Funda malunga nokuchazwa kokubona isicathulo esilahlekileyo ephupheni ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin

Umbono wokulahlekelwa sisihlangu

1.  Ukubona izihlangu ezilahlekileyo kunokubonisa ukuxhalaba kwakho ngokubanzi kunye nokungazinzi malunga nezigqibo ozenzayo ebomini bakho.
   Usenokuziva ungakwazi ukulawula imibandela ebalulekileyo yobomi.
2. Ukuba uzibona ephupheni ulahlekelwa yizihlangu zakho, oku kunokuba luphawu lokungazithembi kunye nokuthandabuza kumandla akho okuphumelela.
3.  Ukulahlekelwa izicathulo ephupheni kunokuba ngumqondiso wokulahlekelwa, nokuba ukulahlekelwa yimvakalelo okanye ukulahlekelwa ngumntu obalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
4. Ukubona isihlangu esilahlekileyo kubonakalisa imeko embi kunye nokwandisa uxinzelelo lobomi.
   Iphupha lingabonisa imvakalelo yokukrazulwa kunye nokungalingani.
5.  Ukuphulukana nesihlangu kwinqanaba lokomfuziselo kusenokuba sisilumkiso seengozi osenokujamelana nazo kungekudala ebomini bakho.
   Kusenokuba bhetele ukuba ulumke ulungiselele into ezayo.Ukubona izihlangu ezilahlekileyo ephupheni kusenokuba luphawu lweemvakalelo ezingakhiyo okanye iingcinezelo zobomi.
   Kubalulekile ukuba uzame ukugxila ekukhuliseni ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nokuqhubela phambili ekuphumezeni injongo oyifunayo.
   Sisikhumbuzo semfuneko yokuzikhusela kwiingozi ezinokubakho kolu hambo lobomi.

Iphupha lokulahlekelwa izicathulo kumfazi otshatileyo

1.  Iphupha malunga nokulahleka kwezicathulo lingabonakalisa ukulahlekelwa ukuzithemba okanye ukuxhalaba malunga nokukwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya kunye noxanduva kunye nokuba ngumama.
   Umfazi otshatileyo usenokuziva ethandabuza ngamandla akhe okulungelelanisa ubomi bentsapho nobomi bomsebenzi.
2. Ukulahlekelwa isihlangu ephupheni kunokufanekisela ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa yinto ebalulekileyo ebomini bomfazi otshatileyo, nokuba kukuzinza ngokweemvakalelo okanye ukulahlekelwa yindima yakhe njengomfazi nomama.
   Usenokuxhalatyiswa kukutshintsha kweemeko neemfuno zobomi bakhe.
3.  Ukulahlekelwa isihlangu kunokuba ngumqondiso wokufuna umfazi otshatileyo ukuze azazise.
   Usenokuziva elahlekile phakathi kweemfuno zobomi bomtshato nokuba ngumama nokufezekisa amabhongo akhe obuqu nokuziphumeza kwezinye iinkalo.
4. Umfazi otshatileyo usenokuziva efuna ukuzimela geqe nenkululeko yobuqu.
   Ukubona izicathulo zakhe ezilahlekileyo ephupheni kunokuba yisikhumbuzo kuye ngokubaluleka kokuzinyamekela kunye nokuhlonipha iimfuno zakhe zomntu.

