Ingcaciso Ukubona isigulane esifileyo esibhedlele
Ukutolikwa kokubona abafileyo Isigulane esibhedlele ngomnye wemibono ephethe intsingiselo enzulu ekuchazeni amaphupha.
Ngokutsho kukaIbn Sirin, ukubona umntu ofileyo esibhedlele kubonisa ukuxhalaba nosizi kwimicimbi yentsapho.
Kusenokubonisa ukuba kukho umntu ogulayo kwintsapho yakho yaye ufuna unyango nonyango.
Ukuba ubona umntu ofileyo ngoxa egula yaye esesibhedlele, oku kusenokuba ngumqondiso wokubandezeleka kwakhe ebudeni bokuphila kwakhe okanye kwanasemva kokufa kwakhe.
Lo mbono uneentsingiselo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo onokuthi uziphonononge.
Ukubona umfi egula esibhedlele yimbonakaliso yezenzo ezenziwa ngumfi ebomini bakhe kwaye akazange akwazi ukukhupha iziphumo zabo kweli hlabathi.
Lo mntu usenokuba wenze izenzo ezingalunganga okanye ukubonelela ngokungafanelekanga kwabanye.
Ukongezelela, ukuba ubona umntu ofileyo engena esibhedlele ephupheni, oku kunokuba ngumqondiso wokuba kufuneka umthandazele kwaye umdumise ngomphefumlo wakhe.
Kwimeko apho uphupha umama wakho oshonile, apho uvelana nokugula kwakhe esibhedlele, eli phupha lingabonakalisa intlungu yakho ngenxa yezenzo ezingalunganga onokuthi uzenze, okanye intlungu ngenxa yezinye izenzo zakho.
Eli phupha libonisa imfuneko yokuguquka, uxolo, kunye nokulungiswa kwezenzo ezingalunganga.
Ukutolikwa kokubona abafileyo abagulayo esibhedlele ngu-Ibn Sirin
Ukubona umntu ofileyo njengesigulane esibhedlele kwi-Ibn Sirin yokuchazwa kwephupha luphawu lokuxhalaba kunye nokudabuka kwimicimbi yentsapho.
Isenokubonisa ukuba kukho umntu kwintsapho yakho ophethwe sesi sifo.
Ngokutsho kukaIbn Sirin, ukuba umfi ebegula esibhedlele yaye ephethwe ngumhlaza, oku kusenokuthetha ukuba zininzi iziphene awayengenako ukuzisusa ebomini bakhe.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokubona umntu ofileyo egula esibhedlele kuthetha ukuba lo mntu ufileyo wenze umsebenzi omningi ongenakukwazi ukuwususa kweli hlabathi.
Kusenokubakho umntu othile, njengonyana wakhe okanye isalamane sakhe esisondeleyo, esifanele sinikele ingqalelo kolu phawu.
Kukho ezinye iimeko zokuchazwa kwephupha lokubona isigulane esifile esibhedlele.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ubona utata wakho ongasekhoyo egula esibhedlele, oku kusenokuba yimbonakaliso yeengxaki nokuphazamiseka phakathi kwakho namalungu entsapho yakho, yaye usenokuba ngumqhawuli wesibeleko ebomini bakho.
Kwintombazana engatshatanga, ukuba ibona umntu ofileyo esibhedlele ephupheni, oku kunokuthetha ukuba umntu ofileyo ufuna uncedo, okanye wayefuna inkxaso kunye noncedo lwakho ngexesha lobomi bakhe.
Ukubona umntu ofileyo egula esibhedlele kubonisa imeko yokuxhalaba kunye nokukhathazeka kwengqondo kumntu obona umbono, ofumanisa kunzima ukunandipha ubomi kunye nokujongana neengxaki.
Ukutolikwa kokubona isigulana esifileyo esibhedlele kubafazi abangatshatanga
Ukubona umntu ofileyo njengesigulane esibhedlele kwabasetyhini abangatshatanga ekuchazeni amaphupha luphawu lokudabuka, ukuxhalaba kunye nokwesaba ukulahlekelwa.
Eli phupha lisenokuthetha ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga livakalelwa kukuba liswele unqulo, yaye kusenokufuneka liphinde lizihlole liphinde lizihlolisise nendlela elicinga ngayo ngezinto zokomoya.
