Ndiphuphe nditshata nomalume wam owaswelekayo ephupheni ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin

Ndiphuphe nditshatile Umalume wam owaswelekayo

1. Ukuphupha utshata nomalume wakho ongasekhoyo kusenokubonisa umnqweno wakho onzulu wokubuyisela iinkumbulo ezilahlekileyo zentsapho.
   Usenokuziva uphoxekile ngamaxesha ochithe kunye nomalume wakho kwaye ufuna ukufumana ithemba elitsha ngokubona abantu abalahlekileyo.
2. Iphupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wokuziva ukhuselekile kwaye ukhuselekile.
   Izihlobo ezifileyo emaphupheni ziwuphawu lokuthuthuzela kunye nokukhuselwa.
   Eli phupha linokuthetha ukuba kufuneka uzive ukhuselekile kwaye uxhaswa kubomi bakho bokwenyani.
3. Iphupha elithi "ndatshata nomalume wam ongasekhoyo" lisenokubonisa umnqweno wakho wokuhlangabezana nekamva lakho kwaye uxolele abantu abangasekhoyo.
   Usenokuba neemvakalelo ezingaconjululwanga ngalo mntu uswelekileyo yaye kufuneka ufumane uxolo lwangaphakathi ngokuqonda nangokwamkela oko kwenzeka kwixesha elidluleyo.
4. Lo mbono unokuba ngumqondiso wamandla omoya kunye namaqhina omoya akubophelelayo kusapho lwakho.
   Eli phupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wokuqinisa ezi zibopho kunye nemvakalelo yokuba ngumntu.

Ndiphuphe nditshata nobhuti wam owaswelekayo

1. Iphupha lakho lingafuzisela ukuba uziva unothando olunzulu kwaye ulangazelela umntakwenu ongasekhoyo.
   Eli phupha lisenokuba ngumyalezo osuka engqondweni yakho uvakalisa umnqweno wakho wokusondela kuye okanye ukumkhumbula.
2. Iphupha lakho lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wokufumana ukhathalelo kunye nenkxaso yomntu osondeleyo kuwe, njengoko abantakwenu bemele intuthuzelo nokhuseleko ebomini bakho.
   Mhlawumbi uyabubona ubukho bokomoya bomntakwenu ofileyo yaye ufuna ukuziva ukhathalelwe.
3. Eli phupha lingabonakalisa ubunzima beemvakalelo ojongene nazo ebomini bakho, kwaye uzama ukufumana isisombululo okanye imbuyekezo.
   Eli phupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kuwe ukuba intuthuzelo kunye nokhuseleko lunokufumaneka kwiinkumbulo zabantu ababalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
4. Lo mbono usenokubonisa umnqweno wakho wokulungisa okanye ukulungisa imicimbi engekagqitywa nomzalwana wakho ofileyo.
   Isenokunxulunyaniswa nokuzisola, ukumbeka ityala, okanye imibandela obungayilindelanga obungakwazanga ukuyicombulula naye ebomini bakhe.
5.  Eli phupha lingafuzisela amava akusondeza kumalungu entsapho yakho, kwaye abonise ukubaluleka kobudlelwane bentsapho kuwe.
   Usenokuba nomnqweno wokuqinisa ubuhlobo bakho nomalume wakho okanye namalungu entsapho yakho ngokubanzi.
6.  Ukubona umalume wakho etshata nawe ephupheni kunokubonakalisa umnqweno wokuziva ukhuselekile kwaye ujoliswe kumntu othathwa njengenkcazo yeemvakalelo ebomini bakho.
   Mhlawumbi uziva ufuna ukungenelwa kwicebiso lakhe okanye uziva ukhuselekile ukuba naye.
7.  Umalume wakho ephupheni unokuba ngumqondiso womntu obonakaliswe ngenkululeko kunye nokuzimela.
   Isenokumela umnqweno wakho wokutshintsha ubomi bakho okanye uthathe amanyathelo amatsha akhokelela kwinkululeko kunye nenkululeko.
8.  Eli phupha lingamela uxinzelelo kunye nemithwalo oyivayo ebomini bakho.
   Isenokubonisa imvakalelo yokuba nembopheleleko kunye nexhala elibangelwa kukusondela kwinyathelo elibalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
9.  Ukuphupha umalume wakho ekutshata kungabonakalisa ukuba ufuna ingcebiso okanye inkxaso kwizigqibo zeemvakalelo nezomtshato.
   Usenokubhideka malunga nobudlelwane bothando kwaye ujonge ukubona enye imbono Ukuphupha ngokutshata ngumalume wakho kunokufuzisela umnqweno wokusondela kusapho lwakho kwaye ufumane inkxaso kunye nokukhuselwa.
   Kwakhona kusenokubonisa umnqweno wokuzimela geqe nokutshintsha, iimvakalelo zokuxhalaba nonxunguphalo, okanye kwanemfuneko yokufuna uncedo kwiingcali zomtshato.
   Umntu ngamnye makatolike amaphupha akhe ngokwemeko neemeko zabo.

