Ukutolikwa kokubona amathe ephupheni
Ukuchazwa kokubona amathe ephupheni kunokuba neentsingiselo ezininzi kunye neentsingiselo.
Ukubona amathe ephupheni kunokubonisa amagama amahle okanye amabi, njengoko kunokufanekisela imali eqokelelweyo.
Ukuba ukutshicela umntu kubonakala ephupheni, oku kusenokuthetha ukuba umntu otshicayo ukhupha ulwimi lwakhe komnye kwaye uyamthuka.
Ukongeza, ukubona ukutshicela umntu ephupheni kungabonakalisa ukunyelisa nokuqalekisa abanye.
Ukuba umntu uzibona etshicela ebusweni bomnye umntu ephupheni, oku kunokuba bubungqina bamagama angamkelekanga athethwa ngaye.
Ukubona ukutshicela ephupheni kusenokuba yenye yezinto ezibonisa amandla omlinganiswa kunye nokukwazi ukujamelana nezinto, kodwa kwezinye iimeko, ukutshicela ephupheni kunokufuzisela ububi, umsindo, ubukrakra, okanye ityala.
Ukutolikwa kwamathe ephupheni kunokubonisa imali kwindoda.
Ukuba umntu uzibona etshica eludongeni ephupheni, oku kunokuba bubungqina bokuba uchitha imali eninzi.
Ukuba utshicela emthini, oko kusenokuthetha ukuba uya kufumana ingeniso yemali.
Abanye abantu banokuziva bengahlonelwa okanye bengaqondwa ngabanye kwaye ukubona ukutshicela ephupheni kunokubonisa oku.
Isenokuthetha Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga namathe Ephupheni lomntu, unokufumana umhlaba okanye ajongane neengxabano ezithile ebomini bakhe.
Ukubona amathe ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
Ukubona i-spit ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo yimeko engathandekiyo, njengoko ingaba yinto ebonisa ukuba ezinye izinto ezimbi ziya kwenzeka ebomini bakhe.
Ukutshica kweli phupha ngokuqhelekileyo kufanekisela umphuphi owenza izinto ezingathandekiyo, ezifana nokuhleba kunye nokuhleba.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona ukutshicela ephupheni, oku kusenokubonisa ulwalamano lwakhe nomyeni wakhe neembopheleleko zakhe njengomfazi.
Ukuba ephupheni ubona ukutshica igazi, oku kunokubonisa ukuba wenza izenzo ezigwenxa kunye nokuziphatha okubi.
Xa ebona umntu etshicela ephupheni, oku kunokubonisa ukuba uphatha kakubi abanye.
Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona etshicela unyana wakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuphathwa kakubi kwakhe kwaye kunokuba luphawu lokuhla kobudlelwane phakathi kwabo.
Ngokutsho kwenkcazo ka-Ibn Sirin, ukubona ukutshicela umfazi otshatileyo kuthathwa njengento engathandekiyo, njengoko amathe omileyo ephupheni abonisa ubuhlwempu kunye nokungabi nakuzinceda.
Ukubona i-spit ephupheni kukwajongwa njengento ebonisa iingxaki kunye nobunzima apho umfazi otshatileyo unokujamelana nawo.
Ukubona amathe ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo kunokuba ngumqondiso wobutyebi kunye namandla omyeni wakhe.
Lo mbono usenokusixelela ukuba uyakwazi ukulawula iimeko zakhe nobomi bakhe.
Ukutolikwa kokutshiza ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga
Ukubona i-spit kwiphupha lomfazi oyedwa kubonakaliso lweenkcazo ezininzi kunye nokuchazwa, ezinokuhluka ngokuxhomekeka kwiimeko kunye neenkcukacha zephupha.
Ngokutsho komtoliki wephupha uMiller, ukubona ukutshicela emhlabeni ephupheni kubonisa ubutyebi kunye nokuphila okuninzi kulowo uphuphayo.
Ukuba umbala we-spit utshintsha ephupheni, oku kuthathwa njengobungqina benguqu kwimvakalelo yomphuphi okanye ubomi bomntu.
Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga ibona ukutshicela umntu ephupheni, oku kungabonisa ukuphula izithembiso okanye iminqophiso.
Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga izibona itshicela umntu endleleni ephupheni, oku kunokuthetha ukuba uya kuboniswa ubunzima okanye iingxaki ngokubhekiselele kubudlelwane boluntu.
Kwintombazana engatshatanga engekatshati, ukubona ukutshicela ephupheni kumfana okanye kumfana kubonisa ubuninzi bokulunga kunye nenzuzo enkulu eya kuyifumana kwixesha elizayo.
Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga iphupha ukuba iyatshiza phantsi, oku kungabonisa ukugula kunye nokukhathala okufika kuye.
Nangona ebona umntu etshicela ebusweni bakhe ephupheni, oku kungabonakalisa ubuthathaka bakhe kunye nokuthotywa kwakhe ngabanye.
Ngokuphathelele ukuchazwa kokutshiza ephupheni ezandleni zomntakwabo okanye uyise wentombazana engatshatanga, oku kungabonisa ukuba uya kufumana imali kwintsapho yakhe kwaye azive evuya kwaye anelisekile.
Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga ibona amathe ekhayeni layo, oku kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yentabalala yokuphila yaye iya kufumana imali eninzi ngokwenene.
Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuba ukutshiza kwiphupha lomfazi oyedwa kubonisa isibonakaliso sokufika komthandi ofunwayo kunye nokuvela kwethuba lomtshato kwixesha elizayo elisondeleyo.
Le ngcaciso isenokuzisa ithemba nethemba kwintombazana engatshatanga enqwenela ukutshata neziva ikulungele ukutshata.
Ukutolikwa kokutshiza ephupheni kumfazi
Ukuchazwa kokutshiza kwiphupha lomfazi kunokuhluka ngokuxhomekeka kwimeko yakhe yomtshato.
Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha ukuba utshiza ekhaya, oku kungabonisa ukuba uya kufumana imali eninzi kumyeni wakhe.
Lo mbono usenokuba luphawu lwenzala elungileyo kunye nokuba ngumama owonwabileyo.
Ngokubhekiselele kubafazi abangatshatanga, iphupha malunga ne-spit ingaba ngumqondiso wemali eninzi kwixesha elizayo.
Oku kusenokuthetha ukuba ibhinqa liya kuba nobutyebi kwaye linandiphe ulonwabo nobunewunewu.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni imeko yowesifazane, ukuchazwa kokutshiza ephupheni kunokubonisa ukuxoka nokukhohlisa.
Kusenokufuneka sihlolisise indlela esiziphethe ngayo size sikuphephe ubuxoki nokugqwetha izibakala.
Ukubona amathe ephupheni kumfazi oqhawule umtshato
Ukubona i-spit kwiphupha lomfazi oqhawule umtshato yenye yemibono ephethe intsingiselo ebalulekileyo.
Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ephupheni ubona umntu etshicela ebusweni bakhe, oku kungabonisa ukuba uya kuthotywa kunye nokuthotywa.
Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona umntu etshicela emehlweni akhe ephupheni, oku kungabonisa ukuba ujongene nesimo sokuthotywa kunye neentloni.
Iphupha lomfazi oqhawule umtshato ukuba umntu uyamtshicela lingafuzisela ukuba kukho abantu abaninzi abasasaza ubuxoki ngaye kwaye bathetha kakubi kakhulu ngaye emva kwakhe.
Oku kunokuba bubungqina bokuba kufuneka athabathe amanyathelo okukhusela isidima sakhe nokunqanda ukusasazeka kwamarhe ngaye.
Xa umfazi oqhawule umtshato ebona i-spit ephupheni lakhe, oku kunokuba luphawu lwesidingo sokuphonononga kwakhona izigqibo zakhe kunye nokwenza izigqibo ezingcono kwixesha elizayo.
Eli phupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kuye ukuba ufanelwe intlonipho kunye nokuxatyiswa, kwaye kufuneka abeke imida kwabo bazama ukumenzakalisa okanye ukumthuka.
Ukutshica amathe ephupheni kusenokuba luphawu lokulungileyo nokubi.
