Ingcaciso: Ndiphuphe ubhuti elala nomfazi wam ephupheni ngokutsho kuka Ibn Sirin

Nora Hashem
2023-10-08T09:59:47+00:00
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Ndiphuphe ubhuti elala nomfazi wam

Ukutolikwa kwephupha lokuba umntakwethu wabelana ngesondo nomfazi wakhe kubonisa ukuba umntu ophuphayo ufumana izibonelelo ezininzi ebomini bakhe ngexesha elizayo.
Iphupha lisenokubonisa ukuba iimeko zakhe zokuhlala zizinzile kakhulu.
Umboni unokuzuza ukwanda kwengeniso yakhe okanye ithuba lokunyuselwa emsebenzini wakhe.
Eli phupha linokuba lingqikelelo yeentsikelelo kunye nempumelelo eya kungena kubomi bomphuphi, kwaye ngoko kuya kuba negalelo ekuphuculeni kakhulu imeko yakhe yezemali.

Iphupha malunga nokubukela umntakwethu elala nomfazi wakhe linokuba luphawu lokuba amathuba amatsha kunye neenzuzo eziza ngendlela yomboni.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba umbonisi uya kufumana uxabiso kunye nentlonipho kubalingane emsebenzini okanye kuluntu, nto leyo enokukhokelela ekuphuculeni ikamva lakhe lobungcali nezoqoqosho.
Umboni kufuneka awasebenzise la mathuba anikiweyo kwaye awasebenzise ngendlela eya kuba luncedo kuye kunye nobomi bakhe bobugcisa kunye nobuqu. 
Eli phupha lithathwa njengophawu oluhle lokuphumeza utshintsho olutsha kunye nokuphuculwa kobomi bomphuphi.
Umphuphi usenokungena kwixesha lokuzinza kunye nokuchuma, kwaye oku kunokubonakaliswa kwiinkalo ezahlukahlukeneyo zobomi bakhe, kubandakanywa nobudlelwane bomzwelo kunye noluntu.
Umntu ophuphayo kufuneka athathe eli phupha njengentshukumisa eyongezelelweyo yokuqhubeka nokusebenza nzima kwaye ezama ukufezekisa iinjongo zakhe.
Kuphela ngemigudu engapheliyo kunye nokuzinikela, imboni inokusebenzisa amathuba akhoyo kwaye ifezekise impumelelo enkulu kwintsimi yobomi bakhe bobugcisa kunye nobomi bomntu.

Ndiphuphe umfazi wam ehleka nobhuti wam

Iphupha lokubona umfazi wakho ehleka nomntakwenu lelinye lamaphupha anokutolikwa ngeendlela ezininzi.
Ukuchazwa kwamaphupha kuxhomekeke kwiimeko zomntu ngamnye, ubomi bemihla ngemihla, imikhwa kunye nemibono.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, umbono unokuchazwa ngokubanzi ngendibaniselwano eyaziwayo yamaphupha.

Ukubona umfazi wakho ehleka nomntakwenu kubonisa ulwalamano oluhle nolonwabileyo phakathi kwabo.
Le ngcaciso isenokubonisa ubukho besivumelwano esihle nokuqondana phakathi komfazi wakho nomntakwenu.
Mhlawumbi lo mbono umele umnqweno wakho wokubona abantu obathandayo bephila kwindawo yolonwabo nolonwabo.

Eli phupha linokutolikwa kwelinye imbono ngokudibanisa umbono womfazi wakho kunye nomzalwana wakho kubudlelwane bezinto eziphathekayo kunye nentsebenziswano emsebenzini.
Eli phupha lingabonisa ubukho bethuba lomsebenzi odibeneyo phakathi kwakho kunye nomzalwana wakho okanye phakathi kwakho nomfazi wakho kwintsimi yorhwebo okanye umsebenzi ofanayo.
Mhlawumbi eli phupha libonisa ukulinganisela phakathi kobomi bentsapho yakho kunye nomsebenzi.

Funda ukuchazwa kwephupha lomfazi wam kunye nomntakwethu - iimfihlelo zokuchazwa kwephupha

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomfazi wam endiqhatha nobhuti wam

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokukhohlisa umfazi kunye nomntakwabo ephupheni kuthathwa njengephupha elibangela ukuxhalaba kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo.
Ukuba umyeni ubona ephupheni ukuba umfazi wakhe uyamkhohlisa kunye nomntakwabo, ke eli phupha linezibonakaliso ezininzi.
Eli phupha linxulunyaniswa nomfazi ovakalelwa kukuba ufuna uthando olungakumbi kunye nesisa.
Kusenokubonisa inkxalabo enzulu yomfazi nemfuneko yokuqinisekisa ukomelela kolwalamano lwakhe nendoda.
Kucetyiswa ukuba umyeni abe nomdla emfazini wakhe aze amxhase, amqonde aze amnyamekele.

