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Ndiphuphe ndilala nomntu odumileyo

1. Iphupha malunga "namadoda adumileyo" angabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wokunxibelelana nomntu odumileyo okanye utsaleleke kumntu owaziwayo ngokukhanga kwakhe.
   Eli phupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wodumo kunye nokuqatshelwa, kwaye inokuba luphawu lokuba unentlonipho okanye uyamxabisa umntu odumileyo ebomini bakho.
2. Iphupha malunga “needyunivesithi ezidumileyo” linokuba luphawu lomnqweno wakho wokugqwesa kunye nokuphumelela kwintsimi yakho.
   Mhlawumbi ugqithise imida yakho kwaye uphumelele kwintsimi yakho yobungcali okanye yobuqu, kwaye lo mbono ubonisa imvakalelo yakho yamandla kunye nokuzithemba kuwe.
3. Iphupha malunga "neemsikiti ezidumileyo" linokufanekisela imfuno yakho yokuba ulumke kwaye ungabi nekratshi malunga nempumelelo kunye nenqanaba lentlalontle.
   Eli phupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe sokuba udumo kunye nethamsanqa ayisiyiyo yonke into, kwaye kufuneka ugcine ukuthobeka kwaye ugxile kwimilinganiselo yokwenyani ebomini.
4. Iphupha malunga "neemosque ezidumileyo" linokuba luphawu lomnqweno wakho wokufumana utshintsho olubalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
   Usenokuba ulungele utshintsho okanye ufune ukuphuculwa komntu okanye kubungcali.
   Eli phupha lisenokubonisa umnqweno wakho wokufumana ukuzithemba ngakumbi kwaye uye kumabhongo akho amatsha.

Ndiphuphe ndilala nentombi entle

1. Iphupha lingabonakalisa inkanuko kunye nomnqweno wesini ovela ngaphakathi komntu.
   Iphupha lisenokuba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno womzimba wokuba nobuhlobo obusondeleyo nomntu omhle.
2. Iphupha lisenokubonisa umnqweno womntu wokufuna ukusondela ngakumbi kubuhle, nokuba bubuhle obukwimo yangaphandle okanye bubuhle obuqhelekileyo.
   Iphupha linokuba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno wokufumana ubuhle ngendlela egcwele umdla kunye nemincili.
3. Iphupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno womntu wokunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokunxibelelana nomnye umntu.
   Eli phupha linokuba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno wokukhangela iqabane lobomi elihlangabezana nemigangatho yobuhle kunye nesondo.
4. Iphupha lingaphinda lifanekisela isidingo sokulinganisela ubufazi kunye nobudoda kubuntu.
   Iphupha linokuba yimbonakaliso yesidingo sokuhlola iinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobuqu kunye nokulinganisa inkanuko, iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo kunye neminqweno.
5. Ukuphupha malunga nokudibana nentombazana enhle kunokubonisa ukungena kwixesha elitsha lokukhula komntu kunye nophuhliso.
   Iphupha linokuba yimbonakaliso yeminqweno kunye neenjongo ezintsha umntu afuna ukuzifeza ebomini bakhe.

Ndiphuphe ndilala nomntu obhinqileyo ndiyamazi

1. Iphupha lakho lokuba ulalana nomfazi omaziyo lisenokuba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno wakho wendalo nonamandla wesini.
   Ngamanye amaxesha, kwenzeka ukuba le minqweno ifakwe kumaphupha ethu.
   Iphupha linokuba yimbonakaliso yomtsalane oziva ngalo kulo mfazi okanye umfazi obambekayo omele entloko yakho.
2. Iphupha lisenokuba libonisa izinto ezithile kubudlelwane bakho bangoku kunye nomfazi ocinga ukuba waziwa ephupheni.
   Iinkcukacha zephupha kunye nokudibanisa kunokukuxelela malunga neenkalo ezintle okanye ezimbi zolu budlelwane.
   Oku kunokuba sisilumkiso sokuqwalasela ngenyameko ubudlelwane kunye nokuvavanya kakuhle.
3. Amanye amaphupha anokuba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno wakho wokunxibelelana kunye nokudibana nabantu abatsha.
   Umfazi olala naye ephupheni unokumela loo mnqweno wokunxibelelana kunye nokufumana abantu abatsha ebomini bakho.
   Unokuba nomnqweno wokwandisa ulwazi lwakho kwaye uzame izinto ezintsha.
4. Ukuphupha malunga nokwabelana ngesondo kunokuba luphawu lokufezekiswa kweminqweno yakho kunye neminqweno yakho ebomini.
   Umfazi omaziyo ephupheni unokuvakalisa amaphupha akho, iminqweno, kunye namabhongo ofuna ukuwafezekisa.
   Iphupha linokuba sisimemo sokusebenza ekufezekiseni iinjongo zakho kwaye uzame ukufikelela kwimpumelelo kunye nokwaneliseka komntu.

