Ukutolikwa kwamaphupha esikhukula, Enye yeentlekele zendalo ezenzeka kumazwe amaninzi ehlabathini zizikhukula, ezitshabalalisa yonke into emi endleleni yayo, kwaye xa ubona lo mqondiso ephupheni, kukho iimeko ezininzi kunye nokutolikwa okuhambelana nayo, ngoko kweli nqaku sisusa. ukungaqondakali kwayo nokutolika ukubonisa okulungileyo okanye okubi kuya kubuyela kumphuphi, Ububi, kwaye sasithembele kwiintetho kunye neengcamango zabaphengululi abakhulu kunye nabahlalutyi, abafana nomphengululi u-Ibn Sirin.
Utoliko lwephupha likaNogumbe
ephethe umbono Umkhukula ephupheni Kukho iintsingiselo ezininzi kunye neempawu ezinokubonwa ngezi meko zilandelayo:
- Ukuba umphuphi wabona ephupheni umkhukula owawukhukula ezitratweni kwaye wabangela ukutshatyalaliswa okukhulu, ngoko oku kufanekisela ukuba uya kuba nengxaki yempilo eya kufuna ukuba alale.
- Ukubona umkhukula ephupheni kubonisa ukulunga okuninzi kunye neentsikelelo eziya kwenzeka ebomini bomphuphi kwixesha elizayo.
- Iphupha lomkhukula ephupheni kwaye lingonakaliswa libonisa ukunyamalala kweenkxalabo kunye neentlungu apho umphuphi wabandezelekayo, kunye nolonwabo lolonwabo kunye nokuzola.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha lomkhukula lika-Ibn Sirin
U-Allama Ibn Sirin uye wachukumisaUkutolikwa komkhukula ephupheniApha ngezantsi zizinye zeetoliko eziye zanikwa malunga nayo:
- Iphupha lomkhukula lika-Ibn Sirin ephupheni libhekisela ekoyiseni kombono phezu kweentshaba zakhe, ukoyisa kwakhe, nokubuyiselwa kwelungelo awayelihluthwe ngaphambili ngobuxoki.
- Ukubona umkhukula ephupheni kunye nokungabikho komonakalo kubonisa inzuzo enkulu yemali kunye neenzuzo eziya kuzifumana kumsebenzi osemthethweni okanye ilifa.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona umkhukula onzima ephupheni kwaye uziva esaba, ngoko oku kufanekisela imali enkulu enhle kunye neninzi eya kuyifumana kumthombo osemthethweni.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezikhukhula
Ukuchazwa kokubona umkhukula ephupheni kuyahluka ngokwemeko yentlalo yomphuphi. Oku kulandelayo kukuchazwa kokubona lo mqondiso obonwa yintombazana enye:
- Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga yabona umkhukula ephupheni, oku kufanekisela utshintsho oluhle oluya kwenzeka ebomini bakhe kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukubona umkhukula ephupheni kumfazi ongatshatanga kunye nokubaleka kwakhe kubonisa ukuba uyoyika ukuthwala uxanduva lwento ethile, kwaye kufuneka azole aze athembele kuThixo.
- Intombazana engatshatanga eyafa ephupheni yokuba umntu othile wayihlangula kumkhukula iluphawu lomtshato wayo osondeleyo nomntu eya konwaba kakhulu kuye.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomkhukula kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona umkhukula ephupheni, oku kufanekisela ukuzinza kobomi bakhe bomtshato kunye nokuzonwabisa kwakhe ubomi obonwabileyo kunye nempumelelo.
- Ukubona umkhukula womfazi otshatileyo ephupheni, kwaye kubangele ukutshatyalaliswa kwamakhaya, kubonisa usizi kunye nokukhathazeka ukuba uya kubandezeleka kwixesha elizayo.
