Funda malunga nokutolikwa kwephupha malunga nam ndiqubha kwidama lokuqubha ngokuka-Ibn Sirin

Ndiphuphe ndiqubha equleni

1. I-pool luphawu olunamandla lwenguqu kunye nenkululeko.
   Xa uqubha emanzini, uyazihambisa ukusuka kwimeko yobunzima kunye nokuqina ukuya kwimeko yokuhamba kunye nokukhanya.
   Ngokunjalo, iphupha malunga nokuqubha echibini lingabonisa umnqweno wakho wokukhululeka kuyo nayiphi na imiqobo onokuthi ube nayo ngokwenyani kwaye uzabalazele ubomi obukhululekileyo nobugudileyo.
2. Ukuqubha emanzini yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuphumla kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo.
   Xa uphupha ukuqubha echibini, oku kunokuba luphawu lwemvakalelo yakho yokuphupha yokuphumla kunye nentuthuzelo yengqondo.
   Mhlawumbi kufuneka uzikhulule kwiingcinezelo zobomi bemihla ngemihla kwaye unike ixesha lokuzonwabisa kunye nokuvuselela umphefumlo wakho.
3. Ukuqubha emanzini yenye yezinto ezimnandi nezihlaziyayo ezinokusizisela ulonwabo.
   Xa uphupha ukuqubha echibini, oku kungabonakalisa isimo sakho sengqondo esifanelekileyo kunye nomnqweno wakho wokuzonwabisa kunye nolonwabo.
   Mhlawumbi intliziyo yakho izele luthando kunye nolonwabo, okanye ufumana ubudlelwane obukhuthazayo bothando.
4. Xa uqubha emanzini, untywiliselwa kwinto ngokwayo kwaye uphulukane nokuqonda ngehlabathi elikungqongileyo.
   Ngokufanayo, iphupha malunga nokuqubha echibini lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wokuntywila kwimicimbi yobomi kwaye ugxile kuwe.
   Unokuba uzama ukufumana ibhalansi kwaye ugxininise kwimpumelelo yakho kunye neemfuno zangaphakathi.
5. Equleni, unokudibana nabantu abatsha kwaye wenze abahlobo abatsha.
   Xa uphupha ukuqubha echibini, oku kunokufuzisela umnqweno wakho wokufumana ubudlelwane obutsha kunye nokwandisa inethiwekhi yakho yobuhlobo.
   Mhlawumbi uyawuthanda umbono wokunxibelelana kunye nokwabelana ngezimvo kunye nezimvo nabanye.

Ndiphuphe ndiqubha echibini lomfazi otshatileyo

1.  Iphupha malunga nokuqubha echibini kumfazi otshatileyo lingabonisa ukuba unesidingo esibi sokuchitha ixesha lokuzonwabisa kunye nokuhlaziya kude neengcinezelo zobomi bemihla ngemihla kunye noxanduva lwakho njengomfazi nomama.
   Eli phupha lisenokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe ngokubaluleka kokuphumla nokuchacha.
2. Ukuqubha emanzini kunokufuzisela umnqweno wakho wokunxibelelana nabanye kwaye ugcine ubudlelwane bakho bomelele kwaye buhlaziywe.
   Amanzi anokuthi afuzisele iimvakalelo ezinzulu kunye neemvakalelo, kwaye usenokuba uye waziva ufuna ukunxibelelana neqabane lakho ukuvuselela uthando kunye nothando kubudlelwane.
3. Kumfazi otshatileyo, ukuqubha echibini kunokufuzisela umnqweno wakho wokukhulelwa okanye ukuba nabantwana.
   Amanzi amele ubomi kunye nokuchuma kwezinye iinguqulelo, kwaye inokuba ibonakalisa umnqweno wakho onzulu wokuqala usapho kwaye ube namava neemeko ezintsha njengomama.
4. Ukuqubha emanzini kunokufuzisela umnqweno wakho wenkululeko nokuzimela.
   Ukuqubha kuyinkqubo ezimeleyo apho uzenzela khona izigqibo kwaye uzilawule.
   Iphupha malunga nokuqubha echibini lomfazi otshatileyo linokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe ngokubaluleka kokugcina ubuntu bakho kunye nokuqinisekisa ukuba umnqweno wakho wobuqu uyafezekiswa.

