Funda kabanzi malunga nokuchazwa kokubona uyise ebetha unyana wakhe ephupheni ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin

Uyise ubetha unyana wakhe ephupheni

1. Eli phupha mhlawumbi libonakalisa iimvakalelo zokuxhalaba kunye noxinzelelo umntu aba nalo kubomi bosapho.
   Kusenokubakho ukungquzulana kwangaphakathi okunxulumene noxanduva, ulungelelwano phakathi kosapho, umsebenzi kunye nezinye izibophelelo.
2. Eli phupha linokuthetha ukuba utata uzama ukukhokela okanye ukukhulisa unyana wakhe ngendlela engafanelekanga.
   Kusenokubakho ukusilela okanye kunzima ukunxibelelana nonyana, yaye iphupha lisenokuba sisikhumbuzo semfuneko yokucinga ngeendlela neendlela zokukhulisa abantwana.
3. Iphupha lisenokuba yimbonakaliso yeemvakalelo zikatata zokuziva enetyala okanye ukuzisola ngonyana wakhe.
   Kusenokubakho imiphumo emibi ebangelwa yihambo yangaphambili katata okanye into engahambi kakuhle kulwalamano lwabazali.
4. Maxa wambi eli phupha libonisa umnqweno kabawo wokuqondwa nokuxatyiswa ngakumbi ngunyana wakhe.
   Kusenokubakho imvakalelo yokungahoywa okanye ukungabikho kokusesikweni kulwalamano lwabazali, yaye ezi mvakalelo zibonakala ephupheni.
5. Iphupha lisenokuba yimbonakaliso yeengcinezelo neengxwabangxwaba ababa nazo kubomi bakhe bemihla ngemihla.
   Ukubetha ephupheni kunokufuzisela umnqweno wokulahla imingeni kunye neengxaki ngendlela enobudlova, kodwa kubonisa ukuba akukho sisombululo esikhawulezayo kwiingxaki.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga noyise obetha intombi yakhe etshatileyo

Eli phupha lisenokubonisa umnqweno kabawo wokulawula ubomi bentombi yakhe etshatileyo.
Uyise usenokuba akanelisekanga yindlela intombi yakhe ephila ngayo emtshatweni wayo yaye uzama ukusebenzisa igunya lakhe ngeendlela ezahlukahlukeneyo, kuquka ukubethwa ngamazwi okanye ngogonyamelo ephupheni.

Iphupha malunga noyise obetha intombi etshatileyo ingaba yimbonakaliso yokukhathazeka kunye nokukhathazeka ngokugqithiseleyo kwicala likayise kwintlalontle yentombi yakhe etshatileyo.
Uyise usenokuba uzixhalabele iingxaki ejamelana nazo intombi yakhe emtshatweni, yaye ukugqala ukubetha njengendlela yokuzikhusela kwiingxaki okanye engozini.

Iphupha malunga noyise obetha intombi yendoda etshatileyo ingabonakalisa ukubonakaliswa kobudlelwane bokwenene phakathi koyise nentombi ebomini bokwenene.
Iphupha linokusebenza njengendlela engathanga ngqo yokubonakalisa uxinzelelo okanye ubunzima obenzeka kolu budlelwane, njengeengxabano okanye ukungabikho konxibelelwano lweemvakalelo.

Iphupha malunga noyise obetha intombi etshatileyo ingaba yimbonakaliso yemvakalelo kayise yecala okanye isohlwayo ngenxa yesenzo esithile okanye ukuziphatha kakubi ebomini bokwenene, kwaye ufuna ukucoca isazela sakhe okanye azijezise.

Iphupha elimalunga noyise obetha intombi etshatileyo lisenokubonisa iimvakalelo zokungabi nakuzinceda okanye ubuthathaka obunokuthi ubawo azive ebomini bokwenene.
Ukubethwa ephupheni kunokufanekisela ilinge lokulwa nale mvakalelo nokulawula izinto kwakhona.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga noyise obetha intombi yakhe

1. Mhlawumbi iphupha libonisa inkxalabo kabawo ngentombi yakhe enkulu.
   Ukubetha ephupheni kunokubonisa umnqweno kabawo wokukhusela intombi yakhe okanye ukoyika ukwenzakaliswa.
2.  Ukubethwa ephupheni kusenokubonisa iimvakalelo zikayise zokuba netyala okanye ukuzisola ngezenzo zakhe kwixesha elidluleyo kwintombi yakhe enkulu.
   Eli phupha lisenokuthwala umnqweno kabawo wokuguquka nokulungisa iimpazamo.
3. Iphupha lingabonakalisa ubudlelwane bamandla kunye nokulawula phakathi koyise kunye nentombi yakhe enkulu.
   Eli phupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kubawo ngesidingo sokulinganisela ulawulo kunye nenkululeko yentombi kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane obunempilo phakathi kwabo.
4. Ukubetha ephupheni kunokuba luphawu lokungavumelani okanye iingxabano kwintsapho, ngakumbi phakathi koyise kunye nentombi yakhe endala.
   Iphupha lisenokuba libongoza ubawo ukuba aqonde aze asombulule iingxaki eziqokelelweyo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga notata wam ebetha umntakwethu kubafazi abangatshatanga