- Umfazi otshatileyo obona umkhukula omnyama ephupheni luphawu lweentlekele kunye neengxaki eziza kubonakaliswa kwaye ziya kuphazamisa ubomi bakhe.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nowesifazane okhulelweyo okhukulayo
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona umkhukula ephupheni, oku kufanekisela ukuququzelelwa kokuzalwa kwakhe kunye nempilo enhle yakhe kunye nomntwana wakhe.
- Ukubona umkhukula ephupheni kumfazi okhulelweyo ovela elwandle kubonisa ukuba uThixo uya kumsikelela ngomntwana oyinkwenkwe osempilweni nosempilweni oya kuba newonga elikhulu nelisempilweni.
- Umfazi okhulelweyo obona umkhukula ephupheni ngumqondiso wokuba uya kulahla iingxaki kunye neengxaki eziye zabandezeleka kwixesha elidlulileyo, kwaye ujabulele ulonwabo nokuzinza.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomfazi oqhawule umtshato okhukula
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona umkhukula ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uThixo uya kumsikelela ngomyeni oya kumbuyekeza ngokokubandezeleka kwakhe kwixesha elidluleyo.
- ibonisa umbono Umkhukula ephupheni lomfazi oqhawule umtshato Ibangela intshabalalo kunye nentshabalalo ejikelezileyo, kunye neengxaki kunye nobunzima aya kujongana nabo ebomini bakhe kwixesha elizayo.
- Umfazi ongatshatanga obona umkhukula ephupheni ngumqondiso wokuphila kwakhe okuninzi kunye nokucinga kwakhe kwisikhundla esibalulekileyo esiya kufezekisa impumelelo enkulu.
- Umkhukula ephupheni lomfazi oqhawule umtshato ubonisa ukuba uya kulahla iingxaki kunye neengxaki.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomkhukula kumntu
Ngaba yahlukile? Ukutolikwa kokubona umkhukula ephupheni kumntu Ngabafazi? Ithini intsingiselo yokubona lo mfanekiso? Nantsi into esiza kufunda ngayo kwezi meko zilandelayo:
- Ukuba umntu ubona umkhukula ephupheni, oku kufanekisela ukuba uya kubamba umsebenzi ohloniphekileyo, apho uya kufumana imali eninzi esemthethweni.
- Ukubona umkhukula ephupheni kubonisa kumntu ulonwabo kunye nobomi obuzinzile ukuba uya kuhlala nomfazi wakhe.
- Umkhukula ephupheni kumntu oye wamenza umonakalo ngumqondiso welahleko enkulu yemali eya kubonakaliswa kwixesha elizayo.
- Indoda engatshatanga ebona umkhukula ephupheni iluphawu lomtshato wayo osemnyango nokunandipha ukuzinza nolonwabo ebomini bayo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokukhukula kwamanzi endleleni
- Ukuba umphuphi wabona ephupheni umkhukula wamanzi endleleni, ngoko oku kufanekisela imiqobo eya kuthintela ukufezekiswa kweenjongo kunye neminqweno yakhe.
- Ukubona umkhukula wamanzi endleleni kubonisa izigqibo ezithathwe ngumphuphi, ezinokubangela ukuba abandakanyeke kwiingxaki, kwaye oku kufana nomonakalo owenziwe ngumlambo.
- Umphuphi obona ephupheni umkhukula endleleni kunye nokungabikho komonakalo kubonakaliso lwezinga lakhe eliphezulu kunye nesimo esiya kufikelela kuso.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokukhukula kolwandle kunye nokuphunyuka kulo
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona umkhukula wolwandle ephupheni kwaye ubalekela kuwo, ngoko oku kufanekisela ukuva iindaba ezilungileyo kunye nokufika kolonwabo kunye nezihlandlo ezivuyisayo.
