Ukutolikwa kokubona abafileyo gula ephupheni
Abaphengululi bephupha lokutolika bakholelwa ukuba ukubona umntu ofileyo egula ephupheni kunentsingiselo ebuhlungu kwaye unokuba nesimboli esithile. Lo mbono usenokubonisa ukuba umfi wayenamatyala ebomini bakhe yaye amele ahlawulwe aze acinywe amatyala akhe. Ukuba umntu ubona uyise ongasekhoyo egula yaye sele eza kufa ephupheni, oku kubonisa imfuneko yokuxolelwa nokuxolelwa.
Ukuba umntu ofileyo ubona ephupheni egula kwaye ediniwe, oku kungabonisa ukuba umphuphi uziva engenathemba kwixesha langoku kwaye unokucinga ngendlela engafanelekanga. Eli phupha lisenokuba luphawu lokuziphatha okubi kunye nokudandatheka.
U-Ibn Sirin ucinga ukubona umntu ofileyo egula ephupheni njengobungqina betyala elityalwa ngumntu ofileyo ekufuneka lihlawulwe. Ukuba umntu ofileyo ukhalaza ngeentlungu entanyeni yakhe, oku kunokuba bubungqina bokuphazamiseka kunye nokuchaswa komphuphi ekuziphatheni kwakhe ebomini.
Ukuba ubona umntu ofileyo ebuyela ebomini ngoxa egula, lo mbono usenokuba yimbonakaliso yeengxaki ezininzi ajamelana nazo lowo uphuphayo ngokwenene, yaye usenokubonisa ukungakwazi kwakhe ukucombulula ezi ngxaki ngendlela ephumelelayo.
Ukubona umntu ofileyo egula ephupheni kuneentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo ukuba umntu ophuphayo unokuchaphazeleka ngokuxhomekeka kwiimeko, iimvakalelo kunye nezinye iinkcukacha. Lo mbono usenokuba bubungqina betyala eliqokelelweyo, imfuneko yokuxolelwa nokuxolelwa, okanye ukuphelelwa lithemba nokucinga okungakhiyo.
Ukutolikwa kokubona abafileyo abagulayo ephupheni ngu-Ibn Sirin
Iingcali zokutolika kwephupha zithi ukubona umfana ofileyo egula ephupheni uthwala iintsingiselo ezibalulekileyo kunye nezibikezelo ezinxulumene nobomi bakhe benkolo kunye nezinto eziphathekayo. Ngokutsho kukaIbn Sirin, ukubona umntu ofileyo egula kubonisa ukuba kukho amatyala aqokelelwa ngumfi angazange ahlawulwe ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe. Oku kubonisa ukuba lo mfana uphuphayo usenokuba wenza izinto ezichaphazela unqulo lwakhe yaye usenokungawenzi umthandazo nokuzila ukutya. Eli phupha likwabonisa ukuba lo mfana usenokuba ujamelene noxinezeleko kubomi bakhe bemali yaye usenokuba unesimilo esiphantsi neengcinga ezingakhiyo. Iphupha malunga nomntu ofileyo ogulayo linokuthi lidityaniswe nobukho boxinzelelo olunzima ebomini bomfana kunye nengxaki enkulu yemali. Kunconyelwa ukuba oselula enze ngenyameko ekuqhubaneni namatyala akhe aze azame ukuwahlawula ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ukuba umntu oselula unyanzelwa ukuba aboleke imali, ufanele alumke angangeni kwiingxaki ezinkulu zemali.
Ukutolikwa kokubona abafileyo abagulayo ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga
Xa umntu ongatshatanga ofileyo ebona isigulane esibhedlele ephupheni, eli phupha liphethe iintsingiselo ezibalulekileyo. Ukubonakala komntu ofileyo ogulayo kunokubonisa imfuno yakhe yesisa kumntu ophilayo. Ngoko ke, ukubona umntu ofileyo odiniweyo ephupheni kunokudibaniswa nethuba lokwenza izinto ezilungileyo kunye nokunceda abo basweleyo.
Ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga liganene kwaye liphupha libona umntu ofileyo egula okanye ediniwe, oku kunokubonakalisa iingxaki kubudlelwane phakathi kwakhe neqabane lakhe ngeli xesha. Eli phupha linokuba luphawu lobukho bexinzelelo kunye nobunzima obuchaphazela ubudlelwane beemvakalelo kwaye kunokufuna ukucinga ngokunzulu kunye nokujongana ngononophelo nemicimbi ekhawulezileyo.
Kukwakho nenye itoliko ethi ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo nodiniweyo kumfazi ongatshatanga kusenokuba sisilumkiso sokuba sele eza kutshata nendoda ehlwempuzekileyo nengaphangeliyo, kwaye angangonwabi kuyo. Eli phupha lingatyhila utshintsho ebomini bakhe kunye nezigqibo ezinokuthi zingafanelekanga kwaye zibize uvavanyo olunzulu lwemeko.
Ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga libandakanyeka kwaye liphupha elibonisa ukuba umntu ofileyo uyagula, oku kungabonisa ukuba izigqibo ezininzi ziya kwenziwa ngaphandle kolwazi olwaneleyo. Ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo kukwabonisa ukusilela kwengqibelelo ebomini nokuphepha ukujamelana neengxaki ngokwenene. Eli phupha linokuba sisimemo sokuba umfazi ongatshatanga acinge ngobomi bakhe kwaye enze izigqibo ngononophelo nangemfanelo.
Xa ubona umntu ofileyo egula esibhedlele, oku kusenokuba yisikhumbuzo kwintombazana engatshatanga ngokubaluleka kokukhetha iqabane lobomi elimphatha kakuhle nelimnyamekelayo. Lo mbono unokumela umnqweno wakhe wokuphila ubomi obonwabisayo obugcwele intuthuzelo kunye nozinzo kunye neqabane lakhe elizayo.
Ukutolikwa kokubona abafileyo abagulayo ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
Ukuchazwa kokubona umntu ofileyo egula ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo kuthathwa njengento ebonisa ubukho beengxaki kunye nemingeni ebomini bakhe bangoku. Eli phupha lingabonisa ukungafezeki kwamalungelo athile okanye izibophelelo kubomi bomtshato. Umntu ofileyo ogulayo esibhedlele usenokubonakalisa ukungakwazi ukuzalisekisa unqulo nonqulo. Ukuba umntu ofileyo uyagula kwaye udabukile ephupheni, oku kungabonisa inkolo ebuthathaka kunye nokuziphatha okubi. Ukuba umyeni udiniwe kwaye uyagula ephupheni, kunokubonisa iingxaki emsebenzini kunye nokuwohloka kwemeko yezemali ixesha elifutshane. Kumfazi otshatileyo ozibona efile kwaye egula ephupheni, oku kubonisa imingeni yemali eya kujongana nayo kwixesha elizayo. Eli phupha linokuthi lithathwe njengesilumkiso kuye malunga nokuphucula imeko yakhe yemali. Ngokuphathelele intombazana engatshatanga ebona umntu ofileyo ogulayo ephupheni ngelixa elele esibhedlele, oku kunokuba yisikhumbuzo sesenzo esibi esasenza kumntu oshonile, kwaye lo mntu unokuba nguyise. U-Ibn Shaheen uqinisekisa ukuba ukubona umntu ofileyo egula ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umfi wayekhathazwa sisono ebomini bakhe yaye wohlwaywa ngaso emva kokufa kwakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo kubonisa iingcinezelo neembopheleleko ajamelana nazo ebomini bakhe, yaye maxa wambi kusenokuba luphawu lokuxhalaba noxinezeleko ngokuphathelele umntu ofileyo.
