Funda malunga nokuchazwa kokubona umyeni ekhohlisa umfazi wakhe ephupheni ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin

Ukubona umyeni ekhohlisa umfazi wakhe ephupheni

1. Iphupha lokubona umyeni ekhohlisa umfazi wakhe ephupheni linokuthi libonise nje ukungathandabuzeki kunye nokuxhalaba ukuba umntu uhlangabezana nobomi bakhe bokwenene.
   Kusenokubakho oothunywashe abaphembelela la mathandabuzo, njengokungazithembi emtshatweni okanye amava abuhlungu adluleyo.
2. Ukubona iqabane elikhohlisayo ephupheni linokuba yimbonakaliso yeengcamango ezingalunganga kunye neemvakalelo umntu ahlangabezana nazo, ezifana nomona ogqithiseleyo okanye iimvakalelo zokuzityhola.
   Ukuhlala ucinga ngezi ngcinga zingalunganga kunokukhokelela ekubeni zifakwe emaphupheni.
3. Iphupha lokubona indoda ekhohlisa umfazi ephupheni ingabonakalisa imfuno yomntu yokunxibelelana kakuhle kunye nomlingane wakhe.
   Umntu unokuziva enganelisekanga okanye engenalo uxhulumaniso lweemvakalelo, kwaye iphupha limkhumbuza ngesidingo sokusombulula ezi ngxaki kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane obunempilo.
4. Iphupha malunga nokubona indoda ekhohlisa umfazi ephupheni ingaba sisilumkiso seengxaki ezinokwenzeka kubudlelwane.
   Kusenokubakho izinto ezithile, ezinjengokungabikho konxibelelwano okanye ukungathembani, ekufuneka kugxininiswe kuzo ukuze kugcinwe ulwalamano.
5. Iphupha lokubona indoda ekhohlisa umfazi ephupheni ingaba bubungqina bomnqweno womntu wokutshintsha okanye ukukhangela ubudlelwane obutsha.
   Iphupha lisenokumothusa umntu lize limkhumbuze ukuba kukho izinto ekufuneka zitshintshe ebomini bakhe.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nendoda ekopela umfazi wayo Ngefowuni

1.  Iphupha malunga nendoda ekhohlisa umfazi ngefowuni ingaba ngumqondiso wokungathembeki kubudlelwane bomtshato.
   Umntu ophuphayo eli phupha unokuziva engakhuselekanga okanye ethandabuza malunga nokunyaniseka kweqabane lakhe lobomi.
2.  Iphupha malunga nendoda ekopela umfazi wayo ngefowuni inokuthi ibe yimbonakaliso yokuxhalaba malunga nokungcatsha kunye nokungakhuselekanga kubudlelwane.
   Eli phupha linokuba ngumphumo weziganeko okanye iimeko zobomi bemihla ngemihla eziye zabangela ukuxhalaba okukhulu kunye namathandabuzo.
3.  Iphupha malunga nendoda ekhohlisa umfazi wayo ngefowuni ingabonisa ukuzithemba okuphantsi kumntu ophuphayo.
   Usenokuvakalelwa kukuba akalufanelanga uthando lweqabane lakhe nokuba unokuqhathwa okanye angcatshwe, yaye oku kusenokuba ngumphumo wamava adluleyo okanye ubuthathaka kubuntu bakhe.
4.  Iphupha malunga nendoda ekhohlisa umfazi ngefowuni ingaba ngumyalezo okanye isilumkiso kumntu ephupheni ukuba unokuba sengozini yokuxoka okanye ukukhohlisa.
   Eli phupha linokubangela ukuba umntu acinge malunga nokuba kukho abantu ebomini bakhe abazama ukukhohlisa okanye ukumkhohlisa.
5.  Iphupha malunga nendoda ekopela umfazi ngefowuni ingabonakalisa ukuhlukana okanye utshintsho kubudlelwane bomtshato.
   Eli phupha lisenokubonisa ukuba umtshato ujongene nemingeni okanye iingxaki ezinokukhokelela ekwahlukaneni.

