Funda malunga nokutolikwa kwephupha malunga nolwandle ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin

ulwandle ephupheni

Ukuba umntu uzibona ephupheni equbha elwandle, oku kunokuthetha ukuba uya kujongana nobunzima kunye neengxaki kunye namagunya anamandla.Ukuba umntu ubona umhlobo wakhe ephupheni equbha elwandle, oku kubonisa ukuba ufuna uncedo kunye noncedo. . Ukuba intombazana ibona ulwandle ephupheni, oku kungabonakalisa impumelelo yakhe ebomini bomsebenzi okanye ukwanda kweembopheleleko kunye nezibophelelo.

Ulwandle ephupheni lunokufanekisela imingeni, ubunzima, kunye nezilingo onokujamelana nazo ebomini.

Ulwandle ephupheni lunokuthi lubonise iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ezivakalelwa ngumphuphi, kwaye zibonisa ukukhululwa ngokomoya, ukuhlaziywa, ukhuseleko, inkululeko, kunye nokungabikho kwemiqobo.

Ukubona ulwandlekazi olukhulu ephupheni kusenokuthetha ixesha lentabalala nenkqubela-phambili.Ukubona amanzi olwandle ephupheni kusenokubonisa ukufika kwento enokuba yingozi, ukuphelelwa lixhala, okanye intaphane yendlela yokuziphilisa.

Kwabasetyhini abangatshatanga, ulwandle ephupheni lunokufanekisela ukufikelela kumanqanaba amatsha okukhula kunye nempumelelo. Ukubona ulwandle ephupheni kuyimbonakaliso yobomi kunye neenguqu zayo, kwaye isivunguvungu solwandle sinokuba bubungqina bokunganeliseki ngobomi.

Ulwandle ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo

1. Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona engafuni ukuntywila elwandle ephupheni, oku kunokuba bubungqina besikhokelo kunye neengcebiso azifumanayo. Lo mbono usenokubonisa ukuba abafazi bayaziphepha iingozi nezigqibo eziphosakeleyo.
2.  Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo lizibona lingena nzulu elwandle kunye nomnye umntu ephupheni, oku kunokufanekisela umfazi obeka engozini igama lakhe kunye nosapho lwakhe. Lo mbono unokuba sisilumkiso nxamnye nokwenza izigqibo ezinokuchaphazela kakubi ubomi bakhe bobuqu nolwalamano lomtshato.
3.  Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ulwandle okanye uLwandlekazi lwasePacific ephupheni, oku kungabonisa inzala enhle okanye ibe ngumqondiso wokukhulelwa kwixesha elizayo. Lo mbono unokuba ngumqondiso womnqweno wokudala intsapho eyonwabileyo kunye nabantwana.
4.  Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona ulwandle luphahlazeka ephupheni, oku kungabonisa ngokubanzi ubukho beengxaki kunye neengxabano ebomini bakhe. Lo mbono unokuba sisilumkiso kowasetyhini ukuba unokujongana nemingeni kunye nobunzima kubudlelwane bakhe bobuqu nosapho.
5.  Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ukuba ephupheni ulwandle luzele ligazi, oko kunokufuzisela ukuba uya kufumana impumelelo ebalulekileyo ebomini bakhe bobugcisa. Lo mbono unokuba luphawu lokuba umfazi uya kuziphumeza iinjongo zakhe kwaye agqwese kumsebenzi wakhe.
6. Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona ephupheni ulwandle olukhulu noluninzi, oku kungabonisa ukuba ungena kwixesha lobuninzi kunye nokuchuma. Lo mbono usenokubonisa imvakalelo yomfazi yokunqabiseka nolwaneliseko kubomi bakhe bomsebenzi nowobuqu.

