Ukubona ukulahleka kwesisindo ephupheni kungomnye wemibono eqhelekileyo ukuba abaninzi baziva bebuza malunga nokuchazwa kwayo.
Ngenxa yoko, abaguquleli bachaza ukuba eli phupha linokuba neentsingiselo ezahlukahlukeneyo, njengoko lisenokubonisa impumelelo yomphuphi kunye nolonwabo ukuba uziva anelisekile ngokunciphisa umzimba, okanye kunokubonisa ubunzima obunzima ukuba umphuphi uhamba xa eziva edabukile kwaye ebuhlungu. ixhala lokuphulukana nobunzima obugqithisileyo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abaguquleli babona ukuba ukunciphisa ubunzima ephupheni kubonisa ubunzima bezinto eziphathekayo okanye zengqondo, kodwa abanye babo banikela ukutolika kwabo kulo mbono, kuxhomekeke kwiinkcukacha kunye neemeko zephupha kunye nomphuphi.

Ukutolikwa kwamaphupha kubonisa ukuba iphupha lokulahlekelwa ubunzima kumfazi ongatshatanga lithetha ukuphucula ubomi bakhe bomzwelo kunye nentlalontle.
Ukulahlekelwa ubunzima ephupheni kubonisa ukukhululwa kubudlelwane obudlulileyo okanye iingxaki zobomi bemihla ngemihla.
Kumfazi ongatshatanga, ukunciphisa umzimba ephupheni kuthetha ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuphucula ubomi bakhe bentlalontle, mhlawumbi ukufumana iqabane lakhe lobomi okanye ukuqala ubudlelwane bothando anqwenela.

Akukho phupha lingenakuchazwa, kwaye elinye lamaphupha aqhelekileyo liphupha lokunciphisa umzimba komnye umntu, kwaye lithwele umyalezo othile kwimboni.
Eli phupha lifanekisela ukuba umntu osondeleyo kuye ujongene neengxaki ebomini bakhe, kunye nokungaphumeleli emsebenzini okanye ubudlelwane.
Kwakhona kubonisa ukuba umntu ombona ephupheni ngumntu onomdla kakhulu kumcimbi walo mntu, onobuntu obuqinileyo, kwaye unezakhono eziyimfuneko zokucebisa kunye nokhokelo.
Eli phupha linokuba luphawu kuluvo lokuba kufuneka amncede lo mntu osondeleyo kuye ngeengcebiso kunye nesikhokelo, kwaye uzame ukumnceda ukuxazulula iingxaki zakhe.

Ukubona ukulahleka kwesisindo ephupheni kumadoda ngenye yamaphupha asasazwa ngokubanzi, kwaye ithwala intsingiselo ebalulekileyo echaza ezinye zeziganeko ezinokuthi zenzeke kumnini wephupha kwixesha elizayo.
Izazinzulu zikholelwa ukuba ukubona indoda ebhityileyo ephupheni ibonisa ukuba uya kuboniswa kwiingxaki zemali kunye neengxaki, kwaye kufuneka enze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo ukuphepha ezi ngxaki.
Kwakhona, ukunciphisa umzimba ephupheni kubonisa ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunye nokungabikho kokuzithemba.

Abasetyhini abatshatileyo bajongene noxinzelelo oluninzi lokugcina ubunzima babo kuluhlu olufanelekileyo, ngoko ke ukubona iphupha lokuba ngaphantsi kunokunyusa uloyiko lwabo kwaye kubangele ukuxhalaba.
Kodwa ngokuchazwa kwephupha lokulahlekelwa ubunzima kumfazi otshatileyo, lo mbono ubonisa ukufikelela kwiinjongo ezintsha ebomini bomtshato kunye nokunandipha ubomi bakhe kangcono.
Olu sukelo lusenokunxulunyaniswa nokufuna ukuba nomntwana, ukwenza umsebenzi omtsha, okanye ukuphucula ulwalamano lomtshato.
Ukongezelela, ukuchazwa kwephupha lokulahlekelwa ubunzima kumfazi otshatileyo kubonisa amandla omphuphi kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukufezekisa iinjongo zakhe.

