Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofu
Kukho iinguqulelo ezininzi zephupha lokusela ikofu ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin.
Iphupha malunga nokusela ikofu luphawu lobuntu obahlukileyo kunye nokuziphatha okuhle kunye nodumo oluhle.
Ikwafuzisela imeko yothando kunye nokuxabisa abantu abamngqongileyo.
kuthathwa njengephupha Ukusela ikofu ephupheni Isibonakaliso sobulumko bomphuphi kunye nokukwazi ukujongana neengxaki ngokugqibeleleyo, okunciphisa amathuba okuba awele kwiingozi.
Ukuba ikhofi yephupha inokunambitheka okumnandi, ngoko oku kubonisa inhlanhla kunye nokuqala kweeprojekthi ezintsha.
Kungenzeka ukuba iphupha lokusela ikofu lifanekisela ukungavumi kwabahlobo kwiinjongo zephupha zokutshata, ngakumbi ukuba umphuphi utshatile, njengoko iphupha lingabandakanya ukungavumelani rhoqo kunye neengxabano.
Kwindoda engatshatanga ephupha ngokusela ikofu ekrakra kakhulu, oku kuthathwa njengesibikezelo somtshato wakhe kwintombazana enentsapho echasayo kwaye imchasayo.
U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuba iphupha lokusela ikofu libonisa ubukho bomntu onokuziphatha okuhle kunye nodumo oluhle kumphuphi, kwaye uyathandwa kwaye wamkelwa ngabantu abamngqongileyo.
U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuba iphupha lokusela ikofu libonisa ukuba umntu ophuphayo uthandwa kakhulu ngabantu kwaye unobuhlobo obuninzi.
Kwelinye icala, iphupha lomfazi ongatshatanga lokusela ikofu ebandayo linokufanekisela imfuneko yakhe yokucinga ngobomi bakhe bothando nokukhangela iqabane elifanelekileyo.
Iphupha lokusela ikofu lithathwa njengophawu oluhle olubonisa iimpawu ezintle zomphuphi, njengobulumko, i-chivalry, uthando, kunye nokuxabisa kwabanye.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofu ngu-Ibn Sirin
Ukutolikwa kwamaphupha ngu-Ibn Sirin kuphakathi kwezona nkcazelo zidumileyo nezivunyiweyo kwilizwe lama-Arabhu.
Ngokuphathelele ukuchazwa kwephupha lokusela ikofu, u-Ibn Sirin uthi ukubona umntu ephuza ikofu ephupheni kubonisa ukuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa kwimihla ngemihla.
Ikofu kweli phupha ifanekisela ukulula, ukuxabisa kunye nokwamkelwa.
Isenokubonakalisa ukuququzelelwa kwezinto kunye nokutshintsha kweemeko ngobusuku.
Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba le ngcaciso iyahluka ngokwemeko kunye neemeko zomphuphi.
Kungenzeka ukuba ukuchazwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofi kumntu otshatileyo kunokuhluka kumntu ongatshatanga.
Khumbula ukuba ukutolika okwenyaniso kwamaphupha kuxhomekeke kumxholo wephupha kunye neemeko zomphuphi.
Ngaloo ndlela, kusenokubakho ukutolikwa izihlandlo ezininzi kwephupha elinye yaye umntu ngamnye ngokwemeko yakhe yobuqu neemeko.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofi kubafazi abangatshatanga
Ukuchazwa kokubona ukusela ikofu ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga ngomnye wemibono emihle ebonisa utshintsho olukhulu oluya kwenzeka ebomini bakhe.
Ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga lizibona lisela ikofu phakathi kweqela labantu, oku kuthetha ukuba yintombazana enesidima nenengqondo ethatha ixesha lokucinga phambi kokuba yenze nasiphi na isigqibo.
Kwaye xa kwenzeka ukuba umphuphi usebenza, ngoko ukubona umfazi ongatshatanga ngelixa esela ikofu kubonisa ukuba ungumntu onesisa kunye novelwano, kwaye uhluke njengentombazana enokuziphatha okuhle.