Ulwandle ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga

1.  Kumfazi ongatshatanga, ukubona ulwandle ephupheni kunokubonisa ukuba ujongene nesilingo kunye nesilingo. Olu toliko lubonisa imingeni yobudlelwane bomntu kunye nobunzima onokuthi uhlangane nabo kwintsimi yothando kunye neemvakalelo.
2.  Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga izibona idada elwandle ephupheni, oku kunokubonisa ukuba ingena kwixesha lokubandezeleka noxinzelelo. Kusenokubakho ucelomngeni neengxaki ajamelana nazo kubomi bakhe bemihla ngemihla.
3.  Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga ibona umntu owaziwayo equbha elwandle ephupheni, oku kunokufanekisela izenzo zakhe ezimbi. Le ngcaciso isenokubonisa ubukho bomntu owaziwayo oziphatha ngendlela engafanelekanga okanye ophakamisa ukukrokra ngaye.
4. Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga ibona intanda yakhe ibhukuda elwandle ephupheni, oku kungabonisa ukuba wenza ububi kunye nesono. Kufuneka alumkele ubudlelwane obubi kwaye aqinisekise ukuba ukhetha iqabane elihle lobomi.
5. Ukuba iindawo ezingqongileyo zizolile kwaye zihle ephupheni, oku kungabonisa impumelelo yowesifazane ongatshatanga kuyo yonke imicimbi. Unokufikelela esiphelweni esonwabisayo kwiingxaki zakhe zangoku kwaye onwabele ubomi obuzinzileyo kunye nempumelelo ezifundweni.
6. Kumfazi ongatshatanga, ulwandle ephupheni lunokumela amanqanaba amatsha okukhula kunye nophuhliso. Ibonakalisa ukukulungela kwakhe ukujongana nemingeni kunye nokuphumelela impumelelo kubomi bakhe bobuqu kunye nobungcali.
7. Ukuba ulwandle luzolile kwaye lucacile ephupheni, oku kungabonakalisa ubomi obuninzi kunye nokulunga okukhulu. Ibhinqa elingatshatanga linokufumana amathuba amahle kwaye liphumelele izikhundla eziphezulu ebomini bakhe.

Ukutolikwa kokubhukuda elwandle ephupheni

1.  Ukuba uzibona ubhukuda elwandle olucocekileyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa induduzo kunye noxolo lwangaphakathi umntu azivayo. Luphawu lokulinganisela kunye nokuzinza ngokweemvakalelo.
2.  Ukuzibona uqubha elwandle luphawu lokunyuka kokulungileyo kunye nokuphila kubomi bomntu. Oku kusenokuthetha ukuba amathuba amatsha okuphumelela kunye nokuchuma aya kuza kuwe.
3.  Ukuzibona uqubha elwandle ephupheni kunokubonisa ukwanda kokuqonda kunye nokukhula komntu. Lo mbono unokubonisa ukuba lixesha lokutshintsha kunye nophuhliso lomntu, ukuzama ukuphumelela kunye nokuziphucula.
4.  Ukuzibona uqubha elwandle ephupheni kunokuba sisibikezelo sesidingo sakho sokufumana ulwazi. Usenokuba nomnqweno wokufunda nokufumana izakhono ezingakumbi nolwazi.

Ulwandle oluphuphumayo ephupheni

UIbn Sirin wabonisa ukuba ukubona ulwandle oluphuphumayo ephupheni kusenokuthetha ubukho bokumkani onamandla nonobulungisa. Lo mbono uvakalisa amandla negunya umntu ophuphayo anokuwafumana ebomini bakhe.

Ukuba umrhwebi ubona ulwandle ephupheni lakhe, oku kubonisa ukuba umphuphi ubonakaliswe ngokugula. Ulwandle kule meko lunokuthetha umkhukula ohamba nemvula, ebonisa ukugula apho umntu anokuthi abonakale.

Ukubona umkhukula wolwandle ephupheni kuthetha ukuba kukho iingxaki kunye nobunzima kubomi bomphuphi. Kusenokubakho imingeni enamandla kunye nemiqobo ejongene nomntu, kwaye ukuphunyuka kwakhe kumkhukula kunokubonakalisa ukuphela kwezo ngxaki kunye neemeko ezinzima zobomi.

Ngokuphathelele intombazana engatshatanga, ukubona ulwandle oluphuphumayo ephupheni lakhe lubonisa ukukhupha iinkxalabo kunye neentlungu, kunye nokuphucula iimeko zakhe zengqondo.

Xa umntu ephupha ngomkhukula wolwandle, oku kungabonisa ukusondela komtshato womfazi ongatshatanga, ngelixa umkhukula omkhulu ubonisa iingxaki kunye nemingeni anokujamelana nayo ebomini bakhe. Ukuphuncuka kwayo kwisikhukula kunokubonisa ukuphela kwezi ngxaki.