Ukuba umntu ofileyo ombonayo uyagula yaye akaziwa ukuba ungubani na, oku kusenokuthetha ukuba akanalukholo kuye.
Ukuba umfi wayekhala kungekho lizwi, oku kubonisa inguquko yentombazana leyo yaye ikulungele ukubuyela kuThixo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha lokubona umntu ofileyo esibhedlele kunokucinga ukuba lo mntu ufileyo wenze izenzo ezininzi angenakuzikhupha kweli hlabathi.
Ekugqibeleni, eli phupha linokusetyenziswa njengesikhokelo kwiingxaki abafazi abangatshatanga abanokujongana nazo ebomini babo ezifuna ingqalelo enzulu kunye nokucinga.
Ukubona uyise ofileyo ephupheni uyagula kuba single
Ukubona uyise ofileyo egula ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga ngenye yemibono ephethe iintsingiselo ezibalulekileyo.
Xa ibhinqa elingatshatanga liphupha uyise owafa ngoxa wayegula, oku kunokuba ngumqondiso wokuba kungekudala uya kutshata nomntu ohluphekileyo nongasebenziyo, kwaye akufanele avuyiswe naye.
Enyanisweni, kwimeko apho umfazi ongatshatanga wayebandakanyekile kwaye waphupha ngoyise ogulayo, ongasekhoyo, oku kunokufanekisela ukwenzeka kweengxaki phakathi kwakhe kunye neqabane lakhe, nokuba kungokweemvakalelo, ngokwemali okanye kwinkalo yobungcali.
Ukubona uyise ofileyo egula ephupheni kwabasetyhini abangatshatanga unokuchaza ukwenzeka kokungavumelani kunye neengxaki phakathi kwabatshatileyo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha umcimbi unokufikelela kwinqanaba lokuqhawula umtshato.
Ibhinqa elingatshatanga limele lilungele iimeko ezinjalo ukuba liyawubona lo mbono.
Abanye abaphengululi bephupha lokutolika bakholelwa ukuba ukubona uyise ofileyo egula ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umphuphi uhamba ngexesha elinzima kunye neengxaki ezinokuba nzima kuye kwixesha elizayo.
Ezi ngxaki zinokunxulunyaniswa neenkalo ezininzi zobomi bakhe, kubandakanywa imiba yeemvakalelo, yezemali kunye nobungcali.
Ukutolikwa kokubona abafileyo abagulayo esibhedlele kumfazi otshatileyo
Ukuchazwa kokubona abafileyo abagulayo esibhedlele kumfazi otshatileyo kunokuthwala iintsingiselo ezininzi.
Kusenokubonisa ukuba umyeni wakhe ongasekhoyo, ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe, wamnika ithemba elibalulekileyo, kodwa akazange ayifezekise imbopheleleko yakhe yaye akazange anikezele le themba kubanini bayo.
Eli phupha linika ingqiqo yokuba kukho into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba umfazi otshatileyo kufuneka athwale kwaye azalisekise umsebenzi wakhe kumyeni wakhe ongasekhoyo.
Ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo esibhedlele kusenokufuzisela imeko yakhe elusizi nemeko yakhe kubomi basemva kokufa.
Oku kunokuba sisikhumbuzo kulowo uphuphayo ukuba azikhathalele izenzo zakhe kunye nokuziphatha kwakhe kobu bomi basemhlabeni, ukuze aziqinisekise ngolonwabo luka-Thixo kunye nesikhundla esihle kuBomi obuzayo.
Ukubona isigulane esibhedlele esibhedlele kuthathwa njengesilumkiso kumphuphi ukuba kude neNkosi yakhe ngeli xesha kwaye kufuneka aguquke aze afune ukuxolelwa ukuze alahle izenzo ezimbi ezivakalelwa ngumphefumlo ongasekhoyo.
Ukubona uyise ofileyo ephupheni uyagula kumfazi otshatileyo
Ukubona uyise ofileyo ephupheni ngelixa egula kumfazi otshatileyo luphawu oluqinileyo lokuba kukho iingxaki ezininzi zomtshato apho lowo ophuphayo ephuphayo.