Ndiphuphe ndilala nentombi yam

1. Eli phupha lingabonisa uthando oluqinileyo kunye nenkathalo evela phakathi koyise nentombi yakhe.
   Umbono wokudibana nomntwana wakho ubonisa umnqweno wakho onzulu wokwenza unxibelelwano oluqinileyo kunye nokusondela kuye.
2. Eli phupha linokuba ngumqondiso womnqweno wakho wokukhusela nokunyamekela ngokupheleleyo umntwana wakho oyintombazana.
   Oku kungabonakalisa isidingo sakho sokuziva ukhuselekile, ukhuselekile kwaye ukhululekile ngokunxulumene nosana lwakho oluyintombazana.
3. Eli phupha lisenokuba luphawu lonxibelelwano olunzulu lweemvakalelo oluvayo kusana lwakho oluyintombazana.
   Usenokufuna ukuchitha ixesha elingakumbi naye uze womeleze amaqhina akho ngokweemvakalelo.
4.  Ukuzibona ulala nentombi yakho ephupheni kunokubonisa uxanduva lwakho njengotata kunye nemvakalelo yakho yokunyaniseka kuye.
   Esi sisikhumbuzo kuwe sokuba uyenza ngokufanelekileyo indima yakho yobuzali yaye ulungelelana kubomi bentsapho yakho.
5. Eli phupha libonisa ukukwazi kwakho ukonwabela amaxesha okonwaba kwaye ube ngokupheleleyo nangokunzulu kunye nabantu obathandayo.
   Sisikhumbuzo kuwe sokuba ufanele ukuziva uvuyo nolonwabo kubomi bosapho lwakho.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nendoda eyaziwayo enesondo kunye nomfazi ongatshatanga

1. Iphupha lakho lendoda edumileyo ilalana nawe lingabonisa iminqweno yakho ukuba iqatshelwe ngumntu odumileyo okanye ophumeleleyo.
   Olu toliko lunokuba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno wakho wodumo okanye ukuqatshelwa kweetalente zakho kunye nempumelelo.
   Iphupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe sokuba unakho ukufezekisa amaphupha akho nokuba ithini na imeko yakho ngoku.
2. Ukuphupha ngendoda edumileyo isabelana ngesondo nawe luphawu lokuzithemba nokuba nethemba.
   Eli phupha lisenokukukhumbuza ukuba ungumntu omhle kwaye unomtsalane, kwaye unamandla kunye nobuchule bokutsala kunye nokutsalwa.
   Sisikhumbuzo esikhulu samandla akho angaphakathi kunye ne-charisma yakho.
3. Ukuphupha ngendoda edumileyo isabelana ngesondo kunye nawe kunokuba luphawu lokuba ufumana ixesha elitsha lamabhongo kunye neenjongo ebomini bakho.
   Mhlawumbi ukulungele ukuphonononga iindlela ezintsha zokuphumeza impumelelo yakho yobuqu kunye nobungcali.
   Indoda edumileyo inokuba luphawu lokuzaliseka kunye nokuchuma ebomini bakho.
4. Ukuphupha ngendoda edumileyo iba neentlobano zesini nawe kusenokubonisa umnqweno wokufuna udumo nokuduma.
   Usenokubancoma kwaye uphenjelelwe kakhulu ngabantu abadumileyo.
   Eli phupha lidla ngokubonisa umnqweno wakho wokuduma okanye ukumangaliswa ngabantu abadumileyo.
5. Ukuphupha ngendoda edumileyo ilala nawe ingabonakalisa ukuzazi kunye nenkuthazo.
   Mhlawumbi esi sisikhumbuzo sokuba kufuneka uzikhathalele kwaye unyamekele iimfuno zakho zobuqu.
   Sisikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokuzinyamekela kunye nokufumana ulonwabo lobuqu ngaphambi kokuba ucinge ngobudlelwane bothando.