U-Ibn Sirin ubonisa ukuba umkhukula wolwandle ephupheni luphawu lobukho botshaba oluhlala phakathi kwabantu, kwaye olu tshaba lunokuba ngumhlobo omdala okanye umntu osondeleyo.

Ukubona ulwandle oluphuphumayo ephupheni lunokuba luphawu lokuphazamiseka kunye neengxaki ezinokuthi zenzeke ebomini bokwenene. Umntu unokujongana nemingeni emsebenzini, kusapho okanye kubomi basekuhlaleni.

Umkhukula wolwandle ephupheni usenokuba ngumqondiso wokhuseleko nokuzinza kwixesha elizayo. Ingabonisa utshintsho oluhle kunye neentsikelelo eziza kumphuphi, kwaye unokuphelisa iingxaki ajongene nazo kwinqanaba elilandelayo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokubhukuda elwandle kubafazi abangatshatanga

1. Iphupha lomfazi ongatshatanga lokuqubha elwandle lisenokuba luphawu lobomi bakhe ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasengqondweni. Ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga liziva likhululekile kwaye lizolile ngelixa liqubha elwandle ephupheni, oku kunokuba bubungqina bokulinganisela kwengqondo kunye namandla eemvakalelo.
2.  Ibhinqa elingatshatanga xa lizibona lidada elwandle lisenokubonisa ukuba sele lisondele kumhla wokutshata nomntu olungileyo obambelela kwimilinganiselo yonqulo neyokuziphatha. Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokufika komntu omthandayo kwaye ogcina isimilo sonqulo.
3.  Ibhinqa elingatshatanga lizibona liqubha elwandle lingabonakalisa uzinzo ngokwasengqondweni kunye namandla angaphakathi. Ukuba unezakhono zokubhukuda ezilungileyo ephupheni, oku kunokuba bubungqina bokuzithemba kwakhe kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukunqoba imingeni ebomini.
4. Ibhinqa elingatshatanga lizibona liqubha kuLwandlekazi lwePasifiki yaye liziva lonwabile lisenokubonisa ukuba liphila ubomi obutofotofo obuzaliswe kukuzola nothando. Lo mbono unokubonakalisa ubukho boxolo nolonwabo kubudlelwane bomntu ongatshatanga.
5. Iphupha lebhinqa elingatshatanga lokuqubha elwandle lisenokuba bubungqina benzaliseko esemnyango yamathemba namaphupha alo. Eli phupha lingabonisa ixesha elizayo lempumelelo kunye nokuzaliseka komntu kunye neemvakalelo.

Ukuphuma kolwandle ebantwini ephupheni

1. Abanye abatoliki bakholelwa ukuba ukubona ulwandle luphuma phezu kwabantu ephupheni lubonisa ubukho beenguqu ezinzulu kunye nezinamandla ebomini, kwaye kunokubonisa isiganeko esikhulu esiya kuchaphazela abantu abaninzi. Oku kuthetha ukuba kukho ixesha leenguqu ezinamandla kunye namathuba abalulekileyo okufunda nophuhliso kwixesha elizayo elingekude.
2. Kwakhona kwaziwa ukuba ukubona ulwandle luthululela abantu ephupheni lunokufanekisela injongo enkulu kunye neyingozi umntu aya kujongana nayo. Eli phupha lingabonisa ukuba sele eza kujongana nemingeni emikhulu efuna amandla, isibindi, kunye nokuzinikela kwemigudu emikhulu yokufikelela impumelelo kunye nokuzimela.
3. Olunye utoliko lweli phupha lubonisa ukuba lunentsingiselo entle yenkqubela phambili kunye nempumelelo. Ulwandle oluthululela abantu ephupheni lunokuthetha ukuba umntu uya kunandipha ixesha lokuphumelela kunye nokuchuma ebomini bakhe bobugcisa okanye bomntu. Eli phupha linokuba bubungqina bokuvuma kwakho ukumelana nemingeni kwaye uphumelele.