Iphupha malunga nokulahlekelwa isihlangu kumfazi ongatshatanga

1. Iphupha lomfazi ongatshatanga lokuphulukana nezihlangu lisenokubonakalisa inkxalabo enzulu ngobulolo nokungatshati.
   Usenokuziva udiniwe ngokweemvakalelo okanye unexhala lokungafumani iqabane elifanelekileyo lobomi.
   Izicathulo zingabonakalisa ukuzinza kunye nokuzithemba, kwaye ukulahlekelwa kwazo kubonisa ukungazinzi kweemvakalelo okanye ukuvakalelwa.
2. Iphupha lomfazi ongatshatanga lokulahlekelwa zizicathulo lisenokubonakalisa uloyiko lokungaphumeleli okanye ukulahlekelwa ngamathuba abalulekileyo ebomini.
   Unokuba nexhala malunga nokungakwazi ukufikelela kwiinjongo okanye ukuphoswa ngamathuba onokuthi uwasebenzise.
   Uyakhunjuzwa ukuba ugcine ingqondo evulekileyo kwaye ulungele ukusebenzisa amathuba oza kuwe.
3. Kumfazi ongatshatanga, iphupha malunga nokulahlekelwa izicathulo lingaba luphawu lokuba lixesha lokuphuma kwindawo yokuthuthuzela kwaye ujonge utshintsho kunye nokukhula ebomini bakho.
   Usenokungaziva waneliseke ngokupheleleyo yimeko yangoku kwaye kufuneka uphonononge izinto ezintsha kunye nee-adventures.
   Kusenokubakho imfuneko yokuziphuhlisa kunye nokwandisa ukuzithemba kwakho.
4.  Kumfazi ongatshatanga, iphupha malunga nokulahlekelwa isihlangu linokuba luphawu lwesiqalo esitsha kunye nethemba elibhekiselele kwikamva.
   Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokuba ungayoyisa imiceli mngeni kwaye woyise imiqobo ukuze ufezekise iminqweno namaphupha akho.
   Kufuneka ushiye ixesha elidlulileyo emva kwakho kwaye ulungiselele ikamva eliqaqambileyo.

ilahleko Izicathulo ephupheni kumntu

1.  Eli phupha lingabonakalisa ukungazithembi kwizakhono zakho okanye ukuziva ubuthathaka kunye nokuphazamiseka.
   Ungaziva ngathi uphoswa ngamathuba kwaye ulahlekelwe ngumkhombandlela ebomini bakho.
2.  Kwindoda, ukulahlekelwa izicathulo ephupheni kunokufanekisela ukuziva kwakhe ehlazekile okanye engaqhelekanga kwiimeko ezithile.
   Usenokuvakalelwa kukuba awungeni ndawo kwindawo ohlala kuyo okanye awungowalapho.
3. Eli phupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo sesidingo sotshintsho kunye nokukhula ebomini bakho.
   Unokuziva unesidingo sokuphinda uphonononge izinto ezibalulekileyo kuwe kwaye ujonge iindlela ezintsha zokukhula nokuphucula.
4. Eli phupha lingabonisa ukulahleka komdla kunye nokuzimisela ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho.
   Mhlawumbi uziva udiniwe okanye udanile kwaye kufuneka uvuselele inkanuko kwaye uphinde ufumane inkuthazo.
5. Kwindoda, ukulahlekelwa izicathulo ephupheni kunokubonakalisa ukulahleka kobuqili boluntu okanye ubudlelwane obuqinileyo nabantu abakujikelezile.
   Mhlawumbi uziva ulilolo okanye unesithukuthezi kwaye ufuna ukuphinda uqhagamshelane kwaye ufumane ibhalansi kubomi bakho bentlalontle.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulahlekelwa izicathulo kumhlolokazi

Ukuphulukana nezihlangu ephupheni lomhlolokazi kusenokufuzisela usizi nelahleko ayivayo ngenxa yokufelwa liqabane lobomi bakhe.
Eli phupha linokuba yimbonakaliso yeemvakalelo zokukhathazeka kunye nokulangazelela umntu olahlekileyo, kunye nomnqweno womhlolokazi wokubuyisela loo mvakalelo yokuzaliseka kunye nokuphelela phambi komlingani wobomi.

Iphupha lomhlolokazi lokuphulukana nezihlangu lisenokubonakalisa ubuthathaka bakhe namandla akhe alinganiselweyo okujamelana neengxaki zobomi.
Ingabonisa ubunzima ajongene nabo ekujonganeni nobomi ngaphandle kweqabane lakhe, ukufikelela kwiinjongo kunye nokuziqinisekisa.

Ukuphulukana nezihlangu ephupheni lomhlolokazi kunokufuzisela ukuxhomekeka ngokugqithiseleyo kwabanye kunye nesidingo senkxaso noncedo kubomi bemihla ngemihla.
Umhlolokazi usenokuyiva inxalenye ephulukene nayo ngengqiqo yokuba isihlangu simelela umntu onikela ukhuseleko, ukhuseleko nozinzo.