Isenokubonisa ukuba kukho ubunzima umfazi oqhawule umtshato anokujamelana nako ebomini bakhe, kodwa kwangaxeshanye kusenokuba bubungqina bokuba uya kuboyisa ezo ngxaki aze afumane impumelelo nenkqubela phambili.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokutshicela ebusweni bomntu
Ukubona ukutshicela ebusweni bomntu ephupheni kuneentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, oku kunokuthetha ukujamelana nokuthotywa kunye nokuthotywa ekuvukeni ubomi.
Ukuba umntu ubona ukutshicela ebusweni bakhe ephupheni, oku kusenokubonisa ukuba uthethe amazwi obuxoki.
Ukuphupha ngokutshicela ebusweni bomnye umntu kunokuthwala umyalezo okhuthazayo, kwaye kunokufuzisela ukoyisa imeko enzima umphuphi ajongene nayo.
Ingabonisa imvakalelo yokunqoba kunye nokoyisa into ekukhathazayo ixesha elide.
Iphupha malunga nokutshicela ebusweni bomntu linokuthetha ukuba umphuphi uya kwenza izenzo ezingathandekiyo ezinokubangela intlungu kumalungu entsapho yakhe.
Eli phupha linokuthi lithathwe njengesilumkiso malunga nokwenza izenzo ezilindele abanye malunga nomphuphi ngokukhanya okubi.
Ukuba i-spit ephupheni yomile, oku kungabonakalisa ubuhlwempu kunye nesidingo semali kwaye kunokubonisa iingxaki zemali ezijongene nomphuphi.
U-Imam Ibn Sirin, wanga uThixo abe nenceba kuye, wabonisa ukuba ukubona ukutshica ephupheni kubonisa imali kunye nobutyebi bomntu, kwaye kubonisa amandla akhe.
Wachaza ezinye iimeko apho umphuphi ebona amathe.
Ukuba umphuphi ubona ephupheni ukuba utshicela umntu, oku kunokutolikwa njengokuba uhleba lo mntu ngamazwi angafanelekanga.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ephupheni ubona omnye umntu emtshicela, oku kubonisa ukuba lo mntu uthetha kakubi ngendlu yomphuphi.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ukutshiza ephupheni kuqulethe igazi, oku kunokubonisa ukuba umphuphi uthetha amazwi angenalwazi kwaye uthetha into engathandekiyo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusonga
Iphupha lokusonga lithathwa njengelinye lamaphupha aphethe iintsingiselo ezahlukeneyo kunye neentsingiselo kwingcaciso yesiArabhu.
Umphuphi usenokuzibona eguquka ephupheni lakhe, yaye ukuchazwa koku kuyahluka ngokomongo neenkcukacha ezihamba nelo phupha.
Ukuba umphuphi ujikeleze umntu othile ephupheni lakhe, oku kungabonakalisa ukuzinikela kunye nokuxhomekeka kuloo mntu.
Ingabonisa ukuba umphuphi uthembele kwimibono kunye neziphakamiso zomntu ojikelezayo, kwaye oku kunokuba bubungqina bokuthembela ukuba umphuphi unika lo mntu.
Ukuba umphuphi uzibona ejika kwisangqa ngaphandle komntu othile phakathi kwephupha, oku kunokufanekisela ubomi obuphindaphindiweyo kunye nesiqhelo ukuba umphuphi uhlala.
Ingabonisa imvakalelo yokuvaleka kunye nokuzihlukanisa, kwaye inokuba bubungqina besidingo sotshintsho kunye nolwahlulo kubomi bemihla ngemihla.
Kwakhona kukho ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusonga okungabonisa ukunyanzeliswa kunye nokunyanzeliswa komphathi.
Isenokufuzisela ukuba kukho abantu abazama ukuguqula iimeko zomphuphi kwiingenelo zabo zobuqu ngendlela engekho mthethweni okanye yokuziphatha okubi.
Kungaba bubungqina bokukhwabanisa kunye nempembelelo embi kumntu ophuphayo.
Ukutshica emanzini ephupheni
Xa ubona ukutshiza emanzini ephupheni, oku kunokuba ngumqondiso wokungqubuzana ngokweemvakalelo ekufuneka kuqwalaselwe.
Idla ngokubonisa iimvakalelo ezicinezelekileyo kunye nokungabikho kolawulo.