Ukutshata nomalume ephupheni kumfazi oqhawule umtshato

1. Iphupha malunga nokutshata nomalume lingabonakalisa umnqweno wokuseka ubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye namalungu entsapho.
   Umalume ubonisa uhlobo lokukhuselwa kwentsapho kunye nentuthuzelo, kwaye ngoko ke ukutshata nomalume ongumama kuthetha ukwakha ubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye nozinzileyo kunye namalungu entsapho.
2. Umtshato luphawu olunamandla lozinzo nokhuseleko ebomini.
   Iphupha elimalunga nokutshata nomalume lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wokuzinza ngokweemvakalelo nangokwezemali emva kwexesha lokungazinzi okanye imingeni yeemvakalelo oye wadibana nayo.
3.  Ukuba uqhawule umtshato kwaye uphupha ngokutshata nomalume wakho, oku kungabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wokubuyela kubomi bomtshato kwaye ufumane umtshato kwakhona.
   Usenokuba uziva ukruqukile okanye unesithukuthezi emva koqhawulo-mtshato lwakho, kwaye ufuna ukwakha kwakhona ubomi bosapho lwakho.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokwala ukutshata nomalume

1.  Iphupha malunga nokwala ukutshata nomalume lingabonakalisa inkxalabo yakho malunga nokuzinikela okunzulu kubudlelwane bothando.
   Usenokukoyika ukuthwala iimbopheleleko zomtshato yaye usenokuxhalatyiswa yimiqathango nokulahlekelwa yinkululeko yobuqu.
2.  Ukuba ngoku usebudlelwaneni bothando, iphupha lokwala ukutshata nomalume wakho lingabonakalisa amathandabuzo akho malunga nokufaneleka kobu budlelwane.
   Usenokuvakalelwa kukuba kukho into engalunganga kolu lwalamano yaye unokukhetha ukungatshati.
3.  Umtshato uthathwa njengenguqu enkulu ebomini, nangona kunjalo, ukuphupha ukwala ukutshata nomalume womntu kunokubonakalisa ukwesaba kwakho ukuguqulwa kunye nokungafuni ukutshintsha ubomi bakho bangoku.
   Mhlawumbi uziva ukhululekile kwimeko yangoku yaye unoloyiko lokuba umtshato uya kuzisa iinguqulelo ezinkulu nezingafunwayo.
4.  Iphupha malunga nokwala ukutshata nomalume linokunxulumana noxinzelelo lwentlalo ojongene nalo ukuba utshate neqabane lakho lobomi.
   Kusenokuba nzima kuwe ukwamkela imfuneko yomtshato kweli nqanaba lobomi bakho, kwaye usenokuba ucinezelwa lusapho okanye uluntu ukuba uqalise usapho.

Ndiphuphe nditshata nomalume wam otshatileyo

1. Ukuphupha ngokutshata nomalume wakho otshatileyo kunokuba luphawu lomnqweno onamandla wokutshata kwaye uqale intsapho.
   Umalume ephupheni unokufanekisela umntu oneempawu ezintle kwaye unokuba nefuthe kubomi bakho bomntu ngandlela-thile.
   Eli phupha lisenokubonisa umnqweno wakho wokuzinza ngokweemvakalelo nokhuseleko.

2. Ukutshata nomalume wakho otshatileyo kunokunxulumana nesidingo sokuziva womelele kwaye ukhuselekile.
   Umalume ephupheni unokufanekisela umntu onika imvakalelo yokhuseleko kunye nokukhuselwa, kwaye umtshato unokudlala indima ekuhlangabezaneni nale mfuno.
   Eli phupha lithetha ukuba uziva unqwenela ukuba nomntu okhathalayo ngawe kwaye ulungele ukukhusela nokunyamekela.