Abasetyhini abangatshatanga ngamanye amaxesha bayasokola ngezenzo zabo kunye neengcinga zabo kwaye bajonge isikhokelo esilungileyo somoya sokubanceda bacinge kakuhle kwaye banciphise ixhala.
Ukubona ubunzima ephupheni ngenye yezihloko ezibalulekileyo ezichaphazela isimo sengqondo sabantu kwaye zibenze bafune ukutolika okufanelekileyo.
Ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin, iphupha lokunciphisa umzimba kwabasetyhini abangatshatanga libonisa ukukhungatheka, ukungabi nathemba, kunye nokuxhalaba okukhulu kubomi bemihla ngemihla.
Kodwa akufanele ukhathazeke kuba iphupha libonisa ingxaki yesikhashana kwaye libonisa ukuba ukungatshatanga kuya kunqoba le ngxaki kungekudala.
Ibhinqa elingatshatanga lifanele liphucule indlela yalo yokucinga kwaye likhulise amandla okoyisa iingxaki nemingeni.

Lo mhlobo uze kukuxelela iphupha lakhe elingaqhelekanga, ephupheni wazibona ebhitya kakhulu.
Kubonakala ngathi ukutolikwa kweli phupha kulele ekwahlukaneni nabanye abantu abangalunganga ebomini bakhe, kunye nokusebenza ukukhulisa ukuzithemba kwakhe kunye nokulahla iingcinga ezingalunganga ezinokuchaphazela ukuzijonga kwakhe.
Kubalulekile ukuba azive elungile kwaye azinike ixesha lokuzinyamekela kunye nomzimba wakhe.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulahlekelwa ubunzima bomntu oshonile ngumxholo ophakamisa imibuzo emininzi kunye nokudideka kwabaninzi, njengoko abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokuxhamla kwalo kwihlabathi.
Kodwa eneneni, ukutolikwa kwephupha lokulahlekelwa ubunzima kulowo ufileyo kunokufuzisela ukungabikho kwezenzo ezilungileyo kuye.Eli phupha linokuba ngumqondiso wesidingo sokuxolelwa kunye nokuguquka kwizono nezono ezenziwe ngumfi.
Ikwabonisa ukuba kukho imfuneko yokumthandazela, nokuba umntu ofileyo ufuna isisa, uxolelo nemithandazo.

Iphupha lokunciphisa umzimba lilinye lamaphupha aphakamisa ixhala kunye noxinzelelo, ngakumbi kubafazi abaqhawule umtshato abaziva bebodwa kwaye bengathembi imizimba yabo emva kokuhlukana.Kodwa, ukuchazwa kweli phupha kuneentsingiselo ezininzi kunye nezibonakaliso.
Ngokutsho kwabaphengululi, abanye babo babona ukuba eli phupha lifanekisela utshintsho kwiimvakalelo kunye nobomi bomsebenzi, ngelixa abanye bakholelwa ukuba libonisa ukuphucula ubomi kunye noluntu.
Eli phupha libonisa ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato uya kungqina utshintsho ebomini bakhe, kwaye unokumkhuthaza ukuba athathe amanyathelo amatsha kwaye ujabulele ubomi bakhe bexesha elizayo ngokuzithemba nokuzimela.

Abantu abaninzi bafuna ukunciphisa umzimba, kwaye eli phupha linokuchaphazela iindawo ezininzi zobomi babo, kubandakanywa namaphupha abanawo ebusuku.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulahlekelwa ubunzima kunokudideka kwabanye abantu, kodwa ingaba ngumqondiso wenguqu kunye noshintsho ebomini.
Ukuba umphuphi ucinga kakhulu malunga nokulahlekelwa ubunzima ebomini bokwenene, ngoko iphupha lokulahlekelwa ubunzima ephupheni linokuba luphawu lwale ngcamango.