Ndiphuphe ndilala nomfazi endimaziyo ndisatshatile

1. Iphupha lomntu otshatileyo odibana nomfazi owaziyo unokufanekisela imvakalelo yakhe yomona okanye ukungabikho kokuzithemba kubudlelwane bakhe bomtshato wangoku.
   Oku kungabonisa uloyiko lokuphulukana neqabane okanye ukubuza ukunyaniseka kweqabane.
2. Iphupha lomntu otshatileyo edibana nomfazi ayaziyo inokuba yimbonakaliso yeminqweno engabonakaliyo okanye izenzo ezilindelekileyo ezenzeka engqondweni.
   Umntu unokuziva enesithukuthezi okanye alahlekelwe yinto ethile kubomi bakhe bangoku.
3. Olunye utoliko olunokwenzeka lweli phupha kukuba lifanekisela isidingo sokuhlanganiswa kwentlalo kunye nokuvisisana nabanye abantu.
   Umntu unokuziva efuna unxibelelwano olunzulu kunye nonxibelelwano loluntu.

Ndiphuphe ndilala nomfazi otshatileyo

1.  Ukuphupha ngokulala nomfazi otshatileyo kunokuba yimbonakaliso yeminqweno yakho yesini yendalo.
   Amava ephupha anokuba kukwaneliseka okwethutyana kwale minqweno icinezelwe.
2. Ukuzihlola: Iphupha linokunxulumana nokuzihlola kunye nomnqweno wakho wokufumana izinto ezintsha zobuntu bakho.
   Iphupha lingafuzisela umnqweno wakho wokufumana amava amatsha okanye ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu abangaphandle kwemida yobomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
3. Iphupha lingabonakalisa ixhala lakho okanye umnqweno wokubaleka uxanduva kunye noxinzelelo olugqithisileyo kubomi bakho bobuqu okanye bomsebenzi.
   Mhlawumbi kufuneka uphumle kwaye uphelise uxinezeleko ngeendlela ezisempilweni nezilungileyo.
4. Ukuphupha ngokuba neentlobano zesini nomfazi otshatileyo kusenokuba luphawu loxinezeleko kulwalamano lwakho lothando lwangoku.
   Kusenokufuneka uphonononge iimvakalelo zakho kwaye ujongane nobunzima odibana nabo kubudlelwane.
5. Iphupha lingabonisa ukuba unomona kumntu othile ebomini bakho.
   Lo mntu unokuba sisisongelo kuwe okanye unokuba neemvakalelo ezixubeneyo zothando nokuswela.

Ndiphuphe isithandwa sam silele nam

1. Ukuphupha ukubona isithandwa sakho silele ecaleni kwakho kunokubonisa ukuba uziva ukhuselekile kwaye ukhululekile ngokweemvakalelo kunye naye.
   Mhlawumbi lo mbono ubonisa umnqweno wakho wokuzinza uze wakhe ulwalamano oluzinzileyo noluqinileyo kunye naye.
2.  Ukuphupha isithandwa sakho silele ecaleni kwakho kunokubonisa ukuxhalaba okanye umona.
   Unokuba ugcwele amathandabuzo kunye noxinzelelo malunga nobudlelwane bokuthembana phakathi kwakho, kwaye lo mbono ubonisa umnqweno wakho wokuqinisekisa ukhuseleko kunye nokunyaniseka kwesithandwa sakho.
3. Ukuphupha ubona isithandwa sakho silele ecaleni kwakho kunokunxulumana nezinto ozithatha njengezibalulekile kubomi bakho bothando.
   Eli phupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe ngesidingo sokuxabisa ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nokwabelana nomthandi wakho, kwaye ubeke ingqalelo kunye nokunyamekela ubudlelwane bakho neqabane lakho.
4. Ukuphupha ukubona isithandwa sakho silele ecaleni kwakho kunokubonakalisa ulangazelelo lwakho kunye nomnqweno wokuba naye kufutshane nawe.
   Unokuvakalelwa kukuba ufuna ixesha elingakumbi kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kunye naye, kwaye eli phupha libonisa umnqweno wakho wokuba naye ecaleni kwakho kwaye uchithe ixesha elingakumbi kunye.
5. Akunqabile ukuba iphupha lokubona isithandwa sakho silele ecaleni kwakho sidityaniswe neminqweno yesini kunye namaphupha avuselelayo.
   Ukuba lo mbono uhambelana neemvakalelo zesini kunye nesilingo, ke eli phupha linokuba neengcamango zesini.