Oku kungaboni ngasonye kunokuchaphazela kakubi imeko yakhe yengqondo kwaye kubangele uxinzelelo olukhulu kunye nokukhathazeka.
Ukongeza, ezi ngxabano zibeka umngcipheko omkhulu kwimpilo yomntwana ongekazalwa, nto leyo eyenza ukubaluleka kokusombulula iingxaki zomtshato kubaluleke kakhulu.
Ngenxa yokutolikwa kwe-Ibn Sirin, ukubona abafileyo begula ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo kunokubonisa ubukho beengxaki ezininzi kubomi bakhe bangoku.
Ezi ngxaki zisenokubangelwa kulwalamano lwentsapho, umsebenzi okanye impilo.
Kubalulekile ukuba umphuphi aqaphele kwaye afune ukucombulula ezi ngxaki ngokufanelekileyo kunye nentsebenziswano kunye namaqabane abalulekileyo ebomini bakhe.
Ukubona uyise ofileyo ogulayo ephupheni kunokuba luphawu lwengxaki enkulu ukuba umphuphi ahamba kuyo kwaye ufuna kakhulu uncedo lwentsapho kunye nabahlobo ukuba baphume kuyo.
Lo mbono usenokubonisa ukulahlekelwa yimali okanye impahla, nto leyo eyenza ukuba unxibelelwano kunye nokufuna uncedo kubaluleke kuye.
U-Ibn Sirin uqinisekisa kwakhona ukuba ukubona uyise ofileyo ogulayo ephupheni kubonisa isidingo somphuphi sokuncenga kunye nothando kubantwana bakhe.
Kusenokuba yimfuneko ukwalathisa imithandazo, isisa kunye nesisa kumphefumlo kabawo ongasekhoyo ngokulunga nokuthuthuzela.
Ukubona uyise ofileyo ogulayo ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo kubonisa ubukho beengxaki kunye nobunzima obuya kujongana nabo kwixesha elizayo.
Umphuphi uyacetyiswa ukuba ahlolisise imiba echaphazelekayo, khangela izisombululo ezifanelekileyo, kwaye uthembele kwinkxaso yentsapho kunye nentlalontle ngeli xesha elinzima.
Ukutolikwa kokubona isigulane esifileyo esibhedlele kubasetyhini abakhulelweyo
Ukutolikwa kokubona isigulane esifileyo esibhedlele kumfazi okhulelweyo kuneentsingiselo ezintle kunye nenceba.
Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona ephupheni lakhe omnye wabantu abaswelekileyo abagulayo esibhedlele, oko kuthetha ukuba uya kuba nomntwana wesilisa emva kokuzalwa lula.
Le ngcaciso inika umfazi okhulelweyo isigidimi esivuyisayo sokuba kukho iintsikelelo ezininzi nezinto ezintle aya kuzifumana kwimihla ezayo.
Ukuchazwa kwephupha malunga nowesifazane okhulelweyo ebona umntu ofileyo esibhedlele kubonisa ukuba lo mntu ufile ufuna uthando, ukuncenga kunye nokuxolelwa, ngenjongo yokuphelisa intlungu kunye nobunzima bakhe.
Ngokunikela ezi zipho nangokuthandaza, ibhinqa elikhulelweyo linokuba luncedo ekuthomalaliseni ukubandezeleka kwalo mntu ufileyo nasekuthomalaliseni intlungu yakhe.
Kunokuthiwa ukuchazwa kokubona umntu ofileyo esibhedlele kumfazi okhulelweyo uphethe iindaba ezilungileyo kunye nezonwabileyo.
Kubalulekile ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ajongane nalo mbono nge-positivity kunye nethemba, kunye nokubonelela ngoncedo kunye nezipho zokunceda lo mntu ufileyo kuhambo lwakhe.
Ukutolikwa kokubona abafileyo abagulayo esibhedlele kubafazi abaqhawule umtshato
Ukutolikwa kokubona isigulana esifileyo esibhedlele kumfazi oqhawule umtshato kubonisa ezininzi iimpawu ezinokubakho.