Iingcali zokutolikwa kwephupha ziye zabonisa ukuba indoda ebona umfazi wakhe ephupheni kunye nomntakwabo ebonakala kunye nomfazi wakhe kubonisa uthando lomfazi ngomyeni wakhe kwaye umnqwenelela impilo kunye nolonwabo.
Ubukho bomzalwana womfazi womntu ephupheni bumele uphawu lomanyano lwentsapho kunye nosapho.
Ukongezelela, eli phupha lingabonakalisa imvakalelo yomfazi yokubaluleka kokubambisana kwentsapho kunye nokuqinisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwamalungu entsapho.

Ukuba indoda etshatileyo ibona ephupheni ukuba umfazi wakhe uyamkhohlisa kunye nomntakwabo, lo mbono ubonisa uthando olunzulu lomyeni kumfazi kunye nomntakwabo.
Eli phupha libonisa umnqweno womyeni wokukhusela ulwalamano lwentsapho yakhe nokuphepha ukungcatsha ukuthenjwa.
Umyeni kufuneka abonise iimvakalelo zakhe kumfazi wakhe kwaye atshintshe ukuthembela kunye nentlonipho kunye naye ukuze aqinisekise ukuzinza kobudlelwane bomtshato Ukuchazwa kwephupha malunga nomfazi wam endikhohlisayo kunye nomntakwethu kubonisa indlela indoda nomfazi abavakalelwa ngayo uthando , intuthuzelo, nolonwabo olukwabelwana ngalo.
Iphupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kumyeni ngokubaluleka kokunyamekela ubudlelwane bomtshato kunye nokugxininisa ukuthembela kunye nonxibelelwano oluhle.
Kunyanzelekile ukuba isibini sisebenzisane ukuze someleze uthando lwaso nokwakha ulwalamano olomeleleyo oluya kuhlala luhleli ubomi babo bonke.

Ndiphuphe umfazi wam elala nendoda engenguye

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokubona umfazi wakho elala nenye indoda kunokukhathazeka kwaye kuphazamise.
Eli phupha linxulunyaniswa neemvakalelo zomona kunye nokungathembani kubudlelwane bomtshato.
Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka uqaphele ukuba ukuchazwa okufanelekileyo kweli phupha kuxhomekeke kwezinye iinkcukacha ephupheni kunye nomxholo wobomi bokwenene bomntu.

Ukuba eli phupha libangela ukudideka kunye nokuxhalaba, akufanele uzibeke kwimeko ye-hysterical.
Ukubona eli phupha akuthethi ukungcatsha okwenyani, kunoko kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yesiphithiphithi seemvakalelo okanye iminqweno engafanelekanga.

Ukutolikwa kweli phupha kunokuvuleka: kunokubonisa umdla wakho wobuqu kunye neemeko zengqondo ezithatha ukucinga kwakho okwangoku.
Eli phupha lingabonakalisa uloyiko lokulahlekelwa ngumthandi wakho kunye nomnqweno wakho wokugcina ubudlelwane bakho Kufuneka ucinge ngezinto zokomoya kunye nezentlalo ezinokuchaphazela ubomi bakho.
Eli phupha lisenokubonisa ukuba uziva unqanyuliwe okanye ungabandakanyiwe ngokubanzi, okanye unokufuzisela ukuba kukho unxibelelwano olulahlekileyo ebomini bakho.

Ndiphuphe ubhuti ephuzana nomfazi wam

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nobhuti wam ephuza umfazi wam kuyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko kunye neemeko eliphuphayo.
Eli phupha lingafuzisela iintsingiselo ezininzi.
Ingabonakalisa ukulahlekelwa kukuthembana kunye nokungakhuseleki kubudlelwane phakathi kwamaqabane am angoku.
Kwakhona kunokubonisa amathandabuzo malunga nokunyaniseka komntakwenu kuwe kunye namandla akhe okubonelela ngenkxaso kunye nokukhusela kuwe kunye neqabane lakho.
Eli phupha libonwa libandakanya ubudlelwane obudibeneyo kunye nobunzima phakathi kosapho kunye nomtshato, kunye nokudityaniswa kokudibanisa kwabantu.

Ngokuqhelekileyo kufuneka uqonde iminqweno efihliweyo kunye neemvakalelo eziqulethwe leli phupha ukuze ukwazi ukufumana isisombululo kunye nokuzinza ngokweemvakalelo.
Amaphupha anjalo anokuba yinkcazo yesimo esingenangqondo kunye nomnqweno wokuhlola nokuqonda ubudlelwane obudibeneyo phakathi kwamalungu entsapho kunye nomtshato.