Lo mbono ukwabonisa amandla ayo okunyamezela nokuba nomonde xa kukho ubunzima.
Kwaye ukuba uyasela Ikofu yesiArabhu ephupheni Kwizalamane, oku kubonisa ukuba ulwalamano phakathi kwabo lomelele, luzolile, yaye alunazingxaki zentsapho neengxabano.
Eli phupha lingabonisa ubukho benkxaso kunye nentsebenziswano evela kwizihlobo kubomi obubodwa.
Kodwa ukuba usela ikhofi ekrakra kwiphupha elinye, oku kungabonisa ukuba izinto eziphazamisayo ziya kwenzeka ngenxa yokuziphatha okungalunganga komphuphi.
Isenokunxulunyaniswa nesigqibo esingalunganga okanye indlela yokuziphatha ekhokelela kungquzulwano okanye ungquzulwano lwangaphakathi.
Ukubona ikofu kwiphupha lomfazi ongatshatanga luphawu lomsebenzi awenzayo kunye noxanduva kunye nemisebenzi awabelwe yona kwaye ayizalisekisa ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Ukuba usela ikofu, oku kubonisa ukuzola, umsebenzi kunye nolonwabo lobomi.
Ukusela ikofu yesiArabhu ephupheni kwabasetyhini abangatshatanga kubonisa ubukho babahlobo abalungileyo ebomini bakhe, abamthandayo kakuhle kwaye bahlala bemkhokela kuyo.
Ukubona umfazi ongatshatanga esela ikofu ephupheni kuthathwa njengombono olungileyo obonisa ukubaluleka kobulumko, ukucinga okulungileyo, kunye nobudlelwane obuhle bentlalo kubomi bomfazi ongatshatanga.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ubisi kunye nekhofi kubafazi abangatshatanga
Ukubona umfazi ongatshatanga ephupheni lakhe ukusela ikofu ngobisi kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana isithembiso sokutshata nomntu oya kufaneleka kakhulu kuye, kwaye uya kumamkela ngokukhawuleza.
Ziindaba ezilungileyo kubomi bakhe yaye zibonisa impumelelo nolonwabo, yaye mhlawumbi nomtshato kwixesha elizayo elingekude, ngenxa yombulelo kuThixo.
Lo mbono uphethe iindaba ezilungileyo kumfazi ongatshatanga ukuba uya kufumana iqabane elifanelekileyo kunye nolonwabo oluzinzileyo ebomini bakhe.
Ukubona ikofu ngobisi kufanekisela ukungena kubudlelwane obuphumelelayo bothando oluya kuphelisa ngomtshato wesithandwa.
Oku kubonisa ukuba umfazi ongatshatanga uya kufumana umntu olungele ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye uya kwakha ubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye nozinzileyo kunye naye, kwaye olu lwalamano lunokuphela ngokuzibandakanya ngokusemthethweni kunye nokubhiyozelwa komtshato.
Ukubona ikofu ngobisi ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umfazi ongatshatanga ufuna inzuzo esemthethweni kwaye unqwenela ukufikelela kubo ngeendlela ezisemthethweni.
Oku kuthetha ukuba usingise empumelelweni kubomi bakhe bobugcisa kunye nezezimali ngeendlela ezifanelekileyo nezisemthethweni.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofu nomntu endimaziyo kuba single
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofu kunye nomntu endimaziyo kubafazi abangatshatanga kubonisa isimboli sokuvula iingcango zokulunga kunye nolungiselelo olukhulu lukaThixo.
Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokuba umfazi ongatshatanga uya kufumana amathuba amaninzi okuqhubela phambili kunye nempumelelo ebomini bakhe.
Uya kuba namandla okuwasebenzisa la mathuba ngeendlela ezilungileyo kwaye uya kuba sisizathu sokondla kwakhe kunye nokulunga ebomini bakhe.
