Ukutolikwa kweentaba ephupheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

Ukuchazwa kweentaba ephupheni; Iintaba ziindawo eziphakamileyo kunezijikelezi-langa kwaye zinencochoyi yamatye namathambeka amaninzi.Baninzi abantu abawuthandayo ulonwabo lokunyuka iintaba, nakwilizwe lamaphupha; Ukuba umntu ubona iintaba ephupheni, uyazibuza malunga neentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo kunye neengcamango ezinxulumene neli phupha, kwaye yile nto siza kuchaza ngayo ngokweenkcukacha kwimigca elandelayo yenqaku.

Ukutolikwa kweentaba ephupheni

Siqhelanise nathi ngezona ngcaciso zibalulekileyo ezanikelwa ziingcali ngokuphathelele ukubona iintaba ephupheni:

• Nabani na obona iintaba ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ujongene neengxaki nemiqobo eliqela kweli xesha lobomi bakhe, nto leyo ebangela usizi nonxunguphalo.
• Kwaye ukuba umntu ubona iintaba zihamba kwindawo yazo ngexesha lokulala kwakhe, oko kuthetha ukuba uhamba ngeengxaki ezinzima zengqondo kwaye uziva exhalabile kwaye ecinezelekile, okwenza ukuba afune inkxaso kunye noncedo lwentsapho okanye abahlobo bakhe.
• Kwaye xa umntu ebona ukudilizwa kweentaba ephupheni, oku kungumqondiso wezinto ezininzi ezintle kunye nelungiselelo elikhulu eliza kuye, ngaphezu kokukwazi kwakhe ukunqoba abachasi kunye neentshaba zakhe. nokubuyisela amalungelo akhe abebiwe kuye ngephanyazo.
• Xa umntu ephupha ngokunyamalala kweentaba, oku kubonisa ukuba umlawuli welizwe lakhe ngeli xesha uya kufa.
• Kwaye nabani na obona intaba enye kuphela ngexesha lokulala kwakhe, iphupha lifanekisela isikhundla esikhethekileyo esiya kunandipha kuluntu kunye nokuhamba kwakhe okumnandi phakathi kwabantu.

Ukutolikwa kweentaba ephupheni ngu-Ibn Sirin

U-Imam ohloniphekileyo uMuhammad ibn Sirin - wanga uThixo angaba nenceba kuye - ukhankanye imiqondiso emininzi enxulumene nokubukela iintaba ephupheni, eyona nto ibalaseleyo inokucaciswa ngokulandelayo:

• Ukubona iintambo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umntu ophuphayo ungumntu onamabhongo kwaye uneenjongo ezininzi kunye neminqweno afuna ukuyifeza kwaye ubeka umgudu omkhulu ekufezeni.
• Kwaye ukuba umntu wayengumfundi wolwazi kwaye wabona ebuthongweni bakhe ukuba wayenyuka iintaba, ngoko oku kubonisa impumelelo yakhe kwizifundo zakhe, ukuphakama kwakhe ngaphezu koogxa bakhe, kunye nokufikelela kwakhe kwizinga eliphezulu lezesayensi, kodwa ukuba umkhweli wayengomnye wabantu awayebazi, ngoko oku kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kufumana iindaba ezimnandi ngaye.
• Ukubukela intaba emhlophe ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba imboni iya kudlula into enhle ngexesha elifutshane, kwaye ukuba intaba inombala ophuzi, ke iNkosi - uMninimandla onke - iya kumsikelela ngenduduzo yengqondo, iintsikelelo kunye neenzuzo ezininzi emva kokuba ixesha elide lemithwalo kunye noxinzelelo.
• Xa umntu ephupha intaba kwaye eziva esoyika okanye engakhuselekanga, oku kubonisa ukuba ujongene nengxaki enzima kule mihla kunye nokungakwazi kwakhe ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kuyo.

Ukutolikwa kweentaba ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga

• Xa intombazana iphupha ngeentaba, oku kubhekisela kumyeni olungileyo oza kutshata naye ngokukhawuleza kwaye ajabule naye ebomini bakhe. .
• Yaye ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga libona intaba ngoxa lilele, oku kubangelwa yimeko embi ngokwasengqondweni aphethwe yiyo ngenxa yemiqathango ebekwe yintsapho yakhe kuye nokungabi nayo imvakalelo yenkululeko okanye amandla akhe okwenza isigqibo esinye. malunga nobomi bakhe.
• Kwimeko apho intombazana ebandakanyekayo ibonakala ephupheni ukuba ikhwela iintaba ngobunzima kwaye imiqobo emininzi ime endleleni yakhe, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kujongana neengxaki ezininzi ezithintela umtshato wakhe.
• Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga iphupha isihla entabeni, oko kubonisa ukuba uThixo uSomandla uya kuyinika ulonwabo, uxolo lwengqondo nokuzinza ebomini bayo.