Ndiphuphe ndiqubha kwi pool ye bachelors

1. Ukuzibona uqubha kwidama elinye kunokuba luphawu lolonwabo kunye nentuthuzelo yangaphakathi oyivayo.
   Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lwexesha elonwabileyo ebomini bakho.
2. Idama lomfazi ongatshatanga ngamanye amaxesha lifanekisela ukuzimela kunye nenkululeko yobuqu, kwaye ukuzibona uqubha kulo kunokubonisa umnqweno wakho wokuzimela kunye nenkululeko kwizithintelo zoluntu.
3. Iphupha malunga nokubhukuda echibini lomfazi ongatshatanga lingabonisa ukukhangela ulonwabo kunye nolonwabo ebomini bakho.
   Lo mbono unokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe ngokubaluleka kokunandipha ubomi wedwa kunye nezinto ozilindeleyo.
4. Ukuqubha echibini kumfazi ongatshatanga kunokuba luphawu lokuyeka amava adlulileyo kwaye uvule amathuba amatsha kubudlelwane bothando.
   Mhlawumbi ukuzibona uqubha kule ndawo kubonisa ukuba ufuna ukufumana ibali elitsha lothando kwaye ufezekise ibhalansi entsha kubomi bakho bothando.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuqubha echibini nabantu

1. Ukuphupha ukubhukuda echibini kunye nabantu kunokubonisa umnqweno wakho wokuhlalisana kunye nokuzibandakanya kubudlelwane obutsha.
   Usenokuba ujonge ukunxibelelana, ukusebenzisana nabanye, kwaye wabelane ngamava akho nabo.
2. Ukuzibona uqubha nabanye abantu equleni kubonisa ukubaluleka kwentsebenziswano kubomi bakho.
   Unokuziva ufuna ukuxhomekeka kwiqela kunye nokusebenza kunye ukuze ufezekise iinjongo zakho.
3. Ukuphupha ukubhukuda echibini kunye nabantu kunokubonisa amandla entsebenziswano kunye nokuqonda ebomini bakho.
   Kuya kufuneka uthembele kwaye usebenzisane nabanye ukuze ufezekise impumelelo yakho kunye nophuhliso lomntu.
4. Ukuphupha uqubha echibini nabantu kunokufuzisela umnqweno wakho womngeni kunye nokhuphiswano.
   Ungaziva unesidingo sokwenza konke okusemandleni akho ukugqwesa abanye kwaye ubonakalise izakhono zakho.
5. Ukuzibona uqubha echibini nabantu kunokufuzisela umnqweno wakho wenkululeko kunye nokuvuleleka kwihlabathi langaphandle.
   Usenokuba ujonge amava amatsha kunye nee-adventures nabantu ababelana ngezinto ezifanayo kunye nezinto ezizithandayo.

Ndiphuphe ngathi ndidada kwiqula elinzulu

1.  Ukuqubha echibini elinzulu kunokufuzisela imvakalelo yenkululeko kunye nokukwazi ukunqoba iimeko ezinzima ebomini.
   Kanye njengokuba umntu eziva ekhululekile yaye ekhululekile xa equbha, ukuzibona equbha kwiqula elinzulu kusenokubonisa amandla akhe angaphakathi nentembelo kubuchule bakhe.
2.  Ukuqubha kwidama elinzulu kunokuba luphawu lweengxaki ezinkulu ojongene nazo ebomini.
   Ubunzulu bedama bungabonakalisa ubunzima beengxaki okanye ukujongana nawe.
   Ukuba uziva uxhalabile okanye usoyika kweli phupha, isenokuba luphawu lokuba uziva uxinezelekile kwaye unexhala malunga nezinto ekufuneka ujongane nazo ebomini bakho.
3. Abanye abagwebi bajonga ukuqubha kwidama elinzulu njengophawu lotshintsho kunye nokuhlaziya.
   Ukuba uziva wonwabile kwaye ukhululekile ngelixa uqubha kwidama elinzulu, oko kunokuthetha ukuba ukulungele ukutshintsha ubomi kwaye uzame ukufikelela kwiinjongo ezintsha.
   Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokuba ukwinqanaba lenguqu yeemvakalelo okanye yobuchwephesha.
4.  Ukuzibona uqubha kwidama elinzulu kunokuba luphawu lokuba untywiliselwe kwiimvakalelo ezinzulu kunye neemvakalelo.
   Ingabonisa ukuba ufumana amava anamandla ngokweemvakalelo okanye ujongene nemingeni kubudlelwane bomntu.
   Eli phupha linokukubongoza ukuba uthathe izimo zengqondo ezicacileyo kunye nokuqonda okunzulu kweemvakalelo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha endiqubha equleni kubakhulelwe

1. Iphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo lokubhukuda echibini lingabonakalisa imfuneko yowesifazane okhulelweyo ukuba aphumle kwaye azilungiselele isigaba esilandelayo, esikukubeletha.
   Ukuqubha yenye yezinto ezinceda ukuthomalalisa iintlungu zokukhulelwa kwaye kukunceda uzive ukhululekile.
   Iphupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kumfazi okhulelweyo ukuba udinga ixesha elincinane lokuphumla nokuzinyamekela ngaphambi kokuba umntwana azalwe.
2. Iphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo lokubhukuda echibini linokufanekisela imingeni kunye nobunzima ojongene nowesifazane okhulelweyo ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
   Nangona ukubhukuda kuthathwa njengomsebenzi onempilo kunye nokuphumla, abafazi abakhulelweyo bajamelana nemingeni emitsha kunye nengaqhelekanga ebomini babo kwaye baziva benexhala malunga nokuzala nokunyamekela usana olutsha.
   Iphupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kumfazi okhulelweyo ukuba unako ukujamelana nale mingeni kunye nokuzilungiselela.
3. Iphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo lokuqubha echibini lisenokubonisa umnqweno womfazi okhulelweyo wokwenza izinto ezithile okanye enze izinto awayengakwazi ukuzenza ngenxa yokukhulelwa kwakhe.
   Abafazi abakhulelweyo basenokukhangela phambili ekuqubheni, ukunandipha amanzi, nokuphelisa ubunzima obugqithiseleyo noxinezeleko.
   Iphupha lisenokuba yimbonakaliso yale minqweno ingazalisekanga onokuyifeza emva kokuzala.
4. Iphupha malunga nokubhukuda echibini kumfazi okhulelweyo lingabonisa ukuvakalelwa kwenkululeko kunye nokukhanya.
   Ukuqubha kunceda ukuthomalalisa uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo kwaye kunika imvakalelo yokuthuthuzela kunye nenkululeko.
   Yiloo nto umfazi okhulelweyo anokuyifuna, ngakumbi ngexesha lokukhulelwa, njengoko umfazi okhulelweyo unokuva ubunzima bomzimba wakhe kwaye unokujongana nobunzima ekuhambeni ngokukhululekile.
   Ukuphupha malunga nokubhukuda kunokuba yisikhumbuzo kumfazi okhulelweyo ukuba uyakwazi ukuziva ekhululekile kwaye elula nakwixesha langoku.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokubhukuda echibini ebusuku

1. Kwiinguqulelo ezininzi, amanzi emaphupheni afuzisela iimvakalelo kunye neemeko zengqondo.
   Ukuzibona uqubha echibini ebusuku kunokubonakalisa unxibelelwano lwakho neemvakalelo zakho ezinzulu kunye necala leemvakalelo.
   Eli phupha lingabonisa ukuba ujongana ngendlela enempilo kunye neemvakalelo zakho kwaye ufune ukufezekisa ibhalansi yengqondo.
2. Ixesha elikhethekileyo ephupheni linokuba nentsingiselo yalo.
   Ubusuku emaphupheni bunokufanekisela imfihlakalo kunye nokufihlakala, kwaye ukuzibona uqubha echibini ebusuku kunokubonisa isidingo sokuphonononga iingcinga zakho ezinzulu kunye neemvakalelo.
   Kusenokufuneka ucinge ngemiba yakho yobuqu kunye nekhoyo.
3. Ukuba uziva ukhululekile kwaye ukhululekile ngelixa uqubha echibini ebusuku, oko kunokuthetha ukuba ubomi bakho buyazola kwaye bukhululeke.
   Usenokuba ufumene ulonwabo noxolo lwangaphakathi.
4. Ukuba ubonakala ephupheni lakho ngezakhono ezinkulu zokuqubha kwaye uzive ulawula iintshukumo zakho emanzini, oku kunokuba yimbonakaliso yokuzithemba kwakho kunye nokukwazi kwakho ukoyisa imingeni kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
   Usenokuba uyoyisile imiqobo kwaye ulawula indlela yakho yobuqu.
5.  Ukuphupha uqubha echibini ebusuku kunokufuzisela ukulungela ukuzihlola kunye nophuhliso lomntu.
   Kuya kufuneka ugxile ekujongeni ngaphakathi, ukuqonda iinjongo zakho kunye neminqweno yakho, kwaye ulungelelanise imiba eyahlukeneyo yobomi bakho.