4. Ukutshata nomalume wakho otshatileyo ephupheni kunokubonisa umnqweno wakho wokuqhubeka okanye ukomeleza amaqhina osapho.
   Umtshato ephupheni unokufuzisela umnqweno wokusondela kumalungu entsapho kunye nonxibelelwano oluhle kunye nawo.
   Eli phupha lisisikhumbuzo kuwe ngokubaluleka konxibelelwano losapho kunye nokubonelela ngenkxaso kunye nonxibelelwano namalungu osapho lwakho.
5. Ukuphupha ngokutshata nomalume wakho otshatileyo kusenokuba luphawu lokuba kufuneka wamkele ukwahlukaniswa okanye ukwahlukaniswa namanye amalungu osapho.
   Ukutshata ephupheni kunokuba nesibonakaliso sokuziva unesizungu okanye kude nabo, kunye nokunxibelelana nabo ngendlela enye okanye enye ukufumana ukuhlaliswa kwangaphakathi.

Ndiphuphe nditshata nonyana kamalume Nditshatile

1. Ukubona umtshato emaphupheni kunokufuzisela umnqweno wakho wozinzo lwentsapho nokhuseleko oluza nobomi bomtshato.
   Iphupha malunga nokutshata nonyana womalume ngelixa utshatile lingabonakalisa umnqweno wokwakha intsapho ezinzileyo neyomeleleyo.
2. Iphupha lokutshata nomzala wakho lingabonakalisa amandla kunye nokuqhubekeka kobudlelwane phakathi kwakho nosapho lwakho.
   Eli phupha linokuthetha ukuba uziva unxibelelana olomeleleyo phakathi kwakho nosapho lomyeni wakho kwaye ukonwabela ubudlelwane obuqinileyo nobothando bentsapho.
3. Mhlawumbi, iphupha malunga nokutshata nomalume ngelixa utshatile lingabonakalisa umnqweno wokufumana ingqalelo kunye nokunyamekela ngakumbi kubantu abakujikelezile.
   Lo mbono unokubonisa ukuba uziva ufuna ukuphinda uqwalasele imeko yakho yangoku kwaye ufumane inkxaso kunye nokuzinza ngakumbi ebomini bakho.
4. Iphupha malunga nokutshata nonyana womalume ngelixa utshatile lingabonisa ukuba kukho inkxalabo enzulu ngaphakathi kwakho malunga nobudlelwane bakho bomtshato obukhoyo.
   Ungaziva usoyika okanye unexhala lokuba kukho ukungcatshwa okanye ukuxhatshazwa kubudlelwane.
   Kubalulekile ukuxoxa ngezi ngcamango kunye neqabane lakho ukuze ufezekise ukunyaniseka nokuthembela kubudlelwane.

Ndiphuphe nditshata nomakazi

1. Iphupha malunga nokutshata nomakazi wakho lingabonakalisa ubudlelwane obusondeleyo bentsapho phakathi kwakho.
   Lo mbono usenokuvakalisa umnqweno wokomeleza amaqhina entsapho nokomeleza ulwalamano lwentsapho.
2. Eli phupha linokutolikwa njengesalathiso sotshintsho kubomi bakho.
   Usenokuba ujongene notshintsho olukhulu kunye nezigqibo ezibalulekileyo ebomini bakho, kwaye iphupha libonisa ixhala lakho kunye noxinzelelo malunga nolu tshintsho.
3. Eli phupha lisenokubonakalisa iimvakalelo zokusondelelana nothando oluziva ngakumakazi wakho.
   Unokuba nobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nokhethekileyo kunye naye, kwaye iphupha libonisa umnqweno wakho wokuqinisa olu lwalamano.
4. Eli phupha linokuthetha ukuba ufuna ukuhlola iinkalo ezintsha zobuntu bakho.
   Usenokuba ucinga nge-adventure kwaye uzama izinto ezintsha ebomini bakho, kwaye iphupha libonisa olu thando lokuhlola.
5. Iphupha linokuthetha ukuba kukho imiqobo okanye imiqobo ejongene nenkqubela phambili yakho ebomini bakho.
   Unokuvakalelwa kukuba kukho izinto zangaphakathi okanye zangaphandle ezikuthintela ekufezekiseni iinjongo zakho, kwaye iphupha libonisa le mvakalelo yemiqobo.

Ndiphuphe nditshata nomfazi kamalume

Ukuphupha ngokutshata nomfazi kamalume wakho kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno wesini okanye inkanuko yesini ovakalelwa ngayo.
Mhlawumbi uziva ulingeka okanye umtsalane kumntu othile ongasondelanga kuwe ebomini bokwenyani.

Ukuphupha utshata nomfazi kamalume wakho kusenokubonisa umnqweno wakho wokusondelelana nentsapho uze uzive ubalulekile.
Kusenokubakho ukuxhatshazwa okanye umgama phakathi kwakho kunye necandelo lamalungu osapho lwakho, kwaye eli phupha libonisa umnqweno wakho wokuqinisa nokumanyanisa ubudlelwane.