Ukulahlekelwa izicathulo kwiphupha lomhlolokazi kunokufuzisela ukukhangela ubuni bakhe kunye nesikhokelo ebomini emva kokulahlekelwa ngumlingani.
Iphupha lingabonakalisa umnqweno wokufumana izakhono ezintsha kunye nezinto ezinomdla, kunye nokufuna ukufumana injongo entsha kunye nenjongo ebomini.

Iphupha lomhlolokazi lokuphulukana nezihlangu linokuba sisimemo sokucinga ngeendlela zokuziphuhlisa nokuphucula ubuchule bomntu.
Kusenokuthetha ukuba kufuneka asebenze ngendlela enempilo kwaye alungelelanise imiba yobuqu, yentlalo kunye neyeemvakalelo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulahlekelwa izicathulo zomfazi oqhawule umtshato

1.  Ukulahlekelwa izicathulo ephupheni kunokufanekisela ukulahlekelwa yisazisi kunye nokuhlukana emva kokuqhawula umtshato, njengoko umntu oqhawule umtshato uziva ehlakazekile kwaye engazinzanga ebomini.
2. Ukuba ubona ukubuyiswa kwezicathulo ephupheni, oku kungabonakalisa ukubuyiselwa kokuthembela kunye nokhuseleko emva kwesigaba sokuqhawula umtshato, njengoko isicathulo singabonakalisa ukukhuselwa kunye nokuzinza ukuba umntu oqhawule umtshato ubuyela.
3. Ukuphupha ukukhangela izicathulo ezilahlekileyo kunokubonisa ukulangazelela komntu oqhawule umtshato umphefumlo weqabane lakhe elilahlekileyo kunye nomnqweno wokudibanisa kwakhona kunye nenxalenye yobomi babo obudlulileyo.
4.  Ukuphupha ukubona izicathulo eziphukileyo ephupheni kunokufanekisela imingeni kunye nezithintelo umntu oqhawule umtshato ajongene nazo ebomini bakhe.
   Oku kunokuba yisikhumbuzo kuye ngesidingo sokulungisa oko kwaphukileyo kwaye ujongane nemingeni ngamandla.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulahlekelwa izicathulo kwindoda etshatileyo

Iphupha malunga nokulahlekelwa izicathulo kwindoda etshatileyo ingabonisa ukungabikho kokuhambelana kunye nokuzinza kwimpilo yakho yobungcali okanye ngokweemvakalelo.
Ungaziva ungakhuselekanga okanye unexhala malunga nekamva lakho kunye nobudlelwane.

Ukulahlekelwa izicathulo ephupheni kunokuba luphawu lokuphazamiseka kweemvakalelo ohlangabezana nazo njengendoda etshatileyo.
Ingabonisa ubunzima bokunxibelelana neqabane lakho okanye ukunganeliseki ngobudlelwane bakho.

Ukuphulukana nezihlangu ephupheni kunokufuzisela imvakalelo yakho yokuphulukana noxanduva ebomini bakho.
Usenokuziva ungakwazi ukuzalisekisa iimbopheleleko zakho nokulawula indlela yobomi bakho.

Eli phupha lingabonisa utshintsho kwimeko yomtshato okanye uxanduva ojongene nalo njengendoda etshatileyo.
Usenokuba nexhala ngokuba ngumzali okanye ukuthabatha uxanduva olutsha.

Ukulahlekelwa izicathulo ephupheni kunokuba ngumqondiso wemingeni yomtshato kunye nobunzima onokuthi ubhekane nabo kubudlelwane bomtshato.
Ingabonakalisa imfuneko yokufuna ulungelelwano kunye nokunxibelelana neqabane lobomi.

Ukulahlekelwa izicathulo ephupheni kunokufanekisela umnqweno wenkululeko kunye nokuzimela.
Kusenokubonisa umnqweno wakho wokuyishiya imiqathango neembopheleleko zomtshato uze ubuyisele ubuwena.

