Iinkcukacha Iimpahla ephupheni
Iyaqwalaselwa Ukuthunga iimpahla ephupheni Omnye wemibono oqulethe iintsingiselo ezininzi kunye nokutolikwa.
Ngokubanzi, ukubona umntu ephupheni elungisa iimpahla kuthetha ukuzinza kunye nolonwabo lomtshato, kwaye kubonisa ukunyamalala kweeyantlukwano kunye neengxabano.
Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona intambo kunye nenaliti ephupheni lakhe, oku kubonisa ukuzinza kunye nokuzinza ebomini bakhe bomtshato.
Iingcali zikholelwa ukuba ukuthunga iimpahla ezintsha ephupheni kumfazi oqhawule umtshato ubonisa utshintsho kwiimeko ezinzima zengqondo kunye nomnqweno wakhe wokoyisa ukuphelelwa lithemba kunye nokukhungatheka.
Ngokuphathelele umfazi ongatshatanga, ukumbona echaza iimpahla ezintsha ephupheni lakhe kunokuba bubungqina bokuzibandakanya kwakhe okanye umtshato.
Kwaye xa kuziwa ekuthungeni iimpahla zomfazi ephupheni, oku kungabonisa ukugubungela nokufihla impazamo yomfazi.
Ukuba umntu uzibona ephupheni iimpahla zomfazi wakhe, oku kungabonakalisa ukuba umntu uya kuba yindlela okanye uncedo xa kukho imbandezelo.
Iphupha malunga neengubo ezintsha ezilungiselelwe abasetyhini abangatshatanga luphawu lomnqweno wabo wokunxibelelana kunye nokusebenzisana ngeendlela ezinyanisekileyo kunye nabanye.
Ngokutsho kukaIbn Sirin, ukuba umntu uzibona eziluka isambatho ephupheni, oku kusenokuthetha ukuphumelela kwakhe kwimicimbi yonqulo nomnqweno wakhe wokusondela kuThixo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba ukulungelelaniswa kweengubo ephupheni akuchanekanga, oku kungabonakalisa ukuba umntu uya kuqokelela izinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo.
Ukulungelelanisa iimpahla ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga
Ukuthunga iimpahla ephupheni kumfazi ongatshatanga kuwuphawu lokuziphatha kwakhe okuhle kunye nokuziphatha okuhle.
Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga ibona ephupheni ukuba ilungelelanisa iimpahla zayo, oku kubonisa ukuba unomdla wokunyamekela kwiinkcukacha zobomi bakhe bomntu kwaye ufuna ukufezekisa ukunyaniseka ekusebenzisaneni kwakhe nabanye.
Eli phupha libonisa ukomelela komlingiswa wakhe kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukujongana nemiceli mngeni ngokufanelekileyo nangokuthembekileyo.
Iimpahla ezineenkcukacha ephupheni zabasetyhini abangatshatanga zibonisa umnqweno wakhe wokufezekisa ubuhle kunye nobuhle ebomini bakhe kunye nokubonisa iinkalo zakhe ezintle ekusebenzisaneni nehlabathi elijikelezileyo.
Oku kutolikwa kunokonyusa ukuzithemba kwentombazana engatshatanga kwaye kuyikhuthaze ukuba iqhubeke ilwela ukuphuculwa nophuhliso lobuqu.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuthunga ingubo yowesifazane ongatshatanga
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuthunga ingubo yowesifazane ongatshatanga kubonisa ukuba umphuphi uya kutshata ngokukhawuleza umntu ofanelekileyo kwaye ujabulele ubomi kunye naye.
Xa ubona ingubo ithungelwa ephupheni, oku kuthathwa njengobungqina bokuziphatha kunye neempawu ezintle zomphuphi.
Kwakhona kubonisa umonde obonwa ngumboni kubomi bakhe bokwenene.
Ngaloo ndlela, iphupha malunga nokuthunga ingubo yowesifazane ongatshatanga luphawu oluhle lokukwazi ukufezekisa amaphupha akhe kunye nokuphuhlisa ubomi bakhe bomntu.
Iphupha malunga nokuthunga ingubo yowesifazane oyedwa ngokuqhelekileyo ichazwa njengophawu lwenhlanhla kunye nokuchuma kwixesha elizayo.
Oku kusenokuthetha ukuba umphuphi uya kujongana nophuhliso oluhle ebomini bakhe kwaye uya kunandipha ulonwabo nempumelelo.
