Funda malunga nokuchazwa kokubona ingubo emhlophe yowesifazane otshatileyo ephupheni ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin

Ukutolikwa kokubona ingubo emhlophe yowesifazane otshatileyo

1. Ukubona ingubo emhlophe kumaphupha omfazi otshatileyo kunokubonakalisa umnqweno wakhe wokucoceka nokungabi nacala.
   Ilokhwe emhlophe ngokuqhelekileyo ithathwa njengophawu lomtshakazi obalaseleyo onobuhle nobumsulwa.
   Iphupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno womfazi wokuthembeka kumlingane wakhe kunye nokubuyisela intshiseko kunye nokungabi nacala kubudlelwane.
2. Ingubo emhlophe ephupheni yomfazi otshatileyo ingabonakalisa ukuhlaziywa komnqophiso womtshato kunye nokuvuselelwa kothando.
   Ingubo emhlophe eyibonayo ephupheni ibonisa umnqweno wakhe wokubuyisela umdla kunye ne-adventure kubudlelwane bakhe nomyeni wakhe.
   Iphupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kuye ngokubaluleka kokunyamekela ubudlelwane bomtshato kunye nokubonisa uthando kunye nomdla ovuselelweyo.
3. Abafazi abaninzi babona ilokhwe emhlophe emaphupheni abo emva kweminyaka betshatile Banokuba nomnqweno wokuhlaziya nokubuyisela ukukhanya kubomi babo bomtshato.
   Ukongezelela, iphupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakhe wokubuyela kwiintsuku zangaphambili xa wayeziva evuya kakhulu kwaye ekhuselekile kubudlelwane bakhe bomtshato.
4. Ukubona ingubo emhlophe kunokuba nenkcazo engafanelekanga, njengoko inokubonakalisa uloyiko lomfazi otshatileyo lokungcatshwa ngumlingane wakhe.
   Abanye abantu baziva besoyika ukuphulukana nokuthenjwa kunye nokungcatshwa liqabane labo.
   Iphupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kumfazi ngesidingo sokunxibelelana kunye nokuvula incoko kunye nomyeni wakhe ukuxazulula iingxaki ezinokuthi zibekho kunye neenkxalabo.
5. Ukubona ingubo emhlophe emaphupheni kumfazi otshatileyo kunokuba nje ukubonakalisa ukuzonwabisa kunye nokubhiyozela.
   Iphupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wokuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nabahlobo kunye namalungu entsapho, kwaye ujabulele amaxesha amnandi ebomini.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nengubo emhlophe ende yomfazi otshatileyo

Ukubona ingubo emhlophe ende ingabonakalisa ulonwabo kunye nokukhanya kubomi bomtshato.
Oku kunokuba yimbonakaliso yokwaneliseka kunye nempumelelo kubudlelwane bomtshato, kunye nonxibelelwano oluhle phakathi kwabatshatileyo.

Kungenzeka ukuba ingubo emhlophe ende ifanekisela umnqweno womfazi otshatileyo wokwenza utshintsho oluhle ebomini bakhe bomtshato.
Ukubona esi sinxibo kusenokuba kubonisa umnqweno wakhe wokuvuselela ulwalamano lwakhe lweemvakalelo nomyeni wakhe okanye ukwenza iinguqulelo ezintle ebomini bakhe nakubomi bakhe bomtshato.

Ingubo emhlophe ende ephupheni ingabonakalisa umnqweno womfazi otshatileyo ukuba abonakale ehle kwaye ehle.
Ibhinqa lisenokuziva linqwenela ukuqaqamba nokunyamekela lona kunye nenkangeleko yalo yangaphandle, nto leyo enokuba yindlela yokwandisa ukuzithemba.

Ingubo yomtshato emhlophe ende ephupheni ingabonakalisa ukubhiyozelwa kwesikhumbuzo somtshato okanye isiganeko esivuyisayo nomyeni wakhe.
Iphupha elinjalo linokuba yisikhumbuzo kumfazi otshatileyo wexesha elonwabileyo adibana nalo ebomini bakhe bomtshato.