Eli phupha lingabonisa uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalaba onokuziva kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
Isenokumela iingcinezelo zobomi kunye nemingeni ojongene nayo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulahlekelwa isicathulo esimhlophe kumfazi ongatshatanga

1.  Ukuphulukana nezicathulo ezimhlophe zomfazi omnye kunokuba luphawu lokuxhalaba ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokwahlukana.
   Isihlangu esilahlekileyo sinokubonisa ukuphelelwa yintembelo kubudlelwane bothando okanye ukoyika ubulolo.
2. Ukuphupha ukulahlekelwa izicathulo ezimhlophe zowesifazane oyedwa kunokuba yimbonakaliso yomnqweno wokutshintsha kunye nokuhlola i-horizon entsha.
   Isihlangu esilahlekileyo sinokuba luphawu lwesiqhelo kunye nesidingo sokuzama izinto ezintsha nezinomdla.
3. Ukulahlekelwa izicathulo ezimhlophe zowesifazane oyedwa kunokuba ngumqondiso wokuzimela kunye namandla angaphakathi.
   Isihlangu esilahlekileyo sinokubonakalisa inkululeko kwizithintelo kunye nokukhetha okuzimeleyo.
4.  Ukuphulukana nezicathulo ezimhlophe zomfazi omnye kunokunxulumana nobomi bokusebenza kunye notshintsho olunokwenzeka kwintsimi yomsebenzi.
   Isihlangu esilahlekileyo sinokubonisa ixesha elinzima emsebenzini okanye umnqweno wokufudukela kumsebenzi omtsha.
5.  Ukuphulukana nesihlangu esimhlophe somntu omnye kunokuba sisikhumbuzo sokuba ubomi abusoloko bugcwele iirozi, kwaye umntu unokuhlangabezana nemingeni kunye nemiqobo endleleni.
   Isihlangu esilahlekileyo sinokuthetha ukuba udinga umonde kunye nokuzimisela ukunqoba le mingeni kwaye uphumelele.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulahlekelwa isicathulo esimnyama kumfazi otshatileyo

1. Ukuphulukana nezihlangu ezimnyama kunokunxulunyaniswa neemvakalelo zokuxhalaba okanye uxinzelelo lwengqondo onokuthi ubandezeleke kulo njengomfazi otshatileyo.
   Usenokuba neembopheleleko ezininzi nocelomngeni kubomi bomtshato, yaye eli phupha lisenokubonisa ingcinezelo ovakalelwa ngayo.
2.  Ukulahlekelwa izicathulo ezimnyama ephupheni kunokuba ngumqondiso wamathandabuzo kunye nokungathembeki kumlingane.
   Usenokuba unengxaki yokucinga okungalunganga okanye ukuthandabuza ukunyaniseka kweqabane lakho, kwaye eli phupha lingabonisa ezi ngcinga zibaleka engqondweni yakho.
3.  Iphupha malunga nokulahlekelwa izicathulo ezimnyama lingabonisa umnqweno wakho wokufumana ukuzimela okanye inkululeko ebomini bomtshato.
   Unokuziva uvaleleke okanye ungazi malunga nezinto ezibalulekileyo kuwe, kwaye eli phupha linokuba yimbonakaliso yalo mnqweno wenkululeko kunye nokuzimela.
4. Ukulahlekelwa izicathulo ezimnyama ephupheni kunokubonisa ukuba uziva ufuna utshintsho okanye uphuhliso ebomini bakho bomtshato.
   Unokufuna ukuhlola izinto ezintsha okanye ukuphucula ubudlelwane bakho kunye neqabane lakho, kwaye eli phupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokukhula kunye nophuhliso kubudlelwane.
5. Ukulahlekelwa izicathulo ezimnyama ephupheni kunokuba luphawu lwesidingo esiphuthumayo sokuphumla kunye nokuphumla ebomini bakho bomtshato.
   Unokuxinezeleka okanye uzive ngathi usebenza nzima, kwaye eli phupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokuthatha ixesha lakho kunye nokutshaja kwakhona.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulahlekelwa isihlangu esinye kwindoda