Ukubona ibhinqa elingatshatanga lisela ikofu nomntu owaziwayo kusenokuthetha ukuba liyintombazana epholileyo nekrelekrele ethabatha ixesha lokucinga ngaphambi kokuba yenze nasiphi na isigqibo.
Ibhinqa elingatshatanga linokwenza izinto ngobulumko ebomini balo lize likhethe ukujonga izinto macala onke ngaphambi kokuba lenze nasiphi na isigqibo.
Ukuba umfazi ongatshatanga usebenza, ke eli phupha lingabonisa ukuba uya kujongana neengxaki kunye nokukhathazeka emsebenzini, kodwa uya kukwazi ukuzoyisa ngenxa yobulumko bakhe kunye nengqalelo kwiinkcukacha.
Ukusela ikofu ephupheni kumfazi ongatshatanga unokufuzisela ubulumko kunye nengqiqo.
Eli phupha libonisa ubuntu obuqeqeshekileyo be-bachelor oqwalasela imicimbi ngaphambi kokuthatha naziphi na izenzo.
Amabhinqa angatshatanga anegama elihle phakathi kwabantu Kambe ke, amabhinqa angatshatanga anandipha igama elihle phakathi kwabantu, yaye ngokuqinisekileyo anesimilo esihle nesisengqiqweni.
Xa kuziwa ekuphuzeni ikofu kunye nezihlobo ephupheni labasetyhini abangatshatanga, oku kunokuba kubhekiselele kubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye nozinzile phakathi kwakhe namalungu entsapho yakhe.
Lo mbono ukwabonisa ukuba akukho zingxaki zentsapho okanye ukungavisisani phakathi kwebhinqa elingatshatanga nezalamane zalo.
Eli phupha linokuthi liqinisekise ukuba ubudlelwane bentsapho yabasetyhini abangatshatanga buzinzile kwaye bunokuthula.
Ukubona umfazi ongatshatanga ephuza ikofu ephupheni kunokubonisa ukuba ungumntu onesisa kunye novelwano.
Abafazi abangatshatanga banesimilo esihle kwaye badlulela ngaphaya kwabo ukuze bancede abanye kwaye babonise isisa kwizenzo zabo.
Eli phupha likwabonakalisa umsebenzi kunye nokuzola kubomi bomntu omnye.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikhofi emnyama kuba single
Abatoliki bakholelwa ukuba ukutolika kokubona ukusela ikhofi emnyama ephupheni kubasetyhini abangatshatanga banentsingiselo ebalulekileyo.
Eli phupha libonisa iingxaki kunye nobunzima ukuba umfazi ongatshatanga uya kujongana nokuphumeza iinjongo zakhe.
Ngumbono oxela kwangaphambili imingeni eyomeleleyo efuna amandla kunye nomonde ukoyisa.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuchazwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofu emnyama kumfazi ongatshatanga kubonisa ukuba uyintombazana ephilileyo kwaye ephilileyo ethatha ixesha lokucinga ngaphambi kokuba enze nasiphi na isigqibo.
Unamandla okusombulula iingxaki ngeendlela ezikrelekrele nezilungelelanisiweyo.
Iphupha lomfazi ongatshatanga lokusela ikofu emnyama libonisa amandla akhe okwenza izigqibo ngokuqinileyo nangokuzithemba.
Uyintombazana ezimiseleyo eyomeleleyo enomonde omkhulu wokujongana nemingeni ajongene nayo.
Ukuba umphuphi usebenza, ke lo mbono unokubonakalisa amandla akhe okuba nokuzinza kobugcisa kunye nokwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo kwindawo yokusebenza.
Ukusela ikofu kufanekisela ubomi boluntu kunye nokunxibelelana nabanye.
Ngoko, iphupha lokusela ikofu emnyama kumfazi ongatshatanga libonisa umnqweno wakhe wokufumana iqabane ebomini kunye nokudibanisa kuluntu.