Ukutolikwa kweentaba eziluhlaza ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga

Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga ibona iintaba eziluhlaza ngexesha lokulala kwayo, ezi ziindaba ezilungileyo zokuphumelela kwayo okuphawulekayo kwizifundo zayo kunye nomtshato wayo kwindoda ecebileyo enokuziphatha okuhle kwaye ibonakaliswe ngokunyaniseka, isibindi namandla, kwaye inandipha into ebalaseleyo. isikhundla eluntwini.

Kwaye ukuba intombazana yenyuka isizukulwana esiluhlaza ephupheni, ke lo ngumqondiso wobomi obonwabileyo nozinzile ukuba uya kuhlala nomyeni wakhe kwixesha elizayo elisondeleyo, nangona wayebandakanyekile kwaye ejongene nemiqobo ngexesha lokunyuka, ngoko oku. kukhokelela ekungavisisani okuthile neqabane lakhe.

Ukutolikwa kweentaba ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo

• Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona iintaba ephupheni, olu luphawu lokuziva kwakhe intuthuzelo kunye nokwaneliseka kunye neqabane lakhe, kwaye libonisa ubungakanani bothando, inceba, ukuxabisa, ukuqonda kunye nokuhloniphana phakathi kwabo.
• Yaye ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha enyuka iintaba, oko kubonisa ubuntu bakhe obuqinileyo, ukuthwala kwakhe uxanduva, kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukufeza imisebenzi efunekayo kuye ngokupheleleyo.
• Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha ukuba ukhwela iintaba kwaye uziva esaba, ngoko oku kubonisa ukukhathazeka kwakhe malunga noko kuya kwenzeka kubantwana bakhe kwixesha elizayo kunye nomzabalazo wakhe wokubakhulisa.
• Yaye ukuba umfazi otshatileyo wayengumfazi osebenza kwintsimi yorhwebo kwaye wabona ephupheni ukuba wayecinga ngentaba, ngoko oku kufanekisela inzuzo eninzi kunye neenzuzo zemali eziza kuzuza kuye kungekudala.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuwa kwentaba kwabatshatileyo

Ukubukela ukuwa kwentaba ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo kufanekisela ukuphoxeka kunye nokothuka ngenxa yenkohliso yomnye wabantu abasondeleyo kuye, okumenza akhethe ukuhlala yedwa ngaphandle kwabanye.

Kwaye ukuba umfazi otshatileyo waphupha inyikima eyabangela ukuba intaba ishukume kwaye idilike, oku kubonisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuqhawula umtshato wakhe, ngelishwa, ukuba akanakufumana isisombululo ngokukhawuleza kwiiyantlukwano phakathi kwabo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nentaba kunye namanzi kwabatshatileyo

Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo wabona ephupheni ukuba uthathe ubuninzi bamanzi aphuma entabeni kwaye wehla kuwo ukuze athobe unxano lwabantwana bakhe, ngoko oku kubonisa ukuba uye wayifeza imisebenzi yakhe kumalungu entsapho yakhe ngokupheleleyo. , nenyameko yakhe enkulu ngabo nokoyika kwakhe ukwenzakala okanye ukwenzakala, nokuba uchitha abantwana bakhe phezu kwako nje ukubandezeleka awatyhubela kuko ukuze afumane imali.

Xa kuthe kwenzeka ukuba umfazi abone indoda yakhe inyukela encotsheni yentaba ukuya kukha amanzi phezulu ize iwanike yena nabantwana bakhe, ngoko oku kubonisa ukuba uThixo—nga Yena uya kuzukiswa aze aphakanyiswe—uya kumnika amandla nempembelelo. nentabalala yamalungiselelo ebudeni bexesha elizayo, aya kumnceda alungiselele ubomi obufanelekileyo kumalungu entsapho yakhe.

Umbono Ukunyuka intaba ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo

Ukuba ibhinqa libona ephupheni linyuka intaba ngendlela elula, ke lo luphawu lwezinto ezininzi ezintle kunye neenzuzo eziza kuzifumana kuye ngokukhawuleza, ngaphezu kobomi obuzinzile kunye nobukhululekile aya kunandipha. nomyeni wakhe.

وUkutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokunyuka intaba Oku kunzima kumfazi otshatileyo kwaye ukungakwazi ukukhwela kuyo kukhokelela ekubeni ajongane nezinto ezininzi zokungaboni ngasonye kunye nokuxabana nomyeni wakhe kule mihla, kwaye angene kwimeko yoxinzelelo lwengqondo kunye nokudandatheka okukhulu.