Ndiphuphe ndilala nomfazi endingamaziyo kwaye nditshatile

1.  Iphupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wokuzama kwaye uphonononge izinto ezintsha kubomi bakho bezesondo.
   Usenokuziva uqhelekile kubudlelwane bakho bomtshato kwaye ujonge eyona ilungileyo.
2. Iphupha linokuba yimveliso yokufunda okanye ukubona into enxulumene nesondo ngaphambi kokulala.
   Ingqondo yethu engaphantsi kwengqondo nguvimba wolwazi kunye neengcinga esidibana nazo kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla.
3.  Iphupha linokuba yimbonakaliso yokukhathazeka kwakho okanye umnqweno ongazalisekanga ebomini bakho bobulili.
   Ingabonisa ukuba kukho indawo yokuphucula unxibelelwano kunye nonxibelelwano kunye neqabane lakho.
4. Iphupha lingabonakalisa uloyiko lokungcatshwa ngokweemvakalelo okanye amathandabuzo akho malunga neqabane lakho.
   Kusenokubakho izinto eziyinyani ezikwenza uzive uxhalabile malunga nobudlelwane, kwaye eli phupha linokuba yimbonakaliso yezi ngcinga.
5.  Iphupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wokufezekisa ibhalansi kubomi bakho bezesondo kunye neemvakalelo.
   Usenokuba ufuna ukulungelelana phakathi kweminqweno yobuqu neembopheleleko zomtshato.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokutshata nomdlali odumileyo

1. Iphupha lokutshata nomdlali odumileyo linokuba yimbonakaliso engathanga ngqo yomnqweno wakho wempumelelo, udumo kunye nobutyebi.
   Umdlali odumileyo ephupheni unokufanekisela i-stereotype yomntu ophumelelayo nowaziwayo kuluntu.
   Mhlawumbi ufuna abantu bazi ngezinto ozifezileyo baze baqondwe ngakumbi yaye baxatyiswe kubomi bakho bokwenene.
2. Mhlawumbi ukuzaliseka kweli phupha kubonisa ukuzithemba nokuzithemba.
   Umtshato ufuna ukuzithemba ekufezekiseni iphupha kunye nokufaneleka kwalo.
   Ke ngoko, ukuphupha utshata nomdlali odumileyo kunokuthetha ukuba ukholelwa ukuba ufanelwe kukuphila ubomi obahlukileyo kwaye uthandwe kwaye uxatyiswe.
3. Ukuphupha utshata nomdlali odumileyo kunokubonakalisa umnqweno wobomi obuzele yimincili kunye nokuzonwabisa.
   Umdlali odumileyo ephupheni unokubonwa njengomntu ophila ubomi obukhethekileyo kwaye ujabulele amathuba amaninzi kunye namava.
   Mhlawumbi ujonge phambili ekufumaneni ama-adventures amatsha kubomi bakho bokwenyani kunye nokufumana iindawo ezintsha kunye nabantu.
4. Ukuphupha ngokutshata nomdlali odumileyo kunokuba sisikhumbuzo seenjongo zakho kunye neminqweno yakho ebomini.
   Unokuba uzama ukufezekisa into ekhethekileyo kwaye uzuze impumelelo enkulu.
   Ukubona umdlali odumileyo ephupheni kunokukukhumbuza ukuba kufuneka usebenze nzima ukufezekisa amaphupha akho kunye neenjongo zakho.