Eli phupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wakhe wokuba nobudlelwane obuluqilima bentlalontle kunye nemvakalelo yokuba ngowabanye.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofi kumfazi otshatileyo
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofi ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo unokuba neentsingiselo ezininzi kunye nezibonakaliso.
Eli phupha linokuthi lidityaniswe nendlela yokuphila kunye nokuphucula imeko yezemali yomfazi otshatileyo.
Unokuzibona esela ikofu ephupheni njengophawu lokuphila okubanzi kunye nokuzinza kwiimeko zobomi.
Lo mbono usenokusebenza njengomqondiso wokuba uzinzile ngokwasezimalini kwaye uyonwabela ukulula nokuthuthuzela ebomini bakhe.
Ukongezelela, iphupha lokusela ikofi ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo linokuba bubungqina bezinto ezininzi ezintle eziza kunandipha kwixesha elizayo elisondeleyo ngenxa yokuhlonela kwakhe kunye nokusondela kuThixo uSomandla.
Iphupha malunga nokusela ikofi kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo linokuthi libonise ukuba kungekudala kuya kubakho iindaba ezingathandekiyo.
Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ephuza ikofu ephupheni, oku kunokuxela kwangaphambili ukufika kweendaba ezimbi ezinokubangela ukudabuka kunye nentlungu.
Inenekazi elitshatileyo lifanele likulungele ukujamelana neengxaki neengxaki kwixesha elizayo elingekude.
Ngokuphathelele ukutolikwa kokubona umfazi otshatileyo ephuza ikofu ekrakra ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuhla kwezinto eziphathekayo kunye nokungabikho kokuphila, kunye nobukho bokudumala kunye neengxaki ezininzi.
Eli phupha lingabonakalisa ubunzima bezemali kunye neengxaki ezininzi ezinokujamelana nazo umfazi otshatileyo ebomini bakhe.
Isenokubonisa ukuva iindaba ezimbi kunye nemingeni yeemvakalelo echaphazela imeko yakhe yengqondo neemvakalelo.
Kumfazi otshatileyo, iphupha malunga nokusela ikofu kunye nezihlobo lingabonakalisa imfuneko yokunxibelelana kunye nokusebenzisana kunye nomnqweno wakhe wokuziva wamkelekile kwaye ubandakanyiwe.
Umfazi otshatileyo usenokuziva efuna ukunxulumana nabantu basekuhlaleni aze anxulumane namalungu entsapho nabahlobo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofi kumfazi okhulelweyo
Umfazi okhulelweyo uzibona esela ikofu yaseTurkey ephupheni ibonisa ukuvakalelwa koxinzelelo olugqithisileyo kunye nokuxhalaba ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Eli phupha linokuba ngumqondiso wokuba umfazi okhulelweyo ufuna ukuphumla kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo ajongene nalo.
Abanye abasetyhini abakhulelweyo banokuziva bexhalabile ngempilo kunye nokhuseleko losana lwabo olungekazalwa okanye malunga nenkqubo yokuzalwa kunye neminye imiba enxulumene nayo.
Ukubukela umfazi okhulelweyo ephuza ikofi ephupheni ingaba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno wakhe wokuphumla kunye nokulahla ukuxhatshazwa.
Iphupha lisenokuba ngumqondiso wosana olulindelekileyo.
Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo uzibona ephuza ikofu ephupheni, oku kungabonakalisa ukuba umntwana wakhe uya kuba yindoda.
Kwezinye iinkcubeko, ukusela ikofu ephupheni kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo bubungqina besini somntwana olindelekileyo, njengoko kukholelwa ukuba ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo usekuqaleni kwexesha lokukhulelwa kunye nokusela ikofu, oku kubonisa ukuba umntwana uya ibhinqa.
Nangona ukuba ikhofi idliwe kwixesha lokugqibela lokukhulelwa kwaye umfazi okhulelweyo sele esazi isini somntwana, eli phupha linokuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana uya kuba yindoda.