1. Ukulahlekelwa isihlangu esinye ephupheni kunokufuzisela ukuxabana kunye neengxabano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi wayo.
   Kusenokubakho ukungavisisani kunye neengxaki ezichaphazela ubudlelwane bomtshato kwaye zibangele ukuxhalaba kunye nelahleko.
2. Iphupha malunga nendoda elahlekelwa isicathulo esinye ingabonisa ingxaki enkulu yemali kwixesha elizayo.
   Indoda inokuphelelwa ngumsebenzi okanye ilahlekelwe kakhulu yimali.
3. Ukuphulukana nesihlangu kunokuba luphawu lokuba kude nabantu abasondeleyo.
   Iphupha lingabonisa ukunganeliseki okanye ukudideka kubudlelwane obubalulekileyo boluntu ebomini bomntu.
4. Iphupha malunga nokulahlekelwa isicathulo esinye lingabonakalisa imvakalelo yendoda yokuxhalaba kunye nokudideka ngeli xesha langoku.
   Indoda isenokuziva ingazinzanga yaye iphosakele kwindlela yayo yokuphila.
5. Enye inkcazo yephupha malunga nokulahlekelwa isicathulo ibonisa ukuba ukuhlukana okanye ukuhlukana kunokwenzeka.
   Iingxaki zobudlelwane zinokuvela kunye neqabane langoku okanye isithandwa.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulahlekelwa isihlangu kunye nokugqoka esinye isihlangu kumfazi okhulelweyo

1. Iphupha lokulahlekelwa isihlangu kunye nokugqoka esinye isihlangu kumfazi okhulelweyo unokufanekisela ubukho beengxaki zempilo kumfazi okhulelweyo.
   Lo mbono unokubonisa ubukho beengxaki zempilo ezinokuchaphazela ubomi bakhe kunye nempilo yomntwana.
   Nangona kunjalo, ikwabonisa ukuba izinto ziya kuphucuka kwaye zibuyele kwimeko yesiqhelo kamva.
2. Ukuba izicathulo ezilahlekileyo ephupheni zigqitywe ngumyeni, ke lo mbono ungabonisa ukuba umyeni uya kubamba isikhundla esiphezulu kuluntu.
   Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo uzibona elahlekelwa isicathulo sakhe kwaye egqoke isihlangu esitshintshileyo, kunokuthetha ukuba unokujongana neengxaki ezithile ngexesha lokukhulelwa ezinokuchaphazela impilo kunye nokhuseleko lomntwana, kodwa uya kuphila ngokukhawuleza.
3. Umfazi okhulelweyo ophupha ukulahlekelwa isihlangu kunye nokugqoka esinye isihlangu kunokubonisa ukuba kukho iingxaki zentsapho ezenzeka kwikhaya lomfazi okhulelweyo.
   Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokuba kunokwenzeka ukuhlukana nomyeni wakhe okanye iingxaki zentsapho eziqhubekayo.
   Kwakhona kunokubonwa njengesilumkiso kuye sokuba ufanele anikele ingqalelo ekuzinziseni ubomi bentsapho yakhe nasekomelezeni amaqhina angokweemvakalelo namalungu entsapho.
4. Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga ibona isihlangu esilahlekileyo ephupheni yaye inxibe esinye isihlangu, lo mbono usenokuba yimbonakaliso yokuba uThixo uye wayisindisa kumtshato wayo nomntu ongelolungisa noziphethe kakubi.
   Lo mbono usenokuthetha ukuba uphinda azithembe kwaye womeleza amandla akhe obuqu.
5. Ukubona isihlangu silahlekile kwaye sitshintshwe esinye ephupheni kunokuthetha ukuxhalaba kunye noxinzelelo kubomi bemihla ngemihla.
   Ukuba uziva uxhalabile kakhulu kunye noloyiko olukulawulayo, iphupha malunga nokuphulukana nezihlangu zakho kunye nokunxiba esinye isibini kunokuba luphawu lwemfuneko yokucinga kakuhle kwaye ujongane nemingeni ngokuzithemba kunye nethemba.