- Ukubona umkhukula wolwandle ukuntywila yonke into ephupheni kunye nokukwazi ukuphunyuka kuyo kubonisa ubutyebi emva kobuhlwempu kunye nokukhululeka emva kobunzima obuya kuba nomphuphi kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukukhukula kolwandle ephupheni kubonisa ukuza okulungileyo kumphuphi emva kobunzima awabufumana kwixesha elidlulileyo, kunye nokuzonwabisa ubomi obonwabileyo kunye nozinzile.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomkhukula kunye nenyikima
Ngamanye amaxesha umkhukula uchazwa njengelungileyo ephupheni, ngoko yintoni intsingiselo yokuwubona ngenyikima ephupheni? Nantsi into esiza kufunda ngayo kwezi meko zilandelayo:
- Ukuba umphuphi wabona inyikima ephupheni, ngoko oku kufanekisela ukuba uya kuboniswa kwiingxaki ezinkulu kunye neentlekele angenakukwazi ukuphuma kuzo, kwaye kufuneka abe nomonde kwaye abalwe.
- Ukubona umkhukula kunye nenyikima ephupheni kubonisa ukuvezwa komona kubantu abajikeleze umphuphi ophethe inzondo kunye nenzondo kuye.
- Umphuphi obona umkhukula kunye nenyikima ephupheni ubonisa ukuba uhamba kwiimeko ezinzima, ubunzima obukhulu bezemali, kunye nokuqokelela amatyala.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokukhukula ekhaya
- Ukuba umphuphi wabona ephupheni ukuba kwakukho umkhukula endlwini yakhe, ngoko oku kufanekisela umonakalo omkhulu oya kwenzeka kuye kubantu abamthiyileyo.
- Ukubona umkhukula ephupheni endlwini kunye nesizathu sokudilizwa kwayo kubonisa iintlekele kunye neengxaki apho umphuphi uya kubandezeleka kunye nobunzima aya kujongana neendlela zokufikelela kwimpumelelo enethemba ngayo.
- Umphuphi obona ephupheni ubukho bomkhukula endlwini yakhe ngaphandle kokubangela umonakalo kubonisa ukuba okulungileyo kunye novuyo luya kuza kuye ngokukhawuleza.
- Ukukhukula endlwini ephupheni kubonisa iingxaki ezinkulu kunye neembandezelo eziya kudlula kuzo umphuphi kunye namalungu entsapho yakhe.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokukhukula kunye nokuphunyuka kuyo
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona umkhukula ephupheni aze abaleke kuwo, ngoko oku kufanekisela ukuphunyuka kwakhe kwingozi enkulu kunye neengozi eziya kuwela ngokungekho sikweni.
- Ukubona umkhukula ephupheni aze asinde kuwo, kubonisa ukuba lowo uphuphayo uya kuzilahla izono zakhe nezenzo zakhe ezigwenxa, yaye uThixo uya kuzamkela izenzo zakhe ezilungileyo nokusondela kwakhe kuye.
- Umkhukula kunye nokuphunyuka kuwo ephupheni kubonisa inhlanhla kunye nempumelelo eya kuba nayo umphuphi kuyo yonke imicimbi yobomi bakhe.
- Umphuphi onengxaki yemali aze abone umkhukula aze abaleke kuwo ngumqondiso wokuba uya kuhlawula amatyala akhe aze azalisekise iimfuno zakhe awayezilindele kuThixo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokukhukula kwamanzi angasese
Iyintoni intsingiselo yokubona umkhukula wamanzi angasese ephupheni? Kwaye kuya kwenzeka ntoni kumphuphi ekutolikweni, okulungileyo okanye okubi? Nantsi into esiya kuphendula ngayo ngezi meko zilandelayo:
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ephupheni amanzi endlu yangasese ephuphumayo, ngoko oku kufanekisela ukugula okunzima okuya kubonakaliswa kwixesha elizayo kwaye kuya kumenza alale.
- Ukubona umkhukula wamanzi endlu yangasese ephupheni kubonisa uthumo lwezono ezinkulu nezono ezenziwa ngumphuphi kwixesha elidlulileyo, kwaye kufuneka akhawuleze aguquke abuyele kuThixo.
- Ukukhukula kwamanzi angasese ephupheni kubonisa iintshaba ezininzi zomphuphi ezimlaleleyo kwaye ziya kumbangela iingxaki ezininzi.