Ukusela ikofu ephupheni kukwafanekisela ukuzalwa okulula kunye nokulula, kunye nokususa izinto eziphazamisayo kunye neengxaki ezibangelwa ukukhulelwa.
Abanye bakholelwa ukuba eli phupha libhekisela ekoyiseni iingozi ezinokubakho nokufikelela kwinqanaba lokubeleka ngoxolo nentuthuzelo.
Ngoko ke, umfazi okhulelweyo uzibukele ephuza ikofu ephupheni unokuba luphawu oluhle malunga nenkqubo yokuzalwa kunye namava omama ozayo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofu kumfazi oqhawule umtshato
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofu ephupheni kumfazi oqhawule umtshato kuthathwa njengenye yeempawu ezintle ezibonisa ukuba ulahla ubunzima kunye neengxaki awayejongene nazo kunye nomyeni wakhe wangaphambili.
Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato uzibona esela ikofu ephupheni, oku kubonisa uxolo lwengqondo kunye noxolo oluvakalelwa emva kokuhlukana.
Iphupha lisenokuba luphawu lokuphucuka kweemeko zemali, ukuchacha ngokwasengqondweni, nokuzibophelela kuye.
Ukuchazwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofu kumfazi oqhawule umtshato kunokwahluka phakathi kwamatyala, njengoko kunokubonisa ukulunga, induduzo yexesha elizayo, kunye nokunqoba iingxaki zangaphambili.
Isenokubonisa imbonakalo yemeko entle yezemali kunye nokukwazi kowasetyhini oqhawule umtshato ukuzuza ulungelelwano ebomini bakhe.
Kuyaziwa ukuba ikofu ifanekisela ububele, intuthuzelo kunye noxolo.
Ngoko ke, ukubona umfazi oqhawule umtshato esela ikofu ephupheni kunokubonisa ubukho beqabane elizayo elinika induduzo kunye nolonwabo.
Iphupha linokuthi libe yisikhumbuzo kumfazi oqhawule umtshato ngesidingo sokuphumla kwaye ujabulele amaxesha amnandi ebomini bakhe bexesha elizayo.
Ukuchazwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofu kumfazi oqhawule umtshato ephupheni kubonisa ithemba, ithemba, kunye nokuphucula ukuba uya kungqina ebomini bakhe bexesha elizayo.
Iphupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kuye ukuba unako ukufezekisa ulonwabo kunye nokuzinza kude nemiqobo kunye neengxaki zangaphambili.
Njengophawu lokuqokelela kunye nokunxibelelana, ikofu inokuphinda ibonise ukuphela kokungavisisani kunye noxinzelelo kunye nowayesakuba kunye nokufumana uxolo kunye nokuzinza ngokweemvakalelo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofi kwindoda
Ukuchazwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofi kwindoda iyahluka ngokweemeko kunye neenkcukacha ezijikeleze iphupha.
Ukuba umntu ubona ephupheni ukuba usela ikofu kunye nabahlobo bakhe, oku kubonisa ukuba bayamthanda kwaye bayayihlonipha izibopho zobuhlobo.
Ukuphupha usela ikofu nomntu omaziyo kunokuba luphawu lokuba uziva umthwalo weemvakalelo zaloo mntu.
Oku kungabonisa ukuba ufuna ukunakekelwa kunye nobubele, okanye ukuba ufuna intamo yenkxaso xa ujongene nemingeni.
Iphupha malunga nendoda esela ikofi luphawu lobulumko obukhulu ekujonganeni neengxaki ezijongene nazo.
Oku kubonakalisa ukukwazi ukucinga kakuhle nokwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo, yaye ngaloo ndlela kunciphisa amathuba okuba awele emngciphekweni.
Kwimeko apho umntu otshatileyo, ukumbona esela ikofu ephupheni kunokuba bubungqina bempumelelo eya kuphumelela ebomini bakhe okanye kwintsapho.