Ukungcatshwa komyeni ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo

1. Iphupha malunga nokungcatshwa komyeni kunokubangela ukuba umfazi azive uxinzelelo lwengqondo kunye nokuxhalaba kubomi bakhe bemihla ngemihla.
   Kungabangela imeko yokukrokra kunye nokungathembeki kwiqabane, nokuba eli phupha alimeleli inyaniso.
2. Iqabane linokufumana ukungcatshwa kuphela ephupheni, kodwa kuxhomekeke ekubeni kukho amathandabuzo kunye nemibuzo malunga nokuthembela kubudlelwane.
   Kusenokubakho izinto ezilula kubomi bokwenyani eziphakamisa la mathandabuzo, kwaye zomelezwa ngamaphupha.
3. Ukuvela kwala maphupha kunokuba luphawu lwesidingo sokuqinisa unxibelelwano kwaye uvule incoko enyanisekileyo kunye neqabane lakho.
   Ngokuthetha ngoloyiko nangezinto ezisixhalabisayo, isibini sinokwakha ukuthembana size sizoyise.
4. Umfazi kufuneka akhumbule ukuba iphupha malunga nokungathembeki alithethi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba iqabane liyamkhohlisa ngokwenene.
   Eli phupha lisenokuba yimbonakaliso yeemvakalelo zokuzityhola okanye amathandabuzo anokubakho ngaphandle kwesizathu esicacileyo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nendoda ekopela umfazi kunye nomhlobo wakhe

• Iphupha malunga nokungcatshwa komyeni okanye umfazi yenye yezona zinto zikhohlakeleyo kunye namaphupha adandathekileyo umntu unokuziva.
  Ukuphupha umyeni eqhatha umfazi wakhe nomhlobo wakhe lelinye lamaphupha abuhlungu anokubangela ixhala, iimvakalelo zokungcatshwa, nomsindo.
• Xa umntu ephupha ngomyeni ekhohlisa umfazi kunye nomhlobo wakhe, unokufuna ukwazi ukutolika okunokwenzeka kweli phupha.
  Nazi ezinye iingongoma ezicetyiswayo ukutolika iphupha:

•  Iphupha lisenokuba sisiphazamiso somfanekiso wangoku weemvakalelo, njengoko libonisa uloyiko lomntu lokungcatshwa liqabane lakhe okanye ukubonakaliswa koku mathandabuzo emaphupheni akhe.
• Unokuba neengcinezelo zobomi ezinokukwenza uzive uxhalabile kwaye ungakhuselekanga, ngoko ke la maphupha asenokubonakala njengelinge lokujongana nolo xinzelelo kwinqanaba lokungazi.
•  Umntu kufuneka ajonge ukuziphatha komyeni kunye nentombi ebomini bokwenyani, ukuba kukho iimpawu zokungcatsha ngokwenene, iphupha linokuba sisilumkiso esifihliweyo kumntu.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nendoda ekopela umfazi wayo

Iphupha linokuba ngumzekelo wokuthandabuza rhoqo kunye nokuxhalaba umntu ahlangabezana nakho malunga nokunyaniseka kweqabane lakhe.
Ukuthandabuza kunokubangela iphupha eliphindaphindiweyo malunga nokungathembeki komyeni kuba ingqondo ihlala kwindawo ehlala iqaphile malunga nesi sihloko.

Iphupha linokuba yimbonakaliso yokungabikho kothando kunye nokuthembela ukuba umntu uvakalelwa ngaphakathi kobudlelwane bomtshato.
Eli phupha libonisa imvakalelo yakhe yokuba uyagqithiswa kwaye uziva enganelisekanga kubudlelwane.

Iphupha lisenokunxulunyaniswa nokuphoxeka kunye noloyiko lokulahlekelwa ngumntu amthandayo.
Eli phupha lingabonakalisa uloyiko olunzulu lokuphulukana neqabane kunye nefuthe elibi elinokuba nalo kubomi bomtshato.

Kungenzeka ukuba iphupha liyimbonakaliso yomnqweno womntu wokutshintsha, ukufuna ubomi obusondeleyo, okanye umahluko kubudlelwane bomtshato obukhoyo.
Umntu unokuphupha ngokungcatshwa njengendlela yokubaleka isiqhelo kunye nokukruquka.