Isimboli solwandle ephupheni

Ukubona unxweme lolwandle ephupheni luphawu lokuba nethemba nokhuseleko. Ivakalisa ukufezekiswa kweenjongo ezimiselweyo, intuthuzelo yomphambukeli, kunye nokuphela kweentlungu zengqondo. Kumfazi otshatileyo, ukubona ulwandle kuthetha uthando olutsha okanye ulonwabo oluya kuzalisa intliziyo yakhe.

Ngokutsho kwengcaciso ka-Ibn Sirin, ukuba umntu ubona ulwandle ngexesha lokulala kwakhe, kuthetha ubukho benkosi enamandla kunye nobulungisa ebomini bakhe. Ngokuphathelele umrhwebi, ukubona ulwandle ephupheni lakhe kuthetha ukufumaneka kwemali yakhe kunye nobutyebi. Ulwandle ephupheni lunokuphinda lufanekisele uzinzo, ukunandipha ubomi bomfazi ongatshatanga, kwaye mhlawumbi ukupha ngokuqhubekayo.

Xa umntu ebona ulwandle ephupheni lakhe, kunokubakho utshintsho oluhle ebomini bakhe, ngakumbi ukuba ulwandle luzolile. Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ulwandle olunqabileyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukwesaba okukhulu.

Ukubona ulwandle oluzolileyo ephupheni lufuzisela intuthuzelo, uzinzo, kunye nenzuzo enkulu kulwazi, abaphengululi, okanye abantu abanegunya kunye nodumo. Mhlawumbi ukubona intombazana engatshatanga ephupheni lakhe kubonisa ukuba uya kulahla iingxaki ezimngqongileyo.

Ukubona ulwandle ephupheni kuthetha ukulunga kunye nemali eninzi eya kufunyanwa ngumntu. Ifuzisela ubukumkani, ubomi, iwonga, amandla, igunya, ookumkani nabantu abakumgangatho ophezulu. Ikwabhekisa nakwiqabane, nokuba ngumyeni okanye ngumfazi. Ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin, ukubona ulwandle ephupheni kubonisa ubukho benkosi enamandla kunye nobulungisa okanye ukuzaliseka kweminqweno yomphuphi. Ulwandle lusenokumela amava nobutyebi bomrhwebi.

Ulwandle ephupheni luzisa ukuzola nokuzinza kumphuphi. Kodwa ukuba amaza anoburhalarhume, ilumkisa umphuphi ngeenguqulelo neengxaki zobomi.

Ukubona ulwandle ephupheni luphawu olunamandla oluthwala ezininzi ezidibeneyo. Isenokubonisa ukhuseleko nobutyebi, okanye isenokubonisa uzinzo namandla.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nolwandle nomntu endimaziyo

1. Ukuba umntu uzibona ephupheni equbha elwandle kunye nomntu amthandayo, oku kunokuba bubungqina bokuba ubonakaliswe kwiinkxalabo kunye neengxaki ebomini bakhe. Eli phupha lisenokubonisa imingeni umntu anokujongana nayo kubudlelwane bakhe nomntu amthandayo.
2. Kwabanye, iphupha malunga nolwandle kunye nomntu odumileyo okanye othandekayo unokuzaliseka. Eli phupha linokuba bubungqina bokulunga kunye nokutya okuninzi, kwaye linokufanekisela ukuzaliseka kweminqweno yabo kunye nokufumaneka kweempawu ezilungileyo ebomini babo.
3.  Ukuphupha ulwandle nomntu omaziyo kunokuthetha ukuba uziva uqhagamshelwe kuloo mntu kwaye kufuneka usondele kuye okanye ubakhathalele. Eli phupha linokuba bubungqina bobudlelwane obumangalisayo kunye obuqinileyo phakathi kwakho.
4.  Ukuphupha ulwandle nomntu omaziyo kunokuba bubungqina bokulunga okuninzi okuya kuza ebomini bakho. Eli phupha lingabonisa impumelelo kunye nokuchuma kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi, kunye nokuzinza kubudlelwane bomntu.
5.  Ukuzibona uqubha elwandle nomntu omaziyo kunokuba luphawu lokuba ufuna ukunxibelelana nokusebenzisana nalo mntu. Unokuba nomnqweno wokungena kwintsebenziswano yezoshishino okanye ukwakha ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nokuthembeka ngakumbi.