Kungenzeka ukuba eli phupha libonisa imithwalo yemali ejongene nomfazi oqhawule umtshato kunye nabantwana bakhe ekuhlawuleleni amatyala aqokelelweyo.
Iphupha linokuba sisilumkiso kumfazi oqhawule umtshato ukuba kufuneka agxininise ekusombululeni iingxaki ezikhoyo kunye nokusebenza ukuphucula imeko yakhe yezemali.
Ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo esibhedlele kunokufuzisela iingxaki zengqondo umfazi oqhawule umtshato ajongene nazo ebomini bakhe.
Lo mbono usenokubonisa ukuba unengxaki enkulu yengqondo kwaye ufuna inkxaso ngokwasengqondweni nangokweemvakalelo ukoyisa obu bunzima.
Ibhinqa eliqhawule umtshato limele likhangele iindlela zokuphelisa uxinezeleko nokuzithuthuzela ukuze libuyele kwimeko entle yengqondo.
Kuyaphawuleka ukuba ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo esibhedlele kusenokubonakalisa usizi nokuzisola okuviwa ngumntu ombonayo.
Kusenokubakho iimvakalelo zokuzisola, okanye umntu ofileyo usenokubonakalisa umbono womntu osondeleyo kumfazi oqhawule umtshato oye wambangela unxunguphalo okanye intlungu.” Umfazi oqhawule umtshato umele ahlangabezane nezi mvakalelo aze afune ukuxolelwa nokuphiliswa kwangaphakathi.
Ibhinqa eliqhawule umtshato lifanele likuthabathe ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo esibhedlele njengethuba lokucamngca nokucinga ngemeko yalo yangoku noko linokukwenza ukuphucula ubomi balo.
Ngokugxininisa ekucombululeni iingxaki zemali nezengqondo nokusebenza ekwakheni impilo yengqondo engcono, umfazi oqhawule umtshato unokwenza inkqubela aze aziphakamisele kwinqanaba elingcono ebomini.
Ukutolikwa kokubona isigulana esifileyo esibhedlele ngenxa yendoda
Umbono, ngokweenkcazo eziqhelekileyo, ubona ukuba ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo esibhedlele kubonisa ukuba ujongene nobunzima ebomini bakhe.
Eli phupha lingabonisa ukuba uyasokola ukoyisa iingxaki kunye nemingeni ajongene nayo okwangoku.
Ukubonakala komntu ofileyo ogulayo esibhedlele kunxulunyaniswa nokubandezeleka komntu, enoba kukubandezeleka ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokweemvakalelo okanye kwanangokomoya.
Kusenokubakho isizathu esikhethekileyo sentlungu yomntu ofileyo esibhedlele, mhlawumbi sinxulumene nesenzo sentombazana ekusenokwenzeka ukuba ngunyana wayo okanye isalamane sakhe.
Eli phupha linokuba yisikhumbuzo kwindoda yobudlelwane obuqinileyo beemvakalelo kunye nokubaluleka kwentsapho.
Iphupha lisenokuba nenye intsingiselo.
Isenokubonisa ukuba umntu ofileyo wenze izenzo okanye izenzo awayengenako ukuziphelisa kubomi basemhlabeni.
Ngenxa yesi sizathu, umntu ofileyo unokuzama ukuthetha okanye ukuhambisa umyalezo othile kumphuphi.
Kusenokufuneka ahlolisise imeko yakhe ngokwasengqondweni aze ajonge iingxaki ajamelene nazo ukuze azi amanyathelo afanele athatyathwe ukuze azoyise.
Kusenokufaneleka ukuba kuqatshelwe ukuba imibono yephupha ixhomekeke ekutolikweni komntu imboni, kwaye ukutolikwa kunokwahluka kumntu nomntu.
Ukubona uyise ofileyo ephupheni uyagula
Ukubona uyise ofileyo egula ephupheni yenye yemibono ephethe iintsingiselo ezininzi ezibalulekileyo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, eli phupha libhekisela kwimpilo engafanelekanga yomphuphi ngokwakhe, kunye nokusilela kwakhe ukubuyisela ubomi bakhe obuqhelekileyo.
Eli phupha libonisa ukuba umntu ophuphayo usengxakini yempilo kwaye unengxaki yokuchacha.