Ukutolikwa kweentaba ephupheni kumfazi okhulelweyo

• Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona iintaba ngexesha lokulala kwakhe, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kukwazi ukufikelela kwiminqweno kunye neminqweno yakhe ebomini kungekudala.
• Yaye ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo uphupha ukunyuka iintaba, oku kubonisa ukuzalwa kwakhe okusondeleyo, okuya kuba lula, ngomyalelo kaThixo, kwaye apho akayi kuthwala ukukhathala okukhulu kunye neentlungu, ngoko kufuneka alungiselele kakuhle.
• Kwaye xa umfazi okhulelweyo ebona ephupheni lakhe ukuba uhleli phezu kwentaba kwaye edla ukutya kwakhe, oku kuwuphawu lobubele obuninzi, iinzuzo kunye nokutya okuya kumlinda kwixesha elizayo, kunye nobungakanani bolonwabo kunye nolonwabo. Intsikelelo uThixo aya kuyibeka phezu kwakhe ngokufika komntwana okanye intombi yakhe.
• Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona iintaba ziwa kwaye ziwa ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba umyeni wakhe akayi kuthwala uxanduva kwaye uya kuthwala yonke imithwalo yodwa, okubangela ukuba abhekane neengxaki ezininzi kunye naye kunye neengcamango zakhe zokuhlukana.

Ukutolikwa kweentaba ephupheni kumfazi oqhawule umtshato

• Ukubona ibhinqa elahlukileyo ezintabeni ephupheni lifuzisela ubunzima kunye neengxaki ezijongene nazo kwindawo ehlala kuyo intsapho yakhe, kunye nokuvezwa kwakhe kwingozi yengqondo kunye nezinto eziphathekayo yintsapho yakhe yangaphambili yomfazi.
• Kwaye ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato wabona ephupheni ukuba wayemi entabeni kwaye ehamba esuka phantsi kwayo, ke oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuwela kwinkathazo enzima kwiintsuku ezizayo, kodwa uya kukwazi ukuphuma kuyo. , ndiyabulela kuThixo, ngaphandle koncedo lwakhe nabani na.
• Kwaye xa ehlala ehlala edla ezintabeni ngenxa yomfazi owaliweyo, uya kwandula ke amkele iindaba ezilungileyo zokulunga nentsikelelo esendleleni eya kuye kamsinya.
• Kwaye xa umfazi oqhawule umtshato ephupha enyuka intaba kwaye akafumani nabuphi na ubunzima, lo ngumqondiso wokuba iNkosi - uMninimandla onke - iya kumbonelela ngembuyekezo enhle emelwe kumyeni olungileyo onokuziphatha okuhle kwaye esondele eNkosini yakhe. omkhathalelayo kwaye amxhase kwaye amnike ulonwabo kunye nentuthuzelo ayinqwenelayo.

Ukutolikwa kweentaba ephupheni kumntu

• Ukuba umntu ubona iintaba ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ungumntu wentlalontle onobuntu obuhle, okwenza ukuba ujabulele uthando kunye nentlonipho yabo bonke abantu abakujikelezile.
• Yaye ukuba umntu uphupha ukuba umi phezu kwentaba, ngoko oku kuthetha ukuba uya kufumana ukunyuswa komsebenzi ngokukhawuleza, ukuthanda kukaThixo, okuya kuvelisa imali eninzi kuye kwaye kuphuculwe ngokucacileyo iimeko zakhe zokuphila.
• Kwaye xa umntu ephupha ephupheni ukuqhuma entabeni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuboniswa ubunzima bezemali ngokukhawuleza, ngoko kufuneka alumke ngexesha elizayo.
• Xa umntu otshatileyo ephupha ehla encotsheni yentaba, oku kubonisa ubulukhuni bentliziyo yakhe nokungakhathali kwakhe, ukongezelela kwimpatho embi yomlingane wakhe, nto leyo efuna ukuba azitshintshe ukuze angabangeli ukutshatyalaliswa kwakhe. ekhaya.
• Ukubukela ukudilizwa kweentaba ephupheni lomntu kufanekisela iimvakalelo zakhe zokuba netyala ngokwenza izinto ezininzi ezingalunganga ngaphambili.

Ukunyuka iintaba ephupheni

Nabani na obona ephupheni enyuka intaba ngobunzima ngelixa engumfundi wolwazi ngelixa evukile, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kujongana neengxaki kunye nobunzima malunga nezifundo zakhe, kwaye akufanele anikezele ekuphelelweni lithemba kwaye zama kwakhona ukuze aphumelele, agqwese kwaye afikelele kule nto ayinqwenelayo.