Kungcono ukuthetha nomzalwana wakho kwaye uvule ingxoxo malunga neli phupha, kwaye wabelane naye ngoloyiko lwakho kunye nethemba, ukwenzela ukuba le ngxoxo inokunceda ukulinganisela kunye nokuqinisa ukuthembela phakathi kwakho.
Ikwangumbono olungileyo ukufuna uncedo kwingcali ukuba awukwazi ukujongana nefuthe leli phupha kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla ngokufanelekileyo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha lokungcatsha umfazi kunye nomntakwabo womyeni

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokungcatshwa komfazi kunye nomntakwabo womyeni kunokubonakalisa iimvakalelo zokuxhalaba kunye nokungabaza ukuba indoda inokujongana nomfazi wayo.
Eli phupha libonisa ukungathembani kunye nokuxhalaba malunga nokunyaniseka kunye nobuhlobo phakathi komfazi kunye nomntakwabo womyeni wakhe.
Eli phupha lingabonisa kwakhona ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa ngumfazi kunye nokuziva umngcipheko onokwenzeka kubudlelwane bomtshato.
Kwakhona kusenokubonisa intiyo enzulu kunye nokuxinezeleka ngokwasengqondweni kulwalamano phakathi komyeni nomntakwayo womfazi.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nentombi yam endikhohlisayo Ndikunye nobhuti wam

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokubona intombi yam endikhohlisayo kunye nomntakwethu ephupheni ngokuqhelekileyo ibonisa iintsingiselo ezininzi kunye nemiyalezo.
Iphupha linokuba luphawu lokungabaza kunye nokungathembeki kubudlelwane obunothando kunye nesithandwa.
Isenokubonakalisa ixhala kunye noloyiko lokuphulukana nentombi komnye umntakwabo, okanye umona kunye nomona malunga nobudlelwane obusondeleyo phakathi kwentombi kunye nomntakwabo.
Mhlawumbi iphupha libonisa umnqweno wokufumana ingqalelo ngakumbi kumthandi, okanye umnqweno wokuqinisekisa ukuba uthembekile kuwe.
Iphupha linokuthi libonise ubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye nobudlelwane obusondeleyo phakathi komthandi kunye nomzalwana, apho bangathanda ukwabelana kunye nokubandakanya ebomini babo.
Kuxhomekeke ekutolikweni komntu othile kunye neemeko zabo zobuqu, njengoko iphupha linokuchazwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ngokwemiba ejikeleze umntu, iimvakalelo zabo kunye namava adlulileyo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba lithini na ukutolikwa kwephupha, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba amaphupha ahlala eyimifuziselo yeemvakalelo zethu ezinzulu kunye neengcinga ezinokuthi zahluke kwinyani yethu.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomfazi wam endiqhatha nenye indoda

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomfazi wakho ukukopela kunye nenye indoda kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi.
Indoda ebona umfazi wayo emkhohlisa ephupheni ngumqondiso onokuchazwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Lo mbono usenokuphenjelelwa nguSathana ukuba atyale intandabuzo nexhala kulowo uphuphayo.
Oku kunokuba ngumphumo wokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okanye uxinzelelo lwengqondo olufunyanwa ngumphuphi. 
Iphupha lokubona umfazi wakho ekopela kuwe kunye nenye indoda inokufuzisela ukulahlekelwa yintembelo kubudlelwane bomtshato okanye ukuba kukho umthwalo wemali onokulimaza umsebenzi wakho.
Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka sikhankanye ukuba ukuchazwa kwamaphupha kuxhomekeke kwaye kuxhomekeke kumxholo wobomi bomphuphi kunye neemeko zakhe zomntu.

Ukuba uphupha malunga nomfazi wakho ukukopela kwifowuni, oku kungabonakalisa ukungakhuseleki kunye nokuzithemba kubudlelwane bomtshato, okanye umnqweno wokudibanisa okunzulu kunye neqabane lakho lobomi.

Ukuba uphupha umfazi wakho ekopela kuwe, oku kunokuba ngumqondiso weemvakalelo zabo zothando, intuthuzelo kunye nolonwabo.
Lo mbono unokubonisa ukuzinza kobudlelwane bomtshato kunye nokuthembana phakathi kwamaqabane amabini.

Kodwa ukuba kuthe kwenzeka ukuba omnye wabo aphuphe umfazi wakhe emqhatha nenye indoda, oku kunokuba sisilumkiso esivela kuThixo uSomandla kumntu lowo ukuze ambonise ukuba umfazi wakhe uthembekile yaye unyanisekile kuye, nokuba uhlala ethembekile. nokhuseleko kulwalamano lwakhe naye.

Ukungcatshwa komzalwana ephupheni

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomzalwana ongcatsha umzalwana wakhe ephupheni kubonisa umbono ophazamisayo.
Njengoko eli phupha libonisa ubukho beengxabano okanye ukungavumelani kubudlelwane phakathi kwabazalwana.
Eli phupha lisenokubonisa ukungavisisani kwentsapho okanye uvakalelo phakathi kwabantakwenu.
Le ngcaciso inokuhambelana nomona okanye ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa luthando kunye nokuxabisa abantu abasondeleyo.

Eli phupha liyisimboli sokungathembani okanye ukungathandabuzeki kubudlelwane bentsapho.
Oku kunokubangela ukuba uzive unomsindo, ulusizi, okanye udakumbe.
Eli phupha lisikhumbuza ngokubaluleka konxibelelwano oluhle nolunyanisekileyo kunye namalungu entsapho kunye nokusombulula iingxaki ezinokubakho.
Eli phupha linokuba nefuthe elihle ekuqondeni nasekuqiniseni ubudlelwane bobuzalwana.

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