Eli phupha linokuba sisibongozo sokunceda abahlobo kunye nosapho kweli xesha linzima.
Ukubona uyise oshonile ephupheni ingaba ngumqondiso weengxaki ezinkulu ezijongene nomphuphi ngokwenene.
Iphupha libonisa ukuba umntu ophuphayo ukwingxaki yokwenyani kwaye ufuna uncedo kwabo babathandayo ukuze aphume kule ngxaki.
Xa ebona utata ongasekhoyo ogulayo ephupheni, umntu ophuphayo kufuneka acele imithandazo kunye nezipho zomphefumlo kayise ukuze athomalalise imithwalo yengxaki ajongene nayo.
Iphupha lokubona uyise ofileyo egula lingaba ngumqondiso weentsilelo zomphuphi ebomini bakhe bangaphambili, kwaye iphupha lingabonisa kwakhona ubukho bezono kunye nokujika kuThixo uMninimandla onke.
Ke, umntu ophuphayo kufuneka athandaze kumoya kayise, aguquke kwaye abuyisele ubomi bakhe kwindlela yokulunga.
U-Ibn Sirin ukholelwa ukuba ukubona uyise ogulayo ephupheni kubonisa imfuno kayise yemithandazo kunye nothando lwabantwana bakhe.
Ngoko ke, umphuphi kufuneka athandaze kuyise kwaye asebenze ukugqiba uthando ngokuhlonipha umphefumlo wakhe.
Ukutolikwa kokubona abafileyo bebuyela ebomini Kwaye uyagula
Ukuchazwa kokubona umntu ofileyo ebuyela ebomini xa egula kuthathwa njengenye yemibono ebalulekileyo yokomfuziselo kwihlabathi lokutolika kwamaphupha.
Xa umntu othile ephupheni ebona umntu ofileyo ebuyela ebomini ngoxa egula, oku kubonisa ukuba lo mntu ubandezelekile yaye ubandezelekile ngenxa yezono azenzileyo kubomi bakhe bangaphambili.
Ukuchazwa kweli phupha kunokubhekisela kwimibandela enzima kunye nesiphithiphithi esinokuthi umphuphi abhekane nako kwixesha elizayo elingekude.
Lo mbono usenokuba ngumqondiso wokuza kweziganeko ezimbi okanye iimbandezelo eziya kuchaphazela ubomi bakhe zize zimbangele ubunzima neengxaki ezininzi.
Ezinye iinkcazo zibonisa ukuba ukubona umfi obuyela ebomini kwakhona ephupheni kunokuba ngumnqweno ovela kumntu ofileyo ukuhambisa iingcebiso okanye umyalezo kwimboni.
Umfi usenokuba nomnqweno wokunceda okanye ukhokelo kwimibandela ethile.
Kwakhona sifanele siphawule ukuba ukubona umntu ofileyo ephupheni kunokuchaza imeko yomboni okanye ozibonele ngokwabo kubomi bemihla ngemihla.
Lo mbono usenokubonisa ubunzima neentlekele umntu ajamelana nazo ebomini bakhe, yaye ubhekisela kwiintlungu azivayo.
Kwaye xa intombazana engatshatanga ibona umfi ebuyela ebomini kwaye eqhuba ubomi bakhe ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kunokuba luphawu lokufumana ulonwabo nokuzinza ebomini bakhe.
Unokufumana ithuba lokufezekisa iinjongo kunye neminqweno yakhe, ngakumbi kwizinto eziphathekayo kunye nemali.
Sinokuthi ukubona umntu ofileyo ebuyela ebomini ngelixa egula ephupheni kuneentsingiselo ezininzi.
Lisenokubhekisela ekuthuthunjisweni komntu ngenxa yokungathobeli nezono, okanye iingxaki neentlekele ajamelana nazo ebomini bakhe.
Isenokuthi ivakalise umnqweno womfi ukuhambisa umyalezo okanye ukunika iingcebiso kumboni, kwaye isenokubonakalisa ukuzuza ulonwabo kunye nokuzinza kubomi beemvakalelo kunye nezinto eziphathekayo zomntu ngamnye.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomama ofileyo ogulayo
Ukuphupha ukubona umama ofileyo egula kunokutolikwa ngeendlela ezininzi ngokwezithethe zengqondo kunye nokuchazwa okudumileyo.