Iphupha linokuba sisilumkiso sobuqhetseba beemvakalelo okanye iimvakalelo eziyingozi ezichaphazela ubudlelwane bomtshato.
Isenokuba yimbonakaliso yokungcatsha okwenzeka kubudlelwane ngolunye uhlobo, njengokungabikho ngokweemvakalelo okanye ukuzixakekisa ngeminye imiba.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha lokungcatsha umyeni kunye nomkhonzazana

Iphupha malunga nokukhohlisa umyeni wakho kunye nesicakakazi lingabonisa ukuba kukho ukungabikho kokuthembana okanye ukungathandabuzeki kubudlelwane phakathi kwakho nomyeni wakho.
Kusenokubakho izinto zangaphandle eziphakamisa la mathandabuzo njengokuzibophelela ngokungqongqo emsebenzini okanye amathandabuzo aqhubekayo malunga nokuziphatha kweqabane lakho.
Sisikhumbuzo sokuba kubalulekile ukuba nisebenzisane ukwakha ukuthembana kunye nokuvula amajelo onxibelelwano.

Iphupha malunga nendoda ekopela intombazana ingabonakalisa umnqweno wokufumana ukulinganisela okukhulu kwimpilo yesondo.
Kusenokuthetha ukuba kufuneka ukhulise ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nokuthandana phakathi kwakho nomyeni wakho.
Lo mbono unokuba sisikhumbuzo kuwe sokuba kufuneka unakekele inkangeleko yakho kwaye uhlaziye uthando phakathi kwakho.

Iphupha malunga nokukhohlisa umyeni wakho kunye nesicakakazi singabonakalisa umnqweno wokufumana ingqalelo kunye nokunyamekela ngakumbi kumyeni wakho.
Usenokuvakalelwa kukuba akakho njengawe.
Olu toliko lusenokubonisa ukubaluleka kokunxibelelana nomyeni wakho nokufumana iindlela zokuqonda nokufumana inkxaso efunekayo.

Ukukopela umyeni kunye nesicakakazi ephupheni kunokuhambelana nokuxhalaba kunye neengcinezelo zengqondo ojamelana nazo ngokwenene.
Unokuvakalelwa kukuba ubomi bakho bomsebenzi okanye ubomi bakho buthwele uxinzelelo kunye neengxaki ezininzi.
Sisikhumbuzo kuwe ukuba kubalulekile ukuba uzinakekele kwaye unciphise uxinzelelo ngokuphumla kunye nokuzikhathalela.

Ukutolikwa kokungcatshwa komyeni ephupheni kumfazi okhulelweyo

1. Iphupha malunga nokungcatshwa komyeni ephupheni lingabonakalisa ukungathembeki ngokupheleleyo kumyeni.
   Eli phupha linokuba ngumphumo woloyiko kunye namathandabuzo anokuthi avele ngenxa yokukhulelwa okanye utshintsho lwe-hormonal oluhambelana nalo.
   Kule meko, kucetyiswa ukuba isibini sisebenzele ukwakha ukuthembana nokukhuthaza ukuqonda kunye nonxibelelwano oluvulekileyo phakathi kwaso.
2. Ukukhulelwa lixesha apho abafazi banyamezela imingeni emininzi yomzimba kunye neemvakalelo.
   Iphupha malunga nokungcatshwa komyeni lingabonakalisa ubuthathaka bomfazi okhulelweyo kunye nokuxhalaba malunga nokukwazi kwakhe ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zomyeni wakhe kunye nosapho.
   Kule meko, ibhinqa elikhulelweyo lifanele lithethe ngokuphandle nomyeni walo ngeemvakalelo noloyiko lwakhe, yaye indoda ifanele inikele inkxaso nokhuthazo olufunekayo.
3. Ngamanye amaxesha, iphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo lokukopela umyeni wakhe lingabonakalisa umnqweno wokufumana ingqalelo kunye nokunyamekela kumyeni wakhe.
   Ukukhulelwa kusenokuba luxanduva emfazini kuze kumenze afune ukuva inkxaso nothando.
4. Amava okukhulelwa anokuvelisa iimvakalelo ezininzi ezimbi ezifana noxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
   Iphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo lokungcatshwa komyeni wakhe lisenokubonakalisa ezi mvakalelo.
   Abasetyhini abakhulelweyo bayacetyiswa ukuba baziqhelanise nokucamngca okanye iindlela zokuphumla ukuze bazole ingqondo nomoya kwaye bajongane nemingeni ngokuzithemba.