1. Umntu ongatshatanga ephupheni unokufanekisela iinkalo zobuntu bakho ezingekakhululwa okanye usalinde ithuba lokuzibonakalisa.
   Iphupha linokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe ngesidingo sokufezekisa amabhongo akho okanye ukugxila ekuphuhliseni imiba engakhange isetyenziswe ebomini bakho.
2. Ukuphupha utata wakho ebetha umntakwenu kunokubonisa iingxabano okanye ukungavisisani kulwalamano lwentsapho.
   Mhlawumbi iphupha libonisa iingxabano ezifihlakeleyo okanye ukungabikho kokuqonda phakathi kwamalungu entsapho.
3. Iphupha lisenokubonisa ukuxinezeleka kobuchwephesha okanye kobuqu ohlangabezana nakho, kwaye ubonakalise umsindo ongaphakathi onokuthi uzivelele kubantu ababini abathile ebomini bakho.
   Kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kwiimvakalelo ezingalunganga kwaye usebenze ukufumana iindlela zokujongana nazo kunye nokuphucula imeko.
4. Iphupha lisenokuba yimbonakaliso yokuxhalaba ngokwasengqondweni okanye ukungacaci okukuthwaxayo ebomini bakho.
   Mhlawumbi ubandezeleka ngenxa yeemvakalelo zoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo kwaye ukhetha ukuzivakalisa ngendlela yephupha elibonisa oku.
5.  Ukuphupha malunga noyihlo ebetha umntakwenu kunokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe ngesidingo sokugcina uxolo nothando ebomini bakho kwaye uthathe inxaxheba kubudlelwane obuhle phakathi kwabantu.

UNyana wabetha uyise ephupheni

1. Iphupha malunga nendodana ebetha uyise ingabonakalisa ubukho beengxabano okanye ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo phakathi koyise nonyana.
   Eli phupha linokuba yimbonakaliso yeengxaki zentsapho okanye iingxaki kubudlelwane phakathi koyise nonyana.
2. Eli phupha lisenokubonakalisa umsindo ocinezelweyo unyana awaba nawo ngakuyise.
   Ngephupha, unyana unokuzama ukuveza iimvakalelo zakhe ezingafanelekanga kunye nomnqweno wokubetha kuphela kwihlabathi lamaphupha.
3.  Iphupha lonyana obetha uyise lisenokubonisa ukuba unyana uziva enetyala okanye ezisola ngento ayenzileyo kuyise.
   Unyana usenokufuna ukuvakalisa ezi mvakalelo zingafanelekanga nokuzigxeka ngephupha.
4.  Eli phupha lisenokufuzisela umnqweno wonyana wokubonisa amandla akhe okanye ukuzimela geqe kuyise.
   Unyana usenokuba uzama ukubonakalisa ukuzithemba kwakhe ngokubonakalisa amandla akhe ephupheni.
5.  Iphupha malunga nendodana ebetha uyise inokumela isikhumbuzo sentlonipho kunye nokunyamekela okufuneka kuhambelane phakathi kwentsapho.
   Eli phupha linokuthi lixhaswe yimvakalelo yothando kunye nokuqwalasela ukuba unyana uvakalelwa kuyise.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokubetha unyana ebusweni

1. Ukubetha unyana ephupheni kunokufuzisela iimvakalelo zabazali zokuxhalaba nokungabi nakuzinceda ekujonganeni nemiba okanye imingeni abajamelene nayo abantwana babo.
   Eli phupha lisenokubonisa inkxalabo enzulu abazali abavakalelwa ngayo ngokukwazi kwabo ukukhusela abantwana babo nokubanika inkathalo efanelekileyo.
2.  Ukubetha unyana ephupheni kusenokubonisa iimvakalelo zokuziva unetyala nokuzisola ngolwalamano lwabazali okanye izenzo zexesha elidluleyo.
   Unokuba nemvakalelo yokuba awuzange unikeze inkxaso efunekayo kunye nengqalelo kunyana wakho kwixesha elidlulileyo, kwaye eli phupha lisebenza njengesikhumbuzo kuwe malunga nesidingo sokulungisa iimpazamo kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane obuphilileyo kunye nozinzileyo kunye nonyana wakho.
3.  Ukubetha unyana ebusweni ephupheni kunokufuzisela isidingo sokukhokela kunye nokukhokela unyana kwindlela efanelekileyo.
   Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lokuba kuyimfuneko ukunika unyana wakho isikhokelo kunye nesikhokelo sokukhula kwakhe kunye nophuhliso.
   Lo mbono usenokubonisa umnqweno wokubona unyana wakho ekhula aze aphumelele ebomini bakhe.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga noyise obetha unyana wakhe ngentonga