Isenokugqalwa njengephupha eliphazamisayo kwabanye abantu, kodwa isenokubonisa imiqondiso ethile kunye neentsingiselo ezinokucingelwa.
Oku kusenokugqalwa njengesikhumbuzo kulowo ombonileyo ukuba kukho iingxaki zentsapho okanye iingxaki ezimlindeleyo kubomi bentsapho yakhe.
Kusenokubonisa ukungavisisani phakathi kwamalungu entsapho, umfazi okanye abantwana bakhe.
Kwakhona kusenokuthetha ukuba buhlungu kwabafileyo nomnqweno wokusondelelana nabo.
Kwakhona, ukubona umama oswelekileyo ephupheni egula kunokubonisa iingxaki kunye noxinzelelo kubudlelwane babazalwana.
Kusenokubakho ukungavisisani nokungavisisani phakathi kwabantakwenu nto leyo ebangela usizi nokuxhalaba kwimboni.
Ukubona umama oshonile ephupha ephupheni kunokutolikwa njengesibonakaliso seengxaki zemali okanye ubunzima emsebenzini.
Iphupha lingabonakalisa ixhala kunye noloyiko malunga nekamva lakho lezemali okanye imfuno yakho yezemali.
Iphupha lokubona umama oshonile egula linokuba luphawu lokuziphatha okukhohlakeleyo komphuphi.
Iphupha lisenokumkhuthaza umntu ukuba atshintshe, asuke kwihambo embi, kwaye aziphucule.
Kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukuchazwa kwamaphupha kuxhomekeke kwinkcubeko kunye neenkolelo zomntu.
Olu toliko lunokuba zizikhokelo jikelele kuphela kwaye umntu ngamnye unokuba nentsingiselo yakhe ngokwemeko yobomi bakhe kunye neemeko zobuqu.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha elifileyo uyagula kwaye uyalila
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomntu ofileyo Ukukhala kunokuba neenkcazo ezahlukeneyo kwisayensi yokutolika kwamaphupha.
Eli phupha linokuthi libhekiselele kuthando, amandla kunye namandla, kwaye inokuba sisilumkiso sokuphepha iindlela ezingalunganga.
Ngokutsho kuka-Ibn Sirin, ukuba ubona umntu ofileyo egula kwaye ekhala ephupheni, oko kunokuba ngumqondiso weendaba ezilungileyo, kodwa uThixo wazi kakuhle malunga nengcaciso echanekileyo.
Ukubona umama oshonile egula kwaye ekhala ephupheni ingaba ngumqondiso wenkampani elungileyo enyamekela abantwana babo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba umphuphi ubona uyise oshonile egula kwaye ekhala, oku kungabonakalisa ukuba uthatha indlela engafanelekanga kwaye kufuneka ahlolisise kwaye alandele indlela efanelekileyo.
Ukubona umntu ofileyo egula esibhedlele kusenokubonisa ukuba lo mntu uswelekileyo wenze izinto ezimbi ebomini bakhe angazange akwazi ukuzikhulula.
Ukuba umntu ubona ephupheni lakhe ukuba umntu ofileyo ukhalela ngokuvakalayo kwaye equbuda ngokudakumba okukhulu, oku kusenokuthetha ukuba umntu ofileyo ubandezeleka kubomi basemva kokufa.
Kodwa ukuba umntu ubona ukuba uyakhala ephupheni, oku kusenokuba bubungqina bokuba umntu ofileyo ufuna into ethile.
Ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga libona unina ekhala ngokuvakalayo, eli phupha lingaba luphawu lwentlupheko kunye nokulahlekelwa.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha efile egula kwaye ekhathazekile
Ukubona abafileyo abagulayo kunye nokucaphuka ephupheni kuyinto enomdla wokucamngca kunye nokutolika.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, lo mbono ubonisa iimvakalelo ezinzulu kunye neengxaki zomntu ophuphayo malunga nalo.
Ukuba umntu ubona umntu ofileyo egula yaye elusizi, oko kusenokuthetha ukuba ujamelene nengxaki enkulu ebomini.
Lo mntu unokubandakanyeka kwiingxaki zobuqu okanye zobungcali, kwaye umntu ofileyo olusizi ubonakalisa isimo sakhe esibi kunye nosizi ngenxa yaloo ngxaki.
Ukubona umntu ofileyo egula kwaye ekhathazekile kunokuba yimbonakaliso yomntu obona ubomi bomphuphi bukwimeko engazinzanga.
Umntu ofileyo unokubonakalisa abantu ababephila ubomi obunenkathazo okanye obuntsonkothileyo, yaye ukuqwalasela umfi egula yaye ekhathazekile kuthetha ukuba imeko yaloo mntu ayizinzanga okanye ayonwabanga.
Kukho ukutolika okunokwenzeka kokubona umntu ofileyo egula kwaye ephazamisekile ephupheni.
Lo mbono usenokubonisa ukuba umfi wayebandezeleka kukungathobeli okanye ukuba netyala ebudeni bokuphila kwakhe, yaye ngenxa yoko ungcungcuthekiswa ngenxa yoko emva kokufa.
Ukubona umntu ofileyo ogulayo kusenokuba ngumqondiso wezinto ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka zenziwe okanye zigqitywe kubomi bokwenene.
Kumfazi ophuphayo ukubona umyeni wakhe ofileyo egula kwaye ephazamisekile, oku kungabonakalisa ukuba abantu abasondeleyo baceba ukumngcatsha kwaye bathathe imali yakhe.
Kule meko, kufuneka uqaphele kwaye uthathe amanyathelo okhuseleko.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukubona abafileyo begula kwaye bekhathazekile kubonisa ukuba umntu ombonayo uhamba noxinzelelo okanye ingxaki enkulu.
Umntu ofileyo ugqalwa njengesipili semeko yengqondo yombukeli, enoba ukwimeko elusizi nexhalabileyo okanye uvuyo nolonwabo.
Ukongeza, le ngxaki inokuba yeyomntu okanye ubungcali.
Ngoko ke, umntu umele ajamelane nobunzima neengxaki ngobulumko aze aguqule indlela aziphatha ngayo ibe ngcono.
Ukubona abafileyo begula kwaye besifa ephupheni
Ukubona abafileyo begula kwaye besifa ephupheni ngomnye wemibono enokuthi ithwale iintsingiselo ezahlukeneyo.
Ukubonakala komntu ofileyo ngelixa egula ephupheni kunokubonisa ukuba kukho ubunzima okanye ubunzima apho umphuphi ajongene nazo ebomini bakhe bemihla ngemihla.
Kwakhona, ukubona umntu ofileyo egula aze aphinde achache kusenokuthetha ukuphela kwamaxhala neengxaki ajamelana nazo lowo uphuphayo.
Ukubona umntu ofileyo egula esibhedlele kubonisa ukuba kukho isifo esisenokuba sibi kakhulu, esinjengomhlaza.
Kwaye xa umntu ofileyo ebonakala ediniwe kwaye ediniwe ephupheni, oku kunokuba bubungqina beemvakalelo zomphuphi zokuphelelwa lithemba kunye nokungabi nathemba ngokwenene kunye nokucinga kwakhe ngendlela engafanelekanga.
UIbn Shaheen uyaqinisekisa ukuba ukubona umntu ofileyo egula ephupheni kusenokubonisa ukuba umntu ofileyo wenze isono ebudeni bokuphila kwakhe yaye ungcungcuthekiswa seso emva kokufa kwakhe.
Ngamanye amazwi, ukubonakala komntu ofileyo ogulayo kunokuba sisikhumbuzo kumphuphi wemisebenzi yakhe kunye noxanduva anokuthi alushiye ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe.
Ukutolikwa kwamaphupha kuyavuma ukuba ukubona umntu ofileyo egula aze afe ephupheni kusenokuthetha ukuphucuka kwimeko yomphuphi nokuchacha kwiimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo kunye noxinzelelo lwengqondo olwalumlawula.
Lo mbono unokuthi ubhekiselele kwiitrasti kunye neediphozithi anokuthi lowo uphuphayo azishiye nomntu ongasekhoyo nezinokufuneka ziphunyezwe emva kokufa kwakhe.