Iphupha lokutshata nomfazi womalume wakho lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wokudibanisa iimpawu zakhe kubuntu bakho.
Mhlawumbi ufuna iimpawu okanye ubuchule okholelwa ukuba umfazi kamalume wakho unabo, kwaye uzama ukubamanyanisa kuwe.

Ukuphupha ngokutshata nomfazi kamalume wakho kunokuba yimbonakaliso yomona okanye ukhuphiswano ebomini bakho.
Unokuvakalelwa kukuba kukho umntu okhuphisana nawe kwinqanaba lomntu okanye lobugcisa, kwaye eli phupha libonisa iimvakalelo zakho eziphikisanayo kulo mntu.

Ukuphupha umfazi kamalume wakho etshata kunokuba luphawu lotshintsho kunye notshintsho ebomini bakho.
Unokufumana utshintsho olukhulu emsebenzini okanye kubudlelwane bomntu, kwaye eli phupha libonisa utshintsho lwakho ukusuka kwelinye inqanaba ukuya kwelinye ebomini bakho.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha ngomtshato kumfazi otshatileyo nomyeni wakhe kwaye unxibe ingubo emhlophe

1.  Iphupha malunga nokutshata kunye nokugqoka ingubo emhlophe ingabonisa umnqweno womfazi otshatileyo wokuvuselela intshiseko kunye nokuthandana kubudlelwane bakhe bomtshato.
   Lo mnqweno usenokuba ngumphumo wokukruquka okanye ucwangciso kubomi bomtshato nokudinwa kubomi bemihla ngemihla.
   Iphupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokuvuselela uthando kunye nokunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo neqabane likabani.
2. Umtshato luphawu lomanyano, unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo nolwenyama phakathi kwendoda nomfazi.
   Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha ngokutshata kunye nokugqoka ingubo emhlophe, oku kungabonisa umnqweno wakhe wokuphucula ubudlelwane bezesondo kunye nomyeni wakhe.
   Owasetyhini unokufuna ixesha lokunxibelelana neqabane lakhe ngcono kwaye aphinde afumane inkanuko yesini kunye nothando.
3. Ukuzibona unxibe ilokhwe yomtshato kunokubonisa imvakalelo yebhinqa yokunqabiseka nokuzinza kubomi balo bomtshato.
   Lo mzuzu unokuba luphawu lokuqinisekisa uthando lomyeni wakhe kunye nemvakalelo yakhe yokuzithemba kubudlelwane babo beemvakalelo kunye nomtshato.
4. Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo liphupha ngokutshata kunye nokugqoka ingubo emhlophe, oku kungabonakalisa imvakalelo yakhe yokugqiba kunye nokuzaliseka kweminqweno yakhe ebomini bomtshato.
   Eli phupha linokuba luqinisekiso lwexabiso lobudlelwane kunye nemvakalelo yolonwabo ngokubanzi kunye nokwaneliseka.
5.  Iphupha malunga nokutshata kunye nokugqoka ingubo emhlophe ingaba ngumqondiso womnqweno womfazi otshatileyo wokufikelela ukulinganisela phakathi kobomi bomntu kunye nobomi bomtshato.
   Umfazi unokuziva ecinezelekile kwaye acele umngeni ekulawuleni ubomi bobabini, kwaye eli phupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kuye ngokubaluleka kokuzinyamekela kunye nokwamkela uthando kunye nolonwabo.
6.  Iphupha malunga nokutshata kunye nokugqoka ingubo emhlophe ingabonakalisa ukuxhalaba okanye ukungathandabuzeki malunga nobudlelwane bomtshato.
   Iphupha linokucebisa umnqweno womfazi wokwenza nzulu incoko kunye nokuqonda iimvakalelo kunye neengxaki ezinokubakho kubudlelwane.
7.  Iphupha malunga nokutshata kunye nokugqoka ingubo emhlophe inokubonakalisa umnqweno womfazi wokuzimela kunye nokutshintsha.
   Ibhinqa linokuziva lifuna inkululeko engakumbi kunye ne-adventure ebomini bakhe bomtshato, kwaye eli phupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokufumana ukulingana phakathi kweemfuno zomntu kunye nokuhlangabezana neemfuno zomlingane.

Ukuphupha ngokutshata kunye nokugqoka ingubo emhlophe kubonisa ukubaluleka kokuvuleka kokutshintsha kunye nokunxibelelana okusebenzayo kunye neqabane lakho.
Kunokuba luncedo ukuxoxa ngala maphupha kunye neqabane lakho ukukhulisa ukuqondana nokusebenzisana ukuphucula ubudlelwane bomtshato.