Ukuphupha ukuncipha kuqhelekile phakathi kwabantu abatyebe kakhulu.
Ngokutsho kwengcaciso ka-Ibn Sirin, ukunciphisa umzimba ephupheni kunokufuzisela ukufezekisa iinjongo kunye neminqweno umntu afuna ukuyifikelela, kwaye kubonisa ukufumana ulonwabo kunye nokwaneliseka kwengqondo.
Eli phupha linokuthi libonise ukufumana ukuzithemba kunye nemvakalelo yokukhanga kunye nobuhle.

Ukubona ukutya ephupheni kubonisa utshintsho kwindlela yokuphila, ukuba umphuphi usebenza nzima ukuze afinyelele ubunzima obufanelekileyo.
Ukuba umntu uzilolonga rhoqo kwaye ujonge ukutya kwakhe, iphupha malunga nokutya linokubonisa nje ukubambelela kwabo kwindlela yokuphila enempilo, kwaye ubone iziphumo - kubandakanywa nokwehla kobunzima - kungekudala.
Nangona kunjalo, ukubona ukutya ngamanye amaxesha kusenokubonisa inkxalabo yomphuphi malunga nokumila kwangaphandle komzimba.Ukuba unengxaki yobunzima bomzimba, unokuziva efuna ukutshintsha ukuze afumane ubunzima obufanelekileyo.

Zininzi iintsingiselo zephupha lokuncipha, njengoko abanye bebhekisa kulonwabo lomphuphi ngokuncipha, ngelixa abanye beyibona njengophawu lweengxaki zengqondo okanye ubunzima bokufumana imali ye-halal.
U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuba ukulahleka kwesisindo kunokuba kuhle okanye kubi, kwaye kuhambelana nesimo somphuphi.
Ukuba umboni uyavuya ngokulahlekelwa ubunzima, ngoko oku kuthetha ukufezekisa ulonwabo kunye nokuzinza kwengqondo.
Kodwa ukuba udabukile ngenxa yokuncipha kwakhe, oku kuthetha ukuba kukho iingxaki zengqondo okanye zengqondo kunye nabanye.

Iphupha lokulahlekelwa ubunzima obuninzi ephupheni liphakamisa ukuxhalaba kunye noloyiko kumphuphi, ngoko yintoni inkcazo echanekileyo yeli phupha? Iingcali zenzululwazi zikholelwa ukuba ngokukhawuleza kunye nokulahlekelwa kwesisindo esibalulekileyo ephupheni kunokubonisa ubunzima kunye nemingeni ebomini bokwenene, nokuba yizinto eziphathekayo okanye iimvakalelo, ezenza umntu ophuphayo azive ecinezelekile kwaye exhalabile.
Eli phupha lisenokubonisa ukuba kunokwenzeka utshintsho ngokukhawuleza kubomi bomphuphi, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukuba olu tshintsho luhle kwaye luphucule imeko jikelele yomphuphi.

Utoliko oluninzi luthi ukubona ukulahlekelwa kwesisindo kunye nokuzuza kwakhona ephupheni kubonisa utshintsho kubomi bomboni.
Ngoko ke, ukuba umntu ophuphayo ngale nto ulahlekelwe isisindo ephupheni, oku kungabonakalisa ukuba ujongene nemingeni emitsha ebomini bakhe, kwaye unokunyanzeliswa ukuba atshintshe indlela yakhe yokuphila ngandlela-thile.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba ukulahlekelwa ubunzima kulandelwa kukufumana kwakhona kwiphupha elifanayo, oku kunokuthetha ukuba umntu uziva exhalabile malunga nokuguqulwa rhoqo ebomini bakhe.
Kodwa xa ezibona ekhula ephupheni, oku kusenokuba luphawu lokuphucuka kobomi.