Lo mbono usenokuba ubonisa ukutshicela ngokuzibandakanya okuzayo kwendoda elilungisa.
Ukuba uyise okanye umama utshicela umfazi ongatshatanga ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukulunga kunye nemali eninzi eya kuyifumana kwaye iya kuba sisizathu solonwabo lwakhe.
Amanzi ephupheni afanekisela amaSilamsi kunye nolwazi, ubomi, ukuchuma kunye nokuchuma.
Ithwele ubomi kuyo yonke into, ngokwamazwi kaThixo uSomandla.
U-Imam Ibn Sirin ukhankanyiwe kwiincwadi zakhe zokutolika ukuba ukubona ukutshica ephupheni kunokubonisa ubutyebi kunye nobuchule bomntu, kwaye kunokubonisa ukunyundela kunye nokungabikho kwakhe rhoqo ebantwini.
Nabani na obona ukuba utshicelwe emlonyeni wakhe kwaye igazi libonakala ephupheni, oku kubonisa inzuzo engavumelekanga eya kufunyanwa ngumphuphi.
Ukubona ukutshiza igazi ephupheni kunokubonisa ukuba umphuphi uthatha imali okanye amalungelo abanye.
Ukutshiza amanzi ephupheni kunokuba luphawu lokuchitha imali ngeendlela ezingalunganga.
Ukuba amathe abandayo, oku kungabonakalisa ukufa, kwaye ukuba amathe emlonyeni womile, oku kungabonakalisa ubuhlwempu.
Ukutshica ephupheni kugqalwa njengentsikelelo kwintetho, ngolwazi okanye ngemali.
Isenokubonisa impilo okanye ukugula.
Ukuba umntu ubona amathe akhe ephupheni, oku kunokuba luphawu lokufumana kwakhe imali engekho mthethweni.
U-Imam Ibn Sirin wathi ukubona ukutshica ephupheni ngokuqhelekileyo kubonisa imali kunye nobutyebi umphuphi anabo ebomini bakhe bokwenyani kwaye kubonisa amandla kunye nobuchule bakhe.
Ukubona ukutshicela emanzini ephupheni kunokusinika ukuqonda okunzulu kweengxabano zeemvakalelo esijamelana nazo kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla kwaye kusinike ithuba lokuzicubungula kwaye sifumane ulawulo phezu kwazo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nabaphilayo ukutshica abafileyo
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomntu ophilayo otshicela umntu ofileyo kunokwahluka kwaye kuntsonkothe kwaye kunokubonisa iintsingiselo ezininzi.Ukutshica kujongwa njengento yokungcola kunye nethamsanqa, ngoko ukubona umntu ophilayo etshicela umntu ofileyo kunokuba luphawu. ukwenzeka kwemicimbi engalunganga okanye iingxaki kubomi obusebenzayo bomphuphi.
Ukuba kukho umbono womntu ophilayo otshicela umntu ofileyo ephupheni, oku kusenokutolikwa njengokuthetha ukuba lowo uphuphayo ukhunjuzwa ngokuziphatha kwakhe okubi phambi kwabanye yaye kufunyaniswa ukuba ukhankanywa ngeendlela ezimbi.
Oku kungabonisa ubukho bobutshaba okanye ukungavumelani kwintlalontle okanye ubudlelwane bomsebenzi, kwaye oku kunokubonakala ngezenzo zabanye kuye kunye nokuziphatha kwabo okubi kuye.
Iphupha malunga nomntu ophilayo otshicela umntu ofileyo unokutolikwa njengento ebonisa ukuvakalelwa kunye nokunganeliseki ngokuziphatha kwabanye kumntu ophuphayo.
Kusenokubakho umnqweno wokulungisa unxulumano olubi kunye nokwakha unxulumano olutsha oluhle nabanye.
Ukubona ukutshica ephupheni kunokutolikwa njengesilumkiso malunga nokusasazwa kwamahemuhemu okanye intlebendwane ekhubekisayo anokuthi umphuphi abonakale kuyo.
Eli phupha linokuxela kwangaphambili ukuba umntu uya kuba neentloni okanye abhekane nobunzima kubomi bakhe bentlalontle okanye emsebenzini.