Eli phupha linokuba ngumqondiso wokufika kwethuba elihle kakhulu elinxulumene nomcimbi obalulekileyo ebomini bomfazi ongatshatanga.
Ukuphupha ngokuthunga ilokhwe yebhinqa elingatshatanga nako kunokutolikwa njengokubonisa ukuzimela geqe, ukuzithemba, nokulawula ubomi balo.
Umbonisi usenokunqwenela ukuzimela ngakumbi kwaye alawule izigqibo zakhe.
Ukubona umfazi ongatshatanga ukuthunga ingubo ephupheni ziindaba ezilungileyo kunye nomqondiso wenhlanhla yakhe kunye nekamva eliqaqambileyo.
Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokufika kwesiganeko esibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakhe, njengomtshato okanye umtshato.
Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba ukuchazwa kokugqibela kwephupha kuxhomekeke kwimeko yalo kunye neenkcukacha ezicacileyo, kwaye umtoliki wamaphupha unokudityaniswa ukuze afumane ukutolikwa okucacileyo kunye nokuqonda.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuthunga ingubo entsha yowesifazane otshatileyo
Iingcali zokutolika zibonisa ukuba ukubona isambatho esitsha sithungwa ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo luphawu lokuthuthuzela kunye nokuzinza kwintsapho yakhe.
Eli phupha lixela kwangaphambili utshintsho oluhle kubomi bomphuphi, kwaye ingaba ngumqondiso wempumelelo kunye nokulunga oya kuvuya kungekudala.
Ukuba ibhinqa lizenzele ngokwakhe ingubo kwaye yayimangalisa kwaye iyamangalisa, ngoko oku kubonisa amandla akhe angaphakathi kunye nokukwazi ukuphumeza impumelelo ebomini bakhe.
Abanye abaphandi ekuchazeni amaphupha bakhankanya ukuba ukubona ingubo yokuthunga ephupheni kufanekisela ukufika kweendaba ezonwabileyo nezivuyisayo kungekudala ebomini bomphuphi.
U-Ibn Sirin ukwakhankanya ukuba ukuthunga iimpahla kunokufuzisela ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uya kufumana umthombo omtsha wokuziphilisa ebomini bakhe.
Iphupha malunga nokuthunga ingubo yowesifazane otshatileyo ngokuqhelekileyo litolikwa njengophawu lwenhlanhla yakhe kunye nokuchuma kwixesha elizayo.
Eli phupha linokuba bubungqina bophuhliso oluhle oluya kwenzeka ebomini bakhe, nokuba kukufumana umsebenzi omtsha okanye ukuqala iprojekthi entsha eya kuba nefuthe elihle kubomi bentsapho yakhe.
Ukuba ibhinqa liziva livuya yaye liziyolisa ngoxa lisenza ilokhwe, oku kusenokubonisa imvakalelo yalo yokuzithemba nolwaneliseko kuye nakubomi bakhe bangoku.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuthunga ingubo entsha yowesifazane okhulelweyo
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuthunga ingubo entsha yowesifazane okhulelweyo kunokubonisa utshintsho oluhle ebomini bomphuphi.
Lo mbono unokufuzisela ukufumana amaxesha amnandi namnandi ebomini bakhe, ekhatshwa liqabane lakhe.
Ukuba uphupha ukuthunga ingubo entsha yowesifazane okhulelweyo, unokuziva unethemba kwaye ujabule ngokufika komntwana wakho olandelayo.
Iphupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokuzinyamekela ngeli xesha lokukhulelwa.
Ingubo entsha yowesifazane okhulelweyo ingabonakalisa ukuqala kobomi obutsha, kwaye ibonisa nesidingo sakhe senkxaso kunye nokuzinyamekela.
Ukongezelela, ukuthunga ingubo ephupheni kunokubonisa ukuxolelana kweengxabano ezinokuthi zikhona nabazali, umyeni, okanye intsapho yomyeni.
Ngokuphathelele ukuchazwa kokubona ukuthunga ilokhwe ephupheni, oku kusenokuba ngumqondiso wokuza kokulunga, uThixo ethanda.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulungelelanisa ingubo entsha ngenxa yendoda
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuthunga ingubo entsha yendoda ibonisa iingcamango ezininzi ezintle.