Kwaye kwimeko apho umntu wenyuka intaba ephupheni de wakwazi ukufikelela phezulu aze asele amanzi, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuzuza iimpumelelo ezininzi kunye nempumelelo ebomini bakhe obuzayo, kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukufikelela kumanzi. iinjongo kunye neenjongo ezicwangcisiweyo kunye neminqweno aphupha ngayo.

Iintaba eziluhlaza ephupheni

Ukubukela iintaba eziluhlaza ephupheni kufanekisela ukulunga komboni kunye nokusondela kwakhe eNkosini yakhe kunye nokwenza kwakhe izenzo ezininzi zentobeko kunye nezenzo ezilungileyo ezikholisa uThixo - Osenyangweni - kwaye naye uyashenxa kwindlela yokukrokra kunye nokwenza izono. .

Ezinye iijurists zathi ukuba umntu uphupha ngeentaba eziluhlaza ezingenamanzi, ke lo ngumqondiso wengcinezelo yomnye wabantu abanomphefumlo namandla phezu kwamalungelo akhe kunye nemvakalelo yakhe yokungabi nabulungisa kunye nosizi olukhulu, nokuba umphuphi usebenza ukurhweba, emva koko ukubukela intaba eluhlaza ngexesha lokulala kwakhe kukhokelela ekuthandeni ishishini lakhe kunye nokufumana kwakhe imali eninzi.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga neentaba kunye neengxangxasi

Xa intombazana engatshatanga iphupha ngeentaba kunye neengxangxasi, olu luphawu lokukwazi ukufikelela kuyo yonke into enqwenelayo kunye neyinqwenelayo.Kubalulekile kwaye kuhloniphekile kuluntu, kwaye kuya kufumana imali eninzi kwixesha elizayo.

Ukubona ukunyuka kwentaba ephupheni

Izazinzulu zitolika umbono wokukhwela iintambo ephupheni njengophawu lokukwazi komntu ophuphayo ukujongana neentshaba zakhe kunye nabachasi bakhe kwaye abasuse ngexesha elifutshane. .

Kwaye ukuba umntu unengxaki yempilo enzima ngokwenene, kwaye waphupha ukuba akakwazi ukunyuka intaba, ngoko oku kubonisa ukuba ixesha lokufa kwakhe lisondele, makube kude, noThixo - Osenyangweni - ungoyena uPhakamileyo noPhezukonke, kwaye nabani na obona ephupheni enyuka intaba nomntu othile, oku kukhokelela kwintabalala elungileyo aya kufumana ngalo mntu kwixesha elizayo elingekude, nokuba ungumphambukeli kuye. , yaye kuya kwenzeka iinguqulelo ezininzi ezintle kuye ebudeni bexesha elizayo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuhamba phakathi kweentaba

Ukuba umntu otshatileyo ubona ephupheni ehamba entabeni, oko kubonisa ukuba abantwana bakhe baya kufumana impumelelo ephawulekayo ebomini babo kwaye uya kuba nebhongo ngabo.Umsebenzi wakhe kunye nokungavisisani nabalingane bakhe, okumenza cinga ngokumshiya uyokukhangela omnye umsebenzi ongcono.

Ukutolikwa kokubona iintaba eziwa ephupheni

Ukubona iintaba eziwa ephupheni kufanekisela ukufa komntu ojongene nomphuphi kungekudala, kwaye uThixo uyazi kakuhle.

Kwakhona, ngokubanzi, ukubukela iintaba eziwa ephupheni kuthetha amaqabane anokuziphatha okubi kunye nabahanahanisi ababonisa uthando kunye noncedo kunye nokufihla inzondo nenzondo, ngoko kufuneka uqaphele kwaye unganikeli ithemba lakho ngokulula nakubani na.

Ingcaciso Ukubona ikhephu ezintabeni ephupheni

Ukubona ikhephu ezintabeni ephupheni kufanekisela amaphupha kunye nomnqweno lowo umphuphi afuna ukufikelela kuwo ebomini bakhe obulandelayo, kwaye uya kuphumelela kuloo nto ngomyalelo kaThixo.Ukubukela iintaba zekhephu ephupheni kubonisa ikamva elonwabileyo elihamba nomboni.

Kwaye xa umntu elele ebona intaba igqunywe likhephu, oku kubonisa ukuba omnye wabantu abasondeleyo kuye uyamfihlela imfihlelo, emsebenzini wakhe, kwaye iphupha likwangumfuziselo wokuhamba kohambo imboni yokwenza iHajj okanye iUmrah kungekudala.