Ndiphuphe ndiqubha echibini lomfazi oqhawule umtshato

1.  Iphupha malunga nokubhukuda echibini lomfazi oqhawule umtshato lingaba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno wakho wokuphumla kwaye ukhululeke kwiingcinezelo zobomi bemihla ngemihla.
   Ukuqubha ngumsebenzi opholisayo kwaye ophumlayo, kwaye iphupha lingabonisa isidingo sakho sokubaleka kuxinzelelo kwaye ufumane amandla kwakhona.
2. Enye yezinto ezinokwenzeka ukuba iphupha malunga nokubhukuda echibini lomfazi oqhawule umtshato libonisa ukuzimela kunye nenkululeko.
   Ukuzibona uqubha ngokukhululekileyo echibini elilungiselelwe abafazi abaqhawule umtshato kunokubonisa umnqweno wakho wokuzimela kunye nokulawula ubomi bakho bobuqu ngaphandle kwemiqathango.
3. Iphupha lomfazi oqhawule umtshato lokubhukuda echibini linokuba ngumqondiso wenkqubo yokuhlaziywa komntu kunye nokuguqulwa.
   Ukuqubha kunokufuzisela ukuzinza kwakhona kunye nokoyisa imiceli mngeni yangaphambili.
   Iphupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe sokuba ungaqala phantsi kwaye utshintshe indlela ophila ngayo.
4. Iphupha malunga nokubhukuda echibini lomfazi oqhawule umtshato lingabonisa umnqweno wakho wokufumana ukuhlala wedwa kunye nokucamngca kwangaphakathi.
   Amanzi luphawu lobunzulu kunye nokomoya, kwaye apha umphefumlo unokuzama ukufumana uxolo lwangaphakathi kwaye ugxininise kwiinkalo zomoya zobomi.
5.  Iphupha malunga nokubhukuda echibini lomfazi oqhawule umtshato libonisa ukukwazi kwakho ukufezekisa iminqweno kunye neenjongo zomntu.
   Iphupha linokuba lukhuthazo kuwe lokuba uphumelele impumelelo kwaye ugqwese kubomi bakho bobugcisa kunye nobuqu.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokubhukuda emanzini acacileyo

1.  Mhlawumbi iphupha malunga nokubhukuda emanzini acacileyo libonisa umnqweno wokuzicwilisela ngokupheleleyo kwiimvakalelo zakho nakwizinto zengqondo.
   Ingabonisa ukuba uziva ufuna ukuphumla kwaye usondele ngakumbi kwimiba enzulu yesiqu sakho.
2. Ukubhukuda emanzini acocekileyo kuhambelana nenkululeko kunye namandla.
   Iphupha lisenokuba luphawu lokuba uziva ukhululekile kwizithintelo kunye nemingeni ojongene nayo ebomini bakho.
   Lo mbono usenokubhekisela kumandla akho angaphakathi namandla okoyisa ubunzima.
3.  Amanzi okuqubha acacileyo ahlala efuzisela ubunyulu kunye nokubuyiselwa kwamandla kunye namandla.
   Ukuphupha uqubha kumanzi acocekileyo kunokuba sisikhumbuzo sokugcina impilo yakho yengqondo kunye nomzimba, kwaye uqhubele phambili ekuvuseleleni nasekucamngceni.
4. Ukuba uziva ngathi uqubha kumanzi acocekileyo wedwa, oku kungabonisa ukuba ufuna ukubaleka kwihlabathi langaphandle kwaye uchithe ixesha elithile uwedwa uhlola ihlabathi elitsha langaphakathi.
   Iphupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo sokuphumla, ukucinga nzulu, kwaye umamele ilizwi lakho langaphakathi.
5. Xa uqubha kumanzi acwengileyo, oko kunokubonisa ukuba uziva ulungelelene yaye ulawula ubomi bakho.
   Iphupha lisenokubonisa imvakalelo eyakhayo yokuba zonke izinto ebomini bakho zihamba kakuhle kwaye unamandla namandla okulawula izinto.