Eli phupha lidla ngokubonakala ngokukhawuleza, libonisa imeko yomphuphi wenhlanhla.
Ukuba umphuphi ulungisa ilokhwe entsha ngokwakhe kwaye iba yinto emangalisayo kwaye emangalisayo, oku kubonisa amandla akhe angaphakathi kunye nokukwazi ukufezekisa ubuchule kunye nokugqwesa ebomini bakhe.
Ukubona ingubo entsha emhlophe yendoda ichazwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kunokufuzisela uvuyo, ulonwabo, ukucoceka, ukungabi nacala kunye nesiqalo esitsha.
Eli phupha lisenokuba ngumqondiso wokuba uya kufumana into angayilindelanga okanye angayifuniyo.
Ukubona isambatho esitsha, esilungisiweyo sibonisa impumelelo yeprojekthi yomphuphi kunye nokufezekiswa kweenzuzo ezininzi kunye neenzuzo kwixesha elizayo.
Kwimeko yokubona indoda ekwahlula ingubo, oku kubonisa ukuxhomekeka, uthando, kunye nokusondelana okujikeleze umphuphi.
Ukuthunga kunye nobomi kwisambatho kunokubonisa izinto ezintle ukuba umphuphi unethemba lokufezekisa ebomini bakhe.
Ukuba indoda etshatileyo ibona iimpahla zayo ezintsha zithungwa, ngoko abaphengululi bakholelwa ukuba oku kuxela kwangaphambili isikhundla sakhe esikhulu emsebenzini okanye kurhwebo kwixesha elizayo elingekude.
Inkcazo ye-Ibn Sirin idibanisa inkcazo yengubo entsha yamaphupha kunye nezinto ezivuyisayo eziphuphayo umntu kwaye afune ukuzifumana kungekudala.
Isinxibo esiqhelekileyo samadoda sifuzisela umfazi, kwaye abafazi bafanekisela indoda, ngokusekelwe koko kukhankanyiweyo kwiKur’an eNgcwele.
Ngoko ke, ukubona iinkcukacha zesambatho esitsha sendoda kunokutolikwa njengento ebonisa ukufika kweqabane elifanelekileyo lobomi okanye ukuphucula ubudlelwane bomtshato xa kubonwa ngabasetyhini.
Iphupha lokulungelelanisa isambatho esitsha kwindoda libonisa izinto ezintle kunye nokuguqulwa kobomi obuqaqambileyo onokuthi umphuphe ajabule kwixesha elizayo elisondeleyo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulungelelanisa ingubo entsha
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulungelelanisa ingubo entsha ebonwa ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umntu obonayo ucinga ntoni ngokwenene.
Ukuba ukwenza iimpahla ezintsha kuluphawu oluhle, oku kungabonakalisa ukuza kokulunga nokuchuma.
Kwaye ukuba umntu ulungelelanise isambatho ngokwakhe kwaye yaba yinto emangalisayo kwaye iyamangalisa, oku kungabonisa amandla akhe angaphakathi kunye nokukwazi ukufezekisa iinjongo.
Kwimeko apho umfazi ongatshatanga ebona ingubo entsha kwaye uziva evuya, oku kungabonakalisa ukuzaliseka kweminqweno yakhe kunye novuyo lwakhe kwixesha elizayo.
Kwinkcazo ye-Ibn Sirin, inkcazo yesambatho esitsha ifanekisela amaphupha kunye namabhongo umntu amkhathaleleyo kwaye afune ukufezekisa kwixesha elizayo.
Oku kubonisa izinto ezivuyisayo ahlala ecinga ngazo nafuna ukuziphumeza.
Ukubona iinkcukacha zesinxibo esitsha kusenokwenzeka ukuba kubonisa iinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi, ezinjengovuyo, ulonwabo, ubunyulu, ukuba nyulu, nesiqalo esitsha.
Ukubona umntu ephupheni elungisa ilokhwe entsha kusenokubonisa ukuba uzimisele ukulungisa indlela aziphatha ngayo ukuze angabi sisijwili phakathi kwabantu.
Lo mbono unokufuzisela ixesha lolonwabo, ulonwabo kunye nolonwabo ebomini bomntu.
Ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin, ukubona umntu ephupheni echaza kunye nokuthunga iimpahla kunokubonisa ubudlelwane, uthando kunye nokuqhelana phakathi kwabantu.
Ukuthunga kubonisa amandla kabani okuxhasa nokunyamekela abanye, yaye ukubona isambatho esitsha ephupheni kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yamandla omntu okuthunga nokubunjwa kwakhe ubomi ngokuvisisana nomnqweno nosukelo lwakhe.
Ukuthunga iingubo ephupheni
Ukuthunga iingubo ephupheni kubonisa iimpawu ezininzi.
Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ephupheni egqoke ingubo ekrazukileyo okanye engcolileyo, lo mbono ungabonisa ukuxhatshazwa kubudlelwane bakhe nomyeni wakhe kunye nobukho beengxaki phakathi kwabo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-jilbab ephupheni isimboli sokukhusela kunye nokukhusela, kwaye sinokubonisa ukuziphatha okuhle komphuphi kunye nokunyaniseka ebomini.
Xa umntu otshatileyo ebona ukuthunga izambatho ephupheni, oku kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yeemeko ezintle ahlala kuzo nokusondelelana kwakhe nentsapho yakhe.
Ukongezelela, iingubo zokuthunga ephupheni zingabonisa ukufika kolonwabo kunye novuyo ebomini bomphuphi.
Noko ke, ukuba umphuphi ngumfazi yaye ezibona enxibe isambatho esibanzi ephupheni, oku kunokubonakalisa ukulunga konqulo lwakhe nokusondela kwakhe kuThixo.
Umwunduzo obanzi ufuzisela isigqubuthelo, isidima, nokugcinwa kwembeko nembeko, ukwabonisa isimilo esihle somphuphi nendlela yakhe yokhokelo nokuhlonela uThixo.
Ukubona umntu otshatileyo ethunga iimpahla zomfazi wakhe ephupheni kunokuba luphawu lwengxaki okanye uxinzelelo olunokuthi umphuphe abhekane nalo.
Ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin, eli phupha luphawu lobunzima ebomini.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulungelelanisa ingubo entsha emnyama
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulungelelanisa isambatho esitsha esimnyama kubonisa iintsingiselo ezahlukeneyo kwaye kunokuba neentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo ngokuxhomekeka kwiimeko kunye neenkcukacha ezihamba nephupha.
Ingubo emnyama ephupheni ingabonakalisa ubukho bomntu oneenjongo ezimbi kwaye ufuna ukutshabalalisa ulonwabo lwabanye.
Eli phupha libonisa ukuba kukho ingozi enokwenzeka okanye ujongene nomntu ongalunganga ebomini bakho.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iphupha malunga nokudala ingubo entsha libonisa ulonwabo, ukwaneliseka, kunye nokutshintsha kweemeko ezingcono.
Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokuba amathuba amatsha anokuza ebomini bakho kwaye ungafumana impumelelo kunye nokuchuma kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo.
Luphawu lotshintsho oluhle kunye nokuphucula ubomi.
Nangona kunjalo, xa ubona ukuthungwa kwengubo entsha yabafileyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa umnqweno wakho wokubhiyozela inkumbulo yabafileyo kunye nokugcina inkumbulo yabo entle.
Lo mbono usenokubonisa intlonelo noxabiso ngomntu ophulukene naye uze umkhumbuze ngothando noxabiso.
Ukuba wenza ilokhwe emnyama ephupheni, inokuba nentsingiselo entle, njengoko inokufuzisela isikhundla esitsha, indlela yokuphila ezayo, okanye umtshato osondelayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuzibona unxibe isambatho esitsha esimnyama ephupheni kunokufanekisela ukuzinza kwentlalo kunye nokuphumeza impumelelo kwindawo ebalulekileyo kuwe.
Ukuba uzibona unxibe ilokhwe endala emnyama ephupheni, lo mbono ungabonisa ukungabikho kwemali, ubunzima bokufumana imali, okanye nokuba ubuyele kwiimeko zangaphambili owawubandezeleka kuzo.
Kusenokufuneka uthathe inyathelo lokuphucula nokomeleza imeko yakho yezemali.
Iphupha malunga nokulungelelanisa isambatho esitsha esimnyama sibonisa utshintsho ebomini kunye noshintsho olungcono okanye olubi, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha luqikelelo lweziganeko ezizayo.
Eli phupha kufuneka litolikwe ngokuqwalasela iimeko zomntu ngamnye kunye neentsingiselo ezijoliswe kuyo, ezinokuthi zihluke kwimeko nganye.