Ingubo emhlophe ende ephupheni ingabonakalisa umnqweno wokuba nabantwana kwaye uqale intsapho.
Umfazi otshatileyo unokuziva enomdla kwaye enomdla wokuphumeza ubumama kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwinkqubo yokudala ubomi.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nesambatho somtshato kumfazi otshatileyo ngaphandle komyeni

1.  Ukuphupha ngengubo yomtshato ngaphandle komyeni kunokufanekisela umnqweno wenkululeko kunye nokuzimela ngaphakathi kobudlelwane bomtshato.
   Ibhinqa lisenokuziva linqwenela ukuzenzela izinto ngokwalo okanye lifumane inkululeko engakumbi ebomini balo.
2. Ukuphupha ngengubo yomtshato ngaphandle komyeni kunokuba yimbonakaliso yokulangazelela uthando kunye nomoya onomdla kubomi bomtshato.
   Umfazi otshatileyo unokuziva efuna uthando ngakumbi kunye nothando kubudlelwane bakhe.
3. Ukuphupha ilokhwe yomtshato ngaphandle komyeni kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yobulolo okanye yokunganeliseki kulwalamano lomtshato.
   Umfazi unokuziva enqongophele unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo nomyeni wakhe okanye ikhefu okanye ukudodobala kobudlelwane.
4. Iphupha malunga nesambatho somtshato ngaphandle komyeni unokufanekisela umnqweno womfazi otshatileyo wokutshintsha okanye ukuqwalasela kwakhona ubudlelwane bomtshato.
   Kusenokubakho imfuneko yohlengahlengiso okanye ukuphuculwa kolwalamano ukuze kugcinwe ulonwabo nokuzinza kubomi bomtshato.
5. Ukuphupha ngengubo yomtshato ngaphandle komyeni kunokubonisa isidingo esiphuthumayo sokunxibelelana kunye nokuvuleka kubudlelwane bomtshato.
   Umfazi otshatileyo usenokuziva efuna ukuxubusha ngoloyiko, iminqweno, namathemba neqabane lakhe ukuze akhe ulwalamano olucacileyo nolokuqonda ngakumbi.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokugqoka ingubo emhlophe kunye nokugqoka izimonyo kwabatshatileyo

1. Kuyaziwa ukuba ingubo emhlophe kunye ne-makeup ngokuqhelekileyo ibonisa ubuhle, ubuhle kunye nothando.
   Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo liphupha lokugqoka ilokhwe emhlophe kunye nokufaka izimonyo, oku kunokuba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno wakhe wokulawula uthando kunye nothando ebomini bakhe bomtshato.
   Umnqweno wobuhle kunye nenkxalabo yokubonakala ingaba yinto ebalulekileyo kweli phupha.
2. Iphupha lomfazi otshatileyo lokugqoka ingubo emhlophe kunye ne-makeup ingaba bubungqina bokunyuka kokuzithemba kwakhe kunye nomfanekiso wakhe.
   Kule meko, ibhinqa lisenokuziva linamandla, linomtsalane, yaye lizixabisa, nto leyo ebonakala kumbono walo ngesiqu sakhe nemvo yalo yokuqaqamba nobuhle.
3. Ingubo emhlophe kunye ne-makeup iyisimboli yendabuko yeziganeko ezikhethekileyo kunye nemitshato.
   Ukuba iphupha lichazwa njengophawu lophuhliso kunye notshintsho ebomini bomtshato, kunokubonisa ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uvakalelwa kukuba ufuna utshintsho kunye nokuhlaziywa kobudlelwane bakhe bomtshato, mhlawumbi ukuzinikela kuthando olutsha okanye ukuvuselela uthando.
4. Xa umfazi otshatileyo ephupha ukugqoka ingubo emhlophe kunye nokubeka i-makeup, oku kunokuba ngenxa yenguqu ezayo ebomini bakhe, obungumama.
   Eli phupha lingabonakalisa ukulangazelela kunye nokulungela ukwenza indima yomama, kunye nomnqweno wokulungiselela kakuhle kwaye ubonakale ngendlela engcono kakhulu.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokugqoka ingubo yomtshato kumfazi otshatileyo kunye nomyeni wakhe

• Ukugqoka ingubo yomtshato ephupheni kunokufanekisela ukulungela kowesifazane utshintsho kunye nophuhliso ebomini bakhe bomtshato.
• Eli phupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kumfazi otshatileyo malunga nokuqala isahluko esitsha kuthando lwakhe kunye nobomi bentsapho

• Ukuba umfazi uziva onwabile yaye anelisekile ngoxa ephupha enxibe ilokhwe yomtshato, oko kusenokuthetha ukuba uziva ekhuselekile yaye ethandwa kulwalamano lwakhe nomyeni wakhe.
• Eli phupha linokuba ngumqondiso womnqweno womfazi wokwakha intsapho eyomeleleyo neyonwabileyo.

• Ukuba ibhinqa liziva lixhalabile okanye liphazamisekile xa liphupha linxibe ilokhwe yomtshato, oku kusenokuba luphawu lokungavisisani okanye iingxaki kulwalamano lomtshato.
• Eli phupha lingabonakalisa uloyiko lomfazi lokulahlekelwa ukuzimela emva komtshato kunye nokungena kwindima yomfazi nomama.