Ukubona ikofu kwindoda kukukhumbuza uxanduva olukhulu, imithwalo kunye nemisebenzi enzima ekufuneka ayithwale.
Kusenokuthetha ukuqalisa amashishini amatsha ajolise ekuzuzeni uzinzo lwexesha elide kunye nokonwabela ikamva eliqaqambileyo.
Indoda ezibona isela ikofu ephupheni inokubonisa ishwangusha kunye nokungabikho kwendlela yokuziphilisa ukuba ayitshatanga.
Eli phupha lingabonakalisa ubunzima anokuthi abhekane nabo ekufumaneni iqabane elifanelekileyo okanye ekwakheni ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nozinzo.
Ukutolikwa kombono wokusela ikofu ngobisi ephupheni
Ukutolikwa kombono wokusela ikofu ngobisi ephupheni kubonisa umnqweno womphuphi wokufumana umvuzo osemthethweni kwaye aphumelele ngokwakhe ngeendlela ezisemthethweni.
Xa esela ikofu ngobisi ngokuzola kunye nokuphumla, oku kuthetha ukuba uneempawu ezithandekayo zomntu, njengamandla, isibindi kunye nesibindi.
Ukubona umntu owaziwayo ebomini bomniniyo esela ikofu ngobisi luphawu lokutshintsha izinto zibe ngcono, kwaye kubonisa ukuba lo mntu ufuna inzuzo esemthethweni kunye nokufikelela kuzo ngeendlela ezisemthethweni.
Ngokuphathelele intombazana, ukubona ikofu enobisi kufanekisela ulwalamano lwayo oluphumelelayo olunokuphela emtshatweni.
Kwaye xa ubona umfazi ongatshatanga ephupheni esela ikofu ngobisi, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kufumana isiphakamiso somtshato kumntu oya kufaneleka kakhulu kuye kwaye uya kuvuma ngokukhawuleza.
Kwimeko apho ubona umnini wephupha elungiselela ikomityi yekofu ngobisi kunye nokongeza ikofu eninzi, oku kubonisa ubungakanani beengcinezelo ezijongene nazo kunye nokubandezeleka ebomini bakhe, kwaye usenokuba uwele kwimeko ukwanda koxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
Ngoko ke, ukubona umntu ephupheni ephupheni ephuza ikofu enobisi kunokuthwala iindaba ezilungileyo kunye nomqondiso wokuba uzama ukuzalisekisa iminqweno kunye namaphupha akhe ngokujamelana nemingeni yobomi.
Ukusela ikofu yesiArabhu ephupheni
Xa umntu ongatshatanga ebona umfazi ephuza ikofu yesiArabhu ephupheni, oku kungabonisa ubukho bamantombazana athile afuna ukumenzakalisa kwaye ambonise ngokuchasene noko akufihlayo.
Ibhinqa elingatshatanga kufuneka lilumke kwaye liqinisekise ukuba libavavanya abantu abakufutshane nalo kwaye lingathembi mntu wonke.
Kodwa ukuba umphuphi uzibona esela ikofu yesiArabhu ephupheni, oku kufanekisela ukuhamba kwakhe kwamanye amazwe ukuya emsebenzini kunye nokufumana amava amatsha.
Kulindeleke ukuba umphuphi uya kufumana impumelelo enkulu kwintsimi yakhe yomsebenzi kwaye abuyisele ubutyebi kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo, nokuba zizinto eziphathekayo okanye ubutyebi besayensi.
Ukusela ikofu yesiArabhu ephupheni kunokufuzisela ithuba lokuya kwilizwe lama-Arabhu ukuya kusebenza khona kwaye wenze inzuzo eninzi.
Eli thuba kulindeleke ukuba libe neziqhamo kwaye lizise lowo uphuphayo impumelelo enkulu kunye nempumelelo yobungcali.