Ndiphuphe umyeni wam endiqhatha ndacela I divorce

XNUMX. Iphupha malunga nokufumanisa ukungathembeki komyeni kunokubonakalisa amathandabuzo amakhulu kwingqondo yomphuphi.
Oku kusenokubangelwa sisimo sengqondo sangaphambili okanye izenzo ezinxulumene nokuthenjwa nokunyaniseka.

XNUMX. Eli phupha lingabonakalisa uloyiko olunzulu kunye nokuxhalaba malunga nokulahlekelwa ukuthembela kubudlelwane bomtshato.
Iphupha lingabonisa ukungonwabi ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokukrokra rhoqo kweqabane.

XNUMX.
Amaphupha amabi anokuba nempembelelo enenzuzo.
Isinika ithuba lokuba namava kwaye simelane neemvakalelo ezingakhiyo ebomini bokwenyani.
Eli phupha linokuba lithuba lokuzilungiselela ngokwasemoyeni ukumelana nemingeni enokubakho ebomini.

XNUMX.
Iphupha linokuba yinto ekhuthazayo ukuqala ukuxoxa kunye nokunxibelelana ngeengxaki kunye neenkxalabo kubudlelwane.
Inokunceda ukukhuthaza ukungafihli kunye nokwakha ukuthembana phakathi kwamaqabane.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nendoda ekopela umfazi kunye nodadewabo

Iphupha malunga nendoda ekopela umfazi kunye nodadewabo ingabonakalisa ubukho beengxaki okanye iingxaki zengqondo kubudlelwane bomtshato, kwaye kukubonakalisa ngokungathanga ngqo kwezi mvakalelo.
Kusenokubakho imvakalelo yomona okanye yokukrokrelana phakathi komtshato, yaye kufuneka kujongwane nayo ngobulumko, ubuhlobo nonxibelelwano ngokuphandle.

Iphupha malunga nendoda ekhohlisa umfazi kunye nodadewabo ingaba ngumqondiso wento enye ebomini bokwenene.
Umzalwana kweli phupha unokufanekisela umhlobo othandekayo okanye osebenza naye umntu ophuphayo, kwaye eli phupha lingabonisa ukungcatsha kubuhlobo okanye ubuhlobo bomntu nalo mntu.

Iphupha malunga nendoda ekhohlisa umfazi kunye nodadewabo ingabonakalisa i-whims eyahlukileyo ebomini bokwenene.
Mhlawumbi umntu onephupha elinjalo ubandezeleka ngenxa yemvakalelo yobumbini okanye ingxabano yangaphakathi phakathi kweenkalo ezahlukeneyo zobuntu bakhe.

Iphupha malunga nendoda ekhohlisa umfazi kunye nodadewabo ingabonakalisa uxinzelelo okanye ukuphazamiseka kubomi bonqulo.
Oku kunokunxulumana nomntu ozixhalabise ngakumbi ngehlabathi kunezinto zokomoya nezonqulo.
Kule meko, iphupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kumntu ngokubaluleka kokulungelelanisa kwakhona iinkalo zokomoya kunye nehlabathi lobomi bakhe.

Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuba iphupha lomyeni oqhatha umfazi wakhe kunye nodadewabo liyimbonakaliso yemiboniso okanye iziqeshana ezivela kubomi bokwenyani ezinokuchaphazela ingqondo engaphantsi kwengqondo.
Umntu usenokuba uye wabona isiganeko okanye iinkcukacha ezichaphazela iphupha ngokungangqalanga, yaye xa ingqondo ingasebenzi, usebenzisa lo mfanekiso kwiphupha lakhe.