Ukubona uyise ofileyo ephupheni uyagula Kwabatshatileyo
Kumfazi otshatileyo, ukubona uyise ofileyo egula ephupheni luphawu oluqinileyo lokuba kukho iingxaki ezininzi kunye neengxabano ebomini bakhe bomtshato. Ezi ngxaki zichaphazela kakubi imeko yakhe yengqondo kwaye zibeka ingozi enkulu kwimpilo yomntwana ukuba ukhulelwe. Umbono unokuba sisilumkiso sokuba kungekudala uza kulahlekelwa yimali, kwaye usenokubonisa ukuba uya kujongana neengxaki zempilo eziya kuchaphazela imeko yakhe jikelele.
Ukuba lo mbono ubonisa utata ongasekhoyo egula, oku kunokuba luphawu lweengxaki ezininzi ojongene nazo kweli xesha langoku, ngakumbi iingxaki zempilo onokujamelana nazo. Lo mbono ubonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba ufuna uncedo kumalungu osapho lwakhe kunye nabahlobo ukuze ahlukane nale ngxaki inkulu kwaye aphume kuyo ngokukhuselekileyo.
Sifunde kwingcaciso ka-Ibn Sirin ukuba ukubona uyise ofileyo egula ephupheni kuthetha ukuba ufuna imithandazo kunye nothando lwabantwana bakhe. Ke ngoko, lo mbono unokubonisa imfuneko yokunyamekela ubudlelwane bokomoya kunye nokunxibelelana namalungu osapho abhubhileyo, kwaye uqondise imithandazo kunye nothando kubo. Kumfazi otshatileyo, ukubona uyise ofileyo egula ephupheni kubonisa ubukho beengxaki kunye nemingeni anokuthi ahlangabezane nayo ebomini bakhe bomtshato. Umphuphi uyacetyiswa ukuba ahlolisise imeko yangoku kwaye asebenze ukucombulula ezi ngxaki ngaphambi kokuba zibe zibi kwaye zichaphazele kakubi ubomi bakhe kunye nobomi bentsapho yakhe. Kwakhona, akufanele ulibale ukufuna inkxaso yeemvakalelo neyokomoya kumalungu entsapho nabahlobo ngeli xesha linzima.
Ukutolikwa kokubona abafileyo abagulayo ephupheni kumfazi okhulelweyo
Ukubona umntu ofileyo ephupheni kumfazi okhulelweyo kubonisa iingxaki zempilo ezinokujamelana nazo kwixesha elizayo. Esi isenokuba sisilumkiso esivela kuThixo sokuba athabathe amanyathelo okhuseleko ayimfuneko ukuze akhusele impilo yakhe nempilo yosana olungekazalwa. Ibhinqa elikhulelweyo limele lifune ikhusi kuThixo kubo nabuphi na ubunzima zempilo elinokujamelana nalo.
Ukubona umfazi okhulelweyo ephuza umntu ofileyo ephupheni kunokuba bubungqina benzuzo kunye nokulunga aya kufumana ngalo mntu ofileyo. Lo mntu uswelekileyo usenokuba unendima entle eyachaphazela ubomi bakhe ngandlel’ ithile.
Ngokuphathelele ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga neentlobano zesini nomntu ofileyo ephupheni, kubonisa ukuba umntu ophethe iphupha akazange amthandazele uyise ongasekhoyo ixesha elide. Oku kubonisa ukuba ufuna izikhungo nemithandazo ngenxa yakhe. Ibhinqa elikhulelweyo limele likhumbule uThixo lize lithandazele izalamane zalo ezingasekhoyo ukuba zibathuthuzele.
Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona ephupheni ukuba umntu ofileyo unesifo esibi kakhulu, oku kungabonisa ukuba umntu ofileyo wayenetyala ebomini bakhe kwaye ufuna inkxaso kunye noncedo. Usenokuba neengxaki ezinkulu zemali okanye zempilo ezifuna ukuconjululwa.
Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona abantu abafileyo begula kwaye bediniwe ephupheni, oku kunokuba ziindaba ezilungileyo kunye neentsikelelo. Oku kusenokuthetha ukuphucula imeko yempilo yakhe okanye ukuzuza izinto ezintle ebomini bakhe. Ukubona umntu ofileyo owaziwa nguye njengesigulana esibhedlele kusenokuba luphawu lokuba imeko yakhe yempilo iyaphucuka yaye uyachacha kwezo ngxaki zikhoyo ngoku.