Ngokuphathelele umfazi ongatshatanga, iphupha lakhe lokusela ikofu yesi-Arabhu libonisa ukuba ungumntu olungileyo nonqwenelekayo.
Lo mlinganiswa uneempawu ezintle kunye nokuziphatha okuhle, nto leyo emenza athandwe ngabantu kwaye ikhulise ukuthandwa kunye nomtsalane.
Ngokuphathelele ukwenza ikofu ephupheni, kunokufanekisela ukunyuswa emsebenzini kunye nokwanda kwengeniso yemali kwixesha elizayo.
Kwaye xa kwenzeka ukuba umphuphi wayengatshatanga kwaye wabona umfazi ephupheni, emva koko ukusela ikofu yesiArabhu kubonisa umfazi onobubele, onothando kunye nentsebenziswano kunye nomyeni wakhe, kunye nokunyamezela ubunzima kunye nemingeni ebomini babo bomtshato.
Ngokutsho kwengcaciso ka-Ibn Sirin, ukubona umntu ephuza ikofu yesiArabhu ephupheni kufanekisela uhambo lwakhe kwilizwe lama-Arabhu kunye nokuzuza kwezinto eziphathekayo.
U-Ibn Sirin ulumkisa nxamnye nokucinga okungakhiyo kwaye ukhuthaza ukusebenzisa amathuba amahle nokuba nomonde nokukhuthala ukufikelela impumelelo enqwenelekayo.
Ukusela ikhofi emnyama ephupheni
Iphupha malunga nokusela ikhofi emnyama ephupheni luphawu lwezinye izinto ezimbi kunye nezilungileyo, kwaye oko kuxhomekeke kwiimeko kunye neenkcukacha zephupha.
Kanye njengokuba le kofu isenokufuzisela uhanahaniso, ubuxoki, namaqhinga nabanenkohliso kubomi bomphuphi, isenokubonakalisa uxinezeleko, ukuphoxeka, nokubandezeleka ekusingatheni iingxaki.
Kwimeko apho umfazi otshatileyo ebona ephupheni ephuza ikhofi emnyama, ke eli phupha lingabonisa ukuba kungekudala uza kuva iindaba ezingathandekiyo, ezinokubangela ukudabuka kunye nokukhathazeka.
Ngelixa ukusela ikofu emnandi ephupheni kunokubonisa ithamsanqa kunye nokuqala kweeprojekthi ezintsha.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, u-Ibn Sirin utolika iphupha lokusela ikofu njengesibonakaliso sokuba umphuphi ngumntu onokuziphatha okuhle, udumo oluhle, kunye nothando ngabantu abamngqongileyo.
Eli phupha likwabonisa ubulumko bomphuphi ekujonganeni neengxaki ajongene nazo, nto leyo enciphisa amathuba okuba awele kwiingozi.
Kwabasetyhini abangatshatanga, ukubona ukusela ikofu ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba uyintombazana ephilileyo kwaye enengqondo ethatha ixesha lokucinga ngaphambi kokuba enze isigqibo esibalulekileyo.
Kwaye ukuba umphuphi usebenza, ke eli phupha lingabonisa ukuba unobunzima emsebenzini kwaye kufuneka aphathwe ngononophelo kunye nengqalelo.
Ukubona abafileyo besela ikofu ephupheni
Iphupha lokubona umntu ofileyo esela ikofu yenye yeempawu eziphambili ezithwala iintsingiselo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo.
Ukuba umphuphi ubona umntu oshonile ephuza ikofu ephupheni, oku kunokuba sisilumkiso sokuvula iingcango ezintsha kwiiprojekthi ezilungileyo eziya kuthembisa kwaye zivelise isiqhamo kumphuphi ngokwakhe.
Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokufuna ukudibanisa nexesha elidlulileyo kunye nokubuyisela iinkumbulo ezisondeleyo.
Umntu ofileyo ephupheni unokumela umntu owayenempembelelo enkulu kubomi bomphuphi.