1. Eli phupha lisenokubonisa iingcinezelo ezikhoyo okanye ukungavisisani kubomi bentsapho bomntu oliphuphayo.
   Olu xinezeleko lunokunxulunyaniswa nolwalamano lukayise nonyana okanye nabanye oothunywashe kubomi bentsapho.
2. Iphupha lisenokuba ngenxa yokuba utata eziva enetyala okanye ezisola ngenxa yendlela aziphethe ngayo kunyana wakhe.
   Kusenokubakho izinto kwixesha elidlulileyo ezabangela ukuba loo mvakalelo ingathandekiyo ibonakale ephupheni.
3.  Iphupha lingabonisa umnqweno kayise wokulungisa iimpazamo zakhe okanye ukuziphatha kakubi kunyana wakhe kwixesha elidlulileyo.
   Iphupha lingabonakalisa ukuzisola kwizenzo ezidlulileyo kunye nomnqweno wokulungisa ubudlelwane.
4. Eli phupha lingabonakala kwiimeko zokungabikho konxibelelwano oluhle phakathi koyise nonyana.
   Umntu owayenalo eli phupha kufuneka ajonge ubudlelwane obukhoyo phakathi kwakhe noyise kwaye azame ukuyiphucula kwaye ayiphuhlise.
5.  Mhlawumbi iphupha libonisa imikhwa emibi okanye ubunzima kubudlelwane bentsapho ngokubanzi.
   Umntu unokuba nobunzima ekunxibelelaneni namalungu entsapho kwaye kufuneka asebenzele ekuphuculeni iimeko.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha likatata ebetha umntakwethu

Ukuba uphupha ukuba uyihlo ubetha umntakwenu, oku kungabonakalisa inkxalabo yakho malunga nobudlelwane bentsapho obunenkathazo okanye iingxabano zangaphakathi ezenzekayo.
Unokuziva unoxanduva lokuxolelanisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwamalungu osapho lwakho kwaye woyike ukuba imeko iya kuba mandundu.

Eli phupha lisenokubonakalisa iimvakalelo zokungabikho kokusesikweni okanye ingqumbo ebangelwa kukuphathwa kakubi.
Usenokuba noluvo lokuba abanye banamalungelo amaninzi kunawe okanye baphathwe ngcono.
Kufuneka ume kwaye ucinge ngeemeko apho uziva woniwe uzame ukuqonda ukuba kutheni kwaye usebenze ukuyitshintsha.

Ukuphupha utata wakho ebetha umntakwenu kusenokuba luphawu lwengxwabangxwaba yosapho noxinzelelo.
Usenokukufumanisa kunzima ukujamelana neengxaki zemihla ngemihla zobomi bosapho, yaye eli phupha libonisa indlela osabela ngayo ngokweemvakalelo kolu xinzelelo.
Kufuneka usebenze ekulawuleni uxinzelelo ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ufumane iindlela zokunciphisa uxinzelelo lobomi.

Eli phupha lingabonisa ukuba uziva ufuna ukukhusela okanye ukukhusela amalungu osapho lwakho.
Usenokuvakalelwa kukuba intsapho yakho isengozini okanye kufuneka wenze okuthile ukuyikhusela.
Eli phupha kufuneka likukhuthaze ukuba ucinge ngendlela yokuphucula ukhathalelo kunye nokhuseleko lwamalungu osapho lwakho kwaye usebenze ukubonelela ngokhuseleko kunye nokhathalelo oluzinzileyo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga noyise ofileyo ebetha unyana wakhe

1.  Iphupha elimalunga noyise oswelekileyo ebetha unyana wakhe lisenokufuzisela umnqweno womntu wokunxibelelana noyise ongasekhoyo.
   Eli phupha lingabonisa ukuba uyise uzama ukuhambisa umyalezo obalulekileyo kunyana wakhe, mhlawumbi uhlobo lweengcebiso okanye isikhokelo.
2. Eli phupha lisenokubonisa ukuba umntu oliphuphayo uba buhlungu ngokulahlekelwa nguyise ongasekhoyo.
   Umntu usenokufuna ukucela uxolo ngeempazamo azenzileyo kwixesha elidluleyo okanye abonakalise intlungu eqhubekayo yokufelwa ngumzali othandekayo.
3. Iphupha elimalunga noyise oswelekileyo ebetha unyana wakhe lisenokubonisa umnqweno womntu wokuseka unxibelelwano lokomoya noyise.
   Umntu usenokuziva efuna icebiso nenyameko yakhe, yaye usenokufuna intuthuzelo nokuqinisekiswa phambi kwakhe.
4. Eli phupha lingabonakalisa imvakalelo yokulahlekelwa kunye nokudideka umntu ahlangabezana nakho kubomi bakhe bemihla ngemihla.
   Umntu usenokuba nobunzima ekwenzeni izigqibo okanye azive engazithembi, yaye ukuphupha ngokubetha utata ofileyo kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yale meko yeemvakalelo nengokwengqondo.