Umfazi okhulelweyo ebona umntu ofileyo ogulayo ephupheni ubonisa ukuba unengxaki yempilo engazinzanga okwangoku. Kusenokufuneka anikele ingqalelo engakumbi kwimpilo yakhe aze athabathe amanyathelo okhuseleko ayimfuneko ukuze alondoloze impilo yakhe nempilo yosana olungekazalwa. Lo mbono usenokubonisa imfuneko yenkxaso nokhuthazo kubantu abawungqongileyo. Kufuneka acinge ngemeko yakhe yempilo kwaye ajonge iindlela zokuyiphucula kwaye agcine ukhuseleko losana lwakhe.
Ukutolikwa kokubona abafileyo abagulayo ephupheni lomfazi oqhawule umtshato
Umfazi oqhawule umtshato ebona umntu oshonile ogulayo ephupheni luphawu lweengxaki ezilandelelanayo ajongene nazo ebomini bakhe. Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona ukuba umntu ofileyo uyagula ephupheni, lo mbono ubonisa imeko embi yengqondo kuye, kunye neemeko ezingazinzanga, nokuba yimali okanye imvakalelo. Ibhinqa eliqhawule umtshato lisenokuba neengxaki ezingokwengqondo nezingokwemali lize lijamelane nobunzima bokulungelelanisa ubomi balo.
Ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo kwiphupha lomfazi oqhawule umtshato unokubonisa ukuba ujongene nengxaki ebomini bakhe, nokuba yintsapho okanye yimali, kwaye ubandezeleka ngenxa yoko. Lo mbono usenokuba sisikhumbuzo kumfazi oqhawule umtshato ngemfuneko yokujongana nocelomngeni nokuba lilungisa ebomini bakhe.
Ukuchazwa kokubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo ephupheni kumfazi oqhawule umtshato kuxhomekeke kwiimeko kunye neenkcukacha ezimngqongileyo ephupheni. Kuhlala kucetyiswa ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato anikele ingqalelo kwizinto ezikhuthazayo zangaphakathi kwaye afune ukuzinza kwengqondo kunye nemali. Kufuneka akwazi ukujongana neengxaki ajongene nazo kwaye aqondise ubomi bakhe kuzinzo kunye nokulinganisela. Ukugxininisa kwimpilo yakhe yengqondo, ukuzinyamekela, kunye nokwenza izigqibo ngengqiqo kuya kumnceda ukuba oyise ubunzima kunye neengxaki.
Ukutolikwa kokubona abafileyo abagulayo ephupheni kumntu
Ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo ephupheni lomntu kuthathwa njengenye yemibono ephethe iintsingiselo ezithile ekuchazeni amaphupha. Ukuba indoda ibona umfi enesifo esithile, oku kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yezinto ezithile ebomini bayo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba isigulane sikhalaza ngomnye wamalungu akhe, oku kunokufuzisela ukuba umphuphi uchithe imali yakhe ngaphandle kwenzuzo enkulu kuyo.
Yaye ukuba umntu ubalisa ephupheni ebona umntu ofileyo egula, oku kusenokuthetha ukuba kukho ukusilela konqulo kulowo uphuphayo, yaye kusenokufuneka acinge aze asebenzele ukomeleza ulwalamano lwakhe noThixo nokuphumeza iinkalo zokomoya ebomini bakhe.
Umbono wendoda ngomntu ogulayo, ongasekhoyo emazi ephupheni usenokubonisa ukuba ufuna izibongozo nezipho, nokuba ufuna inkxaso noncedo ekuhlangabezaneni nemingeni nobunzima ajongene nabo.
Ukuba umntu ofileyo ubonakala egula kwaye ediniwe, oku kunokufanekisela imeko yokuphelelwa lithemba kunye nokudandatheka ukuba umphuphi ufumana ngokwenene, kwaye unokucinga kakubi ngobomi kunye nekamva lakhe. Kule meko, umphuphi unokufuna inkxaso kunye nokukhuthazwa ukuba alahle le meko engalunganga kwaye abuyele kubomi obuhle.
Ukubona uyise ofileyo ephupheni uyagula
Ukubona uyise oshonile egula ephupheni luphawu oluqinileyo kwimeko yempilo kunye nokuphila kakuhle komphuphi. Iphupha linokuba sisilumkiso kwi-subconscious yokuba umphuphi unengxaki yempilo enokuthi imthintele ekusebenziseni ngokupheleleyo ubomi bakhe obuqhelekileyo. Eli phupha likwabonisa nemfuneko yomphuphi wokuphumla nokuzinyamekela kweli xesha linzima.
Lo mbono uqinisekisa kwakhona ukuba kukho ingxaki enkulu ebomini bomphuphi, kwaye ngoko ufuna uncedo kunye nenkxaso yentsapho kunye nabahlobo bakhe ukunqoba le ngxaki. Uyise ofileyo ogulayo ephupheni ubonisa isimboli somphuphi ojongene nemeko enzima kwaye ufuna intsebenziswano kunye nenkxaso yabanye ukuyinqoba.
Iphupha lisenokubonisa ukuba lowo uphuphayo uya kulahlekelwa ngumthombo wakhe wokuziphilisa okanye imali, nto leyo enokumenza abandezeleke kubomi bakhe bemihla ngemihla. Kunconywa ukuba uthandazele uyise ofileyo okhoyo ephupheni ukuba amncede alahle ubunzima ajongene nabo.
U-Ibn Sirin ubonisa ukuba ukubona uyise ogulayo ephupheni kubonisa imfuneko yomthandazo kunye nothando oluvela kubantwana bakhe. Oku kuthetha ukuba ufuna imfesane kunye nentsebenziswano kweli xesha linzima ukoyisa ubunzima.
Ukubona uyise oshonile egula ephupheni kunokuba ngumqondiso wokungavumelani kunye neengxaki phakathi kwabatshatileyo kwaye unokuphelisa ngokuqhawula umtshato. Kule meko, isibini sifanele silungise ezi ngxaki size sizame ukuzicombulula ngaphambi kokuba izinto zifikelele esiphelweni.
Iphupha lokubona uyise ofileyo ogulayo ephupheni isilumkiso semeko enzima okanye ingxaki apho umphuphi unokujamelana nayo kwixesha elizayo. Umntu kufuneka alumke kwaye aphathe izinto ngobulumko nangomonde ukoyisa obu bunzima kwaye abuyele kubomi obuqhelekileyo nobuzinzileyo.
Ukubona isigulane esifileyo esibhedlele
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokubona isigulane esifile esibhedlele kuthathwa njengelinye lamaphupha abonisa ukuxhalaba kunye nokudabuka kwimicimbi yentsapho. Oku kusenokubonisa ukuba ilungu lentsapho yakho liyagula yaye lifuna ukunyanyekelwa. Ngokutsho kukaIbn Sirin, ukuba umguli unesifo esiyingozi esinjengomhlaza, oku kusenokuthetha ukuba umfi uneziphene neengxaki awayengenakuzisusa ebomini bakhe.
Ingcaciso yokubona umntu ofileyo egula esibhedlele isenokugxininisa izenzo ezenziwa ngumfi yaye akazange akwazi ukuguquka kweli hlabathi. Kwelinye icala, kusenokubonisa ukuba umphuphi kufuneka anikele ingqalelo kwizenzo zakhe aze asondele ngakumbi kuThixo ngezenzo ezilungileyo.
Ukuba ubona umntu ofileyo egula esibhedlele, oku kusenokubonisa ukuba kungekudala uza kujamelana neengxaki ezininzi noxinezeleko. Ukubona umguli ofileyo esibhedlele kusenokubonisa imfuneko yokutshintsha ubomi bakho nokuphucula ulwalamano lwakho nabanye.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomama ofileyo ogulayo
Ukuchazwa kwephupha malunga nomama ofileyo ogulayo kuyahluka ngokuxhomekeka kwiimeko kunye neenkcukacha ezihamba nalo mbono. Ukuba umphuphi ubona umama wakhe oshonile ephupha ephupheni, oku kungabonisa ubukho beengxaki kunye nokungavumelani kwintsapho, kwaye ukudabuka kunokuba yinto ephambili kulo mbono.
Ukuba kukho ukungavisisani phakathi koodade, eli phupha lingabonakalisa iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu kunye nokuxhalaba ukuba umphuphi uvakalelwa ngenxa yezo zingxabano kunye neengxabano. Iphupha lisenokubonisa umnqweno wokulungisa obu budlelwane kunye nokufezekisa imvisiswano kunye nokuqonda phakathi kwabantu.
Iphupha lomama osweleyo ogulayo lingabonakalisa ubukho beengxaki kunye neengxaki ebomini bomphuphi. Ezi ngxaki zinokunxulunyaniswa nentsapho, iqabane lobomi okanye abantwana. Lo mbono usenokuba sisilumkiso semfuneko yokulungelelaniswa nokucombulula iingxaki ngaphambi kokuba zande zize zichaphazele kakubi ubomi bentsapho.
Kumfazi otshatileyo obona unina ofileyo ezala umntwana ephupheni, oku kusenokuba ngumqondiso wokuba umntwana uya kuchacha xa egula, yaye oku kugqalwa njengeendaba ezilungileyo kumama obonwa ephupheni.
Ukuphupha ukubona umama oshonile egula emva kokufa kwakhe kunokubonisa iingxaki kubomi bentsapho okanye kwindawo yomsebenzi. Eli phupha lisenokubonakalisa imvakalelo yoloyiko kunye nexhala malunga nekamva lomphuphi kunye nobomi bakhe ekukhanyeni kwemingeni kunye nobunzima.
Ukuba umama oshonile ubonakala ephupheni egula kwaye esibhedlele, oku kunokuthetha ukwanda kobunzima kunye nemingeni ejongene nayo umphuphi okwangoku. Lo mbono usenokuba yimbonakaliso yokuba ufuna amandla nomonde ukuze ajamelane nolu celomngeni aze azoyise ngokuphumelelayo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha elifileyo uyagula kwaye uyalila
Ukuchazwa kwephupha malunga nokubona umntu ofileyo egula kwaye ekhala ephupheni kunokuba neenkcazo ezininzi kumxholo womphuphi kunye neemeko zakhe zomntu. Eli phupha lingabonisa uthando olunamandla kunye nothando olunalo iphupha nomntu ofileyo. Isenokuba luphawu olulumkisayo lwephupha malunga nemfuneko yokuphepha iimpazamo ezenziwa ngumntu ofileyo ebomini bakhe.
Ukususela kumbono ka-Ibn Sirin, ukuba iphupha libona umntu ofileyo ogulayo ekhala ephupheni, oku kunokuba ngumqondiso wethemba kunye nokuphuculwa kobu bomi kunye nobomi emva kokufa. Ukukhala kakhulu komntu ofileyo kusenokufuzisela ukuba ubandezelekile ebomini bakhe emva kokufa, ngoxa ukukhala ngokuzolileyo okanye okuthe cwaka kusenokufuzisela uyolo alunandiphayo kubomi basemva kokufa.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga libona unina ofileyo egula yaye elila ngokunzulu, oku kusenokuba bubungqina bobuhlwempu nelahleko. Nangona ukuba iphupha libona uyise oshonile egula kwaye ekhala, oku kunokuba sisilumkiso kwiphupha lokuba uthatha indlela engafanelekanga ebomini bakhe kwaye kufuneka acinge kwakhona kwaye enze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo.