Ukuba umntu ofileyo wasela ikofu ephupheni, oko kubonisa ukuphishekela komphuphi ukufikelela kwiinjongo kunye nokuzibonakalisa emsebenzini, kwaye unokufumana isikhundla esikhulu kuluntu.
Kwaye ukuba umntu oshonile wayephuzile ikhofi yonke ephupheni, ngoko oku kuqinisa intsingiselo yokuphishekela umphuphi wokuphumeza iinjongo kunye nokuzibonakalisa emsebenzini.
Kwimeko apho umntu ebona ephupheni ukuba umntu oshonile usela ikofu, ke eli phupha lingabonisa umnqweno womphuphi wokufezekisa iinjongo zakhe kunye nokuzalisekisa iminqweno yakhe ebomini bokwenene.
Ukongeza, ukuba umntu uzibona ephupheni ethatha ikofu kumntu ofileyo, uvuyo olukhulu lunokuza kuye kwixesha elizayo.
Ngokunjalo, ukubona umntu enika umntu ofileyo ikofu kwaye engavumi ukuyithatha, kunokuba yintsingiselo yokufikelela kwinkumbulo yomfi ngenceba kunye nokubongoza kumnini wephupha, kwaye oku kungenxa yenkolelo enzulu kumandla kamfi. imisebenzi yesisa nemisebenzi emihle.
Umntu ngamnye unentsingiselo eyahlukileyo yokubona umntu ofileyo esela ikofu ephupheni, kwaye akafanele alahlekelwe ngumbono wokubaluleka kokubonelela ngesikhokelo esiyimfuneko sokomoya nangokwengqondo kunye nenkxaso yokufezekisa iminqweno kunye neenjongo afuna ukuzifumana ebomini.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofu kunye nezihlobo
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusela ikofu kunye nezihlobo kunokuba ngumqondiso wezinto ezininzi.
Kumfazi otshatileyo, eli phupha lingabonisa imfuneko yonxibelelwano lwentlalo kunye nokusebenza ngokubambisana.
Isenokufuzisela umnqweno wakhe wokuziva ethandwa yaye ephenjelelwa yintsapho enkulu.
Kwakhona kusenokubonisa uthando lwakhe olunzulu ngentsapho yomyeni wakhe neenkqubano ezintle kunye nayo.
Ngokuphathelele indoda etshatileyo, ukubona ikofu inikwe izalamane ephupheni ibonisa ulonwabo lwentsapho ebomini bakhe.
Isenokuba ngumqondiso wemvisiswano noxolo entsatsheni yakhe, okanye isenokuxela kwangaphambili ngokuza kwesihlandlo solonwabo okanye iintlanganiso ezisondeleyo zentsapho.
Ngokuphathelele umfana ongatshatanga, ukubona ikofu kunye nezihlobo ephupheni kuthetha ukuba ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo bunamandla, buzolile, kwaye bukhululekile kwiingxaki zentsapho kunye nokungavumelani.
Eli phupha lisenokubonisa ubuhlobo obuqinileyo kunye nokuqhubeka kobudlelwane phakathi kwakhe nezihlobo zakhe.
Ukubona umntu ephuza ikofu kunye nezihlobo ephupheni kunokuba luphawu lwemali eninzi eya kuba nayo kwiintsuku ezizayo, eya kumnceda ukuba aphile ubomi obuzolileyo nobuzinzileyo.
Eli phupha linokuba ngumqondiso wokuva iindaba ezilungileyo malunga nezihlobo kunye nokuphucula ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, iphupha malunga nokusela ikofu kunye nezihlobo libonisa unxibelelwano loluntu kunye nobudlelwane obuhle.
Eli phupha lisenokubonisa umnqweno wonxibelelwano lwentsapho nokulungelelana.
Kwakhona kunokubonisa ukuziphatha okuphezulu kunye nesisa kumntu osela ikofu ephupheni.