• Eli phupha linokukhuthaza umntu obhinqileyo ukuba acinge ngokufezekisa iminqweno yakhe kunye neenjongo zakhe kwaye azilungelelanise nobomi bakhe bomtshato.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga neengubo ezimhlophe apho kukho iirozi

1. Ingubo yomtshato emhlophe yimbonakaliso eyaziwayo yokuhlanzeka nokungabi nacala.
   Ingubo emhlophe eneentyantyambo ephupheni ingabonakalisa umnqweno wakho wokugcina ubunyulu kunye nobumsulwa bakho bemihla ngemihla.
   Iphupha linokuba luphawu lwesidingo sokugcina imilinganiselo yakho kunye nemigaqo ngaphandle kwemiceli mngeni ojongene nayo.
2. Iilokhwe zomtshato zihlala zineenkcukacha kwaye zihonjiswe ngobuhle kunye nobuhle.
   Ukuba ubona ingubo emhlophe kunye neentyantyambo ephupheni lakho, oku kungabonakalisa umnqweno wobuhle kunye nobuhle kunye nokuvuleleka kwimiba yobufazi yendalo yakho.
3. Iirozi zihlala zifuzisela ubuhle, uthando kunye novuyo.
   Xa ingubo emhlophe ephupheni yakho ihlotshiswe ngeentyantyambo, oku kungabonisa ukuba uziva ujabule kwaye ujabule ebomini bakho bemihla ngemihla.
   Iphupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo sokuthatha ixesha ukonwabela amaxesha amahle namnandi odibana nawo.
4. Iintyatyambo, ngakumbi iirozi, kwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo zinokufuzisela uhlaziyo, inguqu, nokukhula ngokomoya.
   Ukuba ubona ilokhwe emhlophe eneentyantyambo ephupheni lakho, oku kunokuba luphawu lokuba lixesha lokuphonononga imiba emitsha yakho kunye nokukhula kwakho.
5. Iilokhwe zomtshato kunye neentyantyambo zihlala zihambelana nothando kunye nothando.
   Ukuba ubona ingubo emhlophe kunye neentyantyambo ephupheni lakho, oku kungabonakalisa umnqweno wokufumana uthando lokwenene okanye ukuqinisa ubudlelwane obunothando obukhoyo.

Iphupha lengubo emfutshane emhlophe yowesifazane otshatileyo

1.  Iphupha malunga neengubo ezimhlophe ezimfutshane kumfazi otshatileyo linokuthetha ulonwabo kunye nokwaneliseka kubomi bomtshato.
   Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lomfazi oziva enelisekile kwaye evuya ngelixa ephila ubomi bakhe bomtshato.
2. Ingubo yomtshato emhlophe ithathwa njengophawu lobuhle kunye nobuhle.
   Ukuba ingubo imfutshane, oku kunokuba bubungqina bokuzithemba kowesifazane kunye nokukhangayo.
   Eli phupha lingabonakalisa amandla akhe kunye nobuntu obuqinileyo.
3. Ingubo emfutshane emhlophe ithathwa njengophawu lolutsha kunye namandla.
   Eli phupha lingafanekisela umnqweno womfazi otshatileyo wokuvuselela kunye nokutshintsha ebomini bakhe, nokuba kubudlelwane kunye neqabane lakhe okanye kwimbonakalo yakhe yangaphandle kunye nesitayela.
   1. Ngoxa umtshato uyintsebenziswano nobuqabane, eli phupha lisenokuba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno womfazi otshatileyo wokunandipha amaxesha okuba yedwa nokukhululeka kwiimbopheleleko zomtshato ezicinezelayo.
4.  Iphupha malunga nesambatho esimhlophe esifutshane somfazi otshatileyo sinokuba ngumyalezo ongaphantsi kwengqondo obonisa ukuxhalaba okanye ukuphazamiseka ngokomzwelo onokuthi umfazi afumane ebomini bakhe bomtshato.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokugqoka ingubo yomtshato ngaphandle kwesigqubuthelo

1. Eli phupha lingabonisa ubukho bentandabuzo okanye ukungazinzi kubomi bomphuphi, ngakumbi malunga nezigqibo zakhe zengqondo nezomntu.
   Usenokuba ufuna uzinzo nokhuseleko ebomini bakhe.
2.  Ukubona ingubo yomtshato ngaphandle kwesigqubuthelo kunokubonisa ukuba umphuphi unenkxalabo malunga nokubonakala kwakhe kwangaphandle kunye nendlela ebonisa ngayo kwabanye.
   Usenokuba unengxaki yokungazithembi okanye uziva engathandeki ngokwaneleyo.
3.  Eli phupha lingabonakalisa uloyiko lomphuphi lokuzibophelela kunye nokuzibophelela kubudlelwane bothando.
   Usenokuba uziva exhalabile ngokuzibophelela kwakhe komnye umntu okanye ngolwalamano lomtshato ngokubanzi.
4. Iphupha malunga nokugqoka ingubo yomtshato ngaphandle kwesigqubuthelo lingabonakalisa umnqweno womphuphi wenkululeko kunye nokuzimela, kunye nokugatya izithintelo zoluntu kunye nezithethe ezibekwe kuye.
   Usenokuba ujonge phambili kubomi obunxamnye nolindelo lwabanye kwaye ubuvakalise njengomntu ozimeleyo.
5.  Eli phupha lingabonisa izigqibo abanye abanokuthi bacinge "ezingekho mthethweni" okanye "ezingaqhelekanga," ingaba utshintsho olunzulu ebomini okanye ukugqamisa inkalo engalindelekanga yobuntu bomphuphi.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nesambatho esimhlophe somfazi otshatileyo nokhulelweyo

1. Ingubo emhlophe ephupheni ingabonakalisa ubunyulu bomntu kunye nokungabi nacala komfazi.
   Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokuba ibhinqa liziva likhululekile ngokwengqondo kwaye liqinisekile ngaye kunye nesikhundla sakhe njengomfazi kunye nomama wexesha elizayo.
2. Ingubo emhlophe ephupheni ingabonakalisa ukukhulelwa kunye nomama.
   Eli phupha linokuba ngumqondiso wokuba umfazi ulangazelela amava okuba ngumama kwaye ulindele ngomonde ukufika komntwana wakhe.
3. Iphupha malunga nengubo emhlophe inokuphinda ibonise umnqweno womfazi wokutshintsha kunye noshintsho ebomini bakhe bomtshato kunye nentsapho.
   Usenokuziva efuna ukuguqula izinto aze enze utshintsho olulungileyo ebomini bakhe.
4. Ingubo emhlophe ephupheni ingaba ngumqondiso weenkumbulo ezibalulekileyo ezidlulileyo okanye iziganeko ebomini bomfazi.
   Eli phupha linokuthi libuyele kwixesha lomtshato okanye ezinye izihlandlo ezonwabileyo ezinxulumene nothando kunye nosapho.
5. Ingubo emhlophe ephupheni inokuphinda ifanekisele ukuxhalaba kunye nokunyanzeliswa komfazi malunga nekamva kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukuziqhelanisa neenguqu ezizayo kunye nemingeni.
   Kusenokufuneka aphumle aze aphinde azithembe.

Ithini intsingiselo yokubona umntu enxibe ilokhwe yomtshato?

1. Ukubona umntu onxibe ilokhwe yomtshato kusenokubonisa umnqweno womntu othile wokutshata okanye kubonise umnqweno wabo wokuphila emtshatweni.
   Eli phupha lisenokuba sisichasi nje seenjongo kunye neminqweno yobuqu.
2. Ukubona umntu onxibe ilokhwe yomtshato kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yabafazi abazibona bebahle yaye bethandeka.
   Isambatho esimhlophe sithathwa njengesimboli sobufazi kunye nobuhle, kwaye umntu onxibayo unokudibaniswa nomfanekiso ofanelekileyo wothando kunye nokuthandana.
3. Ingubo yomtshato iyisambatho esikhethekileyo kwisiganeko esikhethekileyo, nangona kunjalo, ingaba ngumqondiso woxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo oluhambelana nesiganeko.
   Ukubona umntu onxibe ilokhwe yomtshato kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yokuxhalaba noxinezeleko loo mntu asenokuba ujamelene nalo.
4. Ukubona umntu onxibe ilokhwe yomtshato kunokubonisa inkxalabo malunga nokuzibophelela kunye notshintsho kubomi bomntu.
   Isinxibo apha sinokufuzisela utshintsho olutsha okanye imingeni elindele umntu.
5. Ukubona umntu onxibe ilokhwe yomtshato kusenokubonisa ukuba kukho iinkumbulo zakudala okanye iimvakalelo ezicinezelekileyo kwixesha elidluleyo lomntu lowo.
   Ingubo ingabonakalisa ubudlelwane obudala, ukulahlekelwa ngumntu obalulekileyo ebomini, okanye amabhongo kunye namaphupha angazange azaliseke ngaphambili.