Ngaphezu koko, ukubona umntu ofileyo egula esibhedlele kungabonisa ukuba umphuphi wenze izenzo ezimbi ngexesha lobomi bakhe ukuba wayengenakukwazi ukulahla. Eli phupha linokuthwala umyalezo kumphuphi malunga nesidingo sokulungisa ukuziphatha kwakhe kwaye ugweme izenzo ezimbi.
Ukubona abafileyo ephupheni egula kwaye esifa
Ukutolikwa kokubona umntu ofileyo egula kwaye efa ephupheni kuyahluka ngokwembono yabo bathandabuzayo. Eli phupha lingabonisa ukuba kukho umntu kwintsapho okanye isalamane esigula kakhulu kwaye sisondele ekufeni. Eli phupha lingabonakalisa kwakhona imeko yoxinzelelo kunye nokungakwazi ukujongana nemeko enzima ebomini bomphuphi.
Ukubona umntu ofileyo egula kwaye esifa kunokuba luphawu lokuba kukho amatyala afuna ukuhlawulwa okanye uxanduva olungagqitywanga ekufuneka lowo uphuphayo alufeze. Eli phupha lisenokuba sisikhumbuzo semfuneko yokwenza ngokuvisisana neembopheleleko neembopheleleko zobuqu zikabani.
Ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo ephupheni kuthathwa njengento ebuhlungu, evusa iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu, kunye nokukhathazeka ngomntu obone eli phupha. Phakathi kokutolikwa okunokwenzeka kweli phupha: ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo kunokubonisa iintsilelo zomphuphi kwezinye izinto zonqulo ezifana nomthandazo, ukuzila ukutya, okanye ezinye izinto. Abaninzi abatoliki baye babonisa ukuba ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo kunye nokufa ephupheni ngomnye wemibono ebonisa ukufika kokulunga okuninzi kunye nokuphila okuninzi kuye nabani na oyibonayo. Lo mbono unokuthetha ukuba umntu ophuphayo uya kususa zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki ajongene nazo ebomini bakhe ngoku.
Ukubona abafileyo akunakuhamba ephupheni
Xa umntu ofileyo ebonakala ephupheni kwaye akakwazi ukuhamba, oku kunokutolikwa ngeendlela ezininzi. Oku kunokufuzisela ukuba umntu ophuphayo unobunzima bokuqhubela phambili ebomini bakhe, kwaye ufuna ukufikelela kwinkqubela phambili kunye nempumelelo kodwa uziva ebambekile kwaye ebambekile.
Umntu ofileyo ephupheni unokumela inxalenye yobomi bomphuphi okanye amele isimboli sobuntu obuthile ngokwenene. Ukubona umntu ofileyo ongakwazi ukuhamba ephupheni kunokubonisa ukuba ukuthanda kwakhe okanye ukuthembela kwakhe akuyi kwenziwa, kuba akakwazi ukunyakaza nokugqiba oko akushiyileyo.
Ukuba umphuphi ubona umfi ephupheni ngomlenze omnye, oku kunokuthetha ukuba akazange enze ukuthanda kwakhe ngokufanelekileyo. Kunokubakho ukuphikisana okanye ukungabi nabulungisa kwizenzo ezinxulumene nokwabiwa kwepropati yakhe kunye nokuphunyezwa kwentando yakhe, kwaye eli phupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kumphuphi ukuba lo mbandela kufuneka uphathwe ngokufanelekileyo nangokunyaniseka.
Ukubona umntu ofileyo ongakwaziyo ukuhamba kukwabonisa ubukho bezono nezono ezenziwa ngaphambi kokufa kwaloo mntu. Eli phupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kumphuphi wesidingo sokufuna ukuxolelwa nokuguquka kwezo mpazamo kunye nezenzo ezimbi.
Lo mbono unokuba luphawu lokuba umntu ofileyo udinga uthando okanye umthandazo ovela kumphuphi. Ukunyamekela iimfuno zabafileyo kunye nokwenza izipho egameni labo kuthathwa njengezenzo ezilungileyo ezinokuba luncedo kwimiphefumlo yabo emva kokufa.
