebenzi kunye nosapho: Iphupha malunga nokukhulelwa kunye nokuncelisa kunokukukhumbuza ngokubaluleka kokulinganisela phakathi kobomi bomsebenzi kunye nobomi bomntu, ngakumbi ukuba unengxaki yoxinzelelo lwemihla ngemihla phakathi kweendima ezininzi.
   Eli phupha lisenokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe ngokubaluleka kokuhlonipha iimfuno zakho zobuqu nezentsapho.
5.  Ukuba ubomi bakho bubona utshintsho kungekudala, eli phupha linokukukhumbuza ukuba ulungiselele uxanduva olutsha kunye nemingeni onokuthi ujongane nayo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuzala amawele angamadoda kumfazi oyedwa

1. Umfazi ongatshatanga ozala amawele amakhwenkwe ephupheni luphawu oluhle olubonisa ukuba uya kuba nethamsanqa kunye neentsikelelo ebomini bakho.
   Mhlawumbi eli phupha libonisa ukuba inhlanhla imomotheka kuwe kwaye uya kufumana impumelelo enkulu kwixesha elizayo.
2.  Eli phupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho onzulu wokuba ngumama kwaye ufumane uvuyo lobumama.
   Unokuba nexhala lokuba awukwazi ukufezekisa eli phupha ngoku, nto leyo ekwenza ukuba uliphuphe njengohlobo lwembuyekezo kunye nokucinezela umnqweno wangaphakathi.
3. Ukuzala amawele angamadoda kumfazi ongatshatanga ephupheni kunokuba yindlela yokuzalisekisa iminqweno yakho kunye neminqweno engazange izaliseke kwixesha elidlulileyo.
   Unokuba namaphupha kunye neminqweno ofuna ukuyifeza, kwaye eli phupha libonisa ukuba ungafezekisa le nto uyinqwenelayo kwaye wenze utshintsho oluhle ebomini bakho.
4.  Ukuzala amawele angamadoda kumfazi ongatshatanga ephupheni kunokuba luphawu lwamandla akho kunye nokuzimisela ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho ngokwakho.
   Unokuba ngumfazi owomeleleyo kwaye okwaziyo ukujongana nemingeni kunye nobunzima ngokuzinza kunye namandla.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuzala inkwenkwe kumfazi ongakhulelwanga

1. Kungenzeka ukuba iphupha lokuzala unyana kumfazi ongakhulelwanga libonisa umnqweno womfazi wokuba ngumama.
   Iphupha linokuba luhlobo lokubonakaliswa kwengqondo yalo mnqweno ocinezelweyo, onokuthi uchaphazeleke xa ucinga ngekamva okanye ubona abanye bethatha uxanduva lokukhulisa abantwana.
2. Iphupha lokuzala unyana kumfazi ongakhulelwanga lingabonakalisa inkalo eyahlukileyo yobuntu bakho okanye amabhongo akho ekamva.
   Eli phupha lingafuzisela amandla akho okuba nomonde kunye nenkathalo kwaye ubonise umnqweno wakho wokufumana inkanuko kunye nokukhula kwakho.
3. Ukuphupha kusenokwenzeka ukuba kuphenjelelwa yimekobume esingqongileyo kunye nenkcazelo esidibana nayo.
   Iphupha lisenokuba iphenjelelwe kukubukela ngokuphindaphindiweyo oomama belungisa abantwana babo okanye ukubukela abahlobo bakho bethetha ngamaphupha abo okuba ngumama.
   Imbali yakho yobuqu kunye namava adlulileyo nawo angadlala indima kweli